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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I stop him? I don't want my husband watching porn!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and been together for three years sex life is good I thought but I keep catching him Watchen porn he says he wasn't But I know he was acting different the way he was making love to me I ask what was goin on he told he did masterbsting in the shower I caught... (116 words)

Am I just running away from my parents? Should I move in with my male friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4437 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - okay first off i have never done this before but i need help! i am 17 years old and i will be 18 soon, and theres this guy i have known him for 6 years now, and to be honest we hated each other when we met. but now i think we like each other i mean more then friends. we text ... (224 words)

My boyfriend is always out partying

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend now for 1 year. Im 22 and he is 30. I feel that he partys way too much were always arguing about it and it just doesnt seem to stop him. I dont want to stop him having fun but we have i trust issues with him over things he has done in the p... (330 words)

Why does my boyfriend not give foreplay but looks at porn?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I stopped having sex with my boyfriend because he is selfish when it comes to giving. Now I seen on his phone under history that he has been looking at live webcams. Why is this happening? I can't get him to go down on me for long or even have him suck my tits. I never get any ... (65 words)

I didn't let my parents meet my b/f and now they are forbidding me to see him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for four years now. He is black and i am Hispanic. I am an honors student with very high expectations from my parents. I never told them about my relationship because they would have disproved on the fact that he is black and lives in the ... (163 words)

Should I be moving away from people I know and trying to meet new people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have recovered from a bad break up I had earlier this year. My ex cheated on me with one of my best friends because he just KNEW the 3 of us would be a happy polyamorous family even though I told him I wasn't down for it anymore. So instead he kept this other relationship ... (219 words)

My girlfriend and I are having intimacy problems.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

6 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my beautiful girlfriend for a year. I have never been happier with a partner. There is one thing that is bothering both of us and that is with intimacy. Now without going into too much detail, at the end of the day if I didnt initiate it, it would never happ... (317 words)

Caught with best friends dad

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - over the space of about 10 /11 months me and my high school best friends dad have started a relationship and not until recently did it turn sexual we had met at his house whilst she was not in and kissed and touched but we had never had sex and i was a virgin until recently... (259 words)

Is this girl crazy or am I the insane one?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

6 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Why are some girls sooo hard to figure out? I mean seriously I feel like wacking my head against a wall sometimes. Theres this girl I been talking to for months, we even met and from first time we kissed etc. But only met twice because I went on holiday, and she also went so... (290 words)

My ex wants to be friends with benefits.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i started seeing someone gradually for only 8 weeks, at first i really did genuinely like him and maybe shouldnt of rushed into things as quick as we did... but we did and within 4 or 5 weeks he started addressing me as his girlfriend which was sweet, after 8 or 9 weeks it ... (323 words)

He wants me as a booty call, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I got a friend that has lost both of his parents. We were giving an affair.after the lot of his parents he then divorced his wife. He stop calling me. Then later told me he hookup with another female. He said his relationship is great but his girlfriend had a half hysterec... (82 words)

My crush ignores me all the time, it's frustrating and I want to know why!!???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - why would my crush ignore me, when we talk it's always good. i don't really talk to him anymore, he ignores me, he wont talk to me. i makes me think im not good enough for him, or im too ugly and that there are other prettier girls out there, i've always been nice to him i've ... (151 words)

He won't even tell me what I did wrong. Help!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4421 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I met a guy online (obviously not ideal) and we really hit it off. He lives in Iraq and I am in the US. I am a student and he is a dental technician there. We have been together 2 months and are very serious. We quickly became best friends and very romantic. We are ... (287 words)

I lost my chance with him, now how can I get over him and still not lose him from my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4417 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i met a guy over a year ago and he was smitten over me. i did not responed in the same way as i felt that he just wanted a hook-up. we have become very good friends since then. he still persued me for a number of months but i still did not responed in the way he wanted. to ... (159 words)

Question about Venlafaxine (Effexor)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Venlafaxine hydrochloride is in the phenethylamine class of modern chemicals, which includes amphetamine, methylenedioxymethamphetamine (MDMA), and methamphetamine. This chemical structure likely lends to its activating properties; however, some patients find venlafaxine highly ... (90 words)

My wife is starting to get on my nerves.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

6 November 2012 (M)

- I will keep it short and sweet. I am between jobs right now and finding it hard to find one. Means I am around my wife a lot. A WHOLE lot. She doesn't drive so she relys on me to get her around too so bottom line is my wife is starting to get on my nerves. Sometimes I just want ... (115 words)

Dont know what all that really meant. Does she like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4434 days ago

6 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - First of all, she is my crush. I have only spoke to her just 3 times. On the 3 occasions, i had ti start the conversation. Even though the 3 conversations only lasted a couple of seconds, they all did end nicely In lesson she forgot to bring her notes from last lesson. She... (181 words)

I like my boyfriend but he's never spontaneous with affection. Why is this!? I'm his first girlfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a 15 year old girl and I've been in a relationship with this guy for nearly about 6 weeks. I haven't been in a relationship for a long time because every time I get passed the 'honeymoon stages' (about 6 weeks for me) I start to notice all the flaws and I cannot put them ... (320 words)

I was my crush's first kiss but he says he doesn't even fancy me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - First kisses are a big deal for everyone, right? I'm just wondering, my crush kissed me but did not fancy me, and I was his first kiss? Surely you wouldn't just kiss a random person you have no feelings for as your first kiss?... (45 words)

Boyfriend swears at me and calls me names but I love him. Should I dump him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am having a serious problem. My bf always swears at me, calling me all sorts of names, and I really hate that when he bought me something and do something wrong, when I confront him he wants his things back. I really love him but very confused. What do I call that cos I al... (85 words)

Intense performance anxiety is taking over and affecting my relationships.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

6 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I am struggling with some sort of sexual performance anxiety. I am 17 years old, and lost my virginity on my 17th birthday to my current girlfriend. Since age 13 I've had anxiety about sexual things, feeling that I needed to be sexually active in order to be socially acce... (1256 words)

Does she like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

6 November 2012 (M) age 26-29 - Hi,i'm a 15 year old guy and there's this girl at school i like and i think she likes me. We've been locking eyes for a month now,but never for over a second.We have 3 classes together and i haven't spoke to her yet. I've been in a group with her once,and that's pretty m... (276 words)

My girlfriend has dyed her hair and looks more European, how is this possible?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

6 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - This is probably a very unusual question that i'm sure nobody would think to ask or notice, especially a man. This girl that I have been seeing for quite a while is very beautiful. She's mixed race and has long black hair, it was obvious she was part indian you could just tell ... (169 words)

My crush barely knows I exist

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm sure everybody is absolutely sick of this question, but I would really thank you for answering. I'm a new girl at school and I'm extremely shy and introverted though I have found wonderful friends (somehow). A month or so back there was this competition held in school w... (182 words)

How do I tell my uncle and auntie that their twins are pregnant by older men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My twin cousins are both pregnant and they don't know how to tell their parents ! They're pregnant by OLDER guys and they're afraid to tell their parents. They want me to tell them. Their parents are divorced , their mom is a lesbian now and she's married to another lesbian and ... (74 words)

Should I give up on my relationship? I'm sick of it all now....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am sick of everything, I love my man to bits but I hate his ex he has daughter with, she is with someone else now, and has other child, he pays for her takes her three times a week we take her on holiday, I'm the longest raining girlfriend, we don't live together but have ... (457 words)

Would like to hear from people in age gap relationships.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Would like some input, especially from those who are in large age gap relationships, whether as the older or the younger partner. I care very much for a widower who is 19 years older than I am (he's 56, I'm 37). In terms of interests, living habits, life values, outlook,... (205 words)

I'm so embarrassed of my past and am afraid it will ruin my relationship...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

6 November 2012 (F) age 36-40 - So, i have been with my boyfriend for several years and we are so in love, thinking of getting married in the near future. The problem is, the past few months i've been thinking about my past constantly and feel so embarrased. The thing is, that before my boyfriend, i hav... (347 words)

Is all this normal... or am I being irrational?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, my boyfriend and I have been together on and off, for nearly four years now. It has had it's good parts and it's bad parts like any relationship I guess but I feel like I have hit a wall in the relationship now. I am coming here because the forum members of DC have ... (727 words)

I really want to find my family... I don't know what to do next!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys. This is a family question. Recently my mother died. She was an alcoholic. She was adopted at the age of three month. Well, back in those days, when you adopted a child, you didn't know anything about the biological parents. Also, my mother's biological mot... (180 words)

Why has he suddenly gone cold?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello For 10 days ago I talked to a guy on a dating site and he became interested directly. He said it many times and complemented me a lot and he said that he talked to a lot girls on the dating site but didnt like them he did only for fun and then he found me and he said t... (252 words)

Friends turned lovers... favourable outcome or not???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

6 November 2012 (F) age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, My best friend and I had sex, we were worried that if we did so we will be risking losing our friendship of years, we are truly good friends, we usually spent most of our time together (going out-visiting friends-chilling with a DVD or get drunk and be loud at t... (677 words)

What does she have that I haven't???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex husband left me for this younger girl he fell in love with. the girl is twenty three and he is thirty four. well he was a womanizer but was very rich, money maker at the job, very successful and very well known but his job had him out of home a lot. He is also very good ... (673 words)

B/f and I broke up got back together and he lied and told me that there had not been anyone else!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I broke up for a couple of months. We got back together and at the time I only let him back because he said he had not been with any other woman. I have since found out that he spent a week during our seperation with another woman, he had sex w... (171 words)

How can I be myself around him without clamming up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4411 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, this is my first time asking for advice on here.. ok so there's this guy I've hung out a couple of times.. see the problem is that I'm usually very talkative and I can keep a conversation but when I'm with him my head goes blank and we have silent akward moments that he ... (212 words)

Why draw a lady closer while kissing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - why do guys draw ladies closer when kissing? is it to make it more intense.... (15 words)

Why does she always ditch me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

6 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl during the summer and we dated for a while, never official because she wasn't ready for a relationship. She liked me alot and she always told me, but I wasn't good at showing her how I felt because I was scared of getting hurt again. Last time I saw her I didn't ... (290 words)

Making love for the first time and I don't want to be like a frozen chicken!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4438 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone.Around the first week of the next month,me and my bf are going to make love for d first time.So i had two questions.The first is that what reason should i give to my parents so that they dont suspect me in anyway and also how and what should i respond to his want ... (66 words)

I don't think he wants to be more than friends so am I doing the right thing by keeping my feelings to myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been BFF with this amazing guy! He may have his flaws but he is perfect to me. He calls me wifey n I call him my hubby bc we do everything together; grocery shopping, to weddings, to parties, etc. Hes a fun single guy who had had his heart broken so he just wants to go out ... (468 words)

I've become so used to being depressed that its become comforting!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - k,i know this is a really odd question. but i have been wondering for soo long and i was hoping someone could answer it for me. well, i have spent the majority of my life depressed. part of elementry, middle school, and highschool. it didn't really hit me till grad... (231 words)

Why does my boyfriend never spend the night?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. We were both in other relationships when we met meaning we were having an affair and broke up with them to be together. Its been 10 months since I moved into my apartment with my mum. My boyfriend spends time with me every weekend, he ... (535 words)

I'm considering leaving the relationship because I want him to be famous

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4438 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I love a guy and we are in to a relationship from past seven years he is a famous dancer and today if he marry me than he has to leave dancing so I thought of leaving/quiting relationship just because I wanted him to bo famous Am I doing this rite???... (51 words)

I want to go back to the feelings I had for my husband when we first got married

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, just need some little advice or help. I dont understand my self. Im 40 years old and my husband is far older than me. i love him dearly i have no doubt wid that. but after nearly 10 years of marriage, things change. he is always loud and aggressive now. I did tr... (328 words)

Dad has become problem drinker, but refuses help. Mom's miserable and is close to leaving him. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4438 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - MY question isn't really relationship related, but it is Family related and that's very important to have a good relationship with your family. My problem is that I think my dad has finally reached the point of being an alcoholic. I never wanted to fully believe it, but ... (1549 words)

Is my supervisor worried that he'll get in trouble if he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4438 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I want to know your point of view on this. I like my supervisor from work. As you may know, supervisors aren't supposed to date employees that are below their position. I rarely talk to him and it is usually when no one from work is around. My supervisor and I we... (336 words)

I'm 14 and afraid I'm turning into a lesbian. I don't want to be one!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi I'm 14 years old and I'm afraid that I might be turning lesbian. When I'm alone I like to watch lesbian porn and masturbate. It arouses me and I have an amazing orgasm, but when I'm done I regret doing it and feel ashamed and weird. I really don't wanna be gay I wanna like ... (113 words)

On again and off again relationship and now he says he loves me? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - When I was 14 I fell in love with this guy. And he fell in love with me. Or so he claimed. We were always together and I felt so happy. But without warning, he just..disappeared. Ignored me, didnt respond to me and acted like he know nothing. But for that past five years on and ... (133 words)

My friend cut me out of his life because he got a new girlfriend. Will he ever let me back in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - A friends cut me out of his life since hes had this new gf, it probably was partially my fault but this has never happened before. Despite being friends for so long he was also the love of my life. We always just stayed friends although it was obvious there was something be... (1055 words)

My girlfriend developed feelings for my friend so she dumped me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

6 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly a year. We had our occasional fights, but nothing ever too serious. She recently became closer with one of my good friends. I didn't mind them hanging out at first, but then it started to become more obvious that my friend had ... (151 words)

Will I be hurting my own daughter, If I cut all contact with her dad's family?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I came out of an abusive relationship with a man who originated from Alger. My ex-boyfriend is sitting behind bars after he beat me up and pushed me down the stairs. The problem is I have a beautiful daughter with him who is just 4 years old and I am worried what to do to ... (291 words)

How do I tell my wife's 22 year old niece that I want to be with her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3284 days ago

6 November 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - For the past year or so I have dreampt of being with my wifes 22 yr old neice, Her and I spent a weekend together in July and the tension was so thick you could cut it with a knife. Ironically, I do believe it came from her too as when she was leaving me she hesitated for a ... (138 words)

I ended my friendship because best friend always ignores me when he has a girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4438 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, so I called it quits with my best friend because always ignorant me whenever he gets a new girlfriend. It's ridiculous. So that was like a month ago and I'm really bummed out cause I miss him, a lot. I don't know what to do, did i do something wrong?! Help!! (P.s. me ... (90 words)

I had sex with a boy and lost my virginity. Does that mean I am straight?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My story is going to sound like an odd one. Like most of these kind of stories are about coming out as gay, or worrying that they might be gay. Well it is the opposite for me. I'm worried that I am straight. I am 16, and a bit confused. I have always known I was a lesbian.... (897 words)

Why had he changed? Why doesn't he care for my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4438 days ago

6 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been in a long distance relationship with this guy for 3 months now. In the beginning he was so sweet, texting me all the time, telling me " I love you so much, ur the the one I miss u so much .. I waiting on u here no matter how long it takes" .. Everyday he woul... (348 words)