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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it common for people to be in a relationship and signed up to online dating sites?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

20 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have noticed this kind of question comes up a lot on this website. Is it very common for people to be signed up to dating websites whilst in a relationship. I have found my boyfriend to be doing it and lying about it. when he is not able to lie, he says it was just harmless ... (108 words)

Could my best friend have feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4414 days ago

20 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I have begun to wonder if my best friend has feelings for me. Some of the things he does make me wonder and I was just wondering if you would be able to tell me whether these could be signs that he does? One really important piece of information is that I have a ... (730 words)

I have not had sex yet getting married in 3 weeks and I'm really scared about this part of the marriage!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

20 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there. I'm a week away from my 22nd birthday and three weeks away from my wedding. And I have managed to make it all this way without going any further than kissing. And the closer we get to the our wedding date, the more cripplingly nervous I am becoming. It is just ... (248 words)

2 years of dating and we are just drifting along not discussing things. How do I change this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4413 days ago

20 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice on how to start communicating better with my boyfriend. Although I would like to, I never really talk to him about my feelings or initiate any sort of serious conversation with him as I don't really know how to, and he never brings these things up either. ... (210 words)

Is this rude behavior for his adult children to not respond to invitiations to visit for the holidays?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

20 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance's three adult children never respond to his invitations to visit us over the holidays. He has e-mailed them, texted them, left messages on their phones, but they never respond. Communication is sporadic at best. The two sons are single and the daughter is married with ... (126 words)

Some of his family are trying to ruin our relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4414 days ago

20 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - ok i need some advice. i been with my fiance for 5 years know and let me start by saying that he has a big family both from his mother and father.when we got together we both came off from previous relationships (me a boyfriend him with his babymother). when we got together his ... (637 words)

I want to know how to increase my libido

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

20 November 2012 (?) age 36-40 - hello every body i want to know how to increase my libido my sex drive high so that i can fulfill my pleasure with my girlfriend. i have heared that if i tie a black and red thread around the waist i will overcome evil eyes as well as my sex arousal will increase and i can with... (149 words)

Is there something wrong with me that my significant other will not buy me lingerie

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

20 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance MO use to be to buy his ex girlfriends flowers, lingerie and a card I found out. He has never done this with me. Victoria's Secret catalog arrived in the mail and he said look it's Victoria's Secret. I said and so what you going to buy me. He said I don't know, I'm ... (209 words)

I just found out that a man I've been flirting with, is married. Any suggestions on how to back off politely?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

20 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Help, At work their is this guy who has been flirting and I've been flirting back, I'm okay with that. But when I wanted to show a friend what he looked like a came across his public Facebook account and found out he has three kids and is married! I was really shocked t... (137 words)

My husband is terrible with money and blames me! I've tried talking to him but it doesn't work, what can I do next?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

20 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband makes bad decisions when it comes to money. He will buy any thing from any body. We have a business in the city but he insisted on moving 1 1/2 hour away from work. We spent months driving to houses and land. Some of the were 2 hrs away. He fought with me until I ... (648 words)

I seem to be making all the effort, should I end the relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

20 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship where I have mostly been at school and overseas for work and my man was home. Our relationship has lasted seven years. He hasn't been able to make money for awhile now. I usually am the one always making the calls or SMS and asking whether we can ... (107 words)

I'm sick of being so low down on his priorities and his ex's demands, how do I tell him I've had enough?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

20 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Right guys is it me here? Wrote post before about partner. Don't live together, he has daughter of 4 I have two boys. I don't have to deal with my ex as my boys are teens now, been with my man 3 years his ex has another man of 3 years now and another baby too, she calls and ... (509 words)

Questions about pregnancy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

20 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've just recently found out that I'm pregnant with our first child and its a wonderful time for both myself and my boyfriend but I have a few questions that hopefully you could help me with. 1) I've always exercised a lot, walking, running etc. Is it alright to carry on? Can... (180 words)

How do I stop being paranoid over his FWB ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

20 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, Aunties I need my fears eased. Seven years ago, my fiance had a friends with benefits relationship with a woman for a year. She ended it with him because another woman got jealous. The whole situation is bizarre. The fwb ex-girlfriend ended up going out... (329 words)

Is it possible for a well-dressed man to find an average dressed woman attractive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

20 November 2012 (?) age 41-50 - I see this guy every day and every time we pass each other the flirting is intense. This guy is gorgeous and I love his mannerisms and find him intriguing, and would love to get to know him further. The only issue I have is that he very well dressed, I can appreciate that but ... (154 words)

I told her I loved her and she just laughed! What should I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

20 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in love with my former teacher. I am now teaching in her same college and I know her since 15 years. This lasted since the first time we met. I tried to live as if it wasn't true, but now that I am facing the fact that I do not think to anyone else than she, I feel ash... (146 words)

He makes me jealous on purpose and then when I talk about it he says I'm nagging! How do I stop letting him bother me and act unconcerned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

20 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Anytime my boyfriend gets me jealous and I talk he says am nagging and complaining..I feel hurt whenever he says that to me..I want to stop asking him for explanation for the things he does to piss me,Pls how do I act like I don't care about what he does and am not ... (86 words)

I want him to tell me about his past relationships, but I don't want to appear paranoid

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

20 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I worry a lot. I've never been in a relationship before and I've been dating a guy for some weeks now and we both have feelings for each other, he's tried to kiss me but I didn't go for it and I don't really want to till I know more about him. I don't know why, maybe I feel ... (182 words)

Are we boyfriend and girlfriend? We never had 'the talk'!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

20 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Well this guy and I met online. We have been seeing each other for about a month now. He is a navy corpsman (doc) who is stationed with the marines. Everything has been great he texts me a few times through out the day but doesn't blow up my phone. This past weekend was my ... (210 words)

How do I get over this mental attachment, this relationship to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

20 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have had feelings for a man for almost a decade now, but until recently I have never done anything to encourage any emotional response from him due to the fact that he is married. However, my life has been turned upside down now that I have confessed my feelings towards him. ... (347 words)

Inspiration to keep me motivated???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

20 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I have my final exam in december and I'm looking for inspiration quotes I could hang around the bedroom, that would keep me motivated and it would encourage me to study harder.. Thank you.. Ps:I know this is a not a relationship question but the agony aunts on h... (72 words)

Hooked up with friend... help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

20 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I may be completely outrageous here but this is my situation. a long time crush just broke up with her bf of 6 year (he cheated). i took the opportunity to comfort her but i definitely had feelings for her. we started hanging out as friends once a week, this last months as i ... (312 words)

Met a guy online, going to meet him soon.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

20 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I met this guy on this online forum and he started talking to me first. He thought I was a guy and we were talking for a bit until he asked my number and texted me. It wasn't until he asked my name did he find out I was female. haha I just came across like another dude to ... (311 words)

Not for revenge but for my own pleasure I'm thinking of cheating, nothing serious just a one night thing. Opinions please!

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

20 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My partner and I have been together for 5 years up until recently we were engaged, have 2 children and were trying for a 3rd. During this time he has cheated on me twice that I know of. The first was for the first 12 months we were together but I gave him benefit of the d... (397 words)

He will not be intimate with me re the little things...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

20 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years(I don't know how), because he will not be intimate with me like take my hand or touch me kiss me anything!!!! We have 2 children so sex isn't a problem obviously, but it's straight and to the point. No foreplay no randomness, ... (108 words)

Will we always just be best friends and nothing more???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4414 days ago

20 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I've always had a relatively low self-esteem, although I do my best to make people think otherwise. But when things go wrong, especially with my crush, I just completely hate myself. I've been out with other girls, but they don't make me feel how she does, but it sucks because ... (111 words)

Should I fight for my relationship or should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

20 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - 5 Months ago I thought I found the guy I wanted. He was exactly everything I praid for head, body, and soul. I thought we were a match made in heaven. He was also the first guy I ever dated. He said he loved me and I loved him. We live 40 minutes apart so we didn't see each ... (296 words)

I don't know what to do because it is screwing with me emotionally and he is now in my dreams all the time.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4415 days ago

20 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - To make a long story short right at the start, I spent one amazing summer with this guy in 2011, well call him Brett. The only problem was he had a girlfriend back in LA. We tried to be friends, but after multiple times of hanging out at my house with my family and friends we ... (403 words)

I feel used, vulnerable, isolated and betrayed... help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

20 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have recently found myself in a bizarre love quadrangle which has now left me on the verge of having no fixed home. My issue is a rather drawn out and more than likely a very naively dealt with situation my myself. I have had a number of flings since I was in my mid-teen... (501 words)

Friend who can't think for herself!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

20 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, im soo annoyed right now. Where to start? A couple of months ago i fell out with people i used to call my 'best friends' long story not going into detail about why we fell out. While i was friends with one of the particular 'friends' she copied me! Im not just talking abo... (299 words)