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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What can I do? I'm in love with a man and I'm in love with my professor who is a woman.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

29 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a situation. I am in love with two people. The big thing here is: I am in a relationship with a man and we have been together for a year now. The other person I am in love with is another woman. She is a professor at my school. She is soooo beautiful, inside and o... (280 words)

Would these be deal breakers? Does it suggest I should be calling the wedding off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

29 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend, now fiance are planning our wedding and deciding on a wedding date. We have been engaged for one year. Dated for a year prior. I don't know if it is butterflies in my stomach but a few of his behaviors I am starting to question. I found out he lied about... (301 words)

How should I ask my girl friend to consider a small change to our routine when we make love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4414 days ago

29 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together for almost three years now. We have a pretty basic sex life, nothing ever too wild. One of my favorite things she does is let me finish in her mouth when she gives me oral. She doesn't give many blowjobs, I do wish I would get those mo... (113 words)

I was supposed to see a therapist. Is it time I now considered this option again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4413 days ago

29 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all agony aunts and uncles, I need your advice yet again! Long story short, I moved hours away from my finance to attend college. I was good for the first semester, but then I got really depressed (randomly) and withdrew from the fall semester. I've maintained a... (155 words)

I don't want to be with him but I don't like the thought of him with anyone else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

29 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with someone for a year and a little bit now, and we broke up and its been about two months, we still see each other and things and try and act normal, but we still do things with other people which may be weird. I don't want to be with him but I don't like the ... (180 words)

I really want to forgive him and move on but I can't trust him any more.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

29 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, and thanks in advance for any advice you can give me. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and we are generally very happy. In general, it is a perfect relationship. Unfortunately, recently I found out that he slept with someone else at the very beginning o... (298 words)

Why do people in relationships play so many games with one another?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

29 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am a very honest person, in a good way. But i dont believe in lying or sugar coating. (im not an overbearing or rude person at all, i say everything as politely as possible i just know some people dont like it) So i dont understand why in relationships people play... (146 words)

When I ask him to move in with me, all I get are excuses. What's wrong with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

29 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi there, I have been with my boyfreind for three years, we moved in together last december and a few months later he said he needed space to figure things out, so to give him what he needed i moved back home with family. (he had more money so he chose to stay living in t... (190 words)

Why can't he ever address me by my name?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

29 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - There is a man who I think is attracted to me (flirts, smiles, let's off so much positive energy and shows interest in me etc), but he NEVER has once said my name. He even has written to someone else about me to discuss a detail and referred to me as "she" and then the person ... (137 words)

Do we stay friends after admitting liking one another?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4414 days ago

29 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my best friend and I recently revealed we had feelings for eachother, we haven't known each other long but clicked straight away. He's known I've liked him since we met but he only told me recently that he liked me because I admitted I still liked him. He said that he doe... (270 words)

How to get friendship back after breaking trust

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

29 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm the most horrible person in the whole world. i had a best friend(S) of 14 years i lived with for 7 years who did a lot for me, supported me in all ups and downs of life and even paid for my school and bills when i couldn't work just to make me happy. we lived together for 7 ... (944 words)

I really like this guy at the gym, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

29 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - What do I do about this guy? I really like him:(? There's this cute guy who works at the gym where I've been going for 4months now. He's cute and I really like him. He's quiet, keeps to himself and he seem really passionate about his job. He's really friendly wit... (256 words)

We have sex 3 times a week but this isnt enough for me, any suggestions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

29 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a very healthy sex life. I loe to explore and try new things. I could have sex several times a day if my partner would let me. I have never had a man turn me down for sex before but my current partner stops me from touching him sometimes. He says jokingly he is on his ... (91 words)

We were planning to meet then all of a sudden he stopped talking to me! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

29 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hello i know you have answered this similar question many times but i honestly need help to let this go! i met this guy on face book. 2months ago.he seamed so amazing. we talked a lot, exchanged many photos and videos, called each other all the time. we were planning to me... (213 words)

I'm pretty sure he cheated on me but he wont admit it, what do I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

29 November 2012 (F)

age - I am married 24 years, and recently found out that my husband cheated on me, but he won't admit it. I have been going through treatments because I have cancer and he started a new job. Because of the chemo I was very sick and not thinking clearly so I did not notice anything ... (595 words)

I can’t choose between two guys!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

29 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14, and can’t chose between two guys, they are both my age. i have been going to the same school as one of the guys for about 13 years, and we know each other pretty well. We had a ‘thing’ in 5th grade, then he left for a year. He came back last year, and i liked him. But ... (297 words)

Should I end our affair in person? Or is a goodbye text enough?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

29 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've decided that even tho I'm hopelessly in love with a guy I've been having an affair with, it's time to end it. He is married, and I know he's never gonna leave her, I'm just tired of holding my emotions inside, and waiting for him to be mine, when I don't think it's ever ... (93 words)

To those who are married/in relationships: Do you masturbate? If yes, why?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

29 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello I want to ask people who are married or in relationship if they masturbate, if yes how often they do it and why? Thank you.... (28 words)

We hardly ever see each other, how can we fix this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

29 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am having some problems with my boyfriend at the moment. We have been together for over 3 years now, but sometimes I don't feel like I am in a relationship at all because I hardly ever see him. A lot of this is to do with work, as I work during the day Monday - Friday and he ... (629 words)

I havent heard from him for 2 weeks and I'm really worried about him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4414 days ago

29 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya everyone, My partner usually calls 2-3 times a week, he doesnt like to text or email if at all possible. but after i last saw him nearly two weeks ago, i havent heard anything from him. ive emailed and texted to make sure he is alright and that nothing has happened... (264 words)

I'm worried my boyfriend is going off me, any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4414 days ago

29 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - lately me and my boyfriend have been arguing a lot we have a 2 month baby together and i know his not happy about our living arrangements til we get our place and lately he seems to want to go out quite a lot instead of spending time with me and baby like he used to we have sex ... (79 words)

He says he loves me, but then he says I'm only someone he talks to when he's bored. I'm confused!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

29 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My long distance boyfriend of 3 months now and I, now live in two different states. We've known each other for a long time and have met a couple of times then. He moved away and then asked me out. So we haven't really met as a couple yet! We should be meeting in January. ... (275 words)

My sad and depressed moods are affecting my relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

29 November 2012 (?) age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I have been feeling sad and depressed for the past year and i don't know how to deal with it, i am always moody even my period has stopped coming regularly. I have started a new job about 4 months ago however its a long distance with crazy hours, which takes me a... (132 words)

I just flunked out of college and am worried about my future.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

29 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I just flunked out of college and now it means I am going to finish a full 4 years after the people i finished high school with. I am afraid that I will never amount to anything or make a success of myself and will always be on the fringes of existence and never be a ... (98 words)

Got caught speeding by a traffic camera. Need advice from people who live in the UK!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

29 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this has nothing to do with love or relationships but everyone on here who answers always seems very insightful and knowledgeable so I figure maybe you can help me. I live in the UK and I went to a concert last night in Glasgow, which is a 4 hour drive from where I ... (231 words)

Unemployment and relationship finances...who buys dinner?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

29 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and I have been dating about 8 months and this is the first serious relationship for both of us. When we met we both had good jobs, he still has one but I'm a contractor and so once my last contract ended about 4 months ago I have been unemployed. Money is becoming an ... (376 words)

Why make happy holiday memories when we are having a hard time, and even might break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

29 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years and we have had a lot of problems recently with money and changing jobs and living apart after living together due to his work placement. Anyway, I have often been really angry at him and have considered breaking up ... (117 words)

Has he crossed boundaries, should I make something of his behavior?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - I was at a meeting last night and the usual innuendo was going on. After the meeting I went down the pub with two of the men one of which I know quite well being my partner's friend. The other guy had gone outside for a cigarette so when we sat down I thought the frie... (327 words)

I'm finally ready to move in with him after a year and a half of long distance relationship. Now he says he doesn't think we're right for each other.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

29 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a long distance relationship for a year and a half. We have been very happy and planned to move in together. He has alway said he wanted to marry me and now that i am in a place to move in with him he has said he is not sure we are right for each other. We are ... (106 words)

My new husband is emailing a stranger pictures of him, and personal information for him and his family. HELP!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

29 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, there. I got a trouble, I dont know how to explain but I will write all the details down and I do wish I could get some advice and help because at the moment I do really really need it. Me and my husband just got married 4 weeks ago and we are live in my city, our fam... (588 words)

Is he just being polite by accepting my affection, or could he really like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

29 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - There's a guy I'm friends with, that I really like. I had a crush on him last year, that didn't go any where, and I'm still unclear as to whether he ever felt the same about me or not. We lost touch for just over a year, and we started hanging out again about a week ago, and ... (195 words)

Is my behavior my fault, or the fault of the person who caused me to behave this way?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

29 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - SIMPLE QUESTION: if i tell someone (in this case a family member) not to do or say a certain thing b/c it'll get me really angry, and then they go ahead and say or do what gets me angry anyways, and i blow up and get mad, am i at fault, or is the person that instigated ... (131 words)

I've been having passionate dreams about a man I know from school.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

29 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, for the past month or so I have been having dreams about this man I see at school. It has been 6 months since we met, and I do not know a whole lot about him. Sometimes we make small talk in between classes, but that's it. I have noticed that as of late, the dreams have ... (150 words)

Adult girl and 16-year-old guy.... Could it work? Is it going to get us in trouble?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

29 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone. Thank you in advance for taking time out of your busy lifes to help with all of our problems and for reading my problem too. Well the main problem is that i am in love with a great guy (all these months he has helped me through so much, he is protecti... (198 words)