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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Love Sick - How does it make others feel??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4425 days ago

9 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I feel so love sick over someone all the time. The only way I can describe it feeling like is feeling permanently excited or nervous, that's how it feels it the pit of my stomach, but not quite like butterflies. Is this how other people feel?... (46 words)

Is it wrong to want an online sex buddy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

9 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it wrong that I want an online sex buddy? I'd like to have someone friendly to have regular cybersex/webcam sex with, but is it wrong that I want this? I'm a little unsure.... (40 words)

How do I ask him where his money goes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

9 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my boyfriend 7 years now, we both still live at home and everythings going well. Only one thing is a problem money. Im currently at university studying my masters so literally get £5000 a year to live on. He has a great job which is really well paid. I know how ... (228 words)

Where can I buy lingerie to surprise hubby for his bday

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

9 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunt and uncles. My q is in regards to lingerie. There arent any local places to buy lingerie and I have a harder time now that Im plus size, US 16/18. Does anyone know any good websites for plus size lingerie that has variety of colors? Red, teal, and black in particular? ... (103 words)

I don't want to lose her again because she's a good friend but how do I make her trust me again after I left the first time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4425 days ago

9 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 21 and my friend Melissa is 18. She has been through a lot and she doesn't let anyone close to her. We don't see each other very often (maybe once a month) because we are both really busy and live 3 hours away from each other. In 2010 we stopped contact for about 7 months ... (398 words)

I can't stop thinking about my cousin. How can I take things to the next level?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

9 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - im 24 and my cousin is 37, i cant stop thinking about her. i sent her a dirty text meassage and i said i made a mistake. but she said at first she thought i was drunk lol but then i was sure you sent it to me by mistake. is she interested in me? how can i take this to the next ... (79 words)

A few questions on Birth Control pills

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

9 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so this will be a few questions concerning birth control pills and its effectiveness. This is for my own purpose only, not for any scientific purposes. The subjects will be those of you who had or taking birth control pills, and have one partner only. If you are one, ple... (136 words)

I'm scared to ask if he likes me because if he doesn't our friendship will be ruined

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

9 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I really like this guy from my school but I dont know if he feels the same way about me because he always send me mixed messages and that I have never ever dated before... List of things that made me feel like he likes me: 1) He always initiate conversations with me a... (320 words)

Why did my ex say he's troubled by my face?

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9 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - what does this conversation with my ex imply? me: its almost my birthday, are you excited cause im excited? (: him: yes but im too broke to get you anything ): me: its okay, we weren't even talking my last birthday..so your friendship is enough him: im sorry ... (257 words)

Too embarassed to buy condoms! Help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

9 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and my bf is 22. We've been together for almost a year and we feel like we're ready to have sex. We understand the consequences of having unprotected sex. Hence despite both of us being virgins, we still want to use a condom. Problem is: we're both too embarrassed to ... (113 words)

I cant cope with missing him so much, any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

9 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there. :) Hope I can get some advice for something. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months. We're very happy and love each other very much. Things are going great! But I've always found it difficult to cope when I miss him. We live just over an hours drive aw... (231 words)

Hooked on an ex that was no good....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

9 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm really hooked on my ex and cannot stop thinking about him. He was just horrible to me, very jealous, possessive and would flip out over the smallest of things. He smoked weed, lived with his mother and he is 40 years old. I'm 12 years younger than him, I have my own ... (284 words)

Any tips for my first date? Should I kiss her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4423 days ago

9 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been asked if i want to go for drinks with this girl. We known each other for years (we dont speak just by face) until recently. Shes also come on cam and i noticed was trying to get me to notice her assets. We spoken a bit now. Any tips for tonight? Shall i give her... (64 words)

While we were broken up I slept with another man, can our relationship work again despite what I've done?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4425 days ago

9 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I've spent this whole year breaking up with my boyfriend of 3.5 years. He's Egyptian Muslim and I'm white 'Muslim'. We got to the stage where it was get married or break up. I wanted to get married and fought him to do it for months. He was also fighting his family (... (709 words)

Boyfriend playing games with his ex, how do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

9 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, my problem is my bf playing games with his ex. My boyfriend have just starting living together again after breaking up 8 mths ago. We have 2 kids. We separated because of various issues and he got himself a flat. However he didn't like living alone and missed family life. ... (217 words)

Caught my boyfriend on dating sites, after calling me a slut and a stalker he then claims it was a virus!

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

9 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have found out my boyfriend has been going on dating sites. When I asked him about it he went mad at me and started calling me a stalker, said I dont trust him because I myself am not to be trusted, called me a slut and then turned it around to saying it was a computer virus. ... (122 words)

69 year old with a 23 year old, is this wrong?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4395 days ago

9 November 2012 (M)

age - I am 69. I love a girl who is just 23. I am madly in love with her and have a full grown sexual and complete relationship with her. Is it wrong or ok?... (34 words)

Why am I less affectionate towards him? Is this the end of the honeymoon phase, or worse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

9 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. We are doing very well and are happy together. I used to be really physically affectionate toward him but less recently. He is however the same as before toward me. There is totally nothing wrong between us. I'm ... (112 words)

How can you get to know someone who keeps running away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4420 days ago

9 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a sophomore at a public university in the US. I live in an on-campus dorm, and I see the people on my floor fairly often. Five weeks ago, our academic year began, though some freshmen came early for a month-early head-start. There is a boy, who I will refer to as D, who ... (497 words)

Do I have a chance of taking him away from his girlfriend?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

9 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and a guy at my job has been having a secret relationship for about a year during this time the relationship is a secret everyone knows. He has a girlfriend and I had a boyfriend(me and my boyfriend broke up for un-related reasons) now im singlr and he still has agirlfriend ... (194 words)

Should I just give her space for a little while?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

9 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Just want to make this question as short as possible (although I can just be biting my own tongue on this)Anyway I have reunited with my first girlfriend again after 7 years when we got together everything was cool, but she isn't the type to talk much on facebook when I message ... (484 words)

Is it because I looked depressed that I can't get a girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4425 days ago

9 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Before I was depressed people said I was cute and fun to be around. People would tell me I could get any girl I wanted. When I hit 15 I got acne and got depressed for NO reason. I think hormones screwed me up or something. Now I'm 18 and still no improvement. People say I ... (100 words)

My wife is in her mid 40's, she doesn't want sex and says her body has changed and menopause is kicking in. Should I buy that crap?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

9 November 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a little problem, my wife is a hard working woman and does alot for our household but for the past few months she has been dead in the bed if you know what I mean. I have tried many things to bring our sex life back into action but shes always tired or not in the mood. I ... (204 words)

My boyfriend keeps stopping just when I'm about to climax!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

9 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend finds it hard to make me come. I find him sexy in bed, so that is not a problem. I need oral stimulation as well as nipple stimulation at the same time to reach climax and I have told him but just when he does that and i'm about to come, he always moves his... (424 words)

Should I settle down or just go out and have fun?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

9 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Since breaking up with an old boyfriend I've kinda been off the rails, getting with random guys. I've since settled down with someone who says he loves me and been together for 6 months and I feel like I love him too. I can't help thinking of other guys I could be with or ... (138 words)

He cant love me until he can love himself. How do I help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

9 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a gay college student who met an amazing guy about two months ago. We spent a lot of time together and grew to like each other a lot. We both have christian-esque values and want to wait until were basically sure we want to be married to become sexual. We started dating ... (598 words)

Is he playing games, advice please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

9 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - There is this guy I like. We have had a fling in the past n it stopped due to his mates not liking me. Recently he has started to txt every now and again. We meet back up and he started bringing up the past, and asking me how my love life is? Also started dropping little ... (103 words)

Will my boyfriend break up with me because of my religion?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

9 November 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm really worried that my boyfriend will break up with me when he finds out my religion! He's Christian, I'm muslim. There are alot of stereotypes about Muslims that we're all terrorists and I fear he might think I'm like everybody else! Please help!... (45 words)

I don't want to be with my long distance B/f anymore, I feel he's a liar and I don't want to relocate for him. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

9 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a long distance relationship, it's been long distance for 3 months but the whole relationship has been 5 months. My boyfriend never really texts me like he used to, he's changed and acts more like in a friend who's a girl. He won't reply back sometimes for a long time ... (301 words)

I feel uneasy about my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

9 November 2012 (?) age 30-35 - So I need boyfriend help. I know I am probably over reacting or over thinking but here we go... I'm 19 and like my boyfriend turned 19 this past tuesday.He lives in Florida and I live in New Jersey but he is planning on moving back up here soon. So the day before his birthday... (231 words)

My boyfriend is pulling away from me! please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

9 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My BF and I have been together for over a year and at first he was attentive by ways of calling me a couple times a days to say hi, sending sweet messages, spending the entire weekend with me, and trying new things with me that he knew I would enjoy. Within three months he ... (1135 words)

How can I try giving b/f a rim job?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

9 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I know if my boyfriend wants a rim job and how do I do it? We have a great intercourse relationship we always change things up, but sometimes when I give him blowjobs I get The feeling that he wants me to lick his ass he has done it to me n is not something I'm cra... (79 words)