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writes:HiI recently met a guy who is 27. I am 19. He asked for my number. However, his first texts were him being angry because I had gone off with his mate that night and he was telling me how I should have been more respectful towards him because his mate knew he liked me and how I’m so sweet and innocent. But he did text me in the first week being all nice, nearly every day (I let him text me first). After talking to a friend, she suggested that I text him first for once or he will think I'm not interested. Up to this point, me and this guy had been talking on MSN and texting each other. He always started the conversations or texting first. Then this tuesday, I texted him as I couldnt get online to go on MSN (he seems to prefer talking to me on there, but WILL reply to texts). I texted him about 9.30pm. He replied the next morning, saying he would speak to me later and to take care. He put a kiss at the end. I assumed he meant talk to me on MSN, but I already knew I wouldnt be able to get on MSN as i was going out with the girls that night.I have spoken to him several times on MSN since then. However, last Friday, I spoke to him on MSN and he talked about what he had been up to (I asked him) but didn’t ask me. Although he said he was thinking about me the other nite when my fave football team won a game. He wrote on my facebook profile saying I look great and he hopes I’m alright. Then he texted me yesterday morning (Saturday) saying he was still in bed and that what he would really like is ‘a girl to snuggle up to, etc ‘ (no guesses for what the ‘etc’ was referring to…). I have not yet replied because I don’t know if this is just what guys do or if he is only interested in ‘one thing’. I know all relationships end up with the two people having sex, but I am confused now as to whether he still ‘genuinely likes me’ or he just wants sex. Only met the guy three Saturdays ago by the way, so dont want to seem over-keen on him as he was really nice when I went to his house the first Saturday after I met him (haven’t seen him since because he says he wants to get to know me on MSN first). Can anyone help me out with this? Thanksp.s. my last boyfriend before him had been getting sex from another girl behind my back when I was seeing him and I don’t want that to happen this time! Also this guy knows a girl a year older than me that likes him but he says he just wants to be friends with her but I consider her better looking than me. How do I know he is being honest? He calls me sweetie a lot and says im sweet and innocent, I want to know if it is worth going after this guy after all?
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (1 October 2007):
There is a high risk that this guy just wants to add you to his buddies list.
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reader, rcn +, writes (1 October 2007):
 I would have to say take it very slow. His beginning behavior "jealousy prior to dating" his problem would have been with his friend, instead of bringing up his concerns with you. He had no right to be angry with you, liking you or not. You did nothing wrong. With that behavior, it would tell me what you can expect by dating. Someone who's jealous, upset if you talk to men. To me those are warning signs. If you pursue this, make sure it's taken real slow, you wouldn't want to move quickly and end up in a situation you regret getting into.
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