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He wants me as a booty call, what should I do?

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Question - (6 November 2012) 8 Answers - (Newest, 7 November 2012)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I got a friend that has lost both of his parents. We were giving an affair.after the lot of his parents he then divorced his wife. He stop calling me. Then later told me he hookup with another female.

He said his relationship is great but his girlfriend had a half hysterectomy but their sex life has changed. Now he's back wanting to see me but its more of a butty call. So im asking what should i do?

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (7 November 2012):

chigirl agony auntTell him that if he wants a prostitute he can pay for one at the corner.

Take some pride in yourself, you are more than a vagina for him to put his penis in.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (7 November 2012):

CindyCares agony aunt So, the guy has steady gf, the gf has intimacy issues due to health reasons, and he wants to use you to supplement his sex life.

I don't understand what you are actually asking - are you asking if it's a good idea to be the part time fuck toy of an otherwise involved man ? then no, generally speaking, it's not a good idea .

Then, it all depends from your personal outlook : if you have no problems with helping a cheater cheat , and with letting a guy use you for his selfish ends, then go ahead and be a booty call.

If you do object to this type of things, do not be a booty call- nobody is forcing you- and send him to take a hike.

It's as simple as that.

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A female reader, AuntyEm United Kingdom +, writes (7 November 2012):

AuntyEm agony aunthttp://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-married-and-had-an-on-off-affair.html

I am assuming that this is by the same OP as has mentioned the dying parents.

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A female reader, Sweet-thing United Kingdom +, writes (7 November 2012):

Sweet-thing agony auntStop being available for his booty call. It's pretty simple. He's already invovled with someone. Don't be his "supplemental" sexual adventure just because his girlfriend has had surgery.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (7 November 2012):

Honeypie agony auntAm I misunderstanding your post? He HAS a gf? But wants to screw other women because she ain't giving it up enough?

I'm sorry he lost his parent, but that is no excuse to try and use his female friends as a blowup doll.

If you WANT a guy to use you, go ahead.

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A female reader, maverick494 United States +, writes (7 November 2012):

Depends on what your morals are and what you want from this. If you want a proper relationship and not just be a piece of meat to be used to cheat on his girlfriend, I'd suggest telling him to find someone else. Honestly though, this guy is not someone I'd call a friend. The only commendable thing about him is that he's upfront about wanting to use you and being a selfish person. If that's something you're okay with, then go ahead. If not, steer clear and break all contact.

P.s. why did you feel the need to bring up his parents' death? It's not relevant to the question at all, nor to the decision you have to make.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2012):

What do you mean? You either be his booty call or you don't. That's your decision to make OP, if you want to be his piece of ass go for it, if not don't. Pretty simple choices there OP but it's one you have to make on your own.

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A female reader, Ciar Canada +, writes (6 November 2012):

Ciar agony auntDon't even respond to him. Block his emails and delete his contact information.

A death in the family is not an excuse to behave like a cad. Your 'friend' is not a man of quality.

He is not your friend. He is not a lover. He is just a pig.

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