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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I know he is married and I should leave him alone but I can't

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

5 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - In love with a married man.I know he is married but he doesn't always wear his wedding ring. He hasn't worn it in months. He has stared at me often, called me baby and made it obvious that he is attracted to me. The last day of work before break he stared at me for a prolonged ... (229 words)

I don't want to cheat on my boyfriend but I'm curious about a female friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 November 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I don’t want to cheat on my boyfriend. I love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him. But here is the problem: he is bisexual and has had girlfriends before who he has had sex with. I am not sure if I am bisexual but have never slept with a woman. This isn’... (275 words)

I need advice on how to approach this.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - so im in a lil bit of a situation with some girl i like. She is a single mom (not a problem), she is 2 years older (again not a problem) and she is my ex's friend. They used to be great friends but they have had some issues before the girl i like moved, but she recently moved ... (345 words)

Should I Stay or Should I Go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are both juniors in college who have dated for about a year but known each other our whole lives. We go to different colleges, but often hang out on weekends and talk during the week, etc. Recently, my boyfriend has been applying for a summer internshi... (293 words)

My boyfriend and I are dry humping because we don't want to have sex yet. How can I get mote pleasure form this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

5 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay. So me and my bf are both 16. weve been together for about 6 months now. we are both virgins but weve started dry humping, but we dont feel much. Im not quiet comfortable with just my underware so i usually wear leggings and a shirt. he u usually has shorts on. We bot... (124 words)

My boyfriend and I live less then five minutes apart, and yet we spend very little time together. Does it sound like he's just not interested?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

5 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are both 19, we've been together for 4 months, dating for 5. Although we live less than 5mins away from each other, we only see each other once a week. We used to contact each everyday without fail, but now it's once every three or so days. He says that he ... (292 words)

I can't stop thinking about him. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - About a month ago, I hooked up with this boy who I'm friends with, but not really good friends with. But I actually did (and do) really like him so it was amazing. We only kissed, but the entire night he treated me like he loved me and it didn't feel like a hookup. He even ... (204 words)

Should my friend tell her fiancé that she slept with two of his friends, before they were officially a couple?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

5 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i wanted to ask this question on behalf of one of my good friends. we were talking earlier today and i gave her some advice and wanted to know if people had differing perspectives. her and her boyfriend got together about a year ago. they were just casually dating for the f... (416 words)

What's up with my ex, does he still have feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

5 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So i am wondering if my ex has feelings for me? I am not wanting to act on it if he does, i am in love with my current boyfriend and i do not want to break up with him, i am just curious. So just to be clear i am not going to cheat. Okay so me and this guy dated two years ago. ... (527 words)

Should I tell him what's on my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

5 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone.i'm facing a relationship crises.i'm deeply in love with this guy for about one and a half year, he's my college, and since 5 monthes he uncovered that he loved me too and since then we've been dating.the intensity of love led us to do "it" several times and the ... (209 words)

Text I overreact to and get clingy with my girlfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I overreact to and get clingy with my girlfriend. I don't really know why, in most aspects of my life I'm rational and even keeled. But with her I'm a bit of a maniac. I ask her stupid questions and she gets annoyed by them, and then I feel like the world is going to end. ... (252 words)

Is serial dating a bad thing to do? There's no sex involved but is it wrong?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

5 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've asked a similar question before but I think people got the wrong end of the stick! Anyway. I split up with my boyfriend of seven months about a month ago, he really didn't treat me very well and I'd just had enough of him having tantrums all of the time and being very ... (298 words)

I was dating a guy who wanted to date other women so I finished it. Did I do the right thing or overreact?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

5 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello aunties and uncles. I'm a bit confused and bewildered about a recent dating experience and I'd like some opinions or advice. I met a guy via online dating. We had several (4) really enjoyable dates over a few weeks. We chatted freely and comfortably and there was ch... (1001 words)

I have a crush on a man I met through my job.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I met a guy through work about 2 months ago. He is senior to me, and I feel in reality I am not good enough, looks wise, status or anything. He flirted with me and asked me out for coffee, that I declined as thought he just a player. Since then he seems concerned about... (176 words)

I lied to my ex and told him I was in a new relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex dumped me because said we didnt get on well enough to move in together after four years. If we disagreed on anything he left and finished things. This has happened several times this year! This was for really stupid things. He has a problem controlling his anger and can ... (314 words)

My best friend has ditched me for a new friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

5 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this sounds so childish but I am 27 and I am having some problems with my best friend who has ditched me for a new friend. We have been good friends for about 23 years (since we started school) and we used to go about in a big group of girls. However, slowly the other... (496 words)

Help, I'm still in love with my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4420 days ago

5 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - hello =) ! well ,my ex boyfriend and i are friends now ,so he came to me asking for help , he wants to get back his ex gf and i'm cool with , but the problem is i'm still in love with him ,and he loves her even if she left him for another guy , so what should i do ?... (63 words)

My parents don't get on. It makes me mad at myself. Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hy. Since i was born, i never saw my parents together. They quarrel everyday, first thing that i hear every morning when i wake up is their noise. My mum is not at a good position right now. She is always complaining about my dad (when he is not around) on us. She has no 'thank ... (267 words)

Should I go out with him and tell him I am a Virgin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 November 2012 (?) age 30-35 - Hey…remember I talked about going to spend christmas with a boyfriend i really do not like so as to stay away from my fathers house. He said we are no longer staying in his house this december. He brought up a suggestion that we should hangout in a hotel in another state on ... (175 words)

Has he slept with someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, My partner and I have been together for 4 years. If we have sex regularly he's able to go on for a while without coming. If we don't have sex for a few days or week he comes quickly. He has always said afterwards "Its because I havent had sex for a while". We had a big ro... (136 words)

What does my boyfriend's behaviour mean? He's still in touch with his ex and he didn't seem keen to see me after my ten day holiday.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I've just been away on holiday with 3 other female friends for the last 10 days. Spoke and texted my BF the whole time I was away, he said how much he missed me etc. Tonight is my first night back and I've missed him like crazy, I wanted to see him just for a little while and ... (269 words)

I like my fiancé's family but I feel they don't really like me, or my family.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4405 days ago

5 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I like my fiancé's family but i feel they dont really like me even though they dnt hate me, maybe i am expecting so much love from them should i? the mom and dad are all lovely even the grandmother she is amazing should i worry about this? and since our families are family ... (225 words)

Is blood really thicker than water and after you get married should family came before your spouse?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi,am getting married soon and my mother in law had a child last year who is 1 now and she is pregnant again. she is in her mid 40's i get it its her choice and the second time i think it was a mistake.I feel like not having kids at the moment because of that my other half is ... (254 words)

What does the term "garden path" refer to when it comes to women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - What does it mean if a guy says that he had to deal with a chick's garden path on her back and it was gross?? What exactly does a garden path on a chick's back even mean? Does it mean anything sex-related?... (44 words)

He says everything is fine so why is he ignoring me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4422 days ago

5 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My friend and I had a little argument. Now, although he says that everything is fine, he won't talk to me! He is ignoring my messages. I don't know what else to do. I have written him so many apologies and given him honest, heartfelt apologies on the phone. I even tried to make ... (107 words)

I pushed her away but I have another chance, what do I need to do to make this work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - First, thank you for reading. This has been hard for me so far and I appreciate any advice. I am 26 and have been dating a 34 year old with a 5-year-old daughter for just shy of a year. She was married and got divorced about a year before we got together. I was not the fi... (983 words)

Parents are stopping me seeing my boyfriend, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

5 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been together 6 months and everything was perfect (we're both 17, nearly 18). But now my parents have decided they don't want me to see him anymore and I don't know what to do. I really don't want to split up with him because he makes me really happy ... (84 words)

Can you love someone and have feelings for someone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship for three years now and i believe i still love him but im not sure. See he pays half the rent and im a full time student and mom and i been thinking lately that im just using him as a crutch. i really like someone else and im just confused. Can ... (190 words)

Should I not let his gender issues bother me and go on assuming we will be together? Or do I need to leave?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

5 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am going to try and make this as brief as i can rather than going into too much detail. As i feel tired with the mental fustration of it all, going over and over with my partner about it, and in my own head. I guess i could really do with an outside opinion, looking at the ... (1391 words)

We tried once, it didn't work, should I try again with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 November 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi all, So I was involved with someone for a few months back in late 2010, before we decided that it wasn't working. Anyway, fast forward to mid-2011 and we decided to try to make it work again as we couldn't get over each other. But as per the first time, it failed again.... (281 words)

How do you invite a guy to come over yours without them thinking you'll sleep together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you invite a guy to come over yours without them thinking you'll sleep together? This guy I like and we've been seeing each other for a while now, but i still don't want to sleep with him yet till i'm comfortable and sure i'm ready. Thing is, it'd be nice for him to ... (275 words)

How can I last longer when making love to my girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all! I was just wondering if you guys have any tips for lasting longer? I don't finish quickly all of the time but sometimes I'm done in a couple of minutes. It doesn't really bother me or my girlfriend but I figure it would be a lot better if I lasted longer every tim... (64 words)

Up one day... down the next????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, Im 18 and need a little advice. So me and my boyfriend have been best years for two years and actually started dating almost 3 months ago. And well a week into dating we had sex. And about 4 or 5 times after that. Then he tells me he wasn't ready for sex. I was his ... (178 words)

Was he expecting more out of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4216 days ago

5 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was heading back to talk to my teacher since I needed something from her. I was waiting and this lady had her son with her. So I started playing with him. I really love to play with children. So I was just asking him questions and playing around when the guy I like(well ... (147 words)

I thought that girls were supposed to like guys who were sensitive and treated them right. What am I doing wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 November 2012 (M)

age 22-25 - Hello and thank you for taking the time to read this. I'm not exactly the best looking guy at my school (not by a longshot). Yet, I am the kind of guy who treats a girl right. I like romance (yes I'm straight), i write poetry and will do anything to make a girl feel loved. Most ... (106 words)

He was my first kiss. I've wanted to be with him ever since and don't know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4430 days ago

5 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So i started being attracted to this guy and I was with him for six months i guess you could call it a constant hook up. but I'm a virgin and he is not. I had never even been kissed and he took my first kiss. When i was 16(yes i went 16 years without kissing anyone) Finally... (668 words)

Should I fight for our relationship, even though the feeling is gone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

5 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been with my boyfriend for over 20 months now. We've gone through so much together, we have all these plans for a future together, and since hes my first boyfriend i've never had any experience with other guys. But im now 16 years old and I sometimes wish I could ... (159 words)

My girlfriend is meeting others through an online dating site.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

5 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I am a 23 year old male, in my first year phd study. I started a relationship with my girlfriend who is 37 years old now 2 years back, then I had to leave the country for a year last year, and I just got back to US to do my phd. Our long distance held on until earlier this ... (571 words)

Is my partner being selfish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a relationship with the father of my 3 month old baby, according to our tradition, the man pays lobola, then we make a wedding, he has already paid half of the money, now he wants to pay the remaining amount but he says he does not want a wedding, when he pays the ... (172 words)

How do I walk away from my personal trainer who I have feelings for?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

5 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello everyone. I need some help! This is a very mixed up situation and I am having a very, very hard time walking away from it. I know what I have to do but I just cannot seem to pull the trigger. And emotionally it is tearing me apart, even though I think I am a stron... (997 words)

Puberty blues...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 November 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 and got my first signs of pubic hair today. I have a few long dark strands of hair (I'm naturally fine blonder hair colour) growing on my 'pubic region'. What I want to know is when will more come? How long must I wait for a growth spurt and my penis to enlarge? Is this ... (71 words)

I'd like advice on how to read guys

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 17, and I've never had a boyfriend. This used to bother me up until a few week ago when I found out that there are actually quite a few people like me who have never been in a relationship. Recently I've been talking to a guy, he's 18 and we got introduced by one of my fr... (292 words)