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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I need help to get over the past, in my relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

17 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there i need some help, about a year ago me and my partner split up and three days later i kissed another guy which my partner found out about he started sleeping with another girl and maybe more which really has hurt me i cant stop thinking about it even now, we got back ... (105 words)

I have a controlling supervisor at work! Do I quit or stay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4417 days ago

17 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey!! New member here. Got an issue going on at my work, right now and hope I can get some good advice. Working with a woman who is my supervisor. Been working with her now for about 2 years. Generally, all was going well, until she began talking to me in an abusive, unpr... (611 words)

How do I gain some confidence in myself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

17 November 2012 (M) age 36-40 - There is a girl at my work. She's pretty. I like her. I want her to like me as well. But I don't feel confidence in myself. I find myself utterly stupid and socially awkward. And ugly and unfunny. She has those beautiful eyes. She talks to me and smiles. Why I feel wor... (192 words)

I have a sickness phobia.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4417 days ago

17 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hiya Everyone, I have a phobia of sickness I have never understood where it has come from or why it is me that has it? It used to be really bad when I was younger, I know it sounds really stupid but a boy was sick over my table in a class that I was in and I actually... (548 words)

Would you date someone who is mentally ill, more specifically bipolar?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

17 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Would you date someone who is mentally ill, more specifically bipolar? I was recently diagnosed with Bipolar II Disorder, and in my googling I have read many, many warnings from people who have dated bipolar people to steer clear of us. I have also read many opinions of peop... (171 words)

How do I get over my past abusive relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

17 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm going to try to shorten the backstory as much as I can, but it is a bit of a long one. I was sexually, emotionally, and psychologically abused by my first boyfriend, first everything really. He coerced me into everything but intercourse, i realize now he was trying to ... (311 words)

We broke up but agreed to be friends. I want to text him but don't know what to say.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

17 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - What do you text to an ex after breaking up with them, you have agreed to be friends. He has contacted me since the breakup 3 weeks ago. He contacted me after one week of the breakup asking if I wanted to go out with him and some friends.I replied etc. Its been 2 weeks since, a... (96 words)

One of my best male friends has cut m,e out of his life, because of is new girlfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

17 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm feeling really down and lost. a male friend of mine, who was also one of my best friends has cut me out his life. Everything about the situation is getting me down from the fact he wont speak to me, the fact he doesnt seem to be the person he was and only wants to spend ... (966 words)

I feel ashamed that I have let him have such power over me. Please help me!!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

17 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years. I know he is probably a good person, but he makes me so sad most of the time. He literally critiques almost everything I do. Just to make sure I wasn't crazy, which he frequently tells me I am, I started logging the ... (325 words)

Do you think I should ask her if we could chat online sometime?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

17 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So there's this girl I met on a religious retreat last weekend. I instantly took a liking to her, and we talked a few times. After the retreat ended, we became facebook friends. A few days ago, we started sending messages to each other. I know that she goes to worship every ... (105 words)

Is it my fault that he punched himself? Should I just get out of this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

17 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure whether to stay with my boyfriend or not. We had a bad argument last night. He said something that upset me. He told me that a man and woman that he knew had sex with each other infront of him ( i'm not sure why he was in the room at the time. This was a long time ... (822 words)

Can you be over someone but still care about their well being?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4413 days ago

17 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Despite first impression, i'm not easy. I'm very picky i have somewhat standard. Sadly i'm also very sensitive person, so when do find some i really like, i make the mistake of giving my heart to easily. Even though i never been in a relationship, however with one or two ... (413 words)

I'm attracted to an older man I work with!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

17 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - im a 23 year old female and now i look back , i realize i have always been attracted to an older man . i am currently attracted to an older man i work with whom i don't know very well yet. ( I'd say he's late thirties ) i have no idea if he's attracted to me, but i have caught ... (132 words)

Would it be too forward to give this very attractive guy in the Boots shop my phone number?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

17 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, I'm 16 years old and I have a need for a bit of light hearted advice. I was served by a guy in Boots who was incredibly attractive but seemed modest at the same time. It may sound cringey but we were laughing together and embarrassing ourselves and I knew that I liked him ... (117 words)

I have a Boy friend already. So how can I stop thinking about this other guy at work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

17 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Recently I got a temporary job at a school, I've been there now for about three months and have met this guy, the bad part is I have a boyfriend. Now this guy is just like my bf except he older i don't know his exact age but I would say late 20's. now when I say he'... (380 words)

Best friend's brother was the last person I had sex with and that was a year ago. Should I have sex again with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

17 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This time last year i had sex with my bestfriend's brother, it wasn't awkward or anything but i told my bestfriend the next day and she seemed a bit bothered but we never fell out.. a month past and everything was fine but he kept asking me to come round when my bestfriend ... (176 words)

Dated for about a year and we have not shared "I Love You"s

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

17 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - We are both 20 years old in college, and have been in long term (2 yrs lasting) relationships in the past. In a month will be our 1 year anniversary and we have not said I love yous or anything. Everything is still kept really light between us. Is this normal? I was talking to ... (92 words)

Will our relationship work? Money issues. He acts like he's responsible for nothing in this relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

17 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all. I need an advice on what to do in a case like this. We've just bought a house with my boyfriend a week ago. Before we moved in months ago we planned that we need to save money so that when we move in we will share our bills and When we moved in I bought the furnitur... (200 words)

It freaks me out that my room mate sleep walks. what can I do? I also worry about his safety when he does this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

17 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I’ve problem with my friend. I've asked this on other sites already, but no one seems to take it seriously. We’re both students and we share the same dormitory room. The thing is that he’s sleepwalker. He gets up almost every night and walks around the room. Although I’m guy... (322 words)

Why? Why does she go all shy after we make out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

17 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey You all. So there's this girl. She's really cute and she's liked me ever since we met she loves my eyes they are hazel and she loves them. After we met we later stopped talking and i barely saw her anymore, but now all of a sudden i found her again on FaceBook. We talk on ... (317 words)

I feel I've lost so much. How can I get my life back on track after breaking up? Life's really tough for me right now.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

17 November 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Please ladies explain this to me. I'm on my own for the first time in my life and I'm 36 now. Two long term relationships, 2 children and I'm ashamed to say with both women. The first I thought was love. The second I walked out on in the middle for because I've never kn... (210 words)

Could a man who is 10 years older than me, fall in love with me? Or is this a major teen crush?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

17 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - All right. So I am seventeen, and my supervisor where I volunteer is probably around 27. I don't know for certain but he's between 25 and 30. Before you go berserk, yes, I know there are many reasons a relationship between us would be inappropriate. Just hear me out :) Whe... (501 words)

It's not the porn as such, it's the fact that he lies to me so often. I can't stand it. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

17 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i need help!! i have spend 5 years with my boyfriend and he likes to watch porn all the time! he always lies to me about it, but i know, when i finally get to talk with him about it he tells me doesnt see anything and those things doesnt cause any reaction on him well. I... (168 words)

Her Bf is stationed overseas. Should I just try to keep it as friends, or should I try to take advantage of this night?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

17 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all, so any help on this issue I'm having will be much appreciated. I have no clue what to do anymore. So, this is relatively going to be a long story. My freshman year (I'm now a senior) I met a girl who was a senior at that time. Me and her hit it off great, but it ne... (412 words)

I flirt with my wife's slutty friends. Could this be a reason for her going cold on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

17 November 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife has friends who are slutty and easy but when we go out I tend to flirt with them and carry on like i'm interested, but really I only like the thought and sometimes the occasional petting. I dont want my wife to freak if I'm ever caught in a situation or so, but she has ... (87 words)

I don't know how to explain this to my B/f but sometimes I love him and sometimes I don't and instead I feel attracted to other men.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

17 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll start off by saying that I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 1/2yrs he is 29 and me 24. I know he really loves me and cares for me. He always tells me how he loves and that I'm the love of his life and how he would never cheat on me and always wants to keep ... (385 words)

Second time around dating her. How can I deal with my feelings of paranoia that she will lose interest in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4417 days ago

17 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Everyone I come here asking for help :/ ...you see there is this girl i am now dating for the second time. And the way i feel about her is much more different than the way I've felt about any other girl in my entire life.. Even while I was dating other girls i wou... (285 words)

Why does my girlfriend keep checking my phone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

17 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 7 months now and she keeps going through my phone constantly without asking even though she never finds anything on there as there isn't anything 'dodgy' going on. Can someone please advise me on why she is doing this and what i should ... (59 words)

Could my lecturer's behaviour be classed as unprofessional? Or is there something else I could do to address this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

17 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So let me explain I'm 18 and one of my lectures has well changed on me, he used to be alright I mean I could talk to him causually like have a laugh with him and friends. Not flirting but just talking and I could go to him for help with a subject, but all of a sudden he's ... (402 words)