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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I have big dreams about what I want to do and where I want to go to college but I need advice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4422 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, everyone, I am sixteen years old and I have a 4.8 GPA at my school. My teacher told me that if I keep my GPA up I will be able to go pretty much anywhere college wise, which is great. I'd really love to study abroad. I do not really wanna attend college at my ho... (756 words)

I'ver never had a boyfriend and my self confidence is so low!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So I'm 17, I have brown hair and blue eyes. I'm 5'4, I have a curvy figure and like to stay active. I enjoy photography, listening to music, writing magazine articles, trying new things and generally having fun. Recently, I've been feeling pretty low. I've never had a ... (352 words)

He found out I'm a virgin and now he wants to take things slow?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with this guy for about a month and a half and things have been going pretty good up until recently when I told him I was a virgin. Initially he was shocked by it because he's never taken a girls virginity and He kept saying how rare it was. Over the course of a ... (508 words)

Could I be missing out on something? Or was she acting differently because she was drinking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4406 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and have been at uni a few months now. I'm bisexual, and within a few weeks of moving here met another bisexual girl in the year above through our LGBT soc. I made friends with her and her housemates very quickly, and also fell for her very quickly which is unusual for ... (560 words)

I think he likes me but we're both way too shy... right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4405 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey to all of the wonderful people out there trying to help! Sooo... Maybe some of you read the question I posted almost a year ago about falling for a student two semesters below me. This haven't changed. We're friends now, I know quite a few of his friends, he knows min... (427 words)

I know its not meant to be for so many reasons so how do I forget him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm in love with one of my guy friends for a few months now and i know it's not good. I think maybe he loves me too, because sometimes it feels like that and we can really have great times, but it just isn't right. Still i become so much jealous when he talks to another... (128 words)

Former co-worker called me and excuse seemed rather transparent. Is he interested? Should I call him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4422 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - There is a guy at work I used to work with before I transitioned into another unit; new number, new room, etc. We met each other in person twice and talked on the phone a few times, exchaged emails on business related issues. However, I always sensed there was passion between ... (265 words)

Is it unusual for married spouses to travel alone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Just want to get some opinions on that. I m In my 40s with grown children that are independent. I finally got in a stage of my life where we are comfortable with money. I help my husband in our business, but during summer it's slow, so I have a chance to travel. I love... (399 words)

Anxious about going out on a double date

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my friend are arranging a 'double date' with myself, her, her boyfriend and the guy I like. The problem is I feel so uncomfortable around her boyfriend and I don't know why, I feel awkward and on edge. Also, she's ridiculously pretty and it will just lower my non exi... (63 words)

Am I just another girl to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I have a quick question to ask - I have a friend, and we were together two years ago. We dont live in the same country - I have met him for about 3 weekends within a year - but everyday we chat and call each other up. I would say he is one of my closet friends and alth... (768 words)

I thought my husband has stopped cheating but he hasn't!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - i caught mt husband having sex in the house we share and on our bed.i have caught cheating before but thought he stopped.i am confused and dont know what to do.... (31 words)

Is breaking up the right decision?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I have been in a relationship for 2 years and I just broke up with my boyfriend a few hours ago. But now I am starting to wonder if I was too harsh. Like I said, we've been together for 2 years and we moved together a few months ago(I had to move to UK as I am from a ... (399 words)

My FWB guy is opening up. Is this a good thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been sex buddys with a guy i dated since high school for about 19 years. We quit for a time cuz both of us were married to other people. When the divorces came in we both started to have a sex buddy relationship again. Recently he told me a secret that he likes to do in ... (96 words)

How can I help my boyfriend adjust to us living together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4421 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey guys, I need some advice on how I can help my bf to step up to the mark with practicalities of living together (which was his idea in the first place!) so that it can work for both of us, please. We've been together 2 years, very happy. He has been wanting us to li... (513 words)

My boyfriend proposed! During sex... Thoughts?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3303 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend proposed to me during sex. he called it making love and he asked me to marry him while his **** was inside me. i said yes but thought the whole time if he was joking and how could he ever think that this was a cool idea of proposing. afterwards i told him that... (295 words)

My good friend told my crush bad things about me, do I confront her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm really troubled now. I'm in love with this boy from my school, Matthew. He has hinted that our feelings are mutual recently but does not wish to take our relationship to the next level yet, because he wants to focus on his studies. I'm entirely fine with this, so we ... (367 words)

Help!!!! My confidence and self esteem are at an all time low...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My self esteem and confidence was shattered by my ex boyfriend, he would always call me fat and make nasty comments about the way i looked and my weight. In the bedroom he would constantly tell me how crap i was at some things and how sometimes i didn't please him. He would ... (180 words)

If you can relate then please let me know. I am in love with my sister in law

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

11 November 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in love with my sister in law. I know that this is wrong but I am struggling against my feelings every day. I also know that nothing could ever happen between us. The devastation that that would bring to our families is too great. So why am I here? Honestly I don't... (718 words)

Should I sleep with him... or should I not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everybody. I would like you're opinion... I have been sort of dating a guy, for the past 3 months, let's call him A. We did have sex but we were just friends that were in love. About a week ago we had a huge argument about me being so moody so we decided to be just fri... (167 words)

His brother was heavily flirty with me and I don't know how to take this... help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, just looking for a bit of advice. I met my boyfriend's brother for the first time 2 weeks ago and it was all going great. We played around a bit and joked how I met the wrong brother first... All in fun though, not serious. He started saying stuff like - you're so ... (143 words)

Identity crisis!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Sex has been an issue for a while in my relationship. My partner of 11 years was very quiet yesterday so I asked what the matter was. She asked whether it is normal not to desire the other person all the time. She told me she dislikes my hair style and the 'rags' I wear and ... (168 words)

Meaning of an online outburst? Why would she write this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

11 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. My question is out of confusion about an outburst involving my ex. She is the dumper. I rejected her friendship offer due to deception and sugarcoating. Anyways, I get told by her new guy, to leave her alone. (That isn't the outburst.). So, now, we both attend t... (140 words)

His family won't agree for us to get married. How can they be convinced? Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i need a help very urgently. I am in love wit a boy of own my religion from past eleven years we both love each other a lot even both of our families also agreed for our relationship but things suddenly changed after his sister marriage my boy friend 's brother in law became ... (256 words)

What can I do about my dread of the festive season?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i wish i could just cancel xmas and my birthday (30th Dec) the past year has been so awful i dont feel like celebrating. last year we had a secret santa in my family, my uncle was buying for me and even though we all produced lists i didnt get what id asked for, i tried to ... (548 words)

Broken up with her while deployed. She says I gave her too little too late. But why is she keeping my stuff, and should I have no contact with her or text her on her upcoming birthday?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

11 November 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Apologize for the length of this...Currently I am on deployment and won't be home for about 6 months. I met my ex girlfriend about 2 years and a few months ago. When I first started dating her I wanted to take things slow. I had been in another relationship after my ex wife and ... (1310 words)

Help. I'm doubting whether he means it when he says he loves me, or feels the way I do about staying together for the rest of our lives.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and eight months. He was my best friend for about a year and a half beforehand, and I love him with absolutely all my heart. We have a fantastic relationship, and tell each other everything. I want to stay with him for the rest... (142 words)

Does he actually like me? Or is it nothing...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - For convenience, I will call the guy T and the friend G. There is this guy called T who goes to my uni and we are both in the same year and on the same course. We got to know each other at the beginning of October through a party, nothing happened we just spoke. We have m... (551 words)

I did something with my boyfriend I wasn't comfortable with because I don't know how to say no. Any advice? What should I have done? How can I say no?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - A couple days ago I was hanging out with a couple of my friends, and my boyfriend at school durring lunch. He wispered "I love you" in my ear then lead me out to a secluded place neer the edge of school field. We were just making out, and he went to go put his hand 'down there' ... (205 words)

Severe trust issues-please help! Sister claims he cheated on me, I think he's lied to me about porn and now I'm struggling to accept his denials.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have no idea what to do anymore. Apologies in advance for the long post but I have nobody to turn to! I have major trouble trusting my boyfriend of 3 years now. A while ago his sister (after they had a massive argument and hated each other) told me he had cheated on me be... (1171 words)

What should I do? Ask her out? Tell her I like her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl online as I moved and didn't know anyone in the area. we got chatting and got to know each other really well and we have very similar interests in music, art etc. she's 17 and I'm 19 so I don't see anything wrong plus she turns 18 before I turn 20. we met on... (249 words)

Would it be a good idea to speak to my Mum about the things I've learned since my father's death?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I have just moved back home after 12 years abroad. My Dad died 12 years ago, and I have found out recently he had 3 other children, from affairs after another. With my Mom, who he was married to, he had 3 of us. I was aware of 1 other from an affair, she is older than me. G... (416 words)

My 54 year old boyfriend ejaculates prematurely

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 November 2012 (F) age 36-40 - I've met a lovely gentleman. He is 54 and we have been seeing each other for a few months. We are both ready to take the relationship to the next step but when we get down to it he seems to ejaculate within seconds of me touching him. We have tried taking things real slow but ... (136 words)

How can I help my boyfriend reach climax while wearing a condom?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been having sex for about 10 months now and we've been together for over a year. We love each other dearly and we plan on being together long term. The problem is that there are only two ways I can make him cum: giving him a blowjob, or sex without ... (163 words)

My boyfriend moved away to attend school and I have become depressed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend moved away for schooling. He is about 3-4 hours away. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me. We have been dating for about 5 months. He mostly went to make sure that we had a nice future together like nice house, wedding ETC. He got offered to be in a ... (330 words)

Should I worry about my boyfriend's desire to have sex with another guy?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is a wonderful guy and I love him so much and I know he loves me too. He isn't gay or even bisexual, guys themselves make him uncomfortable sexually, but he's really attracted to penises. Which probably seems weird. I know he's definitely not just afraid of coming ... (113 words)

Do I tell my friend I've fallen for him or just suffer in silence?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I went and did the worst thing possible, I fell in love with one of my friends. I've known him nearly two years and realized that I loved him about 4 months ago. Now I don't want to lose a good friend if he doesn't feel the same so the dilemma is should I tell him or not? ... (176 words)

We've known each other two months and he's already relying on me financially

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello friends, It's only about 2 months that I am in a relationship with this guy. Since, we are coming from different countries and I know how hard it is for such kind of relationship to work, I did not take our relationship seriously. However, he made me understand that he ... (424 words)

Shouldn't people know each other for more than three months before deciding to marry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not asking this question because I'm in a situation to get married. I'm waaaay too young for that, so don't mention anything like that. I'm just wondering, does anyone else think that knowing each other for too short of a time means you should wait a while to get mar... (82 words)

Is it illegal in California for an 18 year old to romantically kiss a 16 year old?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm over 18 years old and live in California. I'm dating a guy who's 16 years old and we've been dating for almost a year. I was wondering if kissing him in an obvious sexual way (meaning not like a mother would kiss a child, but more like lovers would kiss) is illegal. I know ... (93 words)

My girlfriend is gutted by her 12 year old son's refusal to speak to her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 November 2012 (?) age 41-50 - Hi Everyone, I really need help and advice. My girlfriend, she is a wonderful mother to her 2 children, her daughter 14 lives with us, her son is 12 and lives with his dad, we live 5 hours away from her son. Her ex and her have been seperated for 4 years and she has just fil... (601 words)

I would like to hear from other adult children of bitterly divorced parents

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My parents got divorced when I was 10. I feel like I'm only now (10+ years later) just getting over it and all the intentional hurt my mom caused me afterwards because of her hate for my dad and my likeness to him. Did anyone else have parents who split up and have all tha... (111 words)

I'm very uncomfortable around my friend's boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4214 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my friend are arranging a 'double date' with myself, her, her boyfriend and the guy I like. The problem is I feel so uncomfortable around her boyfriend and I don't know why, I feel awkward and on edge. also, she's ridiculously pretty and it will just lower my confiden... (59 words)

Am I being silly and taking a crush on my teacher too far?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 18 and in my final year in school and I have fallen hard for my English teacher. I'm a lesbian and out to my whole year group and everything is fine, none of the teachers know as I never needed any advice or anything, it was something I dealt with on my own, also I don''t ... (321 words)

I want to help my ex boyfriend's mother financially but I don't know how to go about it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

11 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Im hoping for some advice on wether this is right. I have had a substantial windfall. We have kept it very quiet and only close family know about it, but now that we have bought everything we need house, car ect we want to help our loved ones but there one person i want to help ... (262 words)