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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm on birth control, but I don't know why I haven't beaten the odds

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Im almost 17, And i cant stop thinking about being pregnant... I know this is odd, and i'm not crazy, its just, okay, Im faithful with my birth control pills, and me and my boyfriend do have sex a lot, and im just curious on how i'm not pregnant? the pills aren't 100% it just ... (168 words)

Does he just need time, or will I never mean as much to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so this guy who I've liked for a really long time told me he doesn't want a relationship with me. He recently broke up with his girlfriend of 8 months and since then, we've been getting closer and closer together. A few weeks ago, we ended up sleeping together and it was ... (125 words)

Husband putting oral sex above everything else.

This question has 44 answers - newest was posted 1540 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 6 years, our sex life has always been great, but lately I feel that I am nothing more than a mouth for him. He wants oral sex everyday, and though I dont mind it, it seems that he has no emotions about it, no cuddling, no kissing, just him ... (366 words)

Should I carry on defying them or dump him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a boyfriend but I'm not supposed to because I'm a Muslim. my parents Don’t know and I’m constantly worried. I don’t know what to do. they are real Islam extremists. Should I carry on defying them or dump him?... (41 words)

I feel miserable each time he uses the "open relationship" option I agreed to!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

30 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a gay 24-year-old man who is in love with a wonderful man. We've been dating for three years now and have been living together for two. Last fall he approached me and told me that if I wasn't willing to open the relationship, it would be over and that keeping it closed was ... (328 words)

Am I being completely stupid and should get rid of him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my boyfriend have been together for one and a half years and at first it was perfect we were so happy, but then he started to change, he gets angry easily and yells alot. He has hit me twice, but that was a long time ago so i just seem to forget about it now, but it ... (121 words)

Is he genuine or just trying to sleep with me again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hello i have a question regarding a man who is 48 yrs old and i am 25. So, we met on a dating website about 4 years ago. we spoke for hours everyday for two years - he works on a cruise ship and lives in another country - we both used to speak on cam/msn/text/pho... (577 words)

Social anxiety is keeping me from 'getting out there'

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I'm 19 and at uni. Unfortunately, I suffer from very bad social anxiety and I really struggle in new, different and out of the usual situations. I've done a lot of things that other people haven't (I've actually traveled to the other side of the world on my own),... (214 words)

He cheated, prom is only a week away and the dress is paid for. What to do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! I just found out my my boyfriend of 7 months has cheated on me. He kissed another girl while he was wasted at a party....and Prom is a week away. We already have tickets and i bought a $500 dress. My family is super excired to see us go. Im not sure what to do, What is ... (61 words)

I have a feeling she's not as in to me as she claims

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

30 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, recently a close friend and I decided that because we each like each other so much, we'd try dating. The thing is, since our first date we don't talk nearly as much as we used to. I mean, since that day, it's been entirely me who initiates contact and she's always the... (233 words)

No experience with women, and finding porn too easy an alternative

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3436 days ago

30 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm currently a 23 year old virgin, and it's beginning to get me down in a big way. Basically, I was always a socially awkward kid at school, and even when I did get a girlfriend at the end of high school I couldn't make a move on her at all, even when she outright asked me to ... (332 words)

Is it normal to be scared of having sex with a new guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a question. Is it normal for me to be scared to have sex with a new guy? I've been having sex with 1 guy for 3 years and I had sex with him the most. He was the 2nd guy I ever had sex with. So I was wondering is it normal? I've met new guys I don't like nor want to ... (90 words)

How do I win my girlfriends heart completely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - have been dating my girlfriend for the past 5months n we seem going on very well.am the type of person who always like to chat with her but it seems she is the exact opposite of me..she never mind not talking to me the whole day and even if she does we should just spend few ... (172 words)

I cant trust my bestfriend anymore, should I end our friendship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My bestfriend and I have been friends for about 7 years now.. I love her very much and I know that she loves me, but for the past year its been seeming like everything has become a competition with her. It drives me crazy because I feel like I can't trust her anymore. Its ... (611 words)

What can I do to get over a threesome that went wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

30 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been having a real issue trying to get over a threesome gone wrong with my girlfriend that happened almost a year ago. We've been together now for 4 years and about a year ago we were talking about maybe just having some fun and having a threesome with another guy. I was ... (830 words)

I really like him, but never spoken to him! help?

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30 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this boy I like, we are both in the same year; he's in one of my classes. The thing is I've never spoken to him and he does know who I am because we went to the same primary school but we don't talk. He's like one of those cool boys, those ones that you can't ... (211 words)

How unusual is it for a woman to have numerous orgasms in a row without any significant pause between them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - How unusual is it for a woman to have numerous orgasms in a row without any significant pause between them? I have not been with a large number of women, but one of my first girlfriends would almost always have many orgasms in a row, almost like one long one with a series of... (271 words)

I've been going out a lot, having fun, but I still think of him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Brace yourselves, it's a little long.. Less than a month ago, I broke up with my bf of 3 years. The reasons were that for about almost two months, he told me he felt like he didn't feel physically attracted to me anymore (nothing about me has changed) and he wasn't su... (450 words)

We are in a LDR relationship but never met, how do we talk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a long distance relationship for 15 months now. We are in different countries and have never met yet. Lately, I've noticed that things arent what they used to be. Earlier we couldnt stop talking, now its like sometimes we run out of things to say. He loves me very ... (179 words)

Any advice? he's been texting this other girl!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i would like abit of advice, see if people think the same as me. My hubby has a iphone and its not an unlocked phone, to use his iphone he jailbroke it and unlocked it that way so he can use his sim card in the phone. Doing this way causes his phone to die at like 90% and ... (334 words)

Could he be realising and reciprocating my feelings? or is he just enjoying the attention?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, I am so in love with a guy I have known as hi friends for 4 years.We have been flirting more and more and well, now we even joke about him being my long awaited guy. But he tells me for him, sex is an important part of the relationship and he definitely will nee... (320 words)

Why is my ex bad mouthing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and i dated for about a year. He was the one who broke it off not really giving a reason. We have been broken up for about three months and i haven't spoken to him since February. My question is why is he bad mouthing me to others saying im crazy and that im stalking him ... (79 words)

Can I reconcile with my gay best friend under these circumstances?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys.. I need help here. So i have been trying to reconcile with my ex who is a male. Long story short, he was my bestest friend and although we never clearly opened up to each other that we are gay/bi, i can sorta confirm he liked me (romantically). He dropped a lot of h... (365 words)

How can I inspire my LDR to drink less?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I love my girlfriend and she makes me happy but we are in a long distance relationship but we have started reasoning (not fighting) a lot lately. My problem with her is she drinks more than most girls and even more than me. She lives in a small town were there isn't much to do ... (101 words)

He wants to move in asap, but no mention of marriage. If we move in now, will we still marry?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there. My boyfriend of 2 years wants us to live together and I want to wait until we're married. I know for sure if I said let's move in together he would do it tomorrow but I have realised over the past month or two he's not exactly rushing around trying to get engaged o... (115 words)

Should I stay with my boyfriend of 6 years even though the spark has gone? Or leave him for the schizophrenic, compulsive liar who I've only ever flirted with over the phone?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am falling for 2 men, I can't seen to choose who to stay with! one i have been with for 6 years we are both the same age 6 days apart even lol i loved but i have started losing my spark with him. he used to be romantic now he's not hasn't been for 5 years. i work and go to ... (413 words)

Like a girl at work but she is seeing someone so I'd rather move on than be friends. So what is she doing now she claims she wants to go on another works night out soon?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I really like one of my colleagues. I know this is not always a good idea, but I work in a big company and we don't work that closely together. We went out on a big works do a few weeks back and got on well but she went home early as she was ill. I recently asked her out ... (199 words)

I've been waiting for her to leave her husband for me for 15 years! Should I confront her or should I let this go?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

30 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm still in love with my childhood sweetheart and she said she is still in love with me and we have a child togeather but she is married to another man. I've been waiting for her to leave her husband to be with me for 15 years. What should I do. Should I confront her znd ask ... (66 words)

Does my boyfriend secretly want me pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Dearcupid, I think my boyfriend secretly wants me to get pregnant. He keeps asking me when my cycle is, and brought up how I threw up one morning. I'm on the pill, so my breasts have gotten bigger and he asked me if I thought it was because I might be pregnant. But I'm... (258 words)

Crush on a guy who has a girlfriend...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4619 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a huge crush on this guy who has a girlfriend . Both him and me have been to the same VBS when we were kids and later after like 5 or 6 years we meet again at a friends place afterthat we met at tutuions after 2 years . And now he's in India . We chat rarely on FB. I ... (82 words)

I ruined our anniversary because I was in a bad mood, how do I make it up to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4619 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just ruined our dating anniversary by being in a mood all day, i tried to snap out of it but couldnt. I thought he was going to ask me to marry him but obviously he didnt, he doesnt realise thats why i was upset.He has always said he doesnt believe in marriage so i ... (93 words)

My husband's sex drive is completely different than mine. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - OK...where to begin... I'm 25 years old and newly married. My husband travels a lot with work, so we are separated for a good month at a time because he is always out of country. I can't tell you specifically what he does, but he is NOT in a position to cheat on me. Trust me ... (416 words)

My ex is torturing me because I had to break up with her! What can I do? Can I approach the police?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - hello all.. i really need some help. i am in terrible situation. i had my first girl friend (for 1 year) and we had to breakup for some reason and after that i really didnt want to get into a serious relationship. i met this lady in club who is 15 years older than me . sh... (600 words)

Why are some new fathers so selfish?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Reading yet another question on here where a husband gets his wife pregnant and then doesn't even help out out at all. Why does this happen? She went through giving birth to his kid and ruining her body for him. He Also helped create the kid, so shouldn't he actually help her?!... (52 words)

I'm 21 but I still have to ask my mom if I want to go anywhere! How do I get more freedom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 21 but I have to ask my mom whenever I want to go somewhere. Whether it's going out with friends, to a school event, or even going to the library after class. Although they usually say OK, she will sometimes pester me about where I'm going. I can tell she doesn't like me ... (231 words)

Love or Marriage? Which should I choose?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I need advice: should I stay with my current boyfriend who I am totally in love with but he's six years younger and from a different world -- or find someone i can tolerate that is more serious, settled and ready for marriage? I'm going to be 35 - so marriage and a b... (180 words)

Why isn't he excited anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been talking to this Spanish guy on Skype for six months now. We met on a random chat site but we video chated so I've seen him on camera. We always have good conversations, despite the language barrier. He always tells me how beautiful I am and I told him that soon I ... (214 words)

Did I miss out on a huge part of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - when i was 20 i decided to drop out of the community college i was attending. i was just wasting money because i had no idea what i wanted to major in. at the time, i always felt jealous of my friends who were away getting the "real" college experience, and i was getting ... (204 words)

How to make a girl leave her boyfriend for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

30 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl and we talked for the day. We exchanged numbers and we have started to text each other frequently, she also enjoys my company and when i call her, but she has a boyfriend. I am trying my best to think of the best way to go through this. Before you ans... (163 words)

How do I break it off with her once and for all?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - This girl I have been talking to for over a year now, can be really great at times but she also can be very pessimistic and complain a lot. She's been through a lot in life so I always try to stay sympathetic, but it seems like there is something else wrong with her every day. ... (313 words)

I know I need to step up and get my children back, but how do I go about repairing the relationship when I've been away for 5 years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 27 with 3 girls that have been without me for 5 years. I left home after a stressful 2 year custody battle searching for my own independance. Sadly pregnant I realized my it was best if I stayed away a while to keep from tearing the girls nerves up everytime I left. I ... (304 words)

What is a 'normal' vagina?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm an 18 year old female and just have a curiosity about what is "normal" about the vagina. Is white creamy discharge normal? What about a smell that seems somewhat strong? I have this discharge everyday. Not a large quantity of it, but it is still definately there. And ... (131 words)

I know he is no good for me so we have broken up, but I need some support to stay strong and not falter on my course of action!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - im depressed. i am 42 years old and cant seem to maintain a relationship. i am my own worst critic, i just want to post this for support. i think im doing the right thing, but some reinforcement would be greatly appreciated. i met a man 8 months ago on a dating site. we talke... (631 words)

My parents cant stand the thought of me having a boyfriend! They want me to marry a good Indian boy, but I'm old enough to decide what I want

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm 24 years old. I've got a degree, job and unfortunately for Indian parents a boyfriend. I've tried my hardest to tell them I was in a relationship. I would tell them then the next time they saw me they would act like they had forgotten. Also I thought telling them I w... (338 words)

Scared of having sex with my FWB and worried he will compare me to his ex....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been on and off with this guy for two years now, we've dated twice but its hard now with me being at uni and him in year 12 so we're just friends, with benefits i guess you could say. we've done everything except handjob and sex..i'm actually kind of scared about giving a... (214 words)

He only talks about his "feelings" for me when he's drunk!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4619 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I really need some good advice, I'm really confused! I think I'm in love with my friend but I don't know if he feels the same, I have had sex with him a few times but we were drunk. But before we slept together we were always flirting with each other but I thought ... (162 words)

My friend's crush has been asked by another girl to prom and she's very upset, how do I make her feel better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my best friend was texting one day and all of the sudden she became all sad and she was crying. I asked her how come she was crying, and then she said that the guy she liked was ask to prom and he said yes. She is very scare that after prom the guy that she likes m... (152 words)

I stole money from my ex girlfriend and gambled it away. I regret my actions now, how can I win her back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4058 days ago

30 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I just want to know if I can get my ex back, we were together for 3 and a half years and broke up in november because I stole money from her the second time, we owned a house together 2 years ago and I stole money from the account and gambled it, she forgave me and said if I ... (402 words)

He asked me to get confident enough to initiate sex, but now when I do I get turned down! What gives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months officially, but we met and started dating about a year ago and started dating exclusively and having sex 7 months ago. We took everything in our relationship really slow which was nice. The sex was GREAT, it still is great, ... (439 words)

A little of every emotion minus happiness... insecure maybe? Not sure.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So I (age:26) have a strong relationship of over a year and a half now. I recently found out that only a few weeks before my girlfriend and I made things official she had a drunk one night stand with a guy she met from her job. Listening to the details about what happened that ... (385 words)

How do I tell this person whom I love and care for and WANT as a major part of my life, that I'm having doubts about it right now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half and have a great relationship (given that every relationship has ups and downs at some point). I honestly believe that he is the person I want to spend the rest of my life with and we've talked about how he feels the ... (386 words)

Happily married but have a conundrum

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I will try to keep this brief and simple.I am very happily married. In fact, most of the problem is I cant talk to my husband about this and I tell him everything! The crux is, I have a crush (im not worried, i simply admire him physically and its just biology,im human) ... (640 words)

I've noticed an ongoing thing, how do I change it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4619 days ago

30 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - i have noticed a recurring theme regarding women in my life. i can attract them and keep them through manipulation, but if i try to act as though i really am, they become disinterested. so i must always play games. it becomes tiresome. also, whenever i meet a woman that i ... (125 words)

Please help me win my husbands affections again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4619 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - How can I make my husband fancy me? Hi, I had a baby just under 12 weeks ago and obviously my body is not what it was, I put on more than 50% of my body weight while pregnant (from 9 stone to 14 stone) and still weigh 2 stone more than I'd like. Plus I have a belly full of st... (846 words)

Is he out of my reach?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4617 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a very athletic and outgoing 18 year old girl. I have always kind of had a thing for older guys, and recently I have had my eye on this guy that I work out with at the gym. However he is much older than me, he is 23 and will be 24 this summer and I just turned 18. I don't ... (239 words)

How do I get him to move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

30 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - sooo, im a single mother. and i should be happy for what i do have rather then what i dont. my sons father has never been there for me, and i always feel like im lost with adult company (a guy) im in my 20s, and because im a single mother i dont have alot of friends, i dont get ... (322 words)