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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My friend text him pretending to be me and now he won't talk to me... Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age - I've been dating a man for 2 months. He has a lot going on in his life, extremely stressful job and an autistic son that lives 6 hrs away. We've not seen each other much in the last 3 weeks because of this, but we have kept in constant contact. Normally, when he has to go on ... (222 words)

I love my best friends ex... but of course there is more to it then that.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - For personal reasons I will not name the real names of the people I will be speaking about. Here is my situation. I have a best friend Kelly, who dated my best friend Dan. They were both happy at one point. He was madly in love with her, however she multiple times tried to b... (526 words)

I feel as if my boyfriend ignores me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4424 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - hey , i'm a girl ,and i'm 21 years old. I've been with my bf for 8 months but we broke up cuz he said he was confused between me and his ex gf that was in contact with him so i ended my relationship with him cuz i wanted to be his only one but we keep talking to each other ... (140 words)

He used to be a bit of a player likes the ladies and the attention but he claims he's changed, do I believe him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4424 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just started seeing this new guy and he comes across all sweet and caring but after speaking to one of his ex girlfriends im not sure what to think. He used to be a bit of a player likes the ladies and the attention but he claims he's changed, do I believe him? ... (121 words)

Do you think a girl that sleeps with every boyfriend is a whore?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi!! The other day I was talking to my mom, and somehow she ended up telling me how she thinks that a girl that sleeps with all of her boyfriends is a whore. She didn't say strangers, or guys you have only known for a week or so, she meant real relationships, a real boyfrien... (191 words)

I don't know how to convince her we'll be fine and make her settled again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

10 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'll try and keep this short; I'm seeing this girl and we both love each other - we both say we're committed to the idea of being together for a really long time. However, this was put on hold when I had to go away for a few months (something we both knew was going to happen), ... (279 words)

What on earth is he playing at???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

10 November 2012 (F) age 51-59 - Hi, I have never been very good about reading signals from men... recently at work a guy has started to make it obvious he is interested. It has been a little strange, as not the usual chatting trying to get to know me better, more he seems to suddenly just always be there, if ... (322 words)

Retroactive jealousy issues/taking a "break" and getting back together

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

10 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm seeking advice on how to deal with my girlfriend's past, and if there are any couples out there who successfully took a "break," reconnected, and went on to enjoy a healthy and loving relationship. My girlfriend and I were together for 3.5 years, between the ages of 19 a... (317 words)

How do I cope seeing him with someone else when we still live together?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, first of all, no I should not have let myself get into this position, I know. But here I am. I'm in my second year of university, living with a group of friends from halls, one of which I dated for a couple of months during first year. I fell hard, and he ended it. We did... (236 words)

I don't want to wait around for him for 6 months, it would kill me so what do you suggest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been seeing this man for 3 months now. He's 22 and I'm 17. There's nothing wrong with that where I live, except for the job he holds. This has required us to keep it a secret until I'm 18, which I have been fine with. Yesterday he pretty much tried ending things because as ... (146 words)

I'm 17 and in love with a stranger...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, first off I'm 17 and i'm single and i think i'm in love with a stranger i see him every day at a shop close to my school. Everytime i see him my heart beats so fast and i can't breathe and i want to run away but he sees me and starts to laugh. About 4 months now, he gets ... (114 words)

My husband is mentally tormenting me. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for 10 years and we have 2 beautiful young children. Over the years my husband has had somewhat of a split personality. On the one hand, he is senstive, caring, loving and loyal. On the other hand, he seems like a completely different person. He calls me ... (499 words)

Fantasised about best friend with boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4423 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have this amazing boyfriend. He cares and respect me a lot. We are amazing in bed and tried fantasizing together as we are in LDR for over 6 months. To keep the spark alive we try lot of different stuff and are vocal about it. Few days back I was drunk with my gal, he was h... (168 words)

Am I being a sucker for this guy or should I look elsewhere?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4424 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Everyone, I have an issue with trying to figure out if a guy is into me or not. There is a guy in my class who I am very fond of and would like to spend a lot of time with him and especially become intimate. We've been flirting for about a month now and I even went on a... (252 words)

Riddle man, fuck buddy... or more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4424 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, i have been friends with this guy for over 10 years now. We started going out back then, but his ex complicated things so we remained friends and have been sleeping together occasionally. I had suggested a couple of times that we go steady but he didn't want to. We ... (204 words)

My wife has been cheating on me for 3 years. How do I get her to want me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

10 November 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Where do I start? I've been married for 12 years but been with her for for 18. We have 3 boys who I wake up for every morning to make all the money I can so they have everything. My wife doesn't work, I was raised thinking u should support the family and the wife takes care of ... (258 words)

I think he wants more than my friendship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4423 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently become friends with this guy. We clicked instantly. It was great! But then he started becoming a real flirt. So I figured ok whatever he'll get the message that I'm not interested. Then he started becoming really touchy feely and I figured, well I've never ... (227 words)

Would I be happier with someone I've known for 15 years rather than my fiance who I've known less that a year?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help!! I'm so confused.. I'm engaged, and my fiance and I have had no problems what so ever. We recently became engaged about two months ago, but have only been together about 10 months. Up until last week, I was very happy. An old friend who was my first love, bu... (135 words)

Is it possible for a person to change overnight from being negative to all positive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4424 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have dated for 3 months. On the first date we noticed our similarities and differences. We are both loners and intelligent. He likes to talk about feelings while I like action. He had made a point that he is sensitive. He could be quite impulsive. If he likes ... (532 words)

Have you any old scars to heal from bad relationships?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4423 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering, has anyone ever being in a relationship like this? I wonder because I was in a 2 year relationship, this was my first long term relationship, I was with an older men, I was 19 he was 35 and for the lack of understanding I didn’t know what to expect of a man... (632 words)

How can I be sure if males find me attractive at all? I think they do not, is this enough proof?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Appearance wise, I might look plain most days, but I never had a problem with how I look. So if it is okay with everyone, take my word for it that I am at least average (don't want to go through the trouble posting images). Men don't usually look in my direction when I... (314 words)

How do I stay strong and not contact my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

10 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - How do i stay strong? i split up with my ex about 2 weeks ago now. ive been doing so well being strong and not contacting her and trying to get out and do stuff. today though ive been feeling really lonely. i really want to see her, look her up again on fb, call her but i k... (133 words)

Does my crush think of me as a little sister?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4424 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear agony aunts/uncles, Thanks for taking time out to listen to me rant :). Well, I'm a 16 year old girl currently crushing (really badly) on this other boy of my age. For the past 4 years of my life, we have been relatively good friends, with the occasional flirt... (278 words)

I'm thinking I should just give up and let this be the end!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend hadent text me back since tuesday. i rang to see why and he said at the time i wasnt helping the situation (his dog had just died but i was i wrote him a lovely text ). I rang him and ask him what was going on and he said that i never text him either and that he ... (619 words)

Kismet! Could this be it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Fate, coincidence, luck.... Please read, something happened to me and I would like your thoughts... So I was having a really tough couple of weeks with work, family and things going wrong with my house and the last straw was when I was getting ready to go to a friends hou... (525 words)

I got back with my ex and made a big mistake!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I've made a big mistake getting back with my ex! We split up at the start of the yr over his bad attitude and his abusive behaviour. He moved out at got his own place, he had been in his place about 6 mths when he started to pursue a relationship with me again, he bought me ... (213 words)

Bizarre physical response to sexually stimulating thoughts, is it normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I just have a question about sexual response... I am a normal 21 year old female, and fully sexually functional, but I seem to experience this odd physical response to sexual thoughts. I could be in a completely un-aroused state of mind, and then if something ... (237 words)

My friend and I are jealous of one another. Does that mean anything?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

10 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my friend When we don't hang out together and we are texting If I tell her that I'm hanging out with a girl she gets jealous and calls them skanky whores when she hangs with a guy I automatically get pissed and I wanna punch the guy in the face What does this ... (73 words)

Could my boyfriend's past cause him to have horrible dreams?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - It may not help that im a social worker my job is to notice this kind of thing but my long term boyfriend has horrendous dreams. These occur probably 60% of the time. He screams and cries and appears so distressed. When hes dreaming he struggles as though hes trying to get away ... (124 words)

Lack of contact with LDR boyfriend. Am I on the back burner?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4425 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a history with my current boyfriend. We went to high school together and we were friends because we wanted to date each other, but I had a long-distance boyfriend at the time (I left him behind when I moved from California to DC) and he was dating my worst enemy. By the ... (1058 words)

I think my friends have ditched me because I'm pregnant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear aunts/ uncles. Iv got to be honest im feeling really down the last couple of days. Im 7 months pregnant and I suddenly seem to have lost my friends! I have a loving husband and family so im not on my own but I love a catch up with mates only every time i try and arrange ... (212 words)

Will I get the sack?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have just started my first job in a serious role in social services. I am 22. However it has been my first week , no contract yet the admin are very slow and it has been a hard week. Just realised my lunch isn't included in the hours so basically i owe 45mins to make ... (157 words)

Crush on a guy at work who is wayy older

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all. Its simple really but I don't know what way to go forward. Just started work and there is a man.. Now when i say man i mean a real man. That is what is so sexy but i am 22 he must be atleast 40. Single has children my age. And im working on cases with him. i can'... (101 words)

I want to marry my cousin. How do I tell the family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

10 November 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok.... So me and my cousin have been really good friends for a while and a few weeks ago I was messing around with her and we got on the subject of sex. So I asked her if I could turn her on would she wana consider having sex. She replied ya. So I asked well y would u. So she ... (155 words)

My sister and boyfriend are constantly fighting! Why don't they see they shouldn't be together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

10 November 2012 (M) age 30-35 - I'm wondering if anyone had any advice I could give to my sister and her boyfriend. You see for the past x amount of years (not even sure how long they've been seeing each other), all they do is yell at each other. Mainly, it's my sister. Now, usually, I just ignore it, but now ... (151 words)

How does a shy person meet people and make friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm in the usa for 4 months for study purposes (i come from europe) and i really don't know anyone here. i'm a very very shy person (probably with some form of social anxiety) and so it usually takes a long time for me to make friends and open up to people (and i'm just talking ... (362 words)

I'm very disheartened by my boyfriend's thoughtless birthday gift! Would you be upset?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I wonder if I should be upset? My bday was two days ago. I turned 25, everyone was very lovely to me and I am alive, healthy and happy. On the other hand for my birthday my boyfriend wrote me an email congratulating me. His gift? A lingerie set from ebay that cost him less than ... (386 words)

What makes someone decide if they are gf/bg material?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4424 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - what makes someone decide if they are gf/bg material? I ask because the person of the person i am interested in, and have been for a few months. We are friends, and talk a few times a week, (We live about an hr apart) i've been there with an ear to listen through his last to ... (129 words)

Whenever I try to flirt with him, he stops replying to my texts!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! It's me, an aunt that hasn't been on in quite some time! (Oops, sorry!) And now I have a problem... I've never been good at flirting. In fact, you could say I'm even pretty clueless when it comes to flirting. I don't normally flirt, because I don't know how. But ... (152 words)

I'm a virgin and he's not, not sure how to react

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4424 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So we've had the conversation a long time ago, we've been dating for 10 months. I am saving myself until marriage, but he has has two past girlfriends of which have lost their virginity to him. It was really hard in the beginning for me to accept that, but I liked him a lot and ... (282 words)

I want to give girl a hickey but don't know how

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I really want to give my girlfriend a hickey, but i feel like i don't know how, and that'll be embarssing if i mess up.. :( She gave me one, it hurted cause she was also kinda biting at my neck, but it felt good at the same time.... (50 words)

My friend changed so much and he blames it on me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4423 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Two and a half years ago, I met a guy through a mutual friend. He and I became good friends. A few months later, we ended up having a few dates and a few kisses over the period of about a month. This time was wonderful: he would turn up with 50 roses, buy me surprise presents, ... (1169 words)

Two years after breaking up we are still having sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am In Love with my ex of five years we only been broke up for two and he has a girlfriend and I have been having sex with him cause I love him alott when he leaves me I am sick to my stomach I can't even sleep. I ask him if e loves her and he says no but I no he Loves me ... (102 words)

I'm so sick of what my friend has become!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so I have this friend. She's 20 and I'm 23... We met first day of college and we've been sort of best friends ever since. But lately our friendship has been a bit rocky ... From the begining it was obvious we were opposites. She's all smiles and easy going. Needless to say, ... (861 words)

Need help... Am I reading too much into this or does he REALLY want me to fall pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4424 days ago

10 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My true love and i have were each others first loves. it's been over 20ish years now, and we spent 4 years together. I had left him years ago and we have recently in the past two years reunited. He's not maried but did have one child in the past with another female. He ... (642 words)