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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it normal for someone to have lingering feelings for an ex in the beginning of a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

24 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a relationship right now, we've been dating exclusively from the beginning for about three months (with a break), then after three months, we decided to be commit further with a long-term bf/gf relationship, and now it's been seven months. Here is the problem. He... (656 words)

It happened ten years ago -But I'm still unsure.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

24 November 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife had some relationship issues about ten years ago that caused us to split and she moved out. Her move was sudden, and a surprise while I was at work. We didn't talk for about six weeks, during this time she was living with another man. After the six weeks we were seeing ... (364 words)

My relationship's been ruined by my boyfriend taking drugs. Advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

24 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've broken up with my first boyfriend of 9 months today for the second time. I lost my virginity to him, he was my first proper love and i planned to have a future with him. We first split up 2 months ago shortly after he was announced homeless, i unde... (1052 words)

Should I propose for a second time? Thoughts please!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

24 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - What a god damn cliche I'm about to spew, but it's the truth and I need guidance. Girl moves next door in 5th grade, boy befriends girl. They become best friends by the summer before 6th grade and continue this sexually frustrating relationship until age 18. They go to prom ... (495 words)

I'm in love with my friend, but am feeling threatened by my teacher, who openly flirts with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

24 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in love with my close friend. I don't think anything will happen between us as I'm sure he doesn't see me that way - and anyway, he's only just split up with his girlfriend (who cheated on him), so I'm just keeping quiet. At our sixth form you can be quite close to t... (378 words)

Was it acceptable for my boyfriend to be on a dating site?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

24 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My friend found my boyfriend on a dating site so I dumped him. He didn't care that I was upset, he didn't try to prove it wasn't him just said I should believe him. He got angry with me and called me an ugly fat c***t, so in a temper went out on a date 4 days after we split and ... (202 words)

Can some one man-translate this for me please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4409 days ago

24 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is about me and male colleague at work who we have hot cold sarky relationship i'm sure we fancy each other. today we went for a meeting , giggles on way there at meeting the head teacher flirting with him putting pen in mouth. to be honest he didn't even look at her ... (345 words)

Where is a good place to meet people? Are online dating sites a good thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

24 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have never had a proper relationship but recently had a sort of fling with a guy he was the first guy i really got intimate with (we didn't have sex). All of my friends are in relationships and I no longer see this guy and am starting to feel quite lonely I miss th... (134 words)

Why doesn't my boyfriend have me over at his house?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4409 days ago

24 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi... ok in the summer I went on a date with my bf into town and on the way home I got off at his stop but he was like 'your not coming round my house' in a jokey way and I was like I wasnt going to but why? and he said 'my house is a complete tip and my family are weird... (397 words)

Should my girlfriend and I just laugh off the weird noises during sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

24 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Since our 1st time a couple of months ago me and my girlfriend are now enjoying regular intercourse.We've started moving our bodies more to increase the pleasure.What's started to happen though is my girlfriend has begun to release a pooping sound from her vagina.We know it's ... (99 words)

My wife says there is no love for me and she has fallen for some man online

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

24 November 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - i have a problem. my wife and i have been together for several years now and we have always had our ups and downs. we have both done things in our time together to hurt each other and we both dont like it. the problem now is that we drifted apart from each other and she met a ... (207 words)

My crush only thinks of me as his little sister's friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a crush on my best friends's brother. I cant stop thinking about him. I want to tell her that I like her brother, but I don't know how to. Ususally I just say it but in this case should I tell her slowly. I just turned 13 and he's going to be 15 soon. Would it even work ... (95 words)

Could somebody fill me in to why he's wanting to hang out, then bailing last second?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

24 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I had posted a question about this same guy before (not quite a question like this), but only recieved one answer. I asked to see if people could tell me if it sounds like this guy has a crush on me. I've been so confused with this guy, honestly. I think he's adorable, and I WA... (349 words)

Any advice on how to stay faithful to a sick partner who no longer desires intimacy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 November 2012 (F)

age - My boyfriend and I have been living together for a lil over a year now. He is 56 and I am 49. Roughly about 6 months ago he has been diagnosed with several chronic conditions which require him to be on medications. Here is the issue at hand. He has no desire to have sex or ... (370 words)

I love him but I don't think hes right for me.. what do I do? should I let go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

24 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in a LDR and this guys has been acting not interested in me. he assures me he loves me but im starting to think hes not the right guy for me. I love him ever so much but i dont think i want to be with him anymore?...ever time i try spliting, i just keep texting him. Apart of ... (117 words)

Is there any dating advice for widowers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

24 November 2012 (F)

age - It's been a long while since I've been on this site, and I find myself coming back for advice on a different topic because the advice I have received here has been so beneficial and helpful to me in the past. It took me a long while to get over my previous interest, mostly ... (555 words)

Boyfriend and I were in car accident and he didn't even ask if I was ok?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Please tell me if I'm overreacting here because I can't work it out. My boyfriend of 4 years and I were just in a car accident (he ran into the back of someone on black ice). I am ok for the most part, although I hurt my neck a little bit and I obviously got a fright. My first ... (272 words)

I'm a secret cross dresser. Wife is threatening divorce and friend wants me to perform sex act on him! What should I do?.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm a married guy of three year's and been a secret cross dresser for 15 year's. The problem is my wife has caught me and has said if I don't stop then she will divorce me. When I spoke to a friend about it he asked to see me dressed up, he also offered me £40 to give him... (102 words)

How has he found it so easy to move on when I still cant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do men find it so easy to move on? I was in a relationship with a wonderful man for almost 2 years and we split in march. We were madly in love but due to circumstances beyond our control (which I won't go in to,) we decided the best thing we could do was break up. We tried ... (313 words)

My cousin loves me and even though I fight her off, know its wrong, I'm afraid one of these times I'm going to give in!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

24 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am in a bit of a pickle concerning my relationship with my cousin. I am 25 and she is 20. I am single and am not interested in pursuing a love life at the moment as i am focused on my career. My cousin is single and is in university. I have always been clos... (461 words)

How often do you have sex a week?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

24 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I want to ask peope who are in relationship or married about their sex life. How often you have sex per week? Are you sexually active?... (28 words)

I had a fling with a married co-worker now he's seeing another worker but he treats her so much better than he did me! WHY?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so mentally messed up over someone and i don't know what to do about it! I can't stop dwelling on him! And I am driving my own self crazy!! So here is the story...... I started a fling last year with someone at my work. It was mostly sexual. We would meet up to have sex... (592 words)

Why do I fall for my boyfriend's crap all the time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do I believe what my boyfriend says? His actions never meet up. He is tech savy but denies it. He has remodeled my home but denies it. He is insanely jealous of my kids. He frequently denies me sex. Yet he is on porn sites alot. And denies that as well. The list ... (77 words)

I'm pregnant are there any precautions we should use during private time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 2 months pregnant and I was wondering if there are any precautions my husband and I should consider during our "private time". My obgyn said everything looks normal for now but just curious of anything we should avoid?... (39 words)

Please help, I want to know if this can still be fixed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4405 days ago

24 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - You need to know my back history to understand this. High school i dated a girl three years, senior year she left me for someone else and was with him the night we broke up. She left because for two years we were plagued with bad sex mostly because we were inexperienced. So I ... (1179 words)

We love each other but her mother says we can live without each other

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Am 27 year old i meet this girl 6 mounth ago we both love each other but her mother don't want to see me at all but say that she can live with out me what can i do nt to lose her and what to do for her to love me more than befor pls help... (57 words)

How do I talk to the cute girls at the coffee shop without coming across as creepy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I go to this coffee shop alot to study and there is always a couple cute girls there and i always want to go up to them and talk to them but i don't ever know what to say to not seem like a creeper or a weirdo. any advice?... (50 words)

Did I miss something here? Wasn't she flirting with me? Or did I read it wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I have a classmate that for a little bit was calling me bebe and taking pictures of me or basically anything and sending it to me and was texting me and calling me at all times also trying to set up movies or wine nights or dinner nights. so made me think she was... (146 words)

How do I get over my married lover who is also the father of my daughter? I've tried, but it's so difficult.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - MY daughter's father and i broke up 9 months ago. I'm still not over him. We have a 15 month old daughter together, he is married and is having another baby. I know you might think what do i want with him? It's not that i want him its more so i cant stop thinking about him ... (340 words)

Does an abusive man ever change for the better?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

24 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Does an abusive man change? I was in a relationship with a guy for 3 years who was emotionally, verbally, financially, sexually (and in the end) physically abusive. I have been away from him for months now and moved back home with my parents to heal after I gave up the condo ... (164 words)

I'm terrible conscious of my small sized breasts

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have always been self concious about my body.. I'm 5"1 small boobs and ive always felt shy about my body i compare my self to other people and it makes me insecure... I think im most concisious about my boobs.. they are a size 32 b and i had found a push up bra that i loved ... (115 words)

If his one night stand with my cousin was ancient history why lie about it? Was breaking up the right thing to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Did I do the right thing breaking up with him? I've been seeing a guy in another country for 4 months now. He's 35 and Im 29. I recently found out from my cousin (also in the same country where he lives) after seeing his picture on her blackberry messenger Display/ s... (241 words)

The much younger man denied flirting with me but I cant seem to get over him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

24 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 45 years of age divorced, I met this most wonderful young man but he is 22 years of age although he looks like about 30 he is very mature and intelligent much more than some men my age ,he started flirting with me at work which was very obvious to my co workers I fell ... (193 words)

Will my family and friends accept my potential lesbian partner with whom I have an age difference of 31 years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok first to start off, I am 22, a senior in college and I am single. I have been single for awhile but even when I was with other females they didn't spark any interest in me besides sex. Recently a friend of mine told me to make a profile on Plenty of Fish, maybe I'd find what ... (284 words)

I am in love but he doesn't want to commit!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in love with someone who at the moment doesn't to commit to a relationship. Right now, we both are good friends, we help each other, hang out, text and call each other regularly. We have grown to trust each other and have each others'backs. When we are together, we cuddle, ... (141 words)

She says there is no love for me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 November 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - so where to begin. my wife and i have been together for 5 years married 10 years together. we have 2 children together. we have struggled for years. it all started we had our first child when we were young she was 18 and blames me for taking away her teenage years for partyi... (669 words)

Did I miss my chance with her by waiting too long?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

24 November 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - "Dear Cupid" or whatever, I really like this girl, and we're in a complicated situation. Well, I am in band and I play trumpet, and she was on dance team, and I have liked her since the first week of school. Well, after our first home football game, there was a dance, and we w... (201 words)

I want to give myself the same pain he said I caused him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

24 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend and I had this experience with this older man and at first he showed me attention, etc. but once he saw my friend he completely forgot about me and started being rude to me and then one time he said he almost died and blamed it on me and I've gotten so upset that I'd ... (120 words)