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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't know if I want to leave the stability of my marriage for this guy, but I don't trust my husband either!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

13 November 2012 (F) age 30-35 - Here's my story. I am married, have been for almost 2 years. We have a 2 year old together. I found out I was pregnant only month after I met my now husband. While I was 6 months pregnant I found out my husband was cheating. I took him back and he promised to cut off all ties ... (279 words)

feel like I'm drifting away from my friend - how do I reach out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4420 days ago

13 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, This is really getting me down. I am in college and am awkward, painfully quiet, and bad at interacting with people. Now I feel like I'm drifting away from one of my friends, and don't know how to change this. I met this friend just about a year ago, an... (540 words)

My ex wants to get together for sex - does she really want more??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

13 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - i've been seperated from my girlfriend for about a month now. we split due to differences between us. for example, she's very high strung, i'm very laid back. she's very conservative with how she wants to raise kids (which we both decided we would have wanted down the road), i ... (388 words)

Why is my boyfriend avoiding the subject? Should I confront him about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4219 days ago

13 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I posted a while back that my bf had wrongfully accused me of hooking up with an acquaintance of ours before we started dating. He said the guy told him we had sex, so I sent the guy a message saying that I didn't care if he said it or not, that he needed to tell me the truth ... (309 words)

Did I overreact and push him away or is he being selfish and unsupportive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4420 days ago

13 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My on-again, off-again bf and I started talking again a few weeks ago and things were going well until a few days ago. I moved cross-country a few months ago to help out with my family, which hurt our relationship once he changed his mind about moving with me. The other... (753 words)

Can I get another male perspective on my complicated situation??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

13 November 2012 (?) age 41-50 - Can you give me a male perspective? I've been dealing with the issue of my brother in law and I having feelings for each other. I've posted questions and I've thought a lot about this but im struggling to imagine the situation from my husbands point of view. My husb... (891 words)

How Do I or Should I ask him about us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4405 days ago

13 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I spent a month with a guy this summer, before he left for school. We knew each other before then, but I was seeing someone else so we kept it to friends. However we started texting after my relationship ended and we found that we both really liked spending time together. ... (458 words)

Should I get a second ear piercing?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

13 November 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - i want to get a second ear piercing because i think they are cute and catchy. i just really like them and almost obsessed with them. it's just whenever i want to go and get a second piercing i always wonder if it would ruin my ear, as i've always only had one on each ear. if ... (72 words)

Having feelings for my ex- do I tell I tell my husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

13 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am currently married to a great man with whom I have three children and I also have an older daughter from my first marriage. My older daughter sees her father a lot, and as such, I often see my ex-husband when he comes to pick her up and drop her off and, I don't know why... (150 words)

She's great, but my friend still has feelings for her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

13 November 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - so i met this girl who is the one i have always wanted to find,we have so many things in common that it's scary. our conversations are magical, but here is the problem. she and one of my best friends had this thing a couple of months ago, nothing serious,some kisses and idk ... (186 words)

How do you deal with losing someone who made you genuinely happy when you did nothing to cause the distance?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

13 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Thank u in advance for ur help. So i had a female friend who i have been getting along with since September. We would see and talk to one another at least twice a week. I had feelings for her but since it was a great connection i let it play itself out. Problem( is, she spent ... (193 words)

How much do you normally spend on Christmas gifts for in laws and parents?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

13 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question regarding Christmas gift giving. How much do you typically spend on parents and in laws for Christmas? I can only really use my own family and my husbands family as examples and we do things pretty differently so I'm curious what others do for their parents. ... (354 words)

I left my wife for a woman half my age. Now I hear crap like she will leave me one day, how do I stop it and what do I do if she does leave?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

13 November 2012 (M)

age - let me start out by saying that i usually dont need advice but im truly upset. i am 49 cheated on my wife with a girl half my age, left my wife for her, got a divorce, got engaged, and now im going to be a father for the first time, to my own child. i helped raise my wives ... (321 words)

I know he has bought lingerie for women in the past but with me he claims he's new the idea and won't. Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4421 days ago

13 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - His MO use to be to buy his ex girlfriends flowers, lingerie and a card I found out. He has never done this with me. Victoria's Secret catalog arrived in the mail and he said look it's Victoria's Secret. I said and so what you going to buy me. He said I don't know, I'm new at ... (209 words)

She's a liar but every time I try to leave she cries and I stay. Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

13 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I wanna start by saying that im a 25 year old male from ct. I've been dating this girl for the past year and a half and I knew not to get involved from day one. When I met her she was in a relationship for about a month with a guy almost an hour away. She told me that he didn't ... (550 words)

Questions for the ladies-- set 2

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

13 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey ladies, set 2: Question 4: Have you ever fantasised about one of your boyfriends/ husbands friends? My answer: Once or twice Question 5: Do you secretly watch porn behind your mans back? Well we know a lot of men do this and try to keep it secret, what about you? ... (117 words)

My specialist doctor makes me feel very uncomfortable around him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

13 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing a specialist doctor over the last couple of years about an medical problem regarding an intimate area and have to see him again in the future for check ups. I feel a bit uncomfortable around him. He stares at my lips the whole time and looks at my bum. No ... (147 words)

My boyfriend is dirty and won't take a shower for me, how can I get him to?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

13 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My Boyfriend does not like to keep himself hygienically clean. He is almost a 40 year old man. His average is a shower every three days. He thinks that he is clean. It gets hard to be intimate due to his lack of cleanliness; it affects my sex life in a bad way, he has no issue ... (299 words)

I like her! How can I tell if she likes me too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4418 days ago

13 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - This girl is all over my mind.shes my junior in college.we had a few conversations and i had developed feelings for her..now i need ur help guys. I'm 21 and Shes 17.she's really friendly and cute.we realy talk openly with each other.i realy like her,i just want to know if she l... (170 words)

I haven't been showing much affection lately, what can I do now to bring back his smile?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4421 days ago

13 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for about close to 10 months now. And well... Quite recently I have just finished my Major Examinations. So.. Freedom. During the period of my examinations, he has been there for me, making time for me and supporting me during my exam... (226 words)

Why do I feel guilty giving the cold shoulder to someone who was rude to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4387 days ago

13 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a curiosity question mainly for psychologist, and psychology lovers. Keeping in mind this was three years ago. About three - four years ago i was volunteering at youth center there this worker, all the female staff pretty much drooling behinds his back, I re... (381 words)

I had sex with a married man but now he won't speak to me! What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

13 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - please help i had sex twice with this married man who is driving me crazy,i know what i did was wrong but i couldnt control my self i was so attracted to him but ever since the last time we had sex this was like three weeks ago he hasnt kept intouch it pains me sometimes he can ... (104 words)

He hasn't responded to my texts so I left him alone for a few weeks. Should I try again now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

13 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had this crush on this boy for about two months and when I first started to like him I got his number and we'd text a lot and flirt and at one point we even kissed. But he just got out of a major relationship so he doesn't want anything serious. Which I do. But I told him ... (139 words)

Did I do the right thing by walking away when my fiance was staring at a woman? He didn't try to find me.

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

13 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance stares a lot at women in front of me. I've talked to him about it, but to no avail. His staring can get blatant, up and down looks, looking at their rear. No matter where we go, he looks or tries to sneak a peek in. I see it all even if he tries to attempt to cover ... (492 words)

I've got to live with my ex for another 4 months and she's seeing other guys already! How do I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

13 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 26 my ex is 21. (go figure I'd have relationship issues right?) Alright, so my now ex-girlfriend and I were together for 2 years. A few weeks ago I noticed a change in her behavior, she was shielding her phone. So I looked through it when she was sleeping, found out she ... (410 words)

I like this girl a lot but she keeps changing her mind about what she wants. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

13 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - was wondering if people could advise me as im confused and depressed by this situation. i've been seeing this girl. we slept together a couple of times and it all seemed good. then she suddenyl started being busy- going to parties and stuff and didnt want me to come to. i as... (363 words)

Do you thnk I was out of order texting him about him beating up his ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

13 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in such a state about my ex I don't know what to do. We split up a month ago, we had a terrible relationship. Basically he was looking through my facebook messages within a week of us being together, he saw that men messaged me dirty things and was furious. I didn't say ... (387 words)

Ignoring me then texting me wanting sex, this has been going on for 2 years! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

13 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i am new here just need some advice on this. I have been sleeping with a man for 2 years, we were boyfriend/girlfriend then somehow ended up fwbs. i hadnt saw him for a few weeks so i text him and asked him if he had slept with someone else, he replied yes he had, so i ... (133 words)

How do you find a trustworthy guy? It is making me want to give up on men completely....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

13 November 2012 (F) age 41-50 - Hi, I know this is probably going to get a bit of hate, because I know that I'm stereotyping men in a negative way, but it's just how it is, I'm sorry. :/ I kind of need advice on the future - I have kind of a damaging view of men, that makes me want to just give up complete... (298 words)

We waited for a year to have sex, yet when we were broken up she gave herself away so easily! Can I trust her now we are back together?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

13 November 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - When we split up, she was with someone else in a couple weeks. We waited over a year to have sex, how could she move on so fast and just give herself away like that. We are back together now, can I trust her? Moving on and having sex with someone else seemed so easy for her... (57 words)

Questions for the ladies....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

13 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to ask the ladies a few questions. I hear so much about what MEN want from women and their relationships but not so much about what women want, in fact a lot of the time the women seem to be asking questions about how they can improve for their men, so...ladies, I have a ... (201 words)

Is there anyway a doctor could diagnose me without having to touch me down there?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

13 November 2012 (F) age 30-35 - hi all, this is going to be a weird/awkward/gross question... but, I don't know where else to ask. I vaguely remember this... when I was probably 11 or so, I found a sort of sex toy or maybe a ring thing that would go around the guy and it vibrates... I remember thinkin... (374 words)

She's not interested in "shrooming" with me...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

13 November 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I really love her, we've been together for 9 months as of the other day. I ask that anyone who reads this, do so with an open mind and not cast judgement or speak against "drugs", assert that I have a problem or anything likewise. Things were really good for us until recently. ... (329 words)

How do people who live together keep the passion and desire alive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

13 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - hey, i'd like advice on how to preserve longing and desire in a longterm relationship when you move in together, please? My bf of 2 years and I are very happy together and very passionate:) He wants us to move in together and the thing holding me back is the worry that sexual ... (229 words)

He keeps in contact with the ex and didn't tell me about it...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

13 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend hung out with an ex girlfriend a few different times while he was visiting home and didn't tell me about it. I found out a few weeks later because I was snooping through his texts. I felt so guilty about snooping that I confronted him about the whole situation. I ... (227 words)

Should I tell him or just carry on and get rid of it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

13 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So ive only been intimate with one man for the last 3 months, last month my period came oct. 15 until oc 20. We had sex oct. 21. And after that we text one time until we hung out again but i was drunk n messed things up between us, he said he would never contact me again which ... (164 words)

My feel my whole family are against me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4421 days ago

13 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am eldest daughter in my family yet my parents treat me like trash. in past i had affair with a guy who i broke up with as he made my life miserable, making me go through worst periods of my life, he cheated me despite the fact that i loved him a lot. I went into depression ... (365 words)

Is it possible for your hymen to be broken and you are still a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

13 November 2012 (?) age 30-35 - I am very stubborn… I finally went out with the guy and we spent a day together... I still footed half the bill… but I think I lost my virginity… I still feel as one tho… His did not penetrate me… I did not allow him but I saw blood on the bed and then when I went to the toilet ... (128 words)

What does it mean when a guy stares at you or smiles at you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

13 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So I was talking to this guy and he would give me eye contact when we would talk to each other. Even after we stopped speaking, he would sometimes just smile at me or he would stare at me. I didn't know whether he was just being friendly or if he was hitting on me? ... (57 words)

I know I've messed him around. What might he be thinking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

13 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Met a guy, talked for hours, kissed, he walked me home and when I didn’t want him to leave took me to his where we cuddled (no sex just kissing – despite him having an erection not once did he try anything, he was a gent). He took me in a taxi home and hugged me goodbye and ... (451 words)

Why can't I say the word "Love" to anyone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4422 days ago

13 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've known this guy for three years and we were just friends and the other day he said he loved me, but i just cant get the words out of my mouth. I dont no how i feel, i've never been able to tell anyone i love them, not even the people who are the closest to me, but they dont ... (66 words)

Should I leave my frigid husband of 20 years?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

13 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I need advice on whether to end my marriage of 20 years. I have 2 kids, age 11 and 14. I am a Stay at Home Mom. My husband does not initiate sex, has no interest in sex but keeps me around. Probably to do the housework and childcare. Strange thing is if I initiate he will ... (289 words)