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writes:over the space of about 10 /11 months me and my high school best friends dad have started a relationship and not until recently did it turn sexual we had met at his house whilst she was not in and kissed and touched but we had never had sex and i was a virgin until recently anyway about 4 months ago we were in the lounge and we had our tongues down each others throat when she walked i on us ... she was speechless but we promised it was a one time thing and nothing has or would happen .. we both knew at the time that would not be possible.anyways for months later till about 2 weeks ago and this man took my virginity and it was amazing we made a full week of it at his place since his daughter was at her boyfriends house but his older son came down to visit unaware that i was over their so he let himself in and i was on the bottom and my boyfriend on top and all we hear from behind us is *cough couhg * DAD WHAT ARE YOU DOING my boyfriend tries to cover me so that his son doesn't see who i was as we didn't want them to find out this way not yet anyway What do we do and how do we tell his son and my old friend ( we grew apart as we went separate ways to college )
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2012): You failed to mention your friends mum? I definately will not be comfortable will my best friend sleeping with dad. Bad you are the one that needs to come clean. Is he not too old for you? Your friend will not be receptive as you are also now caught in a lie.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan +, writes (6 November 2012):
Where is this going? Is it just sex? If so then is it really worth risking your friendship and his relationship with his son and daughter? If you do want to have a relationship together, however, all you can do is be upfront about it. Your friend has already seen you kissing once so it won’t be a total surprise. You will both need to sit her and her brother down and truthfully tell them how you feel for each other, explaining that you understand that it might seem a bit strange at the moment but that you don’t have to lose your friendship with her because of this relationship. Whether you do this together, or he has this conversation with his kids alone first, is something you both need to work out. But whatever you decide they’ll have to know sooner rather than later, otherwise you’ll end up lying and covering your tracks just to hide the truth from them.
I wish you all the very best.
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