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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do I chose my friend? Or his sister?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

14 November 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I like my best friend's sister but the problem is that I don't want to lose him so what should I do?... (22 words)

I'm so jealous of my boyfriend's past relationships.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

14 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now. But I have some problems. He was my first everything. And Im the fourth girl hes had sex with. It bothers me a lot, I argue over it, I cry at night, I can't sleep, I call him names, I jus completely get out of control. I ... (122 words)

Any tips on how to have a healthy three-way relationship, not not just a sexual threesome, but an actual dating relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

14 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My fiance (age 27) and I (25) have been together for two and a half years. We have a 15 month old son together, and she has a daughter that she feels might have a minor form of autism that lives with the father. We have had our rough times, but after everything, we are still ... (792 words)

I don't know if I can trust him, anymore.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

14 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my bf have been together for almost 3 years now and he cheated on me right after i found out i was preganat and he new but one night his ex girl friend texted him and he told her to never text or call him and that i was preganat and we were happy and didnt want nothing ... (312 words)

I don't understand the big deal about men watching porn.

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

14 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - this is a genuine honest question that i can't seem to understand. I've seen many questions on here about girls who are unhappy that their boyfriends watch porn. Thing is, I don't ask my boyfriend if he does because I assume he does for his own pleasure and if he does that's ... (131 words)

Ending a friendship because of inappropriate jokes towards me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

14 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - well today a friend of mine hurting me infront of my friends when i say hurting he had joked in me that was uncomfortable and touching words. It has been repititive to me in one day difference. Well today morning i told him that he had hurting me by what he has joked the day ... (124 words)

I'm seeing a guy who has a girlfriend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

14 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing someone for a while now and we both seem to really like each other. The only problem is.. he has a girlfriend. He's never once mentioned breaking up with her, in fact he tells me nothing about her. I don't even know her name. Any ideas on where I actually ... (93 words)

Girlfriend lied about something trivial but now I'm afraid I can't trust her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

14 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend lied to me on an issue that really isn't a big deal but it's causing me some problems with trust. A couple months ago we almost broke up, had a big fight, and then we decided to make up and fix our relationship. It was her who came to me saying she missed me an... (464 words)

My wife is kind of a prude in the bedroom. Would she like a vibrator or be repulsed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

14 November 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Wife grew up kind of a prude- never seems to really enjoy sex all that much. Just want her to feel as good as she makes me feel. If I come home with a little help with a vibe that she will be repulsed or OK to try. Any wen think this is a horrible move to make?... (58 words)

I just want to be able to talk to someone and relax and not worry what they are thinking about me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

14 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Its a weird one this.. i struggle to mix especially with women.. i'v always had freinds but i never quite feel comfortable around people, more like a bumbling idiot really - at primary school i was freinds with Kirsty then one day another girl came over and said 'Kirsty doesnt ... (291 words)

My boyfriend can't satisfy me sexually, and it is making want sex with is brother.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4394 days ago

14 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear. Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and have lived with him and his brother the entire time. I love my life the way it is and I love my boyfriend. I want to spend the rest of my life with him,but he can't satisfy me sexually. I constantly find myself wanting ... (115 words)

Where can I find someone to go out with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4408 days ago

14 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I want a girlfriend. I'm ready for a relationship. Yes I'm bisexual. My most recent relationship ended in may and I'm ready to get back out there. I'm home schooled so I don't really hang out with many people, I do miss my ex, but she doesn't feel the same. Where can I find ... (55 words)

How can I seduce the man at work?is he even interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

14 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am recently new in my team and this man has just caught my eye. he is atleast 20 years older i'm 22. He is single!! not no home wrecker. But we get along like house on fire. So far its just the glances, smiling, cheaky comments. Today he bumped into me purposely and sa... (174 words)

I'm being torn over which parent to spend Christmas with! I don't need this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

14 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - After a tough year getting divorced I am now facing a dilemma over Christmas Day. My immediate family (Mum and Dad and Sister) live 2 - 3 hours drive in different directions to me. Both want to see me on Xmas Day but... they have fallen out yet again with each other (this ... (228 words)

Where is this relationship with a married man headed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

14 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in love with marriedman.I been knowing him for 8years the 1st 3 years and later on I breakit for 4 years and now more than a year I am falling in love allover again.I know it's wrong but I realize he loves me,he always say I trow him outof my life for 4years.now in that ... (183 words)

Are these men just time wasters?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

14 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - ok, I am all but a young girl but I still get very puzzled by some male behavior: there are these two guys, not even one, two, who once in a while start a chat with me, but when we actually meet at the pub or with friends don't really ever come close, and when they write th... (192 words)

What is romantic? Summer or winter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

14 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - whether you're seeing someone, or in a relationship do you find it's more romantic in the summer or winter? I would have assumed it'd be summer, but then my mate says he finds winter is better. What do you guys think? And also, can you mind saying you're reasons why you find ... (63 words)

I'm afraid she'll be approached by other guys. Should I tell her of my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

14 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Guys let me cut short my story and come straight to point. I love a girl whos 17 and i'm 21.shes just passed out of school and im we r in same college now..i dont think ever had a boyfriend,relationship stuff etc..i had developed feelings for her.we met a few times before b... (156 words)

Should I go out with this guy that is only asking to keep me happy, or date a guy and feel like I've betrayed the guy I'm seeing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

14 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a really sensitive issue - I've been seeing this guy that is completely commitment-phobic, he refuses to even consider dating me, but he's all over me, can't manage a single night without cuddling up in bed with me, it's not sex, it's just cuddles and kisses, but he's... (279 words)

How old were you the first time you had sex? How was it?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

14 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello I'm curious to know in what age you had first time sex(intercourse), and how was it?... (18 words)

I'm an intelligent woman losing her wits over a crush on my professor!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

14 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Adult Woman Crush on Professor, This is extremely distracting to me. I have not been able to fully focus in class, I got my first B+ in a class that is an easy A+ (due to the fact I was more concerned how I looked prior to class than going over notes, conjoined with m... (618 words)

Why is my boyfriend acting so weird when he texts this one particular number?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

14 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm concerned about some funny behavior with my boyfriend and I would like some opinions. Our history - we haven't been dating long. Four or five months, but we got very close very fast, and we both love each other and have expressed that to each other. We spend every spar... (302 words)

My husband flipped out because I wore a male co-worker's jacket! Is he making it too big of a deal?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

14 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. Pretty quick question: Is it okay to wear a male coworker's jacket if you are married? My husband found out that my coworker let's me wear his jacket at work and totally flipped out. I don't see the harm in it. Let me know what you think!... (51 words)

I hooked up with my friend. Does that mean he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4420 days ago

14 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, so i have tiny problem. I think i need guys and girls help. So i have this guy friend, we know each other for 3 months, and we always hang out etc. Also we text every day for hours. My friend thinks that he may like me cos we kind of flirt. But anyway,what happ... (342 words)

My boyfriend says he doesn't want any kids so why does he always want sex when I am at the most fertile time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

14 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - my bf of ovr 22 yrs says he doesnt want more kids, but the way he acts during sex and how he seems to not be so worried about geting me pregnant and asking when every month my period is due and we always eem to have sex only during the most fertile times of my cycle lol ... (93 words)

His ex will never be out of his life, but I'm not going anywhere either because I'm the mother of his child!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

14 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so yesterday my boyfriend's ex girlfriend called my house looking for him not on a cellphone my actual house phone. so when i asked her who is this she lied and said a different name which is not her name but i knew it was her because of my caller i.d.so i didnt go off on ... (242 words)

Problems with our sex life, does he need help or is it me with the problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

14 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - hi, i have been married now 12 years, with the same guy for 15 years. our sex life is very difficult, i have a higher sex drive than his, and am never sure if he really wants sexs, he does but its very quick and very one sided, a few kisses, a blow job for him, and then a ... (147 words)

Caught my husband watching porn, what should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

14 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - dear all, i feel devastated after i caught my husband watching porn and masturbating. we just came back from a vacation in italy and had a blast! im 27 and even though i hav 2 kids i have a good thin body . i. wat happened is that i woke up and was leaving my room to give my ... (213 words)

I like girl 1, but it seems like girl 2 is the one who is interested in me! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4413 days ago

14 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - i met this girl after we spoke online for a while and she was great i met with her and a few of her friends and we all got on well we hugged hello and bye. then we were talking etc and we arranged to meet up me and her twice but it didn't happen as she stopped messaging me ... (371 words)

I don't like who I've become....how do I cope with the hurt and pain from my past without becoming bitter and twisted?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

14 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've asked a few questions before about various things but I feel like my life is one big issue at the moment. When I was younger before I had my children I was the kindest sweetest person I wouldn't do anything to hurt anybody else. Well I met a guy and had a baby when I was ... (417 words)

Can I have your opinions on this? I can't tell if he likes me based on our night together.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4420 days ago

14 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, this may be a little long, but I can promise that it's worth the read. So, about a few months ago I saw this extremely cute guy at a store. He gave me a discount, but being as shy as I am, I didn't say anything. I went back, oh, about 2 weeks ago to shop again. He was ther... (532 words)

I don't know if I made the right decision by getting back with my ex boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

14 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hey everyone.i just got back with my ex boyfriend.we had broken up for about one year six months.it has been a month since we started dating again.we broken up because he cheated on me and a week after we broke up he started dating another girl.he is no longer dating that ... (301 words)

Where is our 'friendship' going? Do I even like her in that way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

14 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't really know who to ask for advice or guidance on this so ... hello Dear Cupid I'm a second-year university student. Since starting the academic year in late September I have been spending a lot of time with one of my 'closer' female friends, we'll call her Effy. I... (297 words)

Did I make a mistake of turning down my arranged marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

14 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - It was 2 years ago It was an arranged marriage proposal between families, I did not like or hate the guy but i was definitely not comfortable with the whole situation.After about six days or so he said something really cheap and vulgar over the phone something I was not ... (86 words)

We cant be together because of the distance, but cant bear to be apart either!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

14 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so here's my question.. Do I keep trying or do I give up? I met a wonderful man last year and we began dating, it was never easy as he lives 200 miles away but we managed to see eachother once a week for a year and things were great, we went on holidays together and made... (366 words)

Teenager finds 50 year olds attractive?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

14 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 16 and I find men in their 50's attractive. Is this normal?... (15 words)

If I don't ask her out will she be offended?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

14 November 2012 (M)

age 22-25 - Okay, this one is complicated. Keeping in mind that I am not looking for a girlfriend, riddle me this: the girl I like has found out from other sources that I like her, and I have not confirmed it. Apparently, she likes me and dosn't think I like her, although that's unlikely, ... (173 words)

Long Distance Love---will it fizzle out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

14 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - To start out, I'm currently not in a relationship but I am in love with someone. Here's a bit of a background, I was an expat in Asia and he was an exchange student. So the story begins like this... This past summer I met a beautiful Brazilian guy at a bar. I didn't think any... (1098 words)

How do I become calmer and become more confident when around the opposite sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

14 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a girl in my early 20's, who's never dated before or anything. People say I'm attractive so I know my lack of experience with guys is due mostly to low self-confidence and my social anxiety. Anyway, I've noticed that whenever I interact with guys, especially those who ... (273 words)

Can I break up with my girlfriend and still be friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

14 November 2012 (M)

age 22-25 - I have decided that it is time to break up with my girlfriend. We have been together for over a year and I feel that she's not in it anymore. We have not been alone together in over two months other than school. I have tried to make plans with her time and time again but she ... (135 words)

Girlfriend and I have a fight over why I didn't take a shower???

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

14 November 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Need some advice on an argument I had with my girlfriend. So a few weeks ago, we were invited to my godson's birthday party. My gf decided she didn't want to go, so I went alone. A couple weeks later, my gf and I go out to brunch, but before we go, she asks if I'm going to ... (961 words)

Quotes to put in an anniversary card for my fiance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

14 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help/advice/input/suggestions and/or quotes to use in a card to my fiancé of six months. This is a big anniversary for us. It's her longest relationship and I really do want my card to her to be special. She has demanded that I not get her any gifts, only that we just ... (133 words)

How do we tell our parents that my 17 year old girlfriend is pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

14 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I really don't know what to do with this situation. I'm 21, in my last year at undergrad (pursuing my PhD), and have a 17 year old girlfriend back home who, after a very passionate end-of-summer date in August, is now three months pregnant. And she said she's keeping it, not ... (498 words)

While moving into her new place, my sister has moved my stuff too! How can I approach this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4421 days ago

14 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 26 and currently still living with my parents while I save for a house deposit. My two younger sisters (25 and 22) also live at home, however my 25 year old sister has recently decided to move in with her boyfriend. The problem is, she has been slowly moving things like ... (335 words)

We had an incredible week long affair and now 3 months later nothing! What happened?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

14 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - It's the usual affair story....I've been married for 19 years to a good man, hard worker, who would do anything for me. The problem is, he is extremely negative, has no friends, is suicidal at times, is a drinker and his family is rotten. I have begged him over the years to ... (1100 words)