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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I tell him that I want to build our lives together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

21 November 2012 (?) age 30-35 - Hi i have been dating my bf for over 3 years and half and we lived together for 2 years since i was studying away and everything was perfect. he is an amazing man and i love him more than anything as he does as well. since i moved away from him i have noticed that he dosent ... (99 words)

Ladies only please: My partner makes stupid remarks about age and offends alot of our customers. Am I just being too sensitive?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

21 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I m pissed. Ladies opinions please, as I understood that in this question men are no help, sorry. My business partner who is a guy makes stupid in my eyes comments and asked out customers questions that simply inappropriate. For example, 2 older women come into the store, we ... (1183 words)

I have to tell my boyfriend everything to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

21 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i'm in love with a man that loves me too as his words and most of his actions do say. he calls me daily, remember my face in everywhere we went to, he takes me places he never went to with an ex so he only remembers me, he does exactly what i say...but thats the proble... (286 words)

I panic when husband and I have sex and we have to stop. I haven't been abused, why am I like this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

21 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been married for a few months now, and I love him to death. The only problem is, I'm terrified of having sex. Like, i enjoy it when we start, but after a few moments i just start to panic. I get shaky and start crying and we have to stop. Why am I like this? I thought i ... (116 words)

My girlfriend stalks guys on facebook, meets them and then tells them she has a boyfriend and only wants to be friends!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

21 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So I have been dating this girl for a while about 8 months now and we seem to be good for eachother. The relationship is difficult to explain because we live so far away and it gets difficult sometimes. Anyways i have been noticing something about her and i don't know what you ... (362 words)

How do we bring back the fun in our sex life with 2 young children?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

21 November 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - How do I bring the fun back in my wife's and I sex life with two toddles ?... (18 words)

How do I overcome these bad thoughts that pop into my head about her past actions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

21 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am currently dating my gf of 7 months. She cheated on her last bf of a few years and that relationship ended mostly due to that. Shortly after she remained in contact with the guy she cheated on her ex wit and had given her virginity to this same guy. A few weeks ... (412 words)

It doesn't feel like a crush, it feels two sided! But is it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

21 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all, I have posted before about a guy at work. And i took on board people's views e.g that he is being friendly and that work relationships aren't really a good path to go down because all the problems. But there's been a update and would appreciate your opinion. Sinc... (316 words)

I'm confused by his text. I thought he wasn't interested but friends say I'm reading too much into it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

21 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Guys are so very confusing! I haven't actually "dated" in the past five years (being in an on-off relationship) but 3 days ago I met a nice fella online and met him up. We had dinner, drinks, and decided to go to a movie. On our way to the movie, he says to me "do you mind if ... (324 words)

Is there something wrong with this man wanting to date me? I'm 25 years younger than him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

21 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i met this guy at work he is 25 years older than me. but we have so much in common, and i find him very intersting and i want to know more about him. i love him. we have been seeing each other for about 10 months now. he has told me he loves me to, and i want to give him ... (108 words)

How can I stop being clingy and needy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

21 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - How can I put a stop to my bad relationship habits, specifically being clingy/Needy? I've had this problem my entire life with women. It started when I was very young after my mother killed herself. I was one of the ones that found her, I was 4 at the time. This started my ... (336 words)

Should I be worried that he's still using the website we met on to talk to others?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

21 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - About 3 or so months ago, I started talking to a boy on the internet (a website called Tagged) we get on really well and are the same age. We talk pretty much every night on Skype/Facebook and sometimes text eachother during the day too. And before I get all the 'Are you sure... (282 words)

How do I let an older male co-worker know I am interested without stepping over the lines?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4413 days ago

21 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - #1 What are the signs that an older male co-worker may be interested? I think he is but not for certain. ( i work in a factory not an office so it's not like i can tell because he's constantly dropping into my office) #2 as a 23 year old female, how do i let him know i am ... (70 words)

Aspergers syndrome - life experience [summary]

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

21 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Im 27 yrs old, have Asperger's syndrome. Life hasnt been easy for me, though but it has been good. High school was good, but I struggled with the social side, but enjoyed the topics, except for maths , only really liked English and geography and chemical part of science. C... (275 words)

Did you ever have someone you were close to and now you don't talk to them at all?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

21 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I was just wondering if you had someone in your life you were pretty close to but at somepoint due to some circumstances had to stop talking and now you don't even acknowledge that person!? I do have,and I just want to know if they r people out there as well!?... (55 words)

Why do I keep taking him back when he cheats and is both verbally and physically abusive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

21 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 2years now when we started dating we were so inlove and to me were the perfect couple, until 8months ago he cheating on me and he would do things publicly knowing very well I would find out, he would beg 4m to take him back and I would cause I ... (169 words)

Is he not that into me? He never makes plans

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

21 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - have been going out with my man for nearly four months. He is 44 and has been single for five years. We get along great and I love everything about him so far except this issue. He hardly ever makes plans to see me. We see each other every weekend. I usually drive over on a ... (489 words)

Did he really mean what he said or was he just trying to get into my pants again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

21 November 2012 (?) age 30-35 - I know this guy from a dating site. We plan for our first date out for drinks but he got tied up at work so he suggested to have drinks at his place. Long story short, i agreed to go over only if he's cooking dinner and he said yes so we hang out. Few drinks later and kinda ... (193 words)

Where do I find a guy with similar sexual interests to mine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

21 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear agony aunts and uncles, I've got a problem: I'm single for over 2 years now and struggling with finding someone new. I'm scared about a new relationship for various reasons, the biggest reason is I don't want to live through a sexually frustrating relationship any... (286 words)

We argue alot and he changes what he says from one day to the next

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

21 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, Everyone here, I think I am the loser of relationship. I with my bf just know each other 3 month, but we argue like a every 4 day , I feel bored about this relationship. The reason we argue, is more like about the communication talk. He is a business men, bu... (722 words)

He wants to hook up and I don't!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

21 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - This guy i really like (a lot) thinks I'm hot and wants to hook up... I dont want to- at all! And we had one class together and i tAlked to him a lot but now i dont know what to say or do because he doesn't text that much and i dont go to school with him anymore! Please help me ... (66 words)

Is he attracted to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

21 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Long story short: I was at a bar meeting a small group of male Z-list celebrities. One of the guys from this group that I have a slight crush on/attracted to took my arms as soon as I stepped in front of him and began caressing them. As we proceeded to hug, he said, “…mmm mmm ... (142 words)

What am I? Is what I am feeling a normal part of going through puberty?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

21 November 2012 (M)

age 22-25 - ok im 13 going through puberty and i don't know what im going through. I like girls ( I HAVE A GF) but i look at boys sometimes, girls too. Though I only look when im horny. When I'm horny a lot i do masturbate. I look some gay porn pics Now I need help, because I do not thi... (86 words)

I've lost considerable weight. I'm so scared when he sees my body he's be disgusted. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

21 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a serious problem, I've started seeing a guy few months ago, we have been friends fourteen years and always had feelings for each other, was always bad timing. So here we are, we haven't had sex etc yet as I wanted to go slow even though I've always loved him. He says ... (240 words)

I need help badly. I'm emotionally torn. Missing my Bf after his father said things that put him into a boys home. My health's been affected. How can I cope better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

21 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, me and my boyfriend are very serious. I know I'm in love. Well my boyfriend's dad and him always fight and sometime fist fight. When they do his dad usually hits first, this time my boyfriend hit first because his dad called me a "fatass". Then my boyfriend walked out... (237 words)

He's still with the other girl. I told him I can't be with him if he's still with her. Should I stick to my words?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

21 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hey everyone.. i recently started seeing my ex boyfriend again.he has been dating another girl since the breakup he said that things have not been good with them for a long time and that he want's to breakup with her but he doesn't know how to gently do it. i listened to ... (152 words)

I don't like the way my elderly parents treat my Bf. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

21 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My parents are in their 80's. Although my BF of 2 1/2 years is loving, successful, employed, and financially secure yet they act very cold and aloof around him. My guess is because he has long hair (IT/science guy). They NEVER ask about him and im so embarrassed that... (114 words)

Am I overreacting? How can I deal with this issue? He regards his family as a higher priority over our relationship.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

21 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in my late twenties and my boyfriend is in his mid thirties. We have been together for 4 years and discussed getting married. One of the issues I have, however, is his relationship with his family. Every Tuesday, he has dinner at his parents house with his parents,... (275 words)

How can I regain some control over my relationship? I don't want to jeopardize the relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

21 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am beginning to sense that I have no control over the relationship whatsoever. That is not to say that one should have complete control over the other, no. I feel it should be equal, each side contributing to the relationship. I'm currently in a 4 year relationship. I ... (566 words)

It started off well. Am I being overly paranoid or has he just lost interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

21 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I have been seeing a guy now for around 6 weeks, been for a lovely dinner and meeting up quite frequently. Everything seemed to be going really well, he was initiating contact every day and asking me when I was free. Then one sunday he was meant to come over, cancelle... (293 words)

Was she trying to hint that I should ask this girl out asap?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

21 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl early september and we were friends from the first week really. We see each other every few days as we have classes together and we do spend a fair bit of spare time in between together too just chatting etc. I did feel as if she started to like me, I notic... (296 words)

Does building one's self confidence depend on one's own opinion or that of others?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

21 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Not sure if anyone will understand my question but here it goes... Confidence = Not being needy, being comfortable in your own skin, knowing you can obtain what you need Does confidence, and therefore becoming a more sexually attractive guy, come down to his own opinio... (149 words)