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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I shake off this feeling that he does not love me? Could be be using me for something else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am seeing a man from Africa. I don't know how he feels about me nowadays. Nor if he loves me. We only see each other once a week. I am american and am used to a lot of attention when I am in a romantic relationship. He works and goes to school full time learning and en... (95 words)

Truly? Is this relationship going to work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

30 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've recently started dating this guy who is 2 years younger than me. I'm 17, and he's 15. Now, I don't normally go for younger guys. In fact, for the past 4 years I have been in love with a man who is 9 years older than me. My current boyfriend knows that fact as well. ... (687 words)

Was I wrong to ask if she would mind scanning her notes? And why did she say yes, and then not bother? And now ignores me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

30 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to share this with you people and please give me your opinion I need some help here Thanks :). Ok so I started a course on July, its only 2 times a week and since the first day I've been talking to 2 girls that seemed to be friendly, I also talked to a guy but he left ... (403 words)

Maybe I shouldn't have gone looking for proof. Should I now ask my Mom if it's true about her former job in pornography?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

30 November 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I just found out that my mom is or used to be a porn star. Although, I've heard about this from my cousins who I meet once a year on thanksgiving. Naturally, I thought that was lies, and figured that they were just trying to mess with my head. They often do that. So, I tho... (180 words)

What's wrong with this guy!? Why does he keep being hot and then cold?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

30 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend told this guy I like him. Ever since then, he's been staring at me, flirting with me, calling me pet names. Usually, this is the type of thing that would make a girl think that a guy is into her. But last I heard, he was still hung up on his ex. He told me he'... (224 words)

Her actions feel disrespectful. Do her actions suggest that she is not as committed to me, as I have felt towards her?

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30 November 2012 (M) age 26-29 - I have been dating my girlfriend for over 2 months. At first everything was great, but now I'm not so sure. Things are off and on. One day she loves me the next she hates me. The only way she will ever say "I love you" is if I say it first. She also seems to always be inter... (199 words)

The guy I'm just starting to date may have given me strep throat. Should I tell him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

30 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this crush on a guy who I think gave me strep throat about a month ago when we hung out. How do I tell him? What if I'm wrong? I met this guy this past summer at an event. He body painted me and we became friends on facebook and I finally got a chance to hang out with ... (487 words)

Should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) age 26-29 - I am have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for two months, and things have been going a little off and on, One second she will act like I'm the best guy ever, the next she hates me. On top of that I catch her in lies all the time. She seems so excited to go spend ti... (87 words)

He got a stripper pregnant, and is staying with her but says he still loves me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

30 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My exboyfriend first cheated on me with a stripper, then lied to me saying that he longer had connections with her. Within 3 months the stripper is suppose to be pregnant with his child, and now it has been 5 months and she claims they are married. He denies a marriage, but ... (131 words)

Something tells me I can't trust her as much as I'd like.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 November 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a male in my mid 40s dating a woman about my age for about a year. We met online and we hit it off right away. I found out about 1-2 months into our relationship that she was still married but keeping her ex temporarily on her medical insurance. She told me this would last ... (298 words)

We were getting along fantastically until I told her how taken I was with her, now I don't hear from her.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

30 November 2012 (M)

age - You guys have prevented me from making some monumental blunders in the past..see some of my past posts..But I've NEVER needed your help more than I do now! Scenario: I live in Wash, DC. I'm cycling back from tennis practice when I hear, from across the street, "Hey, you with... (405 words)

My boyfriend is respectful and caring but indifferent about love, what's the story?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. Whilst he behaves is respectful and caring, he never tells me he loves me, in fact he tells me he doesn't. Should I accept this at face value and leave, or I should be a little patient with him? He treats me with indifference ... (71 words)

Do I need to stop flirting with female friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

30 November 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello, i am feeling guilty because i talk to a girl online through facebook, skype and sometimes over xbox live and i think she likes me where as i just flirt because i like it. i do not mean to sound bad here but i do not find her at all physically attractive but i really like ... (307 words)

What's the difference between sexual attraction and love?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

30 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, Anybody out there that can tell me What the difference is between sexual attraction And love? And doesn't it go hand in hand? Thanks... (31 words)

Our relationship is falling apart since he moved away, is it even worth trying anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend went away for college to play baseball and our relationship is falling apart, is it even worth the heart ache to continue trying? We dated for 2 years in high school, then all of a sudden he broke up with me the summer before we went to college, 3 days before my... (476 words)

He acts like he wouldnt care if I disappeared and I know I need to be more confident and act stronger, any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

30 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I love my boyfriend so much, and really want to keep him and have a life with him. But over the last year i have noticed that i sort of move around him. For example, there was one time when he said he didnt want to be with me, and i tried to say fair enough and let him be, ... (215 words)

Why are married men attracted to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

30 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Well I am going to start off saying this I don't understand why married men seem to be attracted to me I don't flirt with them under no circumstances they seem to aim my way.I am not the one to break no ones home up I don't believe in doing this it is utterly sad .Anyway I ... (197 words)

It seems like my girlfriend is getting too close to her male friend, they act like we did when we first started dating!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend has recently started talking to another guy she goes to school with frequently and I'm beginning to question the truth behind their friendship. She says that he is merely her best guy friend since her and I don't go to the same school, but I've been told by many ... (350 words)

My child's father treated me badly but wants another chance, but I'm with someone new! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - i got involved with a guy in the university and in our final year i got pregnant and asked me to abort and i refused by then i was 29years of age so i told my mum about it an she called him to asked if he knew i was pregnant for him,accepted and that was it. in my all the ... (243 words)

He keeps me hidden from all aspects of his life but I still love him, should I stay or go?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my bf for 1 and 1/2 years. He keeps me hidden from all aspects of his life. He doesnt want me to be around his friends, co-workers or his family. I have only met 3 of his friends and recently met some of his co-workers only because I showed up at a resturant ... (293 words)

I dumped him because of the dating sites, but he's still on them meeting new people! How do I overcome my anger?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

30 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have broke up from a 2 year relationship. It was my decision. He would not stop visiting datimg sites and always lied to me about it or said he went on them because I nagged him all the time. Now, the same account he said wasnt his is still there with his picture up. I know ... (101 words)

What would you think if your other half seeks emotional support from the opposite sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

30 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a boyfriend (tgt about 3 years) and everything seems to work out ok between us. I don't know about other ppl, but I always need to feel "connected" to the one I love by having deep conversations, I love sharing deep thoughts, ideas... etc. I really enjoy talking ... (609 words)

I have been divorced for three years and I'm very frustrated because I cannot find a boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been divorced for three years and i am very frustrated because i cannot find a boyfriend. It is making me feel depressed and undesireable. i am a very shy person so i do not have many friends and i never go out..that is just my personality. a lot of guys try to talk to ... (163 words)

In love with a drug addict

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - there is this guy. he is a couple years younger than me. i'm 22 he is 20. i've known him for about 3 years. he has extreme depression and social anxiety. he is extremely shy and it was a lot of work to build a friendship with him. we have only hung out 3 times. and yet still ... (846 words)

What are my chances? I thought it was mutual love from the start. But is she having doubts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 November 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I met this girl a few months ago love at first site on both sides. She is still married and has a kid with this Guy. He lives in another state so I'm not worries but they saw each other a few weeks ago at their daughter's birthday party and she been acting different every ... (132 words)

Was she testing to see if I'm actually interested? Should I ask her out? Or was she just bored?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been talking to this girl I have known for two years. We have been chatting a lot recently and she has been asking me to meet her. I have been busy so have not been able to. She has been texting me a lot and hints she wants me to take her out. So i make a plan, s... (342 words)

Is it normal for my boyfriend to not take my shirt off when we are getting frisky?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal for my boyfriend to not take my shirt off when we are getting frisky? He loves touching and sucking on my breasts but he will not take my shirt off.Is it because I am unattractive? I asked him about it and he claims he has no idea why he doesn't. Anyone know why or ... (61 words)

Why don't I ever attract girls I want to spend time with? Could my personal issues be a reason some girls avoid me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

30 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I only attract the really weird and creepy ones that I don't find attractive. People have told me that I am really cute and that I can be a guy who girls are attracted to, but that's only a few of my friends because they're people I know and can be normal around. When I'm ... (187 words)

How do I break up with my LDR boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

30 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - We've been together for over a year, and because of this, I believe a text might be really bad. But the problem with that is that it is a long distance relationship, so I can't meet up with him to do it. Also, we very rarely talk on the phone. We're both really busy with things ... (169 words)

I have a boyfriend but I have feelings for a girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

30 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, During my time off school I met a wonderful man who is now my boyfriend. He's a great guy, somewhat older and mature, and understands me better than anyone. Even though I moved to another state, we decided to remain together. We've been together for over a year n... (502 words)

My Bf claims I'm not a REAL girlfriend. Is he right, wrong, or something else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my bf for 2 1/2 years. I'm 22, his 23. He was a sweet guy and totally loveable in the beginning. I'm studying full time and I'm working part time and I currently live with my parents. I pay rent and bills and I'm getting my car soon for my birthday and I'm... (589 words)

He says we have sex less often because I've put on weight. Could this be the real reason?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - hello, i have a problem. i have been with my boyfriend for 7years. we only have sex sometimes once a week or once a month. he says it's because i've gained weight and it feels different. Can this be true? Also i sometimes think he's cheating on me, but i do trust him. Or ca... (80 words)

Intensity? Making the relationship last? I've never managed both.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

30 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - how do you know when you're meant to be with someone? i ask this question because all my life, i've based my relationships on that intense "spark" or connection, which inevitably wears off and we wind up realizing that we have absolutely nothing in common after all is said and ... (281 words)

Why is breaking up like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4405 days ago

30 November 2012 (M)

age 22-25 - So the other day my girlfriend broke up with me. So far I have tried to at least be slightly friendly with her and she has treated me like she doesn't even remember the good times we've had. We share a few mutual friends and they have treated me differently too. Everyone seems ... (117 words)

Honesty, porn -- how do I process my boyfriend's behaviour?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4395 days ago

30 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I have a problem which i would really appreciate it if you helped me out. My problem has been on going on 4 months and i want some clarity as i don't know what to do anymore. My problem first started when i found porn on my boyfriend computer whom i live with... (497 words)