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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My family are putting pressure on me to get married

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help? My grandma is very old (in her seventies) and called me an "old maid" (I am 25!) In her day girls were married by 17 or 18....and she said if I don't get married soon her blood pressure is already high and she may have a heart attack. I do have a boyfriend but ... (283 words)

What can I do to get him to notice me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4410 days ago

23 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. So there is this guy that I like. I am 15, he is 16. The thing is, we used to sit near each other in class, so it was easier to kind of get up the nerve to talk to him, I did a couple of times. He's hilarious and very nice. The thing is, we dont sit near each other anymore ... (204 words)

Girlfriend of 3.5 years has very little interest in sex anymore. We have a child together.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

23 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I was curious if anyone had some advice on my current situation. My girlfriend and I started dating about 3.5 years ago while in college. At that time, and for around 8 months afterwards we were very sexually active and our sex drives matched quite well (at l... (476 words)

I feel like everyone likes my sister more than me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

23 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So I broke up with my boyfriend about 3 months ago but we still texted each other off and on until about 3 weeks ago... The last time I talked to him was because of his best friend telling me that he had a concussion. I started texting him to see if he was alright and stuff but ... (299 words)

He takes days to reply is he into me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

23 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I met this guy online we swapped numbers and started texting each other. The first day of texting was really intresting. I looked him up facebook and read aall his wall post and he seemed like the most sweetest guy in the world. he suggested we meet I said yeah I would like ... (281 words)

Suggestion for toys that can be worn for an extended period of time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

23 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - What are some good toys to be worn for long periods of time (few hours). I really like bullets but was looking to expand horizons beyond a tiny bullet. Any suggestions under 60$? P.S can be worn secretly while shopping ect.... (43 words)

Does he not really want me, or is it all in my mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Right this is a long story cut short. I met someone a yr ago and for the first couple of months it was all good and then cracks started to appear. He had more female friends than normal, especially one who was his ex that would txt him flirty messages ie Hi babe ive got a fire ... (387 words)

Girl I like is always with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I like this girl in college. I've never talked to her and she's in none of my classes. I see her around campus and in the library almost everyday. I'm pretty certain she finds me attractive. We've exchanged repeated and extended eye contact. I've also noticed her checking me ... (163 words)

She won't break up with me but isn't talking to me. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I've hurt my girlfriend really, really badly and she has given me the silent treatment ever since (2 months now). The first 3 weeks she was extremely angry and now she is depressed and avoiding me. I know she doesn't want to end this but she doesn't want anything to do with me ... (154 words)

How can I help my hoarding mother? She blames me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I could really use some help. To cut an extremely long story short, its come to my attention that my mother, who cares for my grandfather is no longer "able" to care for either him or herself. Its been this way for a years, but has gotten worse within the last year. ... (624 words)

How can I get past what happened before? Can this work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - You need to know my back history to understand this. High school i dated a girl three years, senior year she left me for someone else and was with him the night we broke up. She left because for two years we were plagued with bad sex mostly because we were inexperienced. So I ... (1176 words)

So confused about what to do... please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 22- years old, and I have been dating this guy for about a year and a few months now. It hasn't really been anything serious because we both came out of bad relationships. We really like each other and have a lot of fun, since we've met it's like were a mirror-image of ... (454 words)

Do I send him a note???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok there is a guy at the gym, he is one of the trainers, I am always in a hurry and barely ever get a chance to stop and talk to this guy but I have liked him for ages. Whenever we do talk he is quite shy with me and often looks away when I maintain eye contact. He is not one ... (157 words)

Why am I a born again virgin with no one to love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi , I am a born again virgin who has not had sex in ten years I am a young woman still I just turned 41. I want to get back to the love making days but now it's kind of hard to trust people now. I want to get married now and I just haven't ran up on any one now who I think is ... (71 words)

Is there something I should be doing?? I really like him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I have a huge crush on a kid that was in all my classes last year and toward the end of the year, I felt like he was starting to like me too. He would tease me and be mean and joke with me a lot. But, this year, he's not in any of my classes. So, I have no excuse to talk to ... (212 words)

Do I keep saying no or give him another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. Me and my ex split just over a year ago, i left him and took our daughter, i couldn't handle his lies, and drink problem. We'd been together for over 4 years. Im dating other men now, he dated a lady but heard he messed that up too. He goes counselling every wk and i no he ... (150 words)

Need some help from you guys regarding a delusional husband!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

23 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Help!! My husband is delusional from day one of out marriage. He is very strong, arrogant and refuses to listen anything negative about himself. He keeps talking about the past and always brings examples from the past and emotionally abuses me. His delusion is prosecutory type ... (143 words)

Bi-curious...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

23 November 2012 (M)

age - I'm a 49 year old male, I enjoy being nude a lot at home. I walk around the house naked when no one else is around. I'm married for 15 years. My question in this " I enjoy seeing my nude body and am getting an urge to try being bi-sexual. Is it normal for people (men) to want ... (65 words)

He cried, real tears, but guess what!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

23 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Just over two months ago I left my dating site obsessed boyfriend of four years. I accepted dating sites were part of his life and always will be. He has suddenly started trying to get me back again with the same old bull shit and accused me of breaking his heart (as usual). Of ... (179 words)

Our relationship is in crisis. Can you please help me with advice, before I make a mistake?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So I met this girl freshmen year of college and she's perfect. Everything I want, beautiful smart, and kind of goofy like myself. I spoiled this girl, not like buying her things, but I rubbed her back, told her she was pretty everyday, basically was prince charming. As a resu... (616 words)

How can we make this temporary LDR work? He says he hates texting and hardly ever has his phone on, and hardly ever calls

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, Due to financial reasons me and my partner are currently living at home with our families, we have been together for three years. Its quite a distance apart, and with work its hard to see each other. This is why i am confused, i love him very much a... (144 words)

Petty bickering. Is there a better way to resolve things? Why do we argue? How I can make this relationship work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and boyfriend are currently discussing why we seem to bicker and have petty arguements for over no reason. And now he seems to think it's not working. The last thing I want is to lose him. I just don't know what to do. He's said to me a day ago he loves me and doe... (83 words)

How can I deal with this? He's blocked me off all his social networking sites because apparently I "moan" too much

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old and have been in love with the same guy since I was 13. I've never been with another man and we have never been friends always more but on/off as he often goes with other women. I'm so close to him and his family and for a strange reason I love being with h... (213 words)

How do I break the news to my Very Conservative Indian parents that (a) I am pregnant and (b) he is determined to marry me because he loves me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am kinda in a sticky situation. Took a home pregnancy test twice and both turned out positive. I am an Only child to my highly emotional, overprotective, highly opinionated Indian Parents from conservative background. My boyfriend (an orphan) is ready t... (185 words)

Troubled by a dream - what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm worried. I am 16 and I am fantasizing about my dad. Not all the time or anything but sometimes he just pops into my dreams and I don't normally have sexual dreams. It scares me. He's never done anything inappropriate and I wouldn't want him to but I don't understand why ... (86 words)

Since we moved in together he's not loving. What is really going on with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I've dated my boyfriend for 7 years. I used to go and visit him at his place once or twice in a week. Recently we've just bought a house together and we are now living together. My problem when we were not staying together when I visit him, he was always making love to me e... (97 words)

Is this an orgasm or not?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

23 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I get to the part where I feel like I have to pee but can't go past that is it still an orgasm or no cause I don't get past that part?... (32 words)

Two guys and me. I love them both. But how can I handle this situation when school resumes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

23 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - ok....so i am i guess your could say in love(just for the sake of simple words) with two guys. one guy i have dated about three or four times but i have broken up with him after a week or so because my best friend likes him. so i dated one guy 1 three times and guy twice, m... (270 words)

He kissed me so I thought he liked me, but I guess not.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so monday 11/12/12 i got my first kiss with this boy named emmanual. The 1st time i saw him i didnt like him but as weeks went by i started liking him more n more. I stayed after on monday for track n steppers. When he got on the bus he kissed my cheek. And we get off at ... (354 words)

Age 21 and neverhave I asked out a girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I turned 21 years old earlier this week and it's been dawning on me lately that I've never asked out a girl ever. I'm trying to figure out if I should feel bad about this or not. In high school, I was seen as different from a lot of the other kids due to my unique interests... (691 words)

I'm in a unhappy marriage, and I've fallen for a man I met online.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

23 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I am in a mess of a situation. I am a married woman of five years and I have 2 children. I'm 26 years old. I have been with my husband for 10 years total. He was my first and only boyfriend and my first and only for everything. Since the beginning of our relationship, I've ... (316 words)

What point is a relationship being abused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 November 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend always seems to find a way to keep another male relationship in our lives .she always claims they are not sexual and we do often spend days where we dont see eachother.i choose to believe her so my question isnt so much do you think shes cheating but more at what ... (118 words)

What would you consider this relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

23 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, ... A couple of months ago (after lots of flirting and confusion about whether the signals were there or not) I met up with a work colleague. Cliche but one thing lead to another and we ended up having sex. I went over a coupe more times and shortly after started to... (464 words)

My boyfriend slept in another girls room

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 2 years. We are both 19. We broke up over the summer and since then have not been the same. Since then i feel like he wants to be single and goes out a lot. We both get quite jealous and dont like each other going out with other ... (309 words)