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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Could this behavior mean he likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

12 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've had a crush on a guy for ages. Three or four years. He had told me that he didn't fancy me, but would like to remain friends. Is it possible that he has changed his mind? Today we were sat next to each other and were talking. He looked at me, and I looked straight back at ... (139 words)

Need advice, I'm having trouble getting over my ex-girlfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

12 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So... I'm having trouble getting over my ex-girlfriend. The thing is we've been on and off for almost a decade. This year though we've been getting really far apart. earlier this year I backed off because she wasn't showing interest at all, anymore. So we went 3 months ... (379 words)

It seems all we do is argue

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4387 days ago

12 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 28 years old married for two years with a 15 month old son. My husband and I have been arguing a lot. To me it seems like he isn't happy but when I say anything he says its me, that I'm always miserable and start fights with him. I see things differently.He drinks at ... (204 words)

What is the best way to ask my boyfriend to touch my stomach when we are intimate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

12 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a big girl with many self-confidence issues. My boyfriend of two years tells me that he loves all of my curves, but almost avoids touching my stomach whenever we cuddle. What is the best way to ask him to touch my stomach when we are intimate?... (48 words)

I spent months trying to get over him, now he tells me he fancied me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

12 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So after some time trying to get over a friend who's in a relationship with someone else, he tells me, when we're both a bit drunk and talkative, that he 'really fancied' me when he first me me. Well that's that progress out of the window. Where do I go from here? I fee... (81 words)

My boyfriend is still meeting with the girl he had an affair with. Should I trust him, or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4384 days ago

12 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hello everybody, my problem is pretty basic, my BF still talks to his ex girlfriend. This, of course, provokes a number of feelings in my heart and this point i need some advice to understand and feel better. First of all, let me tell you i have a long distance relationsh... (529 words)

Masturbation Question

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

12 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Can i marstabate whilst on a period?... (7 words)

If she didn't like m,e, why did she go out with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

12 November 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I met this girl on a train and we hit it off quite well. I took her number and asked her out for a date, quite specifically saying that iI want the first date to be in a nice restaurant. it went well. We also had coffee another time and were texting each other almost everyday. ... (163 words)

Long-term marriage but sex has faded ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

12 November 2012 (M)

age - Me and my wife have been married for 40 years, we're in our 60' but haven't had sex in over 1 year. Is there any advice on how to spice it up?... (34 words)

My husband of twenty years has been cheating on me for over half of our marriage!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

12 November 2012 (F)

age - I have been married to my husband for almost 20 years. I am 48 and he is 65! I recently found out he had been seeing this girl in her 20's "off and on" (whatever that means) for 14 years! They hooked up when she was 17 years old! I never suspected a thing. I was running ... (544 words)

Drunken one nite stand is threatening to tell my girlfriend what happened!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4386 days ago

12 November 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing my girlfriend for just over a year, I love her to bits. About 4-months ago I had a one night stand, not full blown sex but heavy fondling. I'd drunk wayyy too much. Halfway through I came to my senses stopped and went home. The next day I felt sick at wha... (270 words)

What do you do when everyone around you is happy and you arent?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

12 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Why is it that everyone around me either getting engaged getting married having a baby or their pregnant, although I am happy for them it's really hard to be happy when I'm 29 years old and I'm not married or engaged or anything, I'm a single mother 2 children and recently me ... (114 words)

How can I get over my nervousness and do sexual things to my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

12 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - How can get over my nerves in the bedroom and get some confidence? I've been with my partner a while now and the sex is great between us, hes incredible at everthing he does and I want to return the favour but I get so nervous I chicken out. I feel like im selfish as he spends ... (173 words)

Our female room mate who has a crush on my boyfriend walked by our room naked last night!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

12 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So this situation is kind of awkward. My bf and I recently got a new roommate. She is fine most of the time, but she kind of had/has a crush on my bf (he thought she was cute in the past, but is totally over it), and used to flirt with him a lot. I talked to her, and she ... (230 words)

He keeps our relationship a secret. Is he ashamed of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4391 days ago

12 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a residential college and I have known this guy for 2 years, so when we moved into the college sparks started and now we're seeing eachother The problem is that from the start he's told me he's been hurt in the past, and that he will never go out with me officially, s... (304 words)

I have to break up with him but I don't know how to!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

12 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Well, how to begin... I am 26. year old woman who is in love with man 25 years older than me. So we met in very strange way and we loved each other from the first moment we shook hands. He is from another country and we have seen each other not often, but we still love each ... (149 words)

Depressed at 23, my life is going nowhere

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

12 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 23 and feel like my life is going absolutely nowhere, I left school at 15 with decent grades, enough to take any college course I wanted, but instead went out and have since worked a number of dead end jobs with no prospects, all physical work which I don't like. My problem ... (157 words)

His comment has damaged my self esteem. What should I do now?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

12 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Basically, my crush called me ugly indirectly a few days back. He did indeed mention that he was joking, however, this is not the first time something like this has happened. It really crushed my self esteem, especially since they were talking about other girls(including mr). ... (194 words)

How did this guy turn into such a cold, uncaring, cynical person? And what do I do? Avoid him all together? Or keep polite, abrupt messages?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

12 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Where do I even start? Two and a half years ago, I met a guy through a mutual friend. He and I became good friends. A few months later, we ended up having a few dates and a few kisses over the period of about a month. This time was wonderful: he would turn up with 50 roses, buy ... (1160 words)

Watching Pornography in a relationship. Is it unfair or fun?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

12 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i want to ask this question and i want your opinions. I hate my boyfriends watching porn when they are having a relationship with me, what i wanted to know was is there such thing as a man who is not that fussed by it? Who would just take it or leave it and not do it if you ... (80 words)

How do I keep him interested in me? I don't know anything about dating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

12 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14 and in 10th grade. I am a year younger than most of my classmates already because I was home schooled through 8th grade, so this is only my second year of public school, and I wasn't allowed to date last year, and now I can date but I can't make out, but I still haven't ... (403 words)

Do guys really prefer girls with long hair?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

12 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - do guys really prefer girls with long hair? I have really long dark hair down to my waist, but most the time I leave it naturally curly/wavy because it looks nicer and has more texture. But the amount of guys who mention my hair on a night out is strange!! I never expect a guy ... (198 words)

Would you break up with someone over something like this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

12 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriends exes have all looked very similar, tall, very thin with a flat chest. He's not particularly tall, 5'10''. I'm quite short, I have broad shoulders, big boobs, but small waist and hips with muscly thighs. I'm not fat so I don't have body confidence issues, well ... (170 words)

Do you prefer texting or calling?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

12 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I need to ask all you agony aunts if you prefer texting or calling? I personally prefer texting,like if someone calls me I don't like it,I just don't answer and text that person..cuz I'm more comfortable texting!you know with calling sometimes you have those a... (82 words)

Why was he so harsh towards me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

12 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 24 years old. I posted a question on here a while back, about my guy best friend ditching me because of his jealous girlfiend. I have a similar situation now and I need advice on what to do! He got back in touch with me about 4 weeks ago, he said he was really sorry for... (465 words)

I am getting fed up with my boyfriends ex wife

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

12 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am getting fed up with my boyfriends ex wife. She is too dependent on him for jobs and advice and see`s him as her best friend. Yes, granted, I think if there was any chance of getting him back she wouldnt waste a moment. I have told him my thoughts but he seems too blind and ... (117 words)

Out of curiosity, how do you react when you kiss someone new?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4391 days ago

12 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - For all of you out there who are single and are always in and out of relationships, how do you react when you get kissed by someone new for the first time. Y'see I'm meeting up with some guy tonight and I'm hoping it ends with a kiss, but it's been so long kissing someone new, ... (159 words)

I want to date the girl I have always liked, but my ex suspected there was something going on so I don't want her to get the wrong end of the stick!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

12 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex (mentioned in previous question) have no decided not to carry on our relationship as it would be unfair on everyone with our constant arguing. There is a barmaid at my local who I have always liked who ended up dating a guy, naturally I was jealous of this.... (171 words)

My boyfriend never compliments me, and I'm becoming overly jealous over his friendships with other girls! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

12 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So I have been dating this guy for about 2 weeks now, but we have been friends since 5th grade. He's Russian and though he was born here he acts very much like his father who is a pure blood russian that litterally came 2 America from russia. So my friend kind of inherited the ... (515 words)

Not ready for a physical relationship - are my fears justified? Will I get left behind?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

12 November 2012 (M) age 30-35 - I'm afraid that i am being left behind because i am not ready for a physical relationship with a girl and that by the time i am ready the experience gap between me and everyone else will be too large to cross. i don't think that a girl/woman will be patient with me or faithful ... (85 words)

Sleeping with my friend who I want a relationship with, but he is not being honest with me about what he wants!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

12 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok my question I have is about a guy who has become a great friend in my life over the past 4 months. About a couple of weeks ago we slept together and I was ok with it. Than it happened again. I have realized in the meantime that I would sometime like to start a relationship ... (193 words)

Is my girlfriend into this other guy? Is it reasonable for me to feel jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4391 days ago

12 November 2012 (M)

age 22-25 - I have been going out with my girlfriend for a little over a year and I think she may be into another guy. I'm usually not jealous and don't know why I'm starting now. Whenever I havea hunch like this I am usually right. He has an Orchestra class with her and I know nothing ... (155 words)

Was this a drunken one off, or should I pursue her further despite her having a boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

12 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - At the beginning of the semester I became good friends with a girl that I met. We hung out for the first couple of weeks and during one drunken night, I told her that I was beginning to develop feeling for her. She has a boyfriend and I told her this knowing that he was very ... (550 words)

Boyfriend going through existential crisis. How Can I Help him & Our Relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

12 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know where to begin...well my boyfriend and I have been together for just over 2 years. Everything has been amazing, he's everything I've ever wanted in a guy and so much more. We have talked about a future together, getting married, kids, everything. He even gave me a ... (1110 words)

How can I take this slow and make sure it lasts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4391 days ago

12 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone So I've recently been talking again with my ex who i dated over 2 years ago. Back then she was a senior in high school and i was a much more emotional sensitive guy. Now both of our emotions have balanced out a bit and we have both learned and experienced othe... (298 words)

My girlfriend wants to remain a virgin until marriage, but what if she breaks up with me and has sex with the next guy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

12 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend and i have been dating a year now, but she still a virgin at the age of 25. we fool around alot and i go down on her and give her alot of orgasms and my finger gets more sex than me and i havn't had sex for over a year. problem i have is that she dont want to ... (124 words)

I've fallen in love with my older brother's girlfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

12 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, well all type this kind of long and kind of short so fell free for any advice. Well, I think I'm falling in love with my older brothers gf. It did not happen at first, I really love this girl. I don't know how to deal with my feelings any more about love, because I have b... (230 words)

Should I stay with a violent husband for the sake of the children?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

12 November 2012 (F)

age - My husband has violent outbursts about 3 -4 times a year. Something small will usually set him off, but everyone in the family knows to run for cover. I have three children (8,11,13) who have witnessed him exploding in a rage. The last time it happened because I lost the ... (193 words)

Is he interested in me and if so how do I let him know I'm interested too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

12 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, basically I am not sure if this guy likes me. I've never had a boyfriend before and never really had a "crush" on anyone until recently. I started uni two months ago and that's when I met him - through a society. I'm ridiculously shy which is annoying but I've came ... (605 words)

My girlfriend broke up with me for interfering with her job

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

12 November 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi There, I wanted to get your advice about a bad breakup I’m currently going through. I started dating my co-worker after I resigned from the company. Even before I resigned her work schedule bothered me. Our manager would call, text, and IM her at very late hours talking ab... (455 words)

Should I respect my parents or try to make my boyfriend happy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

12 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years and we've had a few major hiccups along the way but we've always weathered through. One of our main arguments is that I don't sleep over at his house unless my parents are away. My parents are asian and my mom is Catholic ... (482 words)

How do I cope with boyfriend being 4 hours away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

12 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend wants to go to university that is about 4 hours or so away, and I don't know how to deal with it!!! I have jealousy issuses and I am easily depressed so I don't know how well I will deal with this. I new ways of copeing with that far that he will be gone. Any ... (59 words)

How can I get to know someone in a professional manner?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

12 November 2012 (F) age 36-40 - I want some advice on how I should go about getting to know someone at work in a professional manner, without appearing too forthright and desperate. I have been hopelessly in love with a guy from work probably since the first few times I laid my eyes on him. I knew imme... (234 words)

How to get my wife in a thong

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

12 November 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Trying to get my wife to wear anything even a little sexy to bed. Nothing elaborate- would be thrilled for 5 min in a thong or anything beside cotton boring briefs. Been married 15 years- she is beautiful. Don't feel like this should be asking for the world. Otherwise great ... (71 words)

Can anyone give advice about facebook features?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

12 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey the new facebook 'seen' feature has me in a quandry. Looked up and messaged an ex boyfriend, no reply, was surprised then saw recently that it was never 'seen'. What now? Is this feature reliable? Don't want to message again in case it was seen and he doesn't want to g... (65 words)