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writes: is what im doing ok?? i like to be very passionate in the bedroom. i prefer to use handcuffs or belocked to a bed while a guy takes full advantage of me. i like to have sex in the back of a car, morrisons carpark, in bus shelters. on park benched or anywhere else that could be fun. i am really kinky i must admit and i like to try out new positions. but am i wrong in doing this. i am only 15 i know im too young but i really enjoy it. i have had many previous boyfriends and had sex with quite a few of them. i am in a relation ship of 6 months at the minute and we do absolutly everything. we are both very adventurous and we both feel comfortable doing it over a car bonnet etc hes my boyfriend is 17 and i know and he knows if we get caught then he could get done but we love eac other. are we really wrong in doing what we do?? can anybody answer this? plz Reply to this Question
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reader, keecatmeowmeow  +, writes (20 September 2008):
There is nothing wrong with you but you need to be careful and not get caught. when i was fifteen my boyfriend was eighteen and after going out for about to months i lost my virginity to him. i know that sounds bad! we loved having sex in the public and got caught once by some people driving by which we thought was hilarious bc they almost wrecked. just be careful because he is so much older than you and something bad could happen to him
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhaha lol
ihave to say we have only ever been caught having sex once
and that was in the bloody bedroom
lol =]
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reader, rcn +, writes (6 October 2007):
 It sounded like you'd just drop them and go at it anywhere. lol The car is OK for doing it. Watch out though, I've done it in a car too. We use to have such a romantic place to play, you could see our whole city at night. We've also had the tap on the window from the flash light of a police officer.
That was back before the laws got real strong. I'll always remember, all she had on was a blanket and the officer asked "miss do you want to be here." Talk about ruining the mood.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioncheers for all ya answers. TELLULAH's made me laugh lol!. i know we have to be careful i have exadurated a bit. we dont just do it in broad daylight we do do it in the dark or make sure the car bonnet is right close to a bush or something (it is his car most of the time lol) we dont just do it anywhere so everyone can see. i know i am underageand so does he but we dont care, we love each other, 7 month today we have been together and i know we are in love i know i might sound a bit arrogant but i dont mean to. thanx for all ya advice. xox
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (5 October 2007):
 Well they do say in the Morrisons advert, that everything is really fresh. I didnt think they meant the car park as well though. LOL.
Seriously though, you do need to be a bit carefull. Your not going to have a very nice name if anyone finds out are you?.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2007): There is nothing wrong with this type of thing.. I used to have a girlfreind and we did it EVERYWHERE! this was like 15 years ago and till this day was some of the best sex I ever had!! The thing that concerns me is your and your boyfriends ages.. If you are 15 and he is 17 you need to be careful of him not being charged with stat rape!! I think that it is stupid that being less than 2 years in age is ground for stat but that is the law.. I actually did have a 15 yo GF when I was 17 also and she was like way more mature and grown up than I was at the time.. BE CAREFUL..
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (1 October 2007):
 Look when you get caught and eventually you will do, your boyfriend IS gonna get into trouble, he proberly will go to jail, he most likely will be put on the sex offenders register and he will ruin his entire life. For what? some public sex with an underage kid.
If you truely like him you would stop this and wait until you are legal age, beccause than you both will get in a little trouble. But its ok.
That sounds a litlle mean, but overall you should wait until you are 16 until you resume.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2007): If he gets caught having sex with an underage girl he will go to prison. Are you ok with that? because clearly you don't seem to bothered if you're willing to do it outdoors with such a high risk of getting caught.
You say you'd done it with quite a few poeple, to be brutally honest, at your age that's quite disgusting. Have you thought about the kinds of diseases that are out there these day, especially amoung young people?
If you're happy with the way things are then fine, carry on. But have a serious think about the kind of impression you're giving to people and the danger that you are putting your health in.
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reader, tyesha +, writes (1 October 2007):
well all i can say is does he love u? because if he did he wouldn't want to have sex in public places because he respects you . don't appear to be a slut be tough and tell him no . what if someone who knows your parents tells you will be embarrassed
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2007): When you get caught bonking over the car bonnet in Morrisons car park it will look really good in next weeks newspaper - probably the Sunday Sport or the News of the Screws. You want that kind of publicity? If so, keep on doing what you're doing. He'd better find a good lawyer - he'll need one soon enough.
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reader, rcn +, writes (30 September 2007):
It is wrong because you are not at age of consent. You say he can get into trouble, but you love him. If you did you'd protect him from getting into trouble. Being adventurous is OK. If he gets into trouble, then what will your thinking be? You need to look at what could happen. He's of consent age, you are not. If caught he has to take the blame for everything because he can make decisions where you aren't. It could be much greater than you think. (1) The sex (2) Doing it in a place accessed by public (3) nudity in a public place.
He could get one charge for the sex 2 for public sex (1 for him and 1 for you) and 2 for public nudity (1 for him and 1 for you) They don't look at is as consent between two people. It's consent for him and violating you by allowing you to take part in activities he knows by age is inappropriate.
I know hormones are racing, but I would slow down until you can justify the behavior as your consent as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2007): Why are you asking this? you had sex with other partners so you obviously don't feel guilty. Public sex is quite common among some people, but It shock a lot of people more if they saw two kids doing it. Your b/f also taking a huge risk doing this, if you two get caught in public then your b/f will certainly get arrested for it. You should be thinking of your b/f here, he;s got more chance of getting caught for sleeping with an underage girl which is wrong.
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reader, Emzy1591 +, writes (30 September 2007):
 You need to stop this now. Your underage and your boyfriend is going to get into trouble! It wont be long until you turn 16 and then u can have legal sex, so wait a bit longer. You probably feel all kinky because what your doing is breaking rules, but if it feels good now then why not wait until it feels even better when ur old enough to do it.
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