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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He's pushing me away, he doesn't want to break up or leave.. What's going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

7 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in a long distance relationship and see eachother once a month at the moment untill i get a job closer to him. He has been acting distant with me but says that it's ok for men to act distant cause that just men and that hell never stop loving me. I don't understand that, if ... (246 words)

Am I over thinking this? does he like me? or does he genuinely like someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4427 days ago

7 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Basically.. I have been texting this guy since July and I recently started the same college as him and we've only met once for like 10 minutes. He text me the day after, this was the conversation.. (we had been having a normal conversation) Him: do you like anyone then? ... (102 words)

I think my behavior is what really ended the relationship, but I want a second chance with him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

7 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Almost 3 weeks ago I broke up with my boyfriend due to his issues with comitting to a relationship because he feels he's too busy (but secretly I think it's partly because towards the end I was so stressed I became a real nasty piece of work and took out my stre... (292 words)

Do my friends want me single forever?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

7 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well Im 21 and I've never had a boyfriend so i was talking to my friends saying that i want to start dating :) I've had sex before but only with 1 guy and that was a little over a year ago. But my question is do my friends want me happy? Because after i said i wanted t... (304 words)

I'm sleeping with my best friend's husband and I don't want it to end

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

7 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Last few months my best friend's husband and I have been sleeping together, last night he tells me he loves her and wants to break it off with me, I got mad and told him I don't want to end our relationship. What do I do? how do I keep him from leaving?... (53 words)

My boyfriend of six years has been sending messages to other girls, asking for sexual favors and pictures.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

7 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years now and we have a three year old and one year old together. As time goes on he has become more and more controlling, and i have just found private messages to ex girlfriends, and other girls, asking for sexual favours and pictures. We ... (167 words)

I think my drunk behavior messed up my chances with him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

7 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and this guys been talking for a month and a half, fwb we hang out all the time. We have sex occasionally. So last weekend ingot really really drunk and he picked me up and I hardly remember because I was blacking in and out but I remember him picking me up from a local ... (275 words)

I need some general dating advice on courting an "alpha female"

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

7 November 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Cliff note: I need some general dating advice on courting an "alpha female" - you know, the independent, ambitious, and career driven woman. Let's also compound the challenge by throwing out most conventional dating wisdom because she is in medicine, and has unpredictable an... (356 words)

How can I forgot her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

7 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My GF betrayed me.I wanted to get marry to her. but one day in spring she SMSed to me that it's better to break up. after months I was in a terrific love about her. it 's six months that she left me. what should i do. how can i forget her. through this time she did many... (77 words)

My husband can't stay hard unless I'm talking dirty to him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

7 November 2012 (?) age 41-50 - My husband can't stay hard unless I'm talking dirty to him. I'm tired of it. Sometimes if i stop talking he goes soft and just stop its over. He wants me to make it dirtier and i can't. Can you suggest something to help us?... (45 words)

To the people who were bullied and neglected while growing up. How did you cope with it and get past it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

7 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I was neglected during my primary schooling by my teachers, classmates and parents. the same thing happened in high school except that physical and verbal bullying were added. I told about what was happening in primary school and the teacher took offense to that and took it o... (264 words)

Is it cheating if your husband encourages it?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3397 days ago

7 November 2012 (?) age 41-50 - What should I do? My husband of almost ten years and I talk about everything. He knows exactly what I like and he satisfies me but I have been having a fantasy about being in a threesome. My husband likes the idea but doesn't think the other guy would like it too. So he told me ... (118 words)

Why did he say that I came on to him the next morning?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

7 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so at a party and im a little bit tipsy and this guy from my school who ive never even talked to before starts asking me to do shots with him and i say no (giggling as i remember...) because my mums picking me up but he keeps trying to compromise (1/2 shots etc)and ... (199 words)

Are there any women or men who can tell me how their sex life has been after a hysterectomy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

7 November 2012 (?) age 41-50 - Im back.. I'll call this part 2. Are there any women or men who can tell me how their sex life has been after a hysterectomy? Women has your mate cheated? or men do you get your pleasure somewhere else? I have a sex partner over 10 years off an on. after so many losses, (de... (184 words)

I want to start dating again, but can't seem to get out there or even know how to begin.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

7 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - dear aunts and uncles, you all have helped me in the past now i need help again. i am finding it very difficult to move on after my husband of 20 years left me for a girl half our age a year ago. i know it is time to get on with my life, we just divorced a week ago and he told ... (272 words)

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

7 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 23 year old virgin and I'm dating a 24 year old guy,the reason I stressed on being a virgin is that I've waited for the right man to come along and I think he has, and I know it will happen soon.. but now I think he's not the one, cuz he took offence to something I ... (217 words)

How would it make you feel if someone told you they loved you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

7 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hypothetically, guys, if you knew someone had a crush on you or fancied you, and you weren't taking it seriously, would you start to take it seriously if they told you they loved you and meant it? I don't mean start to like them, I just mean be a bit more considerate before you ... (99 words)

What is the best way to make my 'friends with benefits' situation work for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

7 November 2012 (?) age 41-50 - I met a guy who travels round the States and stops in my city as a base for his travels, he is a friend of a friend and when I first met him, we had sex, but at the time I did not realise I would be seeing him as part of the social group I hang round with. If I had known I ... (293 words)

I broke her heart, does that make me a bad person?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

7 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, i had just broken up with my girlfriend of a year due to the fact that i basicaly "fell out of love" with her. before i actually brokeup with her i had been contemplating on doing it and each week i was more sure that it was the right thing to do because i just felt ... (359 words)

Hotel room buddies!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

7 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a big problem. I am in love with someone I have known since just after I was born. He knows how i feel and he used me and took advantage of my feelings when I told him. Our parents work together and regularly go away on conventions. Me and him both love London, so when ... (682 words)

Dildo dilemma!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

7 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi this is a question mainly for women!!! my ex got me a vibrator, it’s very soft and adaptable is not very wide so it fits just fine, the problem is it hurts when i insert it so i cannot use it... when he was using it on me it didn’t feel that bad... it has been a while since ... (130 words)

Texting for trouble...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

7 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating someone for almost 2 years, and I recently discovered he has been texting (and sometimes calling) old girlfriends and lovers. I also found out that he has met up with old girlfriends for lunch (?) on business trips because we ran into one unexpect... (123 words)

I can't cope with my girlfriend's history and don't know what to do.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

7 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend had 3 boyfriends before me, I had 2. She's 24 and I am 28. We have been dating for 6 months, and it's a serious relationship to both of us. Recently, she asked me how many girls I've slept with before her and we discussed honestly about our past... Here's what ... (248 words)

Ex girlfriend is being weird...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

7 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So, my girlfriend of 4 months broke up with me by ignoring me a few weeks ago. Now she is stalking me online every day and making sure I don't move on. She is also trying her best to hurt me by acting like nothing ever happened, pretending to be busy, happy and unavailable ... (148 words)

STD query...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

7 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - If you have an STD are you 100% guaranteed to pass it on during unprotected sex? ... (18 words)

Help! Penis problem!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

7 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, This isn't a relationship question, more sexual health. I few days ago I was taking a bath, went to pull my foreskin back to wash and there was a huge build up of smegma and it smelt pretty awful. A few days prior to that, whilst masturbating I noticed th... (108 words)

Got a date at my monthly networking meetings!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

7 November 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I go to monthly networking meetings to make new work contacts (prospective clients) and did so this morning. I saw this girl, who was very attractive, she came up to me, I told her what I did, gave her my business card, then she went to talk to other people. I popped to the ... (205 words)

Was I rude or was I justified in saying what I did?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

7 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Told a guy he was too busy to date - was I unreasonable? I met a guy online (He's 35, I'm 30) and we exchanged a few emails but he would always take a couple of days to reply, saying he was really busy. Not a problem really, but it does colour my later opinion. Anyw... (296 words)

While my wife and I were seperated she slept with someone else, how do I let this go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

7 November 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm having a hard time getting rid of the past. My wife and I split for almost two month quite a few years ago. During this time she had a fling with another man. This man was a disgusting excuse for a man. He's a drunk and almost 15 years older than her. I'm not sure what ... (167 words)

How can we get our sex back on track so we're both climaxing?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

7 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a bit sexually frustrated. My husband doesn't last a long time in bed these days. When we used to have sex more frequently, it was rarely an occurrence, but now, he might last a minute or two, not enough time for me to climax. He's not into the idea of using anything like ... (77 words)

Should I ask her if she likes me, and if so, how do I do it?

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7 November 2012 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi im 14 years old boy and i need to know what i should do. I just got in a new school so - a girl said to me that she likes me on the second day.The problem is that i didnt know if she liked me like bf or like a friend.It looked like she liked me as bf but i wasnt sure ... (114 words)

Should I be having side effects now I'm on the pill?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

7 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm on the pill and strangely I haven't experienced any side effects yet, people say you experience depression, mood swings, emotional, headaches, cramps and breast soreness, weight gain... yet i've been on it a month and I haven't had any of that, in fact no change at all in ... (117 words)

How do I rebuild this friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4427 days ago

7 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i made a friend few months back and we got along really well, we dated for a few months and everything was great. At that time i was still living with my ex and i was not over him completely. i made a trip with my friend and he was really there for me and helped me a lot during ... (230 words)

My boyfriend used to idolise his friend's body and she was skinny, yet he doesn't want me to get too thin! What is going on here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

7 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am confused about the messages that my bf is sending me with his comments about weight. I recently lost 30 pounds, putting me now around 160 pounds. My bf is very proud of me, and seems to enjoy the changes in my body. I do too! I'm very excited to be losing weight finally ... (225 words)

We are both in relationships but I'm falling for my co-worker! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

7 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I think I'm falling for my coworker, we have been working together for 6 months and I have never thought of him in that sense before. He never showed interest beyond just being friends, and neither have I, we always flirted and joked around but always genuinly without other ... (387 words)

Menopause Questions

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

7 November 2012 (M)

age - Does a woman in menopause orgasm? Does her sexdrive diminish during or after menopause? I'm at the age where women in my age bracket are menopausal and find it difficult to find women over 50 interested in sex. I'm a very attractable guy for 52 and don't understand why women I ... (64 words)

Biological Clock?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

7 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I can't stop thinking about having babies. I'm 25 and in a stable relationship - we are only together 6 months but we're very happy and know we're going to be together for good. That in itself sounds a bit crazy but I've had long relationships and felt more secure with him in ... (102 words)

Does he like me as a colleague, or something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

7 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I wish to see other opinions on this who dont know us. I used to work with an older male. He is shy and difficult to read. When I left he hugged me (never really shows emotion). I now hav a new job but still need to speak with him. He calls me randomly to help out with our work ... (93 words)

Should I bother with him anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

7 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there any point bothering with this guy. He always texts me days after we seen each other, sometimes i'll have to wait a week to even receive a text. And then when I happen to take a while to reply, I noticed that he also takes ages himself, it's as if he is being petty and ... (210 words)

Will my husband-to-be know that I've had sex before him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

7 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I had sexual relation with my friend. Now i am getting married. I am worried about that can my would be husband will know that i had realtion with someone before marriage.... (32 words)

My best friend wants a marriage of convenience!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

7 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hey aunts and uncles urgent advice needed please. My close male friend and i are both creeping closer to 30. Neither of us is with anybody and we get on very well. We were having a meal at his house, together the other night and got talking about the fact that we are both ... (187 words)

Housemate politics

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

7 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my housemate are about to fall out. Basically - our front door lock broke and 3 out of 5 housemates got new keys for the new lock. 2 of us didn't. We had got back door keys cut before this (foresight) for ourselves just in case. So we weren't completely stuck but as t... (173 words)

My "bad boy" past is catching up with me and I'm going to lose my girlfriend because of that. Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

7 November 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Everybody, I met a wonderful lady at the beginning of the year. She means the absolute world to me. To give you a bit of background. She is currently seperated. She has 2 beautiful children and her ex husband works away alot. They seperated because he was a seria... (372 words)

I need help dealing with PMS

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

7 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have PMS and a week before every period I suffer with terrible anxiety, irritability and a short fuse, I can get extremely angry if anything pisses me off, where normally I am well controlled. Does anybody have any suggestions of how I can improve these symptoms?... (50 words)

I think I like my cousin, but should I tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4427 days ago

7 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, she is my father's elder most (long gap) brother's daughter's daughter. But she is an year younger to me. We rarely met in our childhood times, and I being a reserved person had hardly talked to her that time. Now may be after 8/9 years she saw me in facebook and we ... (436 words)

Was this abuse and how can I get over it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

7 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I was wondering if someone could help me reflect on my five year relationship that I finally ended two years ago but remain broken. Short story I started dating my ex when I first started college I was 19him 23. I used to be very extraverted/confident since many people c... (421 words)

What the hell is wrong with my rich celebrity brother? Have the drugs affected him so badly that he has lost his ability to be rational?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

7 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Its ridiculous the way my brother lies. He has become a complete lying machine. He is extremely rich, handsome and a celebrity. His marriage with his wife is utterly awful. Since they dated, he cheated on her openly. He did drugs and weed and his then gf/now wife was hardly b... (537 words)

My wife wears jewelry another man bought her and it makes me uncomfortable

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

7 November 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife made a new business acquaintance whose family owns a jewelry store. As part of celebrating a milestone he gave her a silver and amethyst necklace and an amethyst ring, which she sometimes wears. To be fair, he also gave a gift to my wife's gay male business partner.... (107 words)

I still live at home with my parents. My mother is ill and in need of special care, my father is out of work. I have a lot of people depending on me, so I'm thinking of joining the military.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

7 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I'm 25 and I still live at home with my parents. Because of the crisis we may have to have to sell the house and get my ill mom moved to a special care facility. I'm considering joining the military to cover for expenses and hopefully keep this from happening. Can ... (431 words)

Does this mean that she possibly likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4428 days ago

7 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, there are actually two girls in this story, we'll refer to them as girl A and B. I like them both but I fancy girl A more. Somehow I end up spending most of my time with girl B instead as friends. Girl A has taken notice of this and has shown an initiative in co... (278 words)

I'm married and had an on/off affair with a married man for three years. I ended after his divorce, but now he has someone new, and I think he wants to rekindle our affair.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

7 November 2012 (?) age 41-50 - I've had an on and off relationship with a high school classmate. Everything was good.he got married and so did i. We were seeing each other regular. We would have sex which was good to him. I was good with it because i got the attention i was looking for as talking caressin... (190 words)

I think my roommate and I are headed for a relationship. Any advice you can give me would be great!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

7 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a 32 year old female. About 10 months ago I needed to find a new place to live, so responded to a random online roommmate ad. The guy is 35 and really awesome. There was about 2-3 weeks before I actually moved in, and during that time we were constantly texting. It got ... (790 words)

Will a few days of no contact help him figure out his feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

7 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have choosen to kind of see if we can handle being apart for a week with no comunication except on facebook ,but only in silly post or something like that . Do you think it's health for us to do this ? I guess I am not an expert and this is something I think ... (216 words)

Did he mean anything by this? Is this normal between acquaintances?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

7 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this male acquaintance I have, who I saw yesterday and the day before. On Sunday he visited the store my sister and I own and we all chatted for a while, a little over an hour. Before he left, my sister hugged him goodbye. She's normally considered to be the more ... (336 words)

I'd like to date this guy from work, but what if it goes wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4421 days ago

7 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - soo, there's this guy. we work for the same newspaper (him as an advertising salesman, and me as a reporter). I've been here since March, and he showed up in either late August or early September. I was really excited about that, because I'm the youngest employee up here (I ... (365 words)