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*ranny1297
writes: why would my crush ignore me, when we talk it's always good. i don't really talk to him anymore, he ignores me, he wont talk to me. i makes me think im not good enough for him, or im too ugly and that there are other prettier girls out there, i've always been nice to him i've been myself. im shy, very shy, and yes i've got to admit that only some conversations we've had were a bit boring, but thats because im shy and like him, has he lost interest? how can i get him talking to me? i have braces and glasses, but im not a nerd, have straight long hair, brown eyes no pimples. i've been patient for so long. am i annoying to him? does he like another? is he trying to get the message that he's not interested? answer truthfully, but no meaness :P thanks xxxx
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reader, franny1297 +, writes (9 November 2012):
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (7 November 2012):
Could be someone told him that you are having a crush on him and he doesn't feel the dame about you.
THAT doesn't mean you aren't pretty enough, good enough, smart enough and so forth. He just isn't into you in the same degree as you are into him.
I would accept that and back off from him. Don't try and accidentally be where he is or follow him around. Pretend he is a bird and you set him free.
Sometimes people we crush on have no idea, sometimes they don't like us back in the same degree, it happens. But instead of beating YOURSELF up over this, accept it. If you don't you are just wasting your time and energy on a boy who doesn't deserve you.
Chin up, honey.
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