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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is doing this OK? You are upset about something in your relationship, so you do the same thing back to them, to teach them a lesson?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

1 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello:) Thankyou in advance for any advice! I am just wondering, say you are upset about something in your relationship, is doing the same thing back to them (to teach them a lesson) okay? On one respect I'd say no it's childish, however couldn't it make them see really... (249 words)

We are under alot of stress but something has got to give!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

1 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2.5 years. A lot of people thought he would be my rebound because I had literally just gotten out of a terrible 3.5 year relationship a week prior but we managed to work through a lot of shit together. (In regards to the week thing, I ... (510 words)

What other topics can we talk about?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4401 days ago

1 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been talking to the guy I like for about 7 weeks, we like the same music, have similar hobbies and are just generally interested in the same things. however recently the conversation has been the same. For example, when were texting its the usual 'hey, how're you?, wh... (106 words)

Condoms in his wallet change? Is he cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

1 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is 19 and I am 18. We've been together for around 5 months now. Im his first girlfriend. He is so gentle, caring and affectionate, and is generally a very nice guy. We get along exceptionally well, and it has been this way since the beginning, almost as if ... (364 words)

We have been fighting over little stuff and now g/f wants to take a break

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

1 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my Girlfriend been fighting with each other for the past couple weeks. It's about stupid stuff, the littlest stuff is getting to us. And she don't like how i catch a attitude with her really quick after i get done hanging out with my friends, and she don't think i ... (126 words)

There is nothing I can do and this is tearing us apart

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

1 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend has been stressing lately about paying for college because she doesn't have enough to pay what the college is asking for. I try to make her feel better about it and I love her so I usually can calm her down. Today she was crying and brought up a new issue. My ... (206 words)

I can't have sex with my wife because it feels dirty. I cheat instead

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

1 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - this is more of a question to guys. I believe there 2 types of women, 1 a woman who you love sincerely, and the other ones who you attend to sexually. The problem is I'm unable to have a sexual relationship with my wife who I love with all my heart, yet I do these things wit... (475 words)

I think my boyfriend is being sarcastic to control me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

1 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is on the whole very loving and caring. He cooks lovely meals, always tells me I'm gorgeous etc etc and says I'm the love of his life BUT...he's sometimes sarcastic and I HATE it. He thinks he's being funny but it always seems like he's doing it to control me. He ... (222 words)

My father is pretending I don't exist

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4402 days ago

1 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My dad’s mad at me and pretends I don’t exist. It all started on my 14th birthday. I told my parents I was going to see a movie with my friends that night. But, in reality we were attending a house party filled with 17 year olds. We knew someone from that age group so she let... (194 words)

I can't stop thinking about my boyfriend's friend!

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1 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid. I'm in love with my boyfriends best frien, c I know my bf for 4 months and we just started dateing 2 weeks ago, and I met his best friend.And me and his friend have more in comen than what I thought , my bf is sweet and everything , but when I'm talking to his ... (129 words)

Which guy do I pick? I want a guy who treats me well

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

1 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I met dis guy in 2005 wen I was 15 we dated for 2 mnths but brok up due to family pressure sayin am 2 young den I relocated to anoda town in 2009 where I met a semi educated guy who cared and luved me I lost my virginity to him we had a quarel and brok up den I got in touch ... (195 words)

Why did my ex say she missed talking to me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

1 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, everyone. I am baffled as to why an ex of mine has said that she missed talking to me. I honestly have no idea, as all I can say is, when she dumped me, she and I agreed to take quite a bit of time away from each other. We were both ok with it. However, as soon as ... (155 words)

I'm falling for my taken friend. how do I stop myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4368 days ago

1 November 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey, first time here, although I have read the site abit searching for cases similar to mine. Some background information on what basically lead to the situation I'm in. It's about my friend. I'm an introvert, and while not to extremes (I talk to people, but theres a clear l... (660 words)

My boyfriend's friend shows more interest in me than my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

1 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Recently, my boyfriend and I had a fall out, we're fine now, but things just don't seem the same to me. I love him to bits, and he loves me but I just feel like I make more of an effort than him and miss him more, than he misses me. He always reassures me that I'm just being ... (188 words)

My boyfriend has given up on giving me oral sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

1 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Even thought I still enjoy it, I can't orgasm through sex, and my boyfriend isn't very good at stimulating me manually. At the beginning I put it down to lack of experience and I didn't want to offend him by making a big deal out of it, hoping he'd naturally improve, but ... (115 words)

I don't trust my husband, he uses my words against me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

1 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I dont trust my husband. Not that I think he cheats, just that when I open up, he uses my words against me. We've been together 20yrs off and on since I was 14. This has always been the case. Now we have 3 kids and Im affraid this is how I will live the rest of my life. 2 ... (99 words)

My girlfriend was raped and I'm not sure what is the best way to deal with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

1 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 20 yr old and have been dating my girlfriend Meg (who is 18) for almost a year. I have two very important questions regarding our relationship. 4 months ago she was attacked, raped and beaten. When she was found she was so badly beaten that her neighbour didnt even reali... (270 words)

Virginity is a huge deal in the Indian culture and I've lost mine to an ex so how do I face my future husband now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

1 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am an Indian girl in our culture virginity matters a lot in marriage.i lost my virginity to my ex,i thought one day we will get married but he was so abusive so i broke up with him, now i am really scared ...i strongly believe that without honesty no relationship can work ... (110 words)

I think my husband is using a penis pump and it concerns me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4402 days ago

1 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband's penis is much darker lately. I think he used a pump. When I asked, he said he squeezed it real hard to make the blood rush to the surface. He also has a rough spot near the head. I know he is self conscience about how well he performs but I've never had a problem ... (84 words)

Does Amy like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

1 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - i been studying with this girl since september, lets call her amy, we have most classes the same. we talk get along, and spend some breaks together jus chatting. i have become busy and not being able to see her much. i got invited to go out with her friends for night out. ... (162 words)

My gay lover left me because I'm bisexual. I want him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4378 days ago

1 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi friends please help for my problem I'm a bisexual guy but I have s gay lover now it became as problem because of im a bisexual he left me and found another gay but I love him truely I don't want any other guy or girl please tell me help me to get back my love each and every ... (66 words)

I don't want to lose my friend because of who she is dating!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4402 days ago

1 November 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys y bestfriend who is a top aunt on here is falling away im 15 and she is in a relationship with a guy and he tries to make e jealous and get her to do things like give him blowjobs while im there she says no but he goes on and on untill i have to leave he does this ... (235 words)

Should I tell my husband's brother that I love him too and about the fantasy of a threesome with him and my husband?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4393 days ago

1 November 2012 (?) age 41-50 - My brother in law has called me and texted me and told me in person he loves me and is attracted to me. I haven't replied to his remarks out of respect to my husband. I just ignored it when he said it. I know he was intoxicated/high so I didn't think much of it. For years my ... (168 words)

I think I'm falling in love and it scares me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

1 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never been one for relationships and mushy stuff, but I met a guy who made me want that. We've been together about 5 months and I think Im falling in love with him. But we're so young (both only just 18) and I feel so overwhelmed with my emotions for him and it scares me ... (104 words)

My grandfather is very ill, b/f wants to go out drinking for his birthday and I'm in a funk! HELP!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

1 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Need advice on how to shake this mood off I've had a for a few days now, it's really taking a toll on my relationship. So I got told that my Grandad has only a couple of days left. But my boyfriend birthday is soon and is going out to drink and celebrate it. I can't go as I ... (113 words)

Is it normal to find others unattractive even if you find only one person attractive?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4395 days ago

1 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I asked these kind of questions in many different ways but i could't get satisfying answers so i'm asking in an easier way to understand.believe me or not i only find my husband attractive and beautiful and my husband says he feels the same way. But i don't find other people ... (389 words)

All he does is talk about sex and grope me. Is it lust? Or love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

1 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a bf... He was here before... But now is in another city for studies...i Trust him... We Dnt have Any kind of problems... He's also ready to talk to his parents abt us after both our education is over.... But whenever he comes down to meet me... Or sometimes even while ... (89 words)

We broke up and I didn't say what I wanted to say. Should I go tell her now?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

1 November 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Me and my gf split up this January after 5 years together. Her reason was; it wasnt working out. Well that was not surprising as she kept me a secret all that time from her family and friends because i am 17 years older than her. Id had enough of being a secret and said ... (222 words)

Why does my boyfriend tease me with foreplay and then fall asleep?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

1 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - need advice on sex vs sleep, please! i'm finding it hard to understand why my bf will tease me with foreplay and then fall asleep:( We've been together 1yr, don't live together, both work full time and 11 hour shifts (sometimes nights, sometimes days) and everything else ... (443 words)

Is she afraid to be into girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

1 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone. I am a 17 year old female who is bisexual. Around the beginning of September my friend had started taking this girl to school with us in the morning. I had thought nothing of it until her and I actually began talking. We have gotten closer these past three weeks. ... (270 words)

Boyfriend can't last more than a few minutes during sex. Is that normal at his age?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

1 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend recently told me that when he has sex with me, he's good for a couple minutes but then he has to start thinking about something else otherwise he will cum too soon. He said that it sucks that he can't be in the moment because he has to think about baseball and ... (134 words)