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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He asked for my number but hasn't called!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Friday night, as I was leaving the bar, a cute guy I had DEFINITELY noticed, who had introduced himself to me that night (but we were never really able to have a conversation), hurried over and tapped on my driver's side window. He said he something along the lines of: "Sor... (294 words)

Friendship vs relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So basically I want your opinions on whether or not I'm wasting my time. So pretty much my best friend and I have an unspoken of relationship, and its really starting to bother me. A few months ago we finally established that both of us had feelings and it was nice for a few da... (285 words)

He says he sees no future for us! So what the hell is wrong with me that I can't leave him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I'm with a guy for 2 years, I love him, he says he does love me but also says there is no future for us since he does not want to be married to someone older than him for 5 years. 1) often talks about his marriage and talks abou how beautiful that girl is gonna be... (282 words)

Boyfriend has cut me off from male friends but he is making female friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am living with my boyfriend for about 3months and he has made me cut most of my male friends just because he thinks am close to them..now I see him making new female friends and getting close to them also..I asked him about it and he said that sometimes he needs someone to ... (104 words)

How do I dress for a date at the pub?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a date next friday night, we're going to the pub and i don't know how i should dress for it? I don't want to look too over-dressed, but i don't want to look like i haven't made the effort either! I was thinking of skinny jeans and a simple top, very simple in fact. It ... (190 words)

Do I sound like a guy that girls would want to date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Girls, do I seem attractive? I'm a sweetheart, very smart, fun, strong, good hugger, tough, confident and I'm very independent. Sometimes people say that I'm very handsome. I believe when ever I get a girlfriend, she'll be the best thing that will ever happen to me. I never h... (115 words)

Do I stick with a guy who lies because he feels inadequate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello Dear Cupids so I have a problem I need help with. Do I stick with a guy I have known for only a month, who sometimes feels the need to lie to try and impress people because he feels inadequate about himself. OR do I go back to basics. have no strings ... (150 words)

Why did he break up with me? No one can figure it out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Background:keep in mind during this that my boyfriend is 22, a county cop, and raised really well off( his mom is seriously loaded). PRIOR to me he dated a girl for 3 yrs, they were having problems so he ended up getting engaged still had problems(such as cussing his mom, and ... (1445 words)

Am I really the bad guy here??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have two relatives that got pregnant on purpose knowing they had no way to support these babies.. Then to top that off they got pregnant again. They both have two kids living off the Gov for their housing and every other benefit they can get from the Gov. Neither one makes ... (250 words)

I always end up loving people who I shouldn't be in love with

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like I always end up loving people who I shouldn't be in love with... Well, recently got a nose job and it meant the world to me. I know that I am one of many patients....I mean come on he's way older than me and has a wife and a child anyway. I just hate it that ... (143 words)

Boyfriend had anal with me without asking first. Should I be freaked out?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4384 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and love each other very much. We're very serious and have been making plans live together this summer. We have a great sex life-- we've very open with each other and I trust him. However, I can't get this... (410 words)

Can I get pregnant having sex while on my period, even if I use a condom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I got my period this weekend (Saturday 17/11/2012) by Thursday (22/11/2012) it will end. Okay so my question is can i get pregnant if i have sex using a condom (one or a few days after my period ended)? I'm still a virgin and i'm not on the pill or using any other ... (55 words)

In a complicated physical relationship with my Professor. I love him but he doesn't love me. Any solutions or advise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 years old and recently I got a physical relationship with my professor who is about 16 years older than me. I can't prevent myself when he comes closer or touches or kisses me. He is very serious about study and concerned about the careers of the students. He is very ... (153 words)

Should I try to contact this model? I don't know him but I'd like to get to know him, maybe have a relationship.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4384 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 25 yr old woman, I'm attracted to a male model, He's gorgeous! The guy isn't a well known model, so it's not like he might have a massive ego. The pictures of him are 2 years old and it doesn't seem like he has had any new work as a model. I want to get to know him mayb... (181 words)

Does my ex want to make another go of it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i need some advice. I have been split up with my ex since the summer, we have been sleeping with each other on/off since then. We both seen other people but on both sides its fizzled out. I'm confused, he's making more of an effort now texting now and again, hanging a... (121 words)

He told me I may not be the one he wants but I'm the one he needs!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - The title says it all. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about six months and we've been recently having fights about the direction of our relationship. He always tells me how beautiful I am and how much he loves me and is in love with me. But the other night... (278 words)

Is this guy in to me? Does he want to meet? I'm always the first to text.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4384 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I met this guy online he is 20 and I an 17 and yeah I know I should not be chatting to guys online. So after a few hours of chatting we swapping numbers and chat on whatsapp. I told him my age, he does not min, he says I am stunning and how can a girl like me not have a b... (390 words)

He went from wanting to date me to not wanting me at all in just a few days??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am just so confused at the moment. I met this guy a few weeks ago while at an event I was working at and he was attending. We got talking and at the end he gave me his phone number as in his words if I was interested I could contact him and he didn't want to take my number ... (601 words)

In the UK can you date your step sister?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - is it against the law for you and your step sister to be boyfriend and girlfriend in the uk... (19 words)

I'm in love with a man but my family is planning an arranged marriage for me with another man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi.I m a bit shy gal nd love a guy onli9.I m unmarried nd never been in relationship wid any guy.Just he is d first guy of my life nd my love for him is deep.But d problem is dat we r from different country,same religion.He is indian nd me paki.I wanna marry him but dont know ... (104 words)

LDR is causing problems and I don't know where my boyfriend stands

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - After a relationship with a jerk I got this amazing bf.He is everything I wanted him to be. Unfortunately we are in 'your sunset my sunrise' far away places. Earlier it was fine but now with 6 months of LDR and things are getting ugly.We didn't have any major fights until lat... (204 words)

After dating he said he wanted to be friends but he ignores me. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am so confused by this mans actions and hoping someone can shed some light on it. I was in a relationship with a man for 9 months, we mutually decided we could not be together long term but he was adamant he wanted to stay friends. I couldn't initially as I felt too much for... (219 words)

I'd like to get this man out of my heart, his actions confuse and hurt me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age - I had a 'phone relationship' with an old college friend (I was somewhat involved with back in 1984) which lasted 5 months. Back in May he was supposed to visit me (first time we would have seen each other in 30 years), when he canceled at the very last minute. Some weeks ... (511 words)

I was sexually abused and now don't want to be touched or kissed by men. Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had a boyfriend for a few weeks now and he wants to be intimate with me. The problem is I really don't like being touched or even kissed. I have suffered from sexual abuse a few years ago, which might be a factor. But when I had boyfriends before that event, I still ... (203 words)

Will the doctor be able to tell that I was sexually active a month ago?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so, I know this may not be the right place for this. But, I really need and answer. Alright so my parents are taking me Tuesday to get a Pap and get me on birth control. My only worry is that my parents said they're gonna have my doctor check and tell them if I'm sexually ... (112 words)

Am I wrong for not wanting to date men with financial problems? My parents say I'll never find anyone!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4384 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I m being told for the past few years that I my attitude is wrong toward men and their financial situation. What do you think after I tell you my story? I m a professional woman with a good job that let's me have. Comfortable life with a nice place to live, some money i... (346 words)

I have many questions about sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I often visit this web and see how many problems have people with their relationship and sex. That's why I decided to ask few question and your ansewer are highly apprechiate. 1.How often you have sex per week, and which one of you initiate it? 2.How many times you reach ... (111 words)

How can you feel good about yourself when others are better than you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - How do you feel good about yourself when so many people you know are better than you? and how do you not lose hope when your whole and honest efforts keep amounting to naught?... (34 words)

I think he stole my bracelet

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age - Over a year ago, I found my favorite bracelet, a diamond cuff bracelet missing. It was hidden in the side pocket of my suitcase, which was in my bedroom. I keep my bedroom locked when I'm not there. My boyfriend moved in with me about a month before I found the bracelet ... (199 words)

Has anyone else been in a trouble relationship with a bipolar person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, Call me stupid but I was in a relationship with a man who was bipolar and I dint realise it until late.. But one night he wwas furious cause I got home late(we stay together)and he was like where have you been,can't u answer your phone and I apologised and h... (215 words)

How do I start speaking to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this guy at collage and he gets my train, we always end up sitting near each other, he gets on at my stop but I'm always with friends. I've realized he sits by where I leave my book. How do I start speaking to him? Do I tell him his work is good or? It's harder then it ... (60 words)

How do you date and keep a man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in my early twenties and I have had two serious relationships before. As I am trying to look for someone and just when I think I have found him, he seems to be a ladies' man, leaving me little to no hope. When your love is not reciprocated, should you stop initiating all ... (181 words)

Why is he looking for so many women to date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am very frustrated with a man I have been seeing. He's older and divorced. I can't understand how he'd text other women while being on a date with me, of course when I was looking elsewhere. When we're apart, he rarely texts me. Makes me think of how other women might be more ... (191 words)

Do biological fathers step out of their children's lives when a stepfather is on the scene?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is always talking about us having beautiful children together. Is it OK when he has no emotional connection to his 14 year old son? He used to take him presents and take him out but the boy's mother apparently used him as a pawn to get to my boyfriend. He said he ... (368 words)

I have a boyfriend and too many flirting friends that are boys! Help!

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18 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - okayy...my social life is messed up!! but... I have a boyfriend yes I know I love him so much but yet again I feel he is'nt that into me anymore - dying!!!!!!!! and I have made friends with a few of his mates lets call them J, Jam and R. R is the one who I have got quite ... (360 words)

I told my friend I only liked him as a friend and now he's avoiding me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 23 year-old woman who's been facing a weird problem of late. One of my close male friends had recently expressed his fondness for me and politely I've let him know that I only consider him a friend and like him ONLY that way(NB:I'm in a relationship since two years and he ... (161 words)

My friend told others that he "had me in the palm of his hand". I called him out on it and now he says he only likes me as a friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have met a guy at college and we hit it off straight away. It's the first time I've found a guy with the same interests and we even seem to have the same way of thinking and insecurities. It's strange. He does things like carry my bags and he gave me his jacket and every... (331 words)

My boyfriend is the nicest guy when he's not drinking!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is a British soldier who has served in Afghanistan twice and Iraq I know he has seen some terrible things as my brother is also in the army with him and has told me some of the horrors they've witnessed including their best friend being blown up in front of them ... (325 words)

My boyfriend's constant need to always be right about everything is really putting me down.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years. We are in our late twenties. We have our good and bad times, but other that than the relationship is good, and I love him very much. We have quite a few issues to work on together, one of which is that we are both very stubborn! I like ... (508 words)

Can you trust a man who just lied to you about who he is? I feel like we are meant to be. Am I fooling myself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - OK.. today I learned that the man I was dating in a LDR lied to me about who he was, where he was from, etc... he ended the relationship 2 months ago but he has been in contact with me over these two months because he said he really misses me and loves me. I fell in love... (246 words)

Is this LDR viable? He assures me he loves and adores me. I'm having second thoughts.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I met online in January a doctor in Mexico and we became friends over email, he is intelligent and interesting and was Good company. I have been going through many very difficult and unusual family Challenges and I wanted to get away for a little on my own (first time in 20... (632 words)

I do think he's cheating on me again. Should I believe him and trust him still?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4386 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have no clue what to do. In August my now boyfriend went of to college - the same one that I used to go to. Before he left we were together for 3 months and he said that he loved me and I loved him back. So anyways a week or two after he left. My best friend informed me ... (199 words)

How can I make him commit to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4386 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age - I am emotionally drained. I love someone who I have a child with. We have a 27year old on and off love affair. He always says his life is to complicated to commite to anyone. But continues to want to spend time with me. I'm not fulfill with this. I wanna be happy! Iiwish ... (165 words)

Is this how a girl with a crush on me behaves? She goes silent and acts weird around me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I would like some help reading this girl. A couple of her friends have told me on different occasions that she likes me. However when I'm around she doesn't talk to me that often and acts a little weird around me. Is this a normal thing for girls to do or are they messing ... (55 words)

I'm have sexual problems with my Bf and if I try to discuss it he gets sulky - so should I stay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, this is a bit complicated but I will try my best... I am 30 and have a boyfriend who is 32. We have been together for a year and a half now. Started as friends and FWB and it wasn't supposed to go further then that but we get along very well and spent all our free ... (334 words)

I'm just so hurt to be walked all over by not one, but two men!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4386 days ago

18 November 2012 (?) age 30-35 - Okay, so, I have a tricky situation. I was in an abusive relationship up until recently (end of October). We got into a HUGE fight (physical and emotional) and here's where I'm lost... my ex hasn't even tried contacting me to apologize or get his things. I love him still, sure- ... (496 words)

Will I make a fool of my self if I try to fix this relationship? Or should I just walk away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex and current guy i was dating became good friends. i have done something so terrible. i recently came out of a long relationship with my ex and fell in love with someone else. he was a really nice guy he really really was in love with me. he did everything to make me happ... (406 words)

My longtime unrequited crush on my friend is starting to damage our friendship. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 and so is my friend. We are both in college, and we have been friends for about a year. I’ve had a thing for him for almost that long. I kept quiet about it for a while, but then in the spring I asked him what his feelings were. He wasn’t interested, but we continued ... (321 words)