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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I know people do move on, but everyone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4394 days ago

25 November 2012 (F) age 36-40 - I am feeling pretty down right now and would love some advice from other people on what to do because I seem to be losing my friends and boyfriend all at once. I am 27 and I have 2 best friends and a boyfriend of 3 years. I have had other close friends over the years, but t... (483 words)

She says she hates me and that I have no empathy! What do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 November 2012 (M)

age - i never thought id be doing this but here i am. Im in a 2nd marrage and have been for 10 years. No bio children but 5 between us, mine are 25 to 30. my wife recently told me she's had enough, hates me, and i dont give anything back while she give it all (she is a wonderfu... (173 words)

Are there enough signs here to indicate that he likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

25 November 2012 (F) age 36-40 - So I am really confused by this guy. We work together, and we spend a lot of our free time together too as we have the same hobby. I really like him, and I think he likes me, but I wonder after nearly 3 months why he hasn't made a move yet, and in a way I feel like we are ... (694 words)

Would you say it's essential to have a fascinated crush on someone before 'falling in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

25 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm so frustrated - I can fancy a man at face value, with lust in the equation, and much prefer sex with the male body, but when it comes to infatuation, fascination, awe and nervousness etc., it's only women who I can get this with. It would be so nice to get my feelings ... (109 words)

Does it mean something if a guy strokes your cheek?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - this happend twice once 3months ago I was out for dinner with friends and a friend said: we are somehow like smurfs...and then she said to me that I am tha baby smurf (because I am the youngest) and a male friend was sitting next to me and he was like "aww" and stroke my cheek... (161 words)

I want my ex girlfriend back in my life.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

25 November 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - so the problem is my ex gf who broke off with me 9 months ago started talking to me again after a month. I loved it, i loved her like crazy. When we started talking again, we tried to be just friends but did stuff that wasnt just friend like.....next day she started ignoring me ... (145 words)

Trying to strengthen our relationship has hurt her, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my girlfriend for about 7 months. My previous relationship ended 4 months prior. (At the time prior to meeting my current girlfriend, I had already made up my mind to move on and get back in the dating world.) Unfortunately I found out the hard way that when I ... (578 words)

He said he wasn't ready, is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

25 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this guy for a little over a month, and we are in college. I am 20 and he is 22. At first we mostly went out to bars together with his friends, and then i stayed over his place, but then we started hanging out at his appt with his roommates and watching ... (540 words)

How do I stop myself from being a needy girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I have a wonderful wonderful boyfriend and things are going pretty great so far but im worried that Im becoming emotionally dependent on him. We've only been together 6 months but it got serious really fast. I feel like I want to be with him all the time, and when ... (138 words)

What would you do if this was you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hy. Let me ask you this : what would you do if you had a family but never took a family photo with them, if you had parents who live in the same house but fight everyday, if your friends are 'not.so.good.friends' , if everybody just throws dirt around the house and nobody wants ... (159 words)

Does she want to come back to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 November 2012 (M)

age - My wife suddenly walked out on me 4 years ago without notice. She had her reasons and I was relieved after a year without her anger and her insanity after feeling incredibly hurt by her.My daughters think she's nuts and lived with me until 1 married and 1 went off to college. ... (519 words)

I fell for him and my heart is broken

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi aunts and uncles. I am suffering extreme heartache and I would like to know how to get over it or reduce the pain. I'm waking up at 6am crying as reality hits that he doesn't want me and has left me and for someone else. It's going to sound crazy that I was in love... (639 words)

I'm 19 and my mother is still super strict.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

25 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and my mother is extremely strict what should I do?...okay so here's the deal. I'm 19 and living at home. But don't worry I pay for my food and my rent. I depend only on myself. I'm responsible and really mature. But unfortunately my mother treats me like I'm 12. When I ... (194 words)

I'm not sure if I like this girl or am just bored?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 November 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, About 2 years ago, I got out of a relationship and have been single ever since. It has been my only relationship so far, and now that I think about it, I feel I had committed too soon without getting to know my ex really well. My ex always questioned my love for her, an... (391 words)

With holding of sex

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

25 November 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - why is it when my girlfiend with holds sex its okay but when i do she gets mad about it?... (20 words)

Should I tell the friend to stop the stares and the compliments? My husband is becoming uneasy with what is happening

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

25 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - What to do? Here is the situation. I know this guy for probably 12-13 years. He is a friend of a friend. He doesn't live in a same city, but comes to spend week end at his vacation house here once a month. He has a wife, and 2 young children. I m also married with ... (870 words)

I ended up in bed with my friend's dad last week. Should I tell her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I ended up in bed with my friend's dad last Thursday night. Basically, I do some secretarial work for him at his office a few days a week, and last Thursday night we were working late and after I joined him and a few of his colleagues for drinks. We stayed out mu... (243 words)

Six months later I'm still grieving at the passing of my grandfather and feel like people think I should be over it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i know this isnt a relationship question but i'm still grieving over my grandpa's death and dont know who to turn to about it. i havent had a nice year, i lost my horse suddenly, i became ill with anemia and then close to a year ago my grandpa was diagnosed with cancer. aft... (247 words)

What am I supose to do here ? Don't want to be a part time girlfriend.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

25 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So im having some problems lately with my boyfriend that have escalated from his new job. Needless to say at the moment i am currently and unfortunatly unemployed something iv never experienced before as ive worked since i was 15. this is a trying time for me as im finding ... (597 words)

I feel uncomfortable over his ex...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

25 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi and thank you I've been with someone for 7 months we are exclusive. He's good to me, treats me well except when it comes to his ex which he claims there "just friends". I have been trying hard to believe it BUT my intuition is telling me otherwise. I feel he has some feel... (294 words)

Does he not make a move on me because I'm a client

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

25 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am not very good in judging people. I need help in this department. There is this one guy i fancy. He is an assistant of my Marketing Manager. Technically, I am their client. When we first know each other, it was nothing and strictly business. But starting few month... (243 words)

I feel like he sees me as a mom not a lover!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

25 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm engaged to the man of my dreams but recently our sex life hasn't been good. I've tried everything I can think of to spice things up and he really seems to enjoy it when we do have sex but it's not making him want to more often. I recently lost 25 pounds and I'm at a ... (431 words)

I accidentally touched my friends breast and now she's angry at me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hey all, so the other day, me and my bestie were sitting in the bus next to each other. we were kinda laughing and pinching the hell out of each-other but things got down hill when i ''ACCIDENTALLY'' touched her breast while we were pinching each other. i honestly did not mean... (127 words)

My boyfriend and I can't talk and its causing problems in our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Greetings to all of you, I am finding it difficult to adapt to my boyfriend's way of being. He's a very susceptible person and feels offended very easily. Moreover, I'm the type of person who likes to speak to clear out our differences but whenever we are having conflicts... (192 words)

Advise please: experiencing strong attraction to a married teacher!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

25 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 16 years old and I have really strong feelings for one of my teachers... I've had these feelings for almost 4 years now. He taught my 8th grade science class and then I had him again for 9th grade bio. His wife also teaches in my school but she's completely oblivious to my ... (166 words)

Family dinner with the guy I'm dating. How do I make it less awkward?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I would like feedback and advice to my issue because I seem to be stressing over this more than I need to. I am a 25 year old female and about to graduate with my Masters. I have been dating this man who is hardworking and has a big heart because he will go out of his way t... (264 words)

Should I let my girlfriend hang out with her ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 November 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - My girl friend has this guyfriend she likes to hang out with she has had some sexual relations with him once b4 but sometimes i feel like im not all the man she needs even tho she says i am i dont feel like i am because she still hangs out with him even tho she is dating me is ... (101 words)

How do I deal or forget her past sexual experience? Because I really love this girl and don't want to lose her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

25 November 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay well I have been dating this girl for 2 months and i have really started to love her she is the first girl i have ever wanted to say i love you to but when i start to think about her past with all of the men she has slept with it really hurts/gets me mad... A topic ca... (212 words)

Should I believe that my bf is not attracted to this young woman who is going to be his room-mate soon?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I have lived together for the last year or so, and our roommate split suddenly and we needed someone who could move in asap and afford to pay rent. Unfortunately, this wound up being my high school friend (this was honestly the only option, short of moving back hom... (174 words)

He thinks he should "be alone". Does anyone have any advice or insight about the way he broke up and why after 11 months?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

25 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - We're both 44 and divorced. We've been dating about 11 months. We get along well, enjoy hanging out and his kids really like me a lot. All is going well. We tell each other "I love you". While my house was being finished I lived with him and the kids for about 3 weeks. he ha... (850 words)

Help me to be reasonable and rational about this matter please? My Bf wants me to use Birth Control Pills but I think it's risky.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

25 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing this guy almost for a year. We are thinking about starting to have a future together soon. We are no longer use condoms every time after we became exclusive and came clean to each other about STD history and all. We sometimes start out without condoms ... (365 words)

Is this healthy? is she game playing? My Controlling girlfriend keeps giving me ultimatums or threatens that we'll break up

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 November 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a girlfriend and I'm soon to be divorced with my estranged wife. My girlfriend has been acting weird lately.... She gives me ultimatums to do X or we break up. When I don't do X, she gives me the complete silent treatment and ignores all calls and messages etc. I ... (342 words)

I have a huge crush on this boy but he's not in any of my classes. Is there anything I can do about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I have a huge crush on a kid that was in all my classes last year and toward the end of the year, I felt like he was starting to like me too. He would tease me and be mean and joke with me a lot. But, this year, he's not in any of my classes. So, I have no excuse to talk ... (218 words)

Does my bf want me or am I just there to fill his emotional need when he wants me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm in a Long distance relationship. We have been going out for 5 months, we were together for the first 2 months and Long distance for the past 3 months. The first month if LDR was great, we would text and call each other all the time, he would make the effort to text m... (686 words)

I'm gay and I really like a guy at school. How do I get to know him better without outing myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

25 November 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, well where do I begin with this. I am Gay and I've known since I was thirteen (15 now) and I'm not out. I've always been a little feminine but not so much that i'd personally say it was obvious i was gay but i feel my whole school year knows even some people who look at me ... (269 words)

I have very high standards regarding what I find attractive, I mean ridiculousy high. Considering the fact I'm not exactly a prize material myself, it's not really fair and maybe even unhealthy. How do I lower them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

25 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been thinking about what caused my mind to be wired like this and I think it's because I've been bombarded with beauty since I was a kid. As long as I can remember my mom talked to me about what it meant to be beautiful and always pointed out what she thought was ... (467 words)

My friend is coming to me with advice, and I don't know what to say to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend split from her first boyfriend a month ago, they were together for 15 months and she is obviously finding it hard to deal with. She has recently said she is starting to feel abit better and realising she can move on, however she messaged my friend today saying ... (103 words)

Should I ask my wife about her sudden, and welcome changes in sexual behavior?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 November 2012 (M) age 41-50 - I am 32 and my wife is 28. She is a very moderate woman. Recently we went on for a long drive and we had some sexy talks coming in. she indicated about having a threesome and I joined her in the talk. it was very nice. while the way she told she want to pee and I stopped ... (157 words)

Someone told my wife I cheated on her and the girl is pregnant. It never happened but my wife believes it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 November 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - well my wife and i are going throw some tough times it seem that some of her ferends told her that i cheated on her and that the women is now peregent the thing is my wife live in the pilipens and we have w 3year old baby girl we just got marred this may 15 no i had to leave ... (199 words)

My husband has a drinking problem, and I'm unhappy in my marriage.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am mostly unhappy in my marriage. I am 27 in a 10 year relationship with 3 kids. My husband has a drinking a problem which he recognizes. He tries to improve and he does, but when he falls back it is horrible. He is a controlling manipulator. He has also gotten ... (176 words)