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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I wait for him to contact me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

22 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with a man for a year now..first six months just dating. I wouldt commit to him due to a new divorce, which drove him crazy to the point he was ready to give up on me...so with that in mind I gave in. I had great feelings for him and we shared fabulous times ... (295 words)

This guy at work seemed to like me but he's married!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

22 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently this guy at work has been giving me all the signals. I mean real signals and gone out his way for me. There are other new workers , he won't help no one. Just me. I just found out today by eaves dropping his conversation he is married. He quickly changed conversa... (196 words)

Minimized our "social circle." Now have only a couple of close friends. Is this common?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

22 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Four years ago I had quite a large group of people who I considered my friends. I met my boyfriend (now fiance) through these people. Around the time that we met, I think I realized that I want to distance myself from these people. There have been many unpleasant incidents whic... (851 words)

I'm worried my girlfriend's past makes her a slut

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

22 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello im a 21 year old guy and my question is im worried about my girlfriends past, I know its the past but some people don't change. I've been talking to thhis girl for a lil over two years I met her on a site, I've never had a real girlfriend just ones in school n never ... (510 words)

Does the no contact rule really work if you want someone to miss you?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

22 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, Does the NO CONTACT rule really work if you want somebody to miss you and want to be with you? My boyfriend is afraid of commitment. We have been seeing each other for almost a year but he refuses to have the exclusive talk with me. I would like to be exclusive as ... (110 words)

My boyfriend always reproaches me if I ask things he doesn't like. I don't think I want this kind of a relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4381 days ago

22 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I am having a few issues with the man I am in love. He constantly reproaches me that I ask questions that he does not like. For example today, his moral was low and in an attempt to help him feel better, I tried to kiss him on his neck but I felt a resistance from his... (231 words)

My crush knows that I like him and says he'll treat me normal. What does that mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

22 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey agony aunts and uncles; I hope that you're doing fine. Anyway, it has been really awkward recently as long story short, my friends told my crush that I like him. It's terrible; apparently he knew all along. (Kind of) However, he promised my friends that he would continue... (116 words)

I want more than my boyfriend has given me. Should I move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

22 November 2012 (F) age 36-40 - My problem is that I don't know if I should stay or move on with my life. I have been together with my boyfriend for four years now, but the problem is that I want more than he has given me. Let's start with family, we have different cultures and it has been horrible to me t... (370 words)

My small boobs are spoiling my relationship !

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

22 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I am in a very confused situation and I need help. Please take time to read and any help would be appreciated. My bf and I are in a relationship for the last 4 years. We both love each other madly and deeply. We want to get married. We have planned our future ... (264 words)

Does my crush maybe like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

22 November 2012 (?) age 30-35 - So the guy I like came over to my cousins house(where I'm living) to borrow her truck because he's moving out of his ex's house. We started watching movies and I had my legs stretched out and my crush moved closer to where his legs were touching mine, after a while he put his ... (236 words)

It seemed like a perfect time for a kiss but she wasn't up for it. Why does she act like she is and then turn off?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

22 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - A girl friend of mine asked me to go watch twilight. So i went along as I kind of got forced to. She was holding my hand in the film. Squeezing it and than putting both her hands on mine. Anyway she enjoyed the evening. I'm near her road dropping her off and she wants to... (311 words)

We dated a week, he went to afghanistan for 8 months and I don't know what will happen in that space of time!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

22 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have this dilemma.. I recently met a guy that I have fallen completely head over heals for, and from my understanding, he has completely fallen for me too. The problem is, he is in the army, and was deployed to Afghanistan a couple days ago. We only met a week before he ... (212 words)

Why did the evening start out date like and at the end she made it clear we were just friends?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

22 November 2012 (M)

- I met this girl in August and we hit it off straight away. So we started going out on dates, going to the cinema, meals out ect, which would always end up with us passionately kissing and cuddling till the early hours. We even performed oral sex on each other and i brought her ... (405 words)

Now that boyfriend can have sex again we never do anything else sexually!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

22 November 2012 (F)

age - when i first started sexual relations with my boyfreind he would go down on me all the time and want to satisfy me. As he could not get hard due to stress. He can now have normal sex and thats all we have when we have sex and I go down on him. I havnt said anything because I ... (115 words)

Could u help me define if there’s a chemistry between us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

22 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So I’m an Asian living in my country and he’s an exchange student. He’s straight and I’m straight to him and I have no doubt about his sexuality. He has a girlfriend but she can’t sleep with him at night living with her parents. So I usually stay over at his place, in his be... (425 words)

Should your girlfriend be sleeping over at a guy's house who has hit on her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

22 November 2012 (M)

age - Is it all right for your girlfriend to sleep at a guys house,after the guy hit on her,she said she turned him down,but then she said was interested in him at one time,then did it again? I broke up with her?... (41 words)

I love my single life and I'm not sure if I want a relationship or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4381 days ago

22 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm also 25yr and well i've never really dated any, or really kiss anyone. No i'm not saving myself, timings is always been off. There some close but again timing, and not a ideal sitting. it took while to get over each of them, but i once i did i went back to loving my sin... (195 words)

Is it a good thing to be with the girl that every guy wants?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

22 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - the girl i'm seeing she is very beautiful, but the problem is that. So many guys want her and they will do or say anything to convince her they're better than me! We go out together on nights out at least once a week because our friends are friends, and of course there's always ... (350 words)

My ex is trying to win me back but has an online profile that he visits every day???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

22 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Not sure if I want to continue reuniting with my ex-bf. We had been together for 12 years, living together for 6 of those, then he left me in a most cowardly sort of way. Then, after about two-and-a-half years of on-and-off luke-warm contact, he gets a hold of me after a long "... (235 words)

How do I build the love and trust again in a LDR?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

22 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, Ive been with my partner for nearly 3 years, i love him very much and want to make our relationship stronger. Since it has been our first proper relationship we've had a lot of ups and downs. And because of these we are now living apart. I want to build ... (109 words)

How to win this girl back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

22 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So the story is that there's this girl who used to like me (a lot), as I myself was crazy about her. Things were going great between us until a little misunderstanding got in the way. She had heard from her nosy girl friends that I was into someone else. I wasn't. She was the ... (221 words)

She's the woman of my dreams but her ex is a thorn in my side

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

22 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok i am with the woman of my dreams.. i would go to the moon and back for her she is just so sweet. But i think that jealousy has gotten the best of me. We have been together for two years, she used to be married and i use to be married, she has three kids with her ex and i ... (155 words)

This ldr is giving me seconds thoughts, I feel sad, please advice

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4375 days ago

22 November 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - dear friends, im in a ldr with an awesome girl, she is in germany and im in canada, i met her when she was taking a working holiday in canada for a year. i love her to bits and i belive she does too, we have been together only for 6 months, but in short period of time i have f... (499 words)

I feel like I guilt tripped my boyfriend into being my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

22 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy and we were both in Biology in college. We instantly hit it off, but I was afraid that getting into a relationship atm would make my parents think he was distracting me from school, and thus not like him. So we decided to wait until the quarter ended for ... (353 words)

What else could he do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4381 days ago

22 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so, i've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for awhile. And we haven't gone all the way yet, (soon though) and i've always gotten him to cum (sorry for the straight up term) from bj's. but when he fingers me it"s pretty stimulating yet he's never gotten me to ... (121 words)

Is the stress in his life causing him to completely back away from me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

22 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I was dating a recently divorced man for a few months. It was going well..he called me everyday also texting and some emails. We went on some nice dates, met his close friends once and he had asked me to attend a near future weekend get away with him. We always talked easily, ... (234 words)

Why would he be sending me such mixed messages?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

22 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - There is a guy I know who I like a lot, and a while ago I plucked up the courage to let him know. At the time he was adamant that he wasn't interested in that way but was fine about it, and said he still wanted to be friends. Recently, though, I seem to have been getting mixed ... (249 words)

Should I make the first move? How???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

22 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this boy that i work with he's such a sweetheart, so cute and we have a lot in common, we always talk i would defiantly consider us friends but i want us to be more then friends. Whenever i see him i get butterflies and i think about him legit all day I never felt ... (119 words)

I Don't want sexy undies for Christmas again!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

22 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Im dreading my Christmas present from my partner, it will be 'sexy underwear' i dont know why he keeps wasting his money because ive told him time and time again that i dont like it and it makes me feel cheap. I dont feel comfortable wearing it at all. It just sits in the draw ... (136 words)