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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I hate my boyfriend's mother.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

26 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I've been with my boyfriend for about a year, I am 15 and he is 17. The major problem for us is that I absolutely can not stand his mother. I don't want to say hate, because that is a powerful word, but it is definitely getting there. I His mother is CONSTANT... (625 words)

I don't know what to do to make things better between us!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I met my girlfriend 3 years ago, I fell in love with her and made a bond. I live with her away from my own family, in the 2 years of dating we had our troubles in the relationship. She met this guy on facebook who dated my couise.He told my couise sister ( my other couise) he ... (271 words)

I have a problem with a girl, I don't know if she is mad at me but she's not answering my messages!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

26 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I have problem with one girl, I dont know if she is mad on me because of something, but she's now not answering on my messages, we the most of the time. She is not answering when Im not in town where she lives. Everything starts about 2 months ago when we met in ... (1499 words)

Have I trained myself to orgasm only with this vibrator?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm only able to have an orgasm with the [insertion type vibrator]. I have been successful once in a great great while with just manual stimulation. Is there any ladies who have been in a similar situation but have been able to become orgasmic using less intense stimulation ... (112 words)

He gets jealous about EVERYTHING and EVERYONE. I want to break up with him! And there's a bonus question too....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

26 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Well where do I begin? Lets see here. My bf and I have been dating for the past 5 months (secretly until about a week ago bcuz I wasnt allowed to date) Well now weve been fighting a lot about the past 2 months and I dont know if I can stand it much more. He gets jealous ... (256 words)

Question for the girls out there about responding to texts!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

26 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I've a question for the girls out there about responding to texts. Ok.....I'll give a quick example on my situation and then you can hopefully ease my impatient side. I was with this girl at my friends 21st Birthday. She was a lovely girl and we got on very well that nig... (353 words)

Why do I go dry during intercourse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

26 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ciao! I don't know why when i get wet during sexual intercourse it doesn't take time to dry up after which i'll start having pains. When this happens, i wud not enjoy it any longer and that makes my boyfriend because he complains that he's not satisfied. What could be the ... (54 words)

I want to leave my girlfriend but I know it wull hurt her so badly. How do I let her down gently?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 November 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I have ben with my girlfriend for nearly 2 years, she is the year above me so we are in different schools. I love her so much and don't want to hurt her but she doesn't excite me anymore and all we do is argue. I feel like she is holding me back with my life. There is another ... (120 words)

How would u interperet the way this girl is, do you think she liked me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I wonder if anyone out there can advise me with the following situation..... In the pub I frequent a few weeks ago a new girl has started, she has started working on the bar and she was always very talkative, I ended up having a few conversations and after a while I found ... (519 words)

Did things change, where did I go wrong?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

26 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - 'so i finally had a romantic moment with the person i have feelings for ages and everything was good, we laughed, he smiled, we kissed, we were just in that perfect moment when u feel like u want to stay like that forever. His 21, were friends for already three years, we ... (120 words)

Why would my guy want to be friends with his ex after everything she did?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 November 2012 (F)

age - My man was with a women 7 months and she cheated, stole, destroyed his heart and now he wants to be friends with her and she wont leave him alone. How can i make her go away???? Why would he want to be involved with her after that at all anyway? I JUST DONT GET IT! ... (58 words)

Why did my ex girlfriend do this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

26 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm very disturbed by an action my ex girlfriend did. Why I don't like her in any way is because, when she dumped me, she lied to me, and wanted to be friends. This is why I don't like, nor do I trust her. However, this action isn't what disturbed me. (Part 1). ... (247 words)

I feel frightened when I talk to girls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - When I get closer to girls I feel so frustrated. and even when I talk to them I feel the same. I just ignore girls, I loss the confidence to talk girls. What's wrong with me? ... (43 words)

I think he wants to marry me only because he says I am good in bed

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

26 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My fiance and I have been engaged for 3 years. The other day, for some reason, I asked him, Are you still looking? Looking as in keeping his options open for another girl. He checks out other women all the time when we go out and I think that is why I asked him that questio... (198 words)

What can I do to take away the awkwardness and make her like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 November 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I met a girl during my class and she is not that beautiful but I'm very attracted to her. Whenever I see her outside the class, we talked only about the subject we're both in. We always exchanged smiles and teases but now we do not talk anymore. It started when my classmates ... (107 words)

I ended the relationship after the "where are we going" conversation! Did I do the right thing?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

26 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I've been in an exclusive relationship for almost three years (both of us over 45). We see each other five times a week, taking turns sleeping at each other's home. My home is a lot for me to take care of (large yard and pool), now that my grown son has left. I... (192 words)

What am I dealing with? His drinking problem or something else?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

26 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - please help, my husband of 14 years has had a drink problem for years which has got worse over the past 3 years [he has been drinking 3/4 of a liter bottle of vodka a night and gets "out of it" does stupid things like texting/messaging girls/women and falls asleep wherever... (416 words)

I'm concerned that I can't trust him because of this co-worker!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

26 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am looking for some advice. I have been in a relationship with my partner for the past 6 years. I always trusted him, I felt I had no reason not to. Last month we got invited to his work mates engagement party and he said it would be best if we didnt go. I found this ... (302 words)

His ex attends the holiday gatherings with his family, isn't this disrespectful to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

26 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So I began a relationship with a guy that ive known for many years.Early in the relationship we moved in together and I started having second thoughts.So I told him him we were done.I regret it but I spent the weekend with my ex and yes I had sex with him. after wards I ... (238 words)

Why would a girl cheat on her boyfriend after telling him they should wait to have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My friend started dating a girl at the beginning of the relationship they both agreed to wait until they have sex. However, the girl did a 180 and had sex with a lot of other guys behind his back while seemingly being chaste. I want to know why someone would do this an... (86 words)

Why did my teacher only invite me and none of the other students to his birthday party? He's 24 Does he love me?.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

26 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've have been in the big trouble! I have fallen in love with my teacher, and I wonder if he loves me too. The way he looks at me and he also looks at me a lot! My friends already thought I'm crazy. They said it's impossible to love the teacher whom is older than me. He's 2... (136 words)

What were his motives? Why did my ex ask me out, thinking I had a new Bf? But then get all upset after he realised I wasn't dating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend started texting me last week. He thought I was still seeing someone but when he mentioned it I replied saying that I wasn't. Well it turns out he never got that text and asked me out anyway thinking I still had a boyfriend. Well we had a great time and he ... (370 words)

How should I react when he ignores me?...Because I still like him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I started liking a guy in my class... he flirted a lot with me when compared to other girls..after giving it a long thought i told him i liked him... he replied that it's not that he ..but doesnt like me or anything...but it was not a good time for a relationship.. h... (118 words)

Why do I always seem to meet jerks who only wants to sleep with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

26 November 2012 (?) age 30-35 - Guys, what goes through your mind when you meet a new girl and only want to sleep with her? Why do guys I meet only want or try to sleep with me? I met a couple of guys from club online and even "friends of friends". Their only motive is to get into my pants. I don't t... (170 words)

I have refused to do this. So why is my Bf obsessed with wanting to see me do oral with another guy. What else can I say to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i am in a long term relationship since my teen years and the last 4 years long distance. but late 1 year my guy has been obsessed about seeimg me doing oral with another guy. i have always said no. but he has kept on asking for this.. i dont know wat to do.. i just don't li... (88 words)

Is there any hope of turning this around? I keep finding my Gf on dating sites.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

26 November 2012 (M)

age - My life seems like a constant cycle of catching my girlfriend on dating sites, breaking up and then somehow ending up back together. When I have caught her she has lied by denying it, blamed me for neglecting her, accused me of jealousy, abuse, invading her privacy or said the... (126 words)

Is our relationship doomed? He, (45) verbally abused me (19) when I queried his actions.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

26 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I found out my partner has been lying to me. It's been going on for months until last week when I asked him why he has been lying to me (iv'e been honest, not cheated nor played around) Instead of him explaining he just verbally abused me and put all the blame on me for his ... (99 words)

Am I insecure about her sexual connections with other guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 November 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi guys, hope someone can help me on this one? So I've been with my GF for 11 months now and living together for 6 months. We dated on and off for 7 months owing to her going through a divorce at the time and me not wanting to commit to someone who had commitment worri... (405 words)

I don't know how to fix the problems with my Gf since she cheated. WHAT should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help. I have a girlfriend who, like me had a rough childhood, which has ultimately made us both kinda crazy. When we are happy, it is obvious we are in love, but when we are mad, you would think we have been married for 45 years. She cheated on me with a guy at her wo... (134 words)

Is this just a sweet gesture or is he romantically interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I've known this guy for over 2 years now, we're very good friends. I did fall for him sometime ago (and I did tell him, we just had a very down to earth conversation about it), but we can't be together for whatever reason, anyway my feelings have settled down and it's now more... (239 words)

Is there something wrong with my libido? It was good at first but then as time went on it started to hurt. Now I'm just not in the mood

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. So I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. We first had sex when I was 16 and him 17. It was good at first but then as time went on it started to hurt but I'm just not in the mood for it...ever! I'd happily just have a relationship without it ... (155 words)

Does this relationship have any kind of future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating an older man exclusively for a little over 3 months now. We have been going slowly on the emotional aspect, which I understand b/c we were both still healing from previous relationships. But there are a few things that have been frustrating me. ... (1604 words)

How do I show more respect to my boyfriend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

26 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there, I need help, I'm 21 years old and I've been with my boyfriend for over three years now and we've our ups and downs. To cut a long story short he has been telling me he's lacking respect from me and that I don't treat him as the man he is, I promised him several ... (160 words)

Do you think he contacted me because he wanted to move on and close this door for good?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

26 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this man over a year ago after chatting online. We hit it off. He lives in another state but he flew in to meet with me and have dinner. We had a great time and he went home. He contacted me the next day to say he wanted to come back again when my daughter had an access ... (280 words)

My wife told me she would leave me if I didn't stop seeing my friend.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

26 November 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Back in May of this year my wife and I had new neighbors move in after being introduced to each other we came to find out he was from England and I grew up in Ireland we instantly hit it off seeing as we both had so much in common as far as sports we liked and basically having ... (291 words)

I think I'm falling in love with a teacher at my school.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 November 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - There is this teacher at my school. I don't take him but his class is next door to my first period class and my locker. He's young (28) and im 13 .. I see him in the hallways during lunch, in the mornings and i often stare at him. I think he's single but this teacher flirts ... (86 words)

I care, but I don't care?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

26 November 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I've been with my girlfriend for a little over 9 months now. There's some issues though. I care about her, but I really don't know if I care about her. I know it sounds weird, but it's what I've concluded to be the case. I care about her because I'll comfort her for hours if ... (540 words)

How do I keep my new friend separated from the rest of my friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

26 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i recently made a friend she's really sweet and caring and i want to keep her in my life because i like going to eat with her, go shopping and watch movies and stuff but i don't want to go to parties with her. she's not very fun and exciting. i don't know how to keep her out of ... (83 words)

I don't want any contact with my "boyfriend", what Do I Do Now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I met my boyfriend 11 years ago during vacation and it was instant connection, we hit it off right away. We are in long distance relationship, YES believe it or not, we are and we kept in touch all those years. I am sure some people out there will say this no real relationship ... (533 words)

How do I get past feeling so uncomfortable about his crazy past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you let go of your partner's crazy past? My bf is 31 now but from his late teens to his mid 20s, he was doing a lot of drugs, was partying all the time and having lots of sex with lots of different women. It was a crazy time in his life. I'm very different from him and... (206 words)

I have an interview for a job. Any hint, tips or suggestions to help me succeed this time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

26 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Can anyone give me some advice on this ? . I have an interview for a Sales Suppport position with an Estate Agency on Wednesday. It's only part time, but i don't mind about that. I have been unemployed for three years, and i don't have much work experience at all. The employer... (254 words)

Did he dump me or are we on a break?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

26 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my man for 6 months now. Things were going great, then he lost his dream job because of a stupid thing he did, found a new one but its not a good one, but he needs to work there to earn some money. He became really distant with me and stopped communicatin... (190 words)

Will girls care if...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - A few months ago a strange red mark appeared on my penis. Theres nothing painful about it, it is just a red patch on the skin on a bit bigger than a thumbnail. I went to the doctors and it is a skin condition called vitiligo. It is apparently incurable but is no threat to my ... (102 words)