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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why wouldnt he want me to "finish the job"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

8 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are both close to being 18 and have been dating for 1 year in a few days. I have given him multiple hand and blow jobs and will never let me finish. I completey love him and nothing would ever change that so im confused why he wouldnt want me to "finish the ... (70 words)

Is having sex at this point in our relationship stupid? Slutty?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I just need some advise. lately ive been thinking strongly about having sex with my boyfriend. we are bother turning 18 in a month and we are both smart and mature for our age. I know he loves me and I love him with all my heart. also, we have been dating for a year and he and ... (147 words)

My first experiences with sex were horrible, and now I'm having intimacy issues.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

8 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My first relationship seems to have scarred me in a lot of ways. At first I thought I was just weird but now that I am in another relationship I am scared by how much it is effecting mine and my boyfriend's life. Our sex life is so boring. With the first guy I dated I was wi... (539 words)

I'm getting some special attention from my professor, is there something more to it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So my professor and I are more of a mentor-mentoree relationship, meaning that we will talk about my future, job, a few life questions and so on. That being said I have noticed that since we have started talking, he pays me more attention? Like during class he will hang around ... (250 words)

Can breaks in relationships work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

8 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and a half years. Last year we became a long distance couple due to us going to different Universities. The first year of long distance had ups and downs, but all in all it was pretty great. This last time I saw him (1 week ago) we ... (644 words)

He says we can't have a relationship if wee don't have sex. I'm not ready for that, and don't know what to do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

8 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy online..and he has been saying that intimacy goes hand in hand with a relationship.. and he is not willing to compromise on imtimacy... i lied to him once about not being able to make it to a second date.. sinc e i was scared we were rushing into the whole thing.. ... (145 words)

I want the magic back! How do I fix things between us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

8 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 21, a single mother of a beautiful baby girl... the thing is that is started dating my co worker when i was carrying my baby, to start off with things went well, we were unseperable and the relationship was full of majic, and we would be good at work and outside of work, ... (215 words)

Should I be worried about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriends brother just passed away at age 49. My boyfriend has been spending a lot of time with the wife. sometimes as late as 1-2 in morning. Should I be worried?... (35 words)

Is it just the alcohol, or does he really know what he's doing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

8 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - When my boyfriend is drunk, he always flirts with other girls. He'll grab their boobs etc. Or he lies about things. When I talk to him about this, he always says thats the alcohol talking. Does he really know what he is doing?... (47 words)

I wanted to treat him better, but now he's the one giving the silent treatment.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Really quick and to the point (need to study for midterms ^^") When several months ago, whenever me and my boyfriend had an argument I would give him the silent treatment. It's just who I am and how I deal with things. He would feel terrible, he would throw his ego and ... (403 words)

Is she only giving me BJ's because she loves me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

8 November 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Aunts: My girlfriend and i have been together for 5 months. I love to have bj's from her and it turns me so much on when i finish in her mouth,i remain hard and makes me want to f*** her hard right away. We love each other very much, She says she likes to give me head, bu... (306 words)

Can I still get pregnant this way?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

8 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - so my boyfriend and I were not using protection, and I was on the second to last day of my period (there was still some blood). His penis did not go all of the way in, and he didn't ejaculate. When he did ejaculate, it was on my stomache.I waited like five minutes to take a ... (88 words)

Is it possible that he wants more from me than just being friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

8 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I've been single for just over a year no problems with that, I'm actually perfectly happy. In this year I've been single, I've became quite good friends with a guy, nothing romantic. He's in the army so we only hang out like once a month when he comes home and we'd sp... (154 words)

Should I date a guy who gets cold sores?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

8 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is only a quick question but something which is seriously troubling me... Some opinions from you lovely people would be appreciated! There is this guy from work I really like, we really click, if anything was to happen between us I know I would be happy! And if not he i... (164 words)

I'm confused, some advice please!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

8 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm still a virgin,but sometimes last month,i and my boyfriend had anal sex and he said he didnt come and i didnt see any sign of blood that my hymen is broken but i've been expectin my period for almost a week now,do you think i'm still a virgin or do you think i'm pregnant???... (55 words)

Why does my boyfriend have a problem with me wearing hair extensions?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

8 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - The guy i'm seeing seems to have a problem with me wearing extensions, it's just getting insulting and tiring now! I don't know whether to get them taken out? I got them in a few weeks ago and all my friends compliment me on my hair, even though they know my hair really isn'... (320 words)

Any advice on where to meet guys? Tried hobbies, gym and bars with no success.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I absolutely don't know where to meet guys. At work most of guys are married or involved or much older, plus it's not a good idea to date anyone from work. In Gym where I go to, there is never any interaction. I just work out there 3 times a week and go home. Only once i talked... (329 words)

Why are some boys unfaithful?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do some boys unfaithful? what are they expecting from girls? Is it that SOME of them don't have feelings? I'm sick and tired of searching the right answer.. ... (29 words)

I wanted to break up with him in a peaceful manner not this way

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - As I have already mentioned in my last post that I broke up with my abusive ex and I told everything to my parents about him. But he keep on pressurizing me for a proper relationship , he wanted that I should forgive him and give an another chance to him..but due to his ... (633 words)

My bf and I have opposing views on money management, and he wants to get married. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We both 23 and our relationship is great. My parents like his personality, mature minded and responsible to me. Everyone can feel his love for me. Otherwise, he comes from a middle low class family and mine is rich but my family ne... (379 words)

Am I gay? Or bisexual? Or bi-curious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

8 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I've kinda always felt that I may be gay, but I didn't know whether that was just because I looked at guys and wish I had their looks and their body. All through high school, I remember flirting and always being around girls, but never had a girlfriend, and I remember I always ... (620 words)

Why Does He Feel He Has to give love up to protect his daughter from his ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

8 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I was in a LDR for almost 8 months when he finally said he had to end it because it would prevent the pain from being worst. I met this man online...and I only had agreed to even chat with him because he was suppose to be relocating to the city I live in within 5 months. ... (595 words)

My mother went through and cleaned my room without any warning. I feel violated, my dad says "get over it"!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2896 days ago

8 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - DearCupid Aunts, I need your opinion on something. I came home the other day to find that my mother had gone through my entire room, and cleaned it out. My drawers, all my laundry, several of my purses/backpacks, and private papers, had been sorted, cleaned, and put somewher... (403 words)

How do you kiss a girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 November 2012 (M)

age 22-25 - There is this girl that I have been going out with for a while and I haven't kissed her yet. It's not that I don't want to kiss her, it's just that I have never kissed a girl before. People say that it just comes to you, but things like this don't come naturally to me. I ... (101 words)

The boyfriend or the ex? Which one do I love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

8 November 2012 (?) age 26-29 - so im currently in a long distance relationship. in the past my boyfriend has cheated , i had broken up with him but later on took him back. Now 4 my ex of 2years ago are speaking once again, i've ALWAYS had these strong feelings towards him that never seem to go away. the year ... (252 words)

Boyfriend's mom criticizes my natural/healthy lifestyle. Should I stand my ground? If so, how do I do it respectfully and graciously?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, Please excuse me in advance for the length of this message. I am in a 4 year relationship. I am 24 and my boyfriend is 29. We currently live separately, each with our parents. We plan to move in together as soon as I finish university this year. My ques... (1062 words)

Confused about what to think and do about my ex girlfriend. any advice would be greatly appreciated.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

8 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - we broke up over three weeks ago for certain issues i won't waste time explaining (no one cheated and no one lied, etc). we didn't speak for the first week at all, and then we finally started talking a couple of weeks ago. we text each other constantly now, and there hasn... (425 words)

He's making me choose, him or my dream, what do I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

8 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there guys/gals. I am in need of help :/ Let me explain: I am 18 and have a boyfriend of a little over a year and known him for about 6 years. We both have dreams and aspirations as many others although he's not very fond of mine. My dream is to make a career of the mili... (242 words)

Am I in love with my current boyfriend, my ex, or in just in love with being in love

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 November 2012 (?) age 26-29 - im currently in a relationship with my boyfriend (age 20). in the past he's had girls send him photos in undergarment. i've confronted him about knowing ,he apologized. several months later i brokeup with him and im not quite sure why, but during the month we spent apart i ... (282 words)

Can anyone talk me back to my senses?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

8 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been seeing a man for over a month and we get along great in all aspects and are compatible in alot of areas and have been intimate. He's been divorced for 2 years and it's been a battle over his kids from what information he's shared with me. Although he hasn't ... (416 words)

I'm really ready to break it off!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am ready to break it off! My bf recently had a birthday, and due to unfortunate circumstances, I was a little late in asking him what he wanted to do for his birthday. I asked him the day before what he wanted to do, he responded with he was going to spend a few hours with ... (423 words)