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writes:Why are some girls sooo hard to figure out? I mean seriously I feel like wacking my head against a wall sometimes. Theres this girl I been talking to for months, we even met and from first time we kissed etc. But only met twice because I went on holiday, and she also went so it put a good months gap between us. She had many family issues, which im aware of and claims she is really stressed out, i assume she is not interested or just needs time so i take it easy and back off a little (after asking her how she is and she being blunt)She than texts me, but replies short messages. This really bugs me, either talk properly? or dont talk at all?I get annoyed and tell her if she doesnt want to talk, i will leave her alone. I thought it was what she was waiting for.Yet she than sends me 3 texts over the day telling me how she has feelings for me and understands if i dont want to talk to her anymore.relieved, i txt her saying ye i miss old good times. and i ask how she is etc to all which she replies one word answers.i try to joke around (even though i want to slap myself for even trying to stay calm) saying you cannot give me answer which is one word. so in return i get a 1word answer.its ridiculous?why do i have to work this hard? or am i wasting time?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2012): You're not insane but you will be if you keep messing around with this loony tick, Run like you never ran before.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2012): She's hard to figure out because she doesn't want you to get to know her, she's playing games, she has a lot of secrets. She knows what she's doing... You just don't know what she's doing... that's why she like to text because if she start talking then she know you will find her out.
Be very careful of women like that because if she doesn't have anything to hide she would hold a conversation with you intead of being blunt.
There're some pieces missing from her thousand piece puzzle so don't puzzle your brains trying to put this puzzle together, it's trash so throw it in the garbage.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2012): You're not the insane one but you will be if you keep messing around with her. She's crazy as a loony tick, so drop her as fast as you can, she's playing games, she knows what she's doing... you just don't know what she's doing... There're some pieces missing from her thousand piece puzzle so you'll never be able to put that puzzle together so don't even puzzle your brain it's trash so throw it in the garbage. She's doesn't want you to get to know her, you learn about a person when you communicate with them, she know if she talk you will find out about her.
She sounds like my son's ex-girlfriend didn't talk much because she had a lot of secerts, all she did was text because she didn't want us to get to know her. We thought the world of her because she was very quiet, she was a choir director, worked with the kids in church and come to find out she was dating three guys, she's a gold digger, she dumped my son just like that for a guy ten years younger than her, my son moved on, she's using this young guy bigtime, they got married, he worked a lot of overtime to pay for the wedding, the wedding cost him a lot of money because she didn't want a husband she just wanted a big wedding and a baby that due soon so she can get child support, she told him he could move in with her after her grown son get out of college in 2014. They've been together almost two year and right away he bought the rings, six months after they were married he got her a new car, two months after she got the car she made him get her new furniture and she won't let him live with her yet, this guy is gonna get hurt really bad, this is his first love so he know he has to work a lot of overtime to get whatever she want or she will let him go, she shows no interest in him.
People on the job are saying he needs to get an DNA test because it maynot be his baby since she was dating a married man on the same job.
Hope you don't fall in the same shoes as this poor guy.
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (7 November 2012):
 You could pick up the phone and c-a-l-l her instead of so much texting. If you want the relationship to move forward you need to spend some time talking voice-to-voice. There's only so much people want to type out. Besides it takes more time, it can be dangerous if you're driving, you can't do it at work or school so her one-word answers could be due to the fact that it's just not the best way to communicate.
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reader, Staceily  +, writes (6 November 2012):
 Forget her. She doesn't seem interested and she likes playing games. You have already mentioned you want to receive more than a one word answer and she does it anyway, screw it. Not worth so much effort and annoyance.
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