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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is this a good way to keep her on her toes and interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

15 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone I just wanted some insight! So I've recently started dating my ex of a few years ago and since then we've both matured and have learned a lot since then. I am very happy to be dating her and her vise versa, we connect really well and both fell the exact same way ... (227 words)

Are the intentions of this man innocent?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4387 days ago

15 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am attracted to a man who happens to be married but will not ever do more than occasionally think about him. He has always been kind of flirtatious and he gives me vibes and looks of admiration. I always hear his wife criticizing him over the silliest things that my jaw drops ... (266 words)

So worried about what will happen if we break up. Will I find anyone else?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4387 days ago

15 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 28 years old and I think I might lose my first girlfriend. She was the first woman I've ever been with. I lost my virginity to her. But lately we haven't been getting along so well. I'm so worried what will happen if we break up. I may never find anyone else. It was so ... (129 words)

Been depressed and felt nothing for a while now. Can anyone suggest anything that will make me feel...something?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

15 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Back in February, I went to the doctors for the first time about depression. It was a huge step for me to face up to it, and I got given anti-depressants. They got increased, and I didn’t feel they were doing much good, so I made the decision to ease off them slowly, and help ... (385 words)

Want to follow my plans but I also love my boyfriend who doesn't share my passion, where's the compromise?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

15 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have this dream of going off to developing countries and making a difference to people out there - you know it might sound extreme but I've already done the training in teaching and as a nurse. I'd love to specialise in paediatrics, intensive care and infectious diseases and ... (473 words)

Why does he protect me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4387 days ago

15 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Second week at work and I have had issues with some people. This man at work who is usually very quiet, he's a old school man, he doesn't get involved with office politics. I just found out that behind my back he has been protecting me. telling my manager i've been doing ... (117 words)

My boyfriend isn't very affectionate. Should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

15 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of over a year now is no longer very affectionate. He says he isn't muchy gushy and doesn't like kissing. He just did it to make me be with him in the beginning of the relationship. Whenever I want to talk about our relationship, he responds by saying " I don't ... (104 words)

Making love work for the second time.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4388 days ago

15 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this man for over a year now. I have never had a stronger connection with anyone than him. The past three months have been hard we were falling apart. We broke up and now we have been going on dates. He wants to take things slow and he says he doesn't want to ... (120 words)

Broke up with boyfriend of 9 months. How will I cope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

15 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've just broken up with my boyfriend of 9 months. I loved him more than anyone in the world, i know i'm young but he was my first, i planned to have a future with him, even kids at one point, hes been there for me throughout everything, and i've been there for him throughout ... (619 words)

What is with the mind games

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

15 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I really could cry i am so angry at the moment!!! Me and a co worker who were not that close, yesterday we were. He was flirting so was I. He is the quiet type in the office full of women, but with me he talks alot infront of alot people. He protects me- two people gav... (228 words)

What is wrong with people these days? They say I look like some-one that I don't look like.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

15 November 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - people say i look like sheldon's girlfriend from the big bang theory. i do have thick stright hair and glasses but i don't think i look as ugly as her, i have long straight hair (some people say it looks silky) i have some reading glasses, no pimples. what is wrong with people ... (55 words)

Are these comments innuendo, and do they show he's comfortable with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

15 November 2012 (F) - I am friends with a man who I have known for a few years. Because we are on a committee together I sent him a text once saying that this particular bush had been cut back because he had complained about it and his reply was 'i must admit I like a well trimmed bush' another... (638 words)

Sex Survey: how often do you want it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

15 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Questions for married women ages 40-50 in long term marriages. How often would you like sex? Once a week? Every day? How often does your husband initiate? Please state your age, years married and sex frequency you'd like. Also state your % estimate of who initiates. For e... (101 words)

He's a white supremacist but I am not white. So how will he feel about our unborn child?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4387 days ago

15 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is going to sound ridiculous I am non white but my BF is a white supremacist, did time in prison, which is where he picked up the ideology. He wears a Thors pendant, follows asatru and all that. He thinks whites are superior to blacks, but agrees that other races (such as ... (127 words)

'Making Love' versus 'Having Sex' with boyfriend.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4387 days ago

15 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - So I guess this is a question about lovemaking vs sex. I had spent the day with my boyfriend and he was helping me studying. Then after several hours I had to go out to do something else, and we were kissing a bit, and I said, I have to go, and he said, aren't we going ... (358 words)

I've only ever had sex with prostitutes. Should I continue or try having a relationship? And should I keep my past secret?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4386 days ago

15 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I have been using prostitutes for about 4 years. I lost my virginity to a prostitute and ever since I only had sex with "working girls". The reason I do this is that it is so much simpler than picking-up women and far more straight-forward. I use to think that I do this ... (231 words)

Parents have been divorced for 10 years. Now my mother wants my father to sell his house to divide the money and give me something for a future downpayment. Is this appalingly unreasonable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4387 days ago

15 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My parents immigrated to this country in 1999. When people say that immigration either makes the family stronger or tears it apart, they cannot be more right. Unfortunately in my case, my mom divorced my dad shortly after coming to this country. I am 24 now, and I can truly say ... (1115 words)

I'm pregnant and broke up with baby's dad. He says he doesn't want me to breast feed the baby! Should I take legal advise re access? It was amicable up until this ....

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

15 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 29 weeks pregnant with my first child. Me and the babys father have separated due to him being unfaithful (not the issue here tho). We are both trying to be as involved as we can, he has been to all scans and classes and he is going to be present at babys birth because ... (394 words)

All the girls go for my good looking friend instead of me!

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

15 November 2012 (?) age 30-35 - A friend of mine is the total opposite of me. He is 6'2 with blond hair and has stunning looks and he works out. I'm 5'8, work out and play sports, but don't look stunning like he does. I've been told I am handsome by older family and that is it. I have only had one ... (282 words)

How can I stop worrying about my girlfriend when she goes out? She tends to drink too much and not remember what happened....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

15 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I’m currently dating a girl who’s a senior at the college I just graduated from, and we are, for this semester, doing a distance relationship. We see each other about once a month, though I have a job lined up near the college for the spring so the distance aspect will end. ... (377 words)

How can I help my friend? I can see she is hurting....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

15 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm trying to help a friend. She is now 19, and with a kid and boyfriend. She came to me upset and asked me not to tell her boyfriend. I'm really not sure what to make of this, so I'm not sure how to help so here's her story. She met her boyfriend when she was 14, they wer... (323 words)

GIrls: Do you like hairy guys?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

15 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi This question is for mostly for girls. Do you find attractive "hairy men"(hope you understand), who has hair in chest,back and legs,or maybe you will dump them.Also do you think guys with classic beard are attractive, even I think this depend on fashion of country/region.?... (50 words)

How can I get a guy whom I love out of my heart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4388 days ago

15 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear people, There is one question I don't have an answer for. I have loved only one guy in my life. Though I know that it's not the same with him. He was only interested in mere physical relations. i did not let him use me for that reason. He abused me in turn and said mea... (445 words)

Am I weird for thinking this girl was hotter when she was dressed more casually?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

15 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Maybe this is an odd question to ask, but I went on a date with this girl last night and i've only ever seen this girl on nights out when she is in her heels, fitted dresses and i suppose she wears more make up. We were only going for a drink, so i didn't really think about ... (331 words)

Debate: GIrls love being treated like dirt!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

15 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Girls are weird. Whether u all admit it or not. Most my school and teen years I used to see guys being docks and girls getting hurt and complaining. I always wondered why they didn't go out with nice guys like me who would not hurt them. Few years later I still didn't... (247 words)

Have I read the signs right? I do think she likes me. true or false?

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15 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I been hanging out with this girl I study with. I think she likes me. Reason i say that is because she talks to me a lot, but never says no to me to go out and also has now started texting me all day and not to mention the effort she has recently starting to putting in on tr... (120 words)

Dreams about not being able to walk....what does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4387 days ago

15 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I don't know if this happens to you guys,but every night I get a dream about not being able to walk..like I don't meet with an accident or anything,neither am I paralysed or handicapped or anything in the dream,I'm fine,like yesterday I dreamt that I got down fro... (76 words)

My ex owes me money! Is it worth trying to get it back?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

15 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Grrrrr, i can't believe I am yet again posting about my ex... He owes me money for a car that i sold back to him before the summer (at his request might i add) I have sent him a couple of reminder emails, but just get fobbed off each time, last one said he lost one of his ... (188 words)

How can I get my boyfriend to stop playing with my hair? He's caused a lot of it to fall out!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4387 days ago

15 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this is a stupid question but I need as many suggestions as possible. My boyfriend always plays with my hair and I need him to stop. He does it without thinking, in the car, in his sleep, laying in his arms watching tv, at the cinema, sitting talking etc. To begin with it ... (408 words)

How do I stay away from older men when I'm so young?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4387 days ago

15 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey there ! :) so basically I have always liked older men, usually im attracted to someone in their 20's but have recently started talking to more in the 30-late 40s . There's just one problem I'm 16 a month away from 17 and am waiting so patiently to turn 18 since that's the ... (264 words)

Help me leave my wife

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

15 November 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I am not happy in my marriage. My wife is my best friend, but there is no real desire or passion. In addition, she is an alcoholic. We've struggled with these issues for a long time and I have reached the end of my rope. My problem is that I cannot afford to move out to m... (127 words)

Cousins love - can it work, even though I'm married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4387 days ago

15 November 2012 (F)

age - Basically, I fallen in love with my cousin. He tells me he feels the same and wants to spend the rest of his life with me. We didn't grow up together and I only met him once when I was a teenager - we live in different countries and I am now in my forties - he is in his fift... (212 words)

Why is my boyfriend changing his mind so frequently?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

15 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do some men change thier minds all time about what they want? My bf and I started living together again after splitting up for 9 mths. He hated living on his own and wanted to be family again with me and our 2 kids. He came back and had all these plans about buying my home ... (215 words)

How can my husband and I handle the drama with his ex-partners and his children? It's becoming a problem

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

15 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I married to the most wonderful man I've ever known. We both in our 30's and are both Born Again Christians. He has fathered three boys before we met. I gave birth to one son during my first marriage. We got married in February this year and I gave birth to our son three mon... (274 words)

I get sick when I give blowjobs and swallow but husband wants me to do it!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4387 days ago

15 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband wanted me to try swallowing when i give him a blowjob. Ive tried before but the thought makes me feel really sick and when i tried it i was sick which was pretty embarrasing/horrible. Its nothing personal to my husband its just not something iv ever done. Is there ... (63 words)

Is it inappropiate for a female coworker to continue to text my husband

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

15 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it inappropiate for a female coworker to continue to text my husband, of 22 years? He says they are just friends and he is doing nothing wrong. She only text him when he is at work, they work opposite shifts. I have seen some of the texts and they are work related. Recently ... (206 words)

Why do involved guys send texts to other girls?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

15 November 2012 (F) age 30-35 - My boyfriend has been sending dirty texts to other girls and he knows that I know. Why do guys send dirty message to other girls if they're in a relationship?... (30 words)

I know he's a married lying cheating man but how do I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

15 November 2012 (F) age 36-40 - Around a year and a half ago, I met a guy (my co-worker but we work different schedules so we hardly meet at work) and we started dating. We fell in love with each other...this went on for around 4 months and then I found out that he is married with a child and with another... (368 words)

We had a fight, partner hasn't contacted me in 24 hours. Do I have a right to be angry?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

15 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am just looking for some advice from anyone who might have been in a similar situation. Last night my partner of 4 years and I had a huge fight. We do fight sometimes but usually are a very loving couple. The fight was over me being called lots of names and i got upset about ... (172 words)

How does a much older man approach a young woman who hates men?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

15 November 2012 (M)

age - I too have a propensity for endearment for a woman 21 years younger than me. I have watched her evolve from a 23 year old girl to a 31 year woman and have gone from a crush to something else much stonger. Only problem is that she hates men due to a bad relationship tha... (128 words)

Did I mess up a good thing because of my medication?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4388 days ago

15 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl in my class that I'm really into and she is clearly into me, we always look deep into each others eyes during class and she laughs at my cheesy jokes and we poke fun at each other. She invited me to go see a school play with her on Friday. Today we had to ... (356 words)

I have no peace after this relationship ended!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4375 days ago

15 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm not even sure if this is a question... I just need to write this out, and maybe get some clarity... Ten years ago, when I was in high school, I was in love with someone. I hung out with her occasionally, but kinda distanced myself, because she was into drugs, and datin... (790 words)

Boyfriend has become aggressive since we had a baby. Do I leave him or find out what he's acting this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

15 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 years...hes been a rock in my life..but since our baby arrived 18 months ago his shown me an aggressive side to his nature and recentely that aggression has gone on me...what do i do ...hes becoming a monster and i no thats not his ... (70 words)

Do we keep the baby and give up our dreams of going abroad?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

15 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, it's the middle of the night and I can't sleep. I am 32 years old, just married to the most amazing man ever: we are very much in love. Today I found out I am pregnant, despite being on birth control (how is that even possible?). Anyway: I can't sleep because my husband ... (202 words)

Never asked a girl out, should I feel bad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

15 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm turning 21 years old on Sunday and it's been dawning on me lately that I've never asked out a girl ever. And I'm feeling a little pathetic about it. In high school, I was seen as different from a lot of the other kids due to my unique interests. Most girls wouldn't g... (507 words)

I don't want to fall back in his trap

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

15 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in college living on campus with my friends in an aparment and I've been in a relationship for almost four years now and I've finally had enough of the stuff that he put me though so I broke up with him. He has almost expected me to be there at his becking call and to wait ... (382 words)

I just cant get this guy out of my head!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

15 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I work in a bar where the majority of the customers are middle aged (I'm 20) and there is a group of friends that come in every weekend for a drink and stay all evening I really like one of them and Im not sure what to do, I think (but am not sure) he goes out with/ or is ... (187 words)

My husband is the jerk not me, so he should have to move out, not me..right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

15 November 2012 (F)

age - My husband recently had a small stroke. Before this and after, he had been acting weird; staying out all the time. spending money (even though there wasn't money in the checking account), lying all the time, moody and depressed, never wanting to go out, being mean to me and my ... (184 words)

Boyfriend claims that I have control issues

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

15 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend is 17 years old, and I'm 15. We've been dating for a year and 3 months. Here in the past few months, we've been arguing and fighting a lot. He claims that I'm "obsessive and controlling" for the fact that I get upset when he goes with his friends or works late ... (162 words)

I feel ugly and I don't think any guy will ever want me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

15 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Help I am 18 and having a rough time. I feel ugly and I dont think any guy will ever want me or choose me over anyone else. My mum says I am beautiful but I think she would say that. I am at the stage where I dont like anything about myself. I am very quiet and dont feel ... (105 words)

Is it illegal to watch porn online?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

15 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok now i no im about to sound stupid but... a couple of weeks ago and again last night i watched porn on an online site( strictly adult couples nothing wrong or sick ect ) I dont know why I watched it, I think it was just curiosity but it suddenly crossed my mind that it could ... (87 words)

When I'm not home or sleeping all my boyfriend does is watch porn.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

15 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - So I have a question thats been bothering me alot lately.... I been with the same man going on a year and the last month or so I have noticed that when im not home or sleeping all he does is watch porn... I mean there is like 50 things a day from different porn sites... He ... (82 words)