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I really want to find my family... I don't know what to do next!

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Question - (6 November 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 November 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *angerously Enthusiastic. writes:

Hi guys.

This is a family question. Recently my mother died. She was an alcoholic. She was adopted at the age of three month.

Well, back in those days, when you adopted a child, you didn't know anything about the biological parents. Also, my mother's biological mother was 15/16 when she gave birth to my mam so I'm guessing she was a disgrace to the family and made to give her up.

However, I don't know 100%.

I do have a Gran and Grandad but I really want to find my mother's real parents. The only thing I have from her birth is the birth certificate. This does have her biological mothers name on and address but I've already contacted the address and they don't know of anyone in the past by that name and neither do the neighbors.

I want to know if my mam was like them and what they look like.

Anyone got some ideas?

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A female reader, Sweet-thing United Kingdom +, writes (7 November 2012):

Sweet-thing agony auntYou may have to hire a detective or go through a professional family tracking agency to get help. I don't know how expensive these could be, but you can call and find out. Ask the grand parents to see if they know anything. Good luck.

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A female reader, Aunty BimBim Australia +, writes (6 November 2012):

Aunty BimBim agony auntYour first port of call should be Jigzaw. http://www.jigsaw.org.au/how-do-i-begin/uk/

Good luck, I wish you every success.

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