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How do I tell my uncle and auntie that their twins are pregnant by older men?

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Question - (6 November 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 November 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, *ung.N.Stylish23 writes:

My twin cousins are both pregnant and they don't know how to tell their parents ! They're pregnant by OLDER guys and they're afraid to tell their parents. They want me to tell them. Their parents are divorced , their mom is a lesbian now and she's married to another lesbian and their father married to wick witch ! So how can I tell them that their kids are pregnant:\

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A female reader, Yung.N.Stylish23 United States +, writes (7 November 2012):

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Yung.N.Stylish23 agony auntThe twins are 16 and the guys are over 21 years old. They want me to do it because they're scared of their parents and I'm not. So they want me to do it. They live with my bf and I and our kids too.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2012):

Why on earth do you have to tell them and why did you agree to it? It's not your problem.

I don't see the relevance of who the mother and father are now married to. Makes absolutely no difference, except perhaps both parents are more open minded and tolerant towards things generally than, for example, a pair of staunch Catholics. So perhaps they'll be more open minded and accepting about these pregnancies.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (6 November 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntwhy is it YOUR responsibility to tell them?

how old are these twins? is it the same man or two men? how old are the men? because if the teens are 16 and the men over 21 it's going to be a sticky wicket...

how far along are they?

basically you need to tell the girls that they are old enough to have sex and get pregnant they are old enough to be responsible for their behavior and face the consequences of their behaviors.

do they want abortions or do they plan to raise these babies? what about the fathers? are they on board?

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