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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I was bullied all through school, and now I want to reach out to kids who are in the same situation.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4418 days ago

16 November 2012 (F) age 36-40 - As a child I was bullied terribly throughout school and I feel that nobody done anything to help me. Teachers didnt take me seriously so I gave up asking for help. My friends were too scared incase the bullys turned on them and I didnt want to worry my mum because things at ... (188 words)

I'm sixteen, she's thirteen. Is this too much age difference?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

16 November 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey I'm 16 years old. I just came back from hoilday with my mate and his family. Throughout the hoilday I started to get more attracted to his sister. Problem is she is 13 and I'm 16. Her personality is what I like in a girl everything she like I do as well and I think she most ... (75 words)

I broke up with him because of his behavior. Have I overreacted?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

16 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in college living on campus with my friends in an aparment and I've been in a relationship for almost four years now and I've finally had enough of the stuff that he put me though so I broke up with him. He has almost expected me to be there at his becking call and to wait ... (381 words)

Does he know I have a crush on him, and is there anyway to suppress these feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4416 days ago

16 November 2012 (?) age 26-29 - Okay, so I'm 16 and i have just started college and one of my subjects is History. I have from the moment I walked into his classroom had a MASSIVE crush on him. I can't concentrate in class when he's around and when he asks me a question I get really flustered and nervous ... (187 words)

Why do men distance themselves when they are so into you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

16 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, My question is about why men distance themselves when they are so into you? I know for sure he likes me so much, but always keeps a guard up with me. He is shy and talks and acts nervous around me. He is 39 so not a boy. By now he should be able to talk to women ... (118 words)

I really like him, but I'm not sure if he's interested

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

16 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy I like at my school. I'm 20 and he's 21. The first time I spoke to him he was very nervous and fidgety. I was walking and talking with him but out of nowhere he just walked away in the middle of the conversation still smiling. I was a little hurt by what he ... (539 words)

How do you go from a drug fueled intense relationship to something normal? Am I weird for still wanting my ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

16 November 2012 (F) age 36-40 - My life is going a bit out of control. My ex got me into taking drugs. When we took this we had such incredible sex, sometimes for 8 hours. I'm not saying its his fault that I took them because everyone can make up their minds about taking things. I was in a bad place when we ... (302 words)

Child's father's wife is trying to raise my child!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

16 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, My problem is with my child's father's wife. I don't mind her being a part of my child's life because that is his child. The problem is that when it comes to communicating with him about our daughter, she speaks as though she is the father. I have been cordial about her ... (168 words)

We flirt a lot but when I ask him to go out on a date he bails on me. Should I ask him out or is he playing with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

16 November 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi I posted on to this site about a situation that has stayed the same for about a year and it is about this one boy who i have had a crush on for years now, we have both come out as he is gay and i am a bisexual. i told him that i have liked him for ages and we talked and th... (198 words)

My brother in law is on drugs and we want to help, but he has said he is in love with me. Would inviting him here help or make things worse?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3636 days ago

16 November 2012 (?) age 41-50 - My brother in law has went off the deep end with drugs. He's lost his job, no money, his mom and brother kicked him out. He's alone and messed up. My husband (his brother) and I want to help him. I've called around to rehabs and im trying to find help. I want my husband to ... (218 words)

Why does my boyfriend contradict himself? Sometimes he is downright insulting and mean.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4418 days ago

16 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does my boyfriend contradict his own thoughts and words? Let me explain. We've been together for just over a year and a half. our relationship was really tough to keep together since day one because our families didnt accept the relationship.. now they do so its easier to ... (448 words)

After dating for 2 months my boyfriend became my boss. Now I am worried we will be found out. How do we keep this under wraps?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4418 days ago

16 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, please please help me. Half a year ago I met a man and we started dating. Two months later, he became my boss. We've continued seeing each other but its so hard and we're both scared to death of getting caught. Me changing departments won't work at all because he's very ... (178 words)

I haven't seen my partner in 3 weeks due to work, when he got back he chose to see his friends! What could be wrong and why go out with them over me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4417 days ago

16 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner and I have been together for just over 3 years. We are expecting our first baby in march. We had some problems concieving our baby so it is very precious to us . My partner works away all week and comes home for the weekend. The last 3 weekends he has had to work so ... (171 words)

My boyfriend didn't get me a gift for my birthday! Am I being selfish and demanding?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

16 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Yesterday was my 25th birthday. And my boyfriend of almost a year didn't get me anything. No flower. No card. No gift. He's 33 years old, has a good job and can certainly afford it. We went to Chili's for dinner, and I waited all night for him to give me something, anything, to ... (232 words)

My boyfriend and I think we're ready for a baby-but what would our families think of pregnancy at 19???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4394 days ago

16 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, however we have known each other for 8. I am moving in with my boyfriend in the next month and we've been speaking about getting pregnant. I know I'm only 19, but I don't go out clubbing with my friends, neither does he. We c... (104 words)

Do people really need porn to be stimulated or is it just an excuse to look at someone naked?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

16 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a question about porn, do they really need it to get stimulated or is it just an excuse to look at someone else during a relationship? Is that why some people don't request a picture of their partners to use? ... (42 words)

Do any girls have good suggestions for longer lasting hair removal that will make my hair softer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

16 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, this is one for the Aunts. I have been using a basic razor for all hair removals and occansionally I use hair removal creams. Do any of you girls have better suggestions for a softer, cleaner, longer lasting shave for legs, underarm hair and the bikini line? I'v... (142 words)

What is this bad smell coming from my arm pits? I clean but it is still there, help!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

16 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - It comes from my arm pits. It is not as bad-smelling as sweat. But, it does still stink. Could it be my own personal scent? If so, why am I picking it up? I can smell it evdnafter having taking a shower. And, yes, I clean both arm pits with soap. A lot. And, I still smell it... (85 words)

He wants us to last-but he doesn't give me the affection I truly need!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4418 days ago

16 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello to all of you and thank you very much for your answers. Well, my problem is that I'm actually going out with a person who is not very affectionate with me. We are still early in our relationship and we would not have sex for many days. This situation does not seem to ... (156 words)

I push friends away even though I want them. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

16 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I feel like I've totally screwed up my life. I don't have any friends in my area. I always hide behind work. At work I'm very sociable and bubbly but when they ask me out I don't want to go. I don't want anyone getting close to me although deep down of course I do. I feel like ... (304 words)

Both these guys were once very important to me. Is it normal that I still care about them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

16 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Despite first impression, i'm not easy. I'm very picky i have somewhat standard. Sadly i'm also very sensitive person, so when do find some i really like, i make the mistake of giving my heart to easily. Even though i never been in a relationship, however with one or two i've... (436 words)

I love him so much. But is lack of money our real problem in this LDR? Or are there other things to consider?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

16 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - First off I will say that my friend of 8 years has told me he loves me for all of the things we have in common, values, beliefs, understanding and acceptance of each others past and present we were raised similar, everything . I love him to bits, always have and it made me so ... (444 words)

Is he gambling? Having an affair? Something's wrong and I know he's been lying to me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

16 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I think I'm at my wits' end with my husband. We've had issues for a few years now (he was emotionally abusive towards my children and I), and went to counseling for it. He was told to get on meds for his temper. He did. However, that was back in February. He's only refill... (438 words)

I made a stupid mistake. How can I make things right again?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

16 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My problem started last week, i made a stupid mistake a really stupid mistake.something i thought i would never do.and i regret it with all my heart . the only problem is that what i did affected someone very very close to me and no matter how many times i say i am sorry i... (310 words)

My boyfriend says I keep him on the straight and narrow. When I'm not around he's out drinking with friends

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

16 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend is lovely to hang out with, but if he's not with me, he just goes into town and spends the evening drinking. Yesterday I was with him and he was saying he was still poorly so didn't want to do much. But he was just hungover from two days previously ( it was a heavy ... (520 words)

I found email my b/f wrote to his ex before we met and now I can't believe anything he has ever told me!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

16 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in a relationship with my fiance for 3 years now and we have a 14 month old child together. When we met he'd not long come out of a relationship and told me he'd been with the girl for a couple of years and she'd manipulated him into moving in together by giving up ... (1107 words)

Is it better to lose your virginity to another virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

16 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a couple different questions here. 1. Do you think it is better to lose your virginity to another virgin, or to someone who knows what they are doing in the bedroom? Why do you think either way is better? 2. Is it creepy for a 22 year old guy to be spending a lot... (147 words)

Her actions speak louder than her words but does she want to get back together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

16 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So my ex and I broke up about a month ago. It got pretty ugly and ended with name calling ect. I left her. We went a week without talking and she finally contacts me. She tells me she's over me and tthanks for making me a stronger person. Well a.few nights later we talk a ... (711 words)

Girlfriend is Jealous of My Success

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

16 November 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend is extremely competitive with regard to academic and professional success. She claims that she is "happy" for me, but makes snide remarks and tries to diminish my accomplishments. When I bring it up to her attention that I feel that she is being overly ... (270 words)

My boyfriend is selfish for not giving me longer foreplay

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

16 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've complained to my boyfriend that he is a selfish lover for not giving me longer foreplay. I even stopped giving him sex because he only sucks my breasts for less than a min. He says that i am too demanding, but he wants me to grab his balls or hold his penis non stop why ... (120 words)

Do I really like my one friend if I'm not sure I'm over my other friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4412 days ago

16 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I am very sorry if this is complicated. I tried my best to explain. so My questions are: How can I know if I'm really over the friend I like? I have had feelings for a friend of mine for about 3 years I don't know If I'm over her or just telling myself I am. Ho... (268 words)

My husband talked about me to his female friends and now I don't trust him and feel disrespected

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

16 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Need advise please, I'm a very happy person with 3 kids until one of my husband female friends decided to email my husband on an email we both get acsess to badmouthing me "his wife" trying to tell him I'm crazy jelous...., I confronted him about it cause I wanted to know why ... (433 words)

Should I bring my boyfriend to my house for thanksgiving? He cheated and my family will probably be mean to him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

16 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So, it's almost the holidays and my boyfriend is coming to my place for the holidays. But, I'm going to my cousins house for thanksgiving dinner, and he's not doing anything considering his family doesn't really do anything. But, my family knows that he cheated on me awhile ... (117 words)

Would it be alright to invite a platonic lady friend to my office party?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

16 November 2012 (M)

age - I am in the final stages of ending my 31 year marriage to the love of my life. While the marriage is over the friendship is not but I am trying to find a way to afford for me to not live in the same house as her for reasons not relavant to this question (it would help preserve... (414 words)

I want to hang out with my girlfriend more

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4414 days ago

16 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I rarely see my gf outside of school, cause i'm always busy or my parents tell me i can't go over her house, cause she live in like..a really bad neighborhood and they don't want me around that. But My gf is always hanging out with this other girl, they best friends..But i ... (71 words)

Why do I keep having these same recurring dreams? Is my subconscious trying to tell me something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4418 days ago

16 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I saw another post about dreams and it made me think i should ask about a few dreams i have repeatedly. I have a recurring dream where I am single. In real life I am married. I have been having this dream now for at least a couple years and it's at least twice a month wh... (357 words)

My friend uses guys for sex and sperm to have their kids. She then purposefully drives them away!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

16 November 2012 (F) age 36-40 - Please forgive me for the length of this letter. I have been friends with this girl for almost 6 years. She used to be so awesone, sweet, positive, energetic and excited about life, and now she is the complete opposite of all that. Let me tell you a little background. Sh... (1027 words)

He says he's too busy but hasn't contacted me in 3 days

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4418 days ago

16 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Im 21 and I have a boyfriend who is 27 years old. He finish college majoring in Business and he already has his own store. We both met while i was walking home and he stopped his car to ask me if he wanted to take me home because it was raining. I said no because he was ... (279 words)

I'm having a hard time getting to know people and getting a girlfriend. Any advice that can help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4419 days ago

16 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been single for 8 months now and it's about time I start dating again, the only thing is I've been trying to date for the past 8 months that I've been single without any luck. I'm not like those other guys that just take long breaks between relationships, I'm just not ... (381 words)