A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:HelloFor 10 days ago I talked to a guy on a dating site and he became interested directly. He said it many times and complemented me a lot and he said that he talked to a lot girls on the dating site but didnt like them he did only for fun and then he found me and he said that I am different and that I look good and that I am very interesting and very good etcHe asked for my facebook and added me directly. The days after we chatted and he even more interested etcThen One day before his bithday we chatted on facebook, and he was very interested but in the end of the chat I asked him a question but he didnt answer.The day after was his birthday and I send him a said congrats on his facebook wall and send him a private message to his facebook and told him as a birtday gift I invite him for luch or dinner in a restaurant. And asked him what he think about it, and then I told what I wrote some jokes especially to him to make him happy on his birthday. And now it went 4 days and he didnt answer this my private message.Why didnt he answer me until now? What shall I do? Isnt he interested? Did he lie?Thanks for help!
View related questions:
facebook Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Staceily +, writes (6 November 2012):
 Why didn't he answer? We can't say, could be many reasons. You have never actually met him so you don't truly know him to know what could be going on. Likely it has nothing to do with anything you did.
What do you do now? Don't message him again! You have sent enough, he has seen them and chose not to respond. Sending any more will make you seem desperate. You don't need to chase a guy who isn't interested. Let him go, leave it alone and chalk it up to a fleeting fling.
Did he lie? To be honest he isn't genuine and is most likely a player. He told you he has been on the site but doesn't like anyone else, only checked it out for fun, but you are something special and different. Please, he hasn't even met you yet he is telling you that you are someone truly special and different? He's saying what you want to hear and has probably sent an identical message to many other girls. Don't take what a guy says online at face value. He probably isn't responding to you because he met someone else to fall for his lines even easier. Again just chalk it up to a charismatic charmer and move on.
A
female
reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (6 November 2012):
 yep his interest has gone.
it's probably nothing you did... it's just him.
what should you do... you move on.... you do nothing... if he contacts you then you have to decide if you want to risk meeting him.
...............................
A
male
reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (6 November 2012):
 Remember: Until you meet him in the flesh.. who you are communicating with, electronically, could be ANYBODY. This "person" sounds like an experienced player... so I suggest that you proceed with caution, if at all....
Good luck...
...............................
|
