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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hello all. hope you can help with my question.i am 21 and my girlfriend is 20.i have been with my girlfriend fo a year now and at the beggining we had a very good sex life. but during the last 4 months i dont want sex i would rather have a blow job. i usualy ask every night for one and she is starting to get annoyed with it. she says she doesnt want to give one and i ask again and eventualy she gives in. i do have sex with her but i would prefure blow jobs. is there something wrong with me constantly needig blow jobs?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2007): if you keep asking/begging your girlfriend for blowjobs, she will start to see you as a sex pest get turned off by the idea of sex with you and then leave you. So stop asking and start giving!
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reader, deejuliet  +, writes (1 October 2007):
 You are getting very selfish. A blowjob is all about you and isnt really for her at all. Sex is about connecting with your partner and I think you have lost that connection and are just after the pure pleasure of a blowjob. Take a step back and reevaluate how you are connecting to your mate. Make it about her for once and maybe you will feel something a bit differant than you have.
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reader, rcn +, writes (1 October 2007):
 Getting a blow job is not needing it's wanting. Quite a few guys enjoy that over sex, because you really don't have to do anything but enjoy.
If you're requesting these, and she's giving in, it's not fair to her. She needs pleasure and stimulation as much as you do. Take an evening where you don't ask her, strip her down and just please her, without asking for anything yourself.
Girls don't mind giving it at times, but they do get annoyed if they feel they're not getting enough in return.
As far as the sex goes, spice things up. You may be loosing interested because it's turning into a routine. We all get tired of the same thing day after day. Make it unique, don't fall into the trap of routine, and your enjoyment may come back.
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