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41-50,
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writes:My wife is a teacher and she loves it. Just oen problem this time of the year is always the most stressful for her. I think shes been over working herself and getting herself upset for no reason, shes not at the stage where she starts crying but i can tell she wants to sometimes. She keeps saying she sorry for not spending as much time with me as she normally does but i've told her its ok and if theres work to be done then that comes. Then she said it hurts because she wants to be with me alot more recently and she can't but i think its the stress. So my questions is how can i help her and show her that no matter how much work needs to be done i'm still with her and that i don't mind that shes having to do that? She needs to relax more. I think shes feeling really insecure at the moment shes been through alot this past year as well. Any advice?
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reader, rcn  +, writes (30 September 2007):
 Teaching can be a very difficult job. I can see where she'd be stressed. She sounds like an amazing lady. She's under this stress but still thinks of how it might be affecting you. That is wonderful.
I'd try just being there for her, I agree with the other person with a special romantic dinner. I'd maybe also, when she's sleeping, whatever she's taking to school with her, leave her a short love note that she'll see. It might just start her day off in the right direction.
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reader, Ms.Sweet dreams  +, writes (29 September 2007):
 the best thing u can do is just make a schedule or make time management so that both of u have time for each other. advice her that dont feel really stress. always put a smile in her face. put her job in a simple and easy way. dont put her stress above take her for a special dinner, have time to caress each other and be romantic to her so that u can help her to make stress out of her life. cheers....
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