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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm not a fast learner which hurts my employability! Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

27 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hope you can give me some advice. I'm feeling really sad and down for the past weeks. Since I graduated university in 2007 I'm having difficulty finding jobs and keeping them. I keep getting fired because I can't internalize information quick enough, I'm not a fast learner. ... (267 words)

Read sexual texts from my girlfriend to another girl, should I forgive her or breakup?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

27 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Please guide me with ur answers. N forgive me for the length. My gf and I are lesbians in a long distance relationship separated by an hour n a half. Newayz I noticed some changes in my gf and how she began to treat me. She stop texting sexual and wanting sexual pics she ... (431 words)

Any advice on ways other then oral sex or girl on top, to get my girlfriend to orgasm?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

27 November 2012 (M) age 30-35 - I am in a loving an monogamous long-distance relationship. It's been going swimmingly even though we're both in college. When we do get to see each other (about 5 out of every 30 days) we generally have a lot of sex and its been amazing. The only issue is, my girlfriend only ... (146 words)

How to not get attached if I am the rebound

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

27 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend (19) is on a rebound, I can tell. And I (19) am his rebound. I am moving away by next year August to another state for sure, so when this guy came up to me, I accepted to date him. Things have moved FAST. 2 weeks and we are already very intimate. I haven't slept ... (375 words)

Am I just trying to see something that is not there?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

27 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So I am wondering if anyone out there is an expert on body language. Theres this person in my life who well I find quite attractive. The problem is he has a matter of authority above me and is responible for my performance in what I do. I am not trying to start something. I ... (143 words)

Do you think we will ever have a future together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like ive made a huge mistake, i keep questioning my decision to end things with my bf of over 2 years, im heart broken.. Basically i ended things with my bf over many months of silly break ups and stupid arguments, we would text and pick it up wrong and argue, everythi... (575 words)

I fear I've been used by a man I met on a dating site.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

27 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been such a fool. I joined a dating site and met what seemed like a man in a million. He was a good listener, polite and we clicked. He took me for a meal and we ended up at my home, we talked and he listened to my problems and then we slept together and made love. When ... (120 words)

Should I go out with my late husband's cousin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

27 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband passed away 14 months ago, we were never a big part of his family his choice...we were involved in family functions and always respected everyone....his mother stopped talking to him 6 yrs before he passed, her choice...I have been invited to help with a big event my ... (126 words)

I really feel I need to get out of this mess, but he keeps telling me I'm making a mistake.. should I run as fast as I can?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My Fiance, slept with his late wife's sister soon after she passed. before we got together he said he was done with her and that they worked all there feelings out and that they would never do that again.. let me also mention that the sister is married but it was OK to sleep ... (293 words)

He did not want to date me but is now jealous that I am dating other people

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Cupids. What is it with men??? I have had a friendship with a guy for a year or more. We have flirted and clearly there was an attraction between us. We get along great, laugh together, have chemistry...yadda yadda yadda...all the things you would need to have a ... (364 words)

We don't like her, so we bully her. I think she's going to report us, any advice?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

27 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - in my friendship group there are 20 of us and we're all really close. since about yr6 we've been friends with this other girl,bertha, in yr7 we had a fall out. i felt really bad so i apologised to her face she accepted it, but did not apologise back. i let it pass but we've ... (298 words)

Is our hight difference causing our problems with some sexual positions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

27 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, im 5ft3 and my this guy im seeing is 5ft11, we havent reached the bf and gf step yet as we're both working non stop and meet only for 1hr or 2 sometimes. there's a substantial height different between us, we stuggle to have sex because of the height different, even with me ... (74 words)

Is my boyfriend backing off even though he said he won't dump me?!?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - help... My bf's form spread a rumour to the ENTIRE year that he was going to break up with me he told me it was'nt true but we still ended up arguing about it but he was adiment he wants to be with me still but I sent him a text and he said he really loves me and wants to be ... (170 words)

How do I preserve my libido when my husband is preoccupied with other women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have really no problem with my husband's occasional preoccupation with other women, such as cashiers that he jokes with for the most part. I don't feel much jealously at all. HOWEVER, when he wants sex with me, that is when I get a bit irritated. I don't like how I am ... (485 words)

I've been told my ex is probably mentally ill and dealing with it is a nightmare. What do I do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

27 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been separated from my husband for nearly three years. With all the difficulty we managed to maintain a friendship for the sake of our daughter but also as the marriage failed i believed we did care about each other. We both went on saw other people but a couple of ... (298 words)

Do I need counseling or is this a passing phase?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i've recently broken up with my boyfriend who I was with for a few years. ever since the break up I feel as though i've lost all respect for myself and my trust in others. I've had sex with people since and i've just let them treat me like i'm nothing. I used to be so happy and ... (147 words)

Do I tell my friends fiancee she's being cheated on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently found out that my friend is cheating on his fiancee. It wasn't a drunken one night stand either. He's been meeting up with this girl for quite some time now behind her back. I don't know his fiancee, but since i've found out, should I tell her? If so, how do I do ... (92 words)

Was she just being polite, or is she interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

27 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I have a question guys or girls. I asked a girl I like for her number. We talked briefly once before. We are both working in the hospital. I am a student on my last year and she is working as an undergrad nurse. I was finishing my night shift (11pm-7am) and she is start... (277 words)

My boyfriend hates our living situation. How can I improve is mood while we look for our own place?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

27 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfriend over a year and we have a 2month baby together his lived with me and my parents for 7 months but he is really unhappy living here and it puts him in a bad mood which he always takes out on me and it causes arguments and tears we are looking for our ... (76 words)

I have trouble reaching climax and ejaculation.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a fit and healthy 21-year-old and everything's fine in my life sexual health wise but there is only one problem- I can't ejaculate. I can feel everything fine, but even during unprotected sex I just can't climax. I used to masturbate in the face down position which was ... (118 words)

Does anyone else find certain accents sexy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm from up north and study at university here, this girl I met one night she's from London, but when I saw her in the bar I thought she was beautiful and then when she introduced herself her British accent caught my attention immediately! I love listening to her talk coul... (207 words)

One day my partner can be the sweetest person ever and the next he can be so mean that it can bring me to tears.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I have a partner i love to pieces and he loves me. But sometimes it can be strange. One day he can be the sweetest person ever and the next he can be so mean that it can bring me to tears. He always helps me out if i need it no matter what it is, but it can of... (196 words)

How long should it take before relationship becomes exclusive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - We've been dating for the past 8 months. How long should it take before relationship becomes exclusive?... (20 words)

What did my G/f mean when she said this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend told me this: "I sometimes love you and sometimes not, when you're with me I don't but when I'm with you I really want you to be with me" I have no idea what to do, we broke up a week or two ago but we both want to be back, but she is too confused about what's h... (72 words)

I think my boyfriend is cheating on me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am concerned my boyfriend is cheating on me. I have had suspicions before as in our first year of University I heard him talking, drunkenly, to one of his other flat mates about how he would love to sleep with this other girl he lived with and also acts flirty around other ... (336 words)

My boyfriend has lent an ex-girlfriend £200 of our joint money and she hasn't paid a penny back

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfrind of just over 2 years has just lent an ex-girlfriend £200 of our joint money. This was 6 weeks ago now and she hasn't paid a penny back. I reluctantly agreed to this because my boyfrind tells me's a good man and she is now just a friend and he would do the same for ... (237 words)

My boyfriend constantly brings up my past, how do I get him to see I've changed and help us move on together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

27 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been with my boyfriend for 11 months. 16 months ago I split up from my husband and went a little crazy, craving attention from absolutely any guy I met. I slept with a few guys but would also get guys numbers and constantly text them and email them as their replies would ... (536 words)

I want a boyfriend but I've never met a boy that I like and no boys seem to like me! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Basically, I want a boy-friend. But I'm finding this absolutly impossible to do, for three reasons. 1. No boy seems to like me, none! I've had one boy crush on me, in primary school. It makes me feel horrible that no-one seems to like me, and the more it becomes apparant that... (205 words)

How can I get through this heartache of my boyfriend leaving me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in a relationship with this guy for 4.5 months (we're both 18). We had some really good times but more often than I should have, I got upset by his decrease in effort and his sexual pressure though I wasn't ready to lose my virginity and said no, fights etc. He wanted me ... (345 words)

I cant face going into work, but this makes my anxiety worse. I feel at a complete loss with life, any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am currently having the most difficult year of my life and I am struggling so very much. Since April this year, my dad has died, I have moved house, got married, my uncle has died, my mum is constantly in and out of hospital with serious problems (heart attacks, angina,... (287 words)

He's been separated for 6 years but wont get a divorce, am I a mug for staying with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

27 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 18 months, he has been separated from his wife for 6 years! But still isn't divorced! He says she means nothing to him and its only a piece of paper. We have bought a house together and I have 1 child and he has 2 who stay with us most ... (148 words)

How can I find out if this girl likes me without putting myself completely out there?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - By nature, I have always been a bit on the anti-social side. I'm more comfortable in my own company rather than with most people I know. However, there is this girl that has started to work on my floor over a week ago. I instantly had a physical attraction to her. But like... (384 words)

I told her that I liked her despite her having a new boyfriend but the conversation didnt go anywhere, have I ruined our friendship? What do I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - there is this girl that i've known since my college days. today, i discovered that she now has a new boyfriend ( which really came a bit of a shock for me). i never even once thought before that i like her at the that we are attending the same college although i really find her ... (348 words)

I'm a nice guy is that why I get friendzoned?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

27 November 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm what you could call a nice guy. I hold doors open for girls, always treat them with the respect they deserve, and my friends that are girls say that I'm sweet, ask why more guys aren't like me, and why I'm not dating anyone. Yet, even when I chase some of those same girls ... (78 words)

How did I get HPV if I have had only 1 sexual partner?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So I got a Pap smear recently and my doctor told me I had abnormal results and needed a colposcopy. The results from that showed that I'm HPV + ! However I have only been with 1 person sexually my whole life, my current boyfriend. He on the other hand has had several sexual ... (158 words)

Is he a narcissist? He's jekyll and hyde and I never know what to expect from him..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - i am a mess. i have recently split from my partner who i believe may be a narcissist. im not sure where to begin, but this is what ive come to believe and know -he is jekyll and hyde. there is no predicting how he will act toward me from one day to the next. at times he is t... (352 words)

Should I just get over what happened and get back with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - well me and my boyfriend have been together for six months. i thought our relationship was pretty good even though we've had our issues we always have managed. my boyfriend has messed up bad before, he talked to his ex behind my back, amoung others things that i forgave him for ... (224 words)

He took parts of our conversation and posted it for everyone to see!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - so the other night I was chatting with this guy. we've had a sort of weird past. I thought he didn't care for me and was almost like a jerk. we literally stayed up all night for like 5 hrs talking about nothing and yet everything. he asked me questions about my life, like if I ... (233 words)

I feel guilty that my boyfriend gave up a long lasting friendship for me. I never asked him to!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have kind of a complicated situation... So my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now, and he has been in love with his female friend for a very long time. They knew one another in elementary school, and were rather close. They never dated, but his f... (291 words)

Cheating father--do I tell my mother?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 25 and live at home with my parents. My father has always been somewhat "shady". He stays out u till late many nights and him and my mother have had argued on and off for many years. When they are going through a "fighting stage" (usually after my dads gone out every night ... (282 words)

Do I need to take out clit piercing for a pap test?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a pap test this week and I have a VCH (clit piercing). I was curious if I would have to take it out for my pap test? I've never taken it out before, but it's been over 2 months since I got it so it's healed. ... (48 words)

Did we break up for the wrong reasons?

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27 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunts ^^ My boyfriend of a year and a half have recently broken up. We've been good friends since eleventh grade and we started going out in twelfth. We've always gotten along very well and loved each other very much. However, when we graduated and had to part ways... (526 words)

I told my ex that I had not been with anyone but I had

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi - I'm in a bit of a pickle. Over two months ago I broke up with my live in boyfriend because it just wasn't working out. We'd been arguing a lot (literally screaming at each other) and neither of us were happy. We weren't communicating well at all, I was moaning all the time ... (1239 words)

My partner is wanting to move out because he feels numb...

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27 November 2012 (F)

age - My partner want to move out... he has been in depression for 2 years... He has started counceling but after 4 months quit, because he felt the councelor was really not helping..He is taking 150 ml of zoloft. He has been saying that he is numb, not feelings, and has axziety. He ... (205 words)