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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I get over her? She only sees me as a friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4629 days ago

19 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Lets call me J and her M. Weve been friends for 11 years, weve known each other since grade school. Iv had feelings for her since high school, I told her this before and she told me she didnt want to ruin out friendship, because I mean so much to her she didnt want to risk ... (317 words)

I'm tired of feeling like guys just want me for sex. Should I take a virginity pledge?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

19 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never slept with anyone before (or even had a boyfriend); I'm currently in my first year at uni and a lot of my friends are sleeping around and such or in relationships. I was considering getting a boyfriend because I feel really inexperienced for an 18 year old and I d... (312 words)

Should I break up with my boyfriend because of his nosey aunt?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

19 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My question is do I break up with him because I really can't stand his aunt? I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. I have decided to move in with him for 3 months while he does his internship out of state. My boyfriend's aunt (who's not really blood rel... (322 words)

How do men react before a damsel in distress?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

19 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - So 2 weeks ago I told my bf things are over. Every day since, he has been waiting for me in front of my house when getting from work to try and fix things. I dont want him back. Moreover, I have been spending the last week at work until crazy hours (even 9pm) (normal hours are ... (245 words)

Can bragging get you caught?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

19 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Married man running his mouth bragging that he's been sleeping with an older woman.Wouldn't you think he'd be scared it'll get back to his wife. It's not like the wife don't know this woman they all belong to same organization. Someone even said to this woman that they knew she ... (97 words)

I cum within 30 seconds of g/f touching me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

19 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - 24 male. I recently lost my virginity to my girlfriend, it was by choice I decided to wait.... Well now I have a problem. I can't last long at all. I mean to the point where at first I would end up blowing my load in my jeans from her grinding on me... dry humping etc. Tha... (219 words)

I'm awkward around people. Is this a problem I can fix? How?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

19 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - It's the weirdest thing. I'm just not comfortable around people, even my friends. I mean, I just started really hanging out with them alone, and I find I'm struggling for thing to say and I'm worrying about what they think. Then whenever I do come out and say something or ... (317 words)

What kind of guys are likely to be interested in me? My husband wants a divorce. Feels tough right now.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

19 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone need some positive advice. I have just turned 40 and my husband has left me and wants a divorce - we don't have any children. I am feeling numb and empty but we have had a bad marriage for a long time. However I am worried that I am now 'on the shelf'..... (113 words)

I don't know how to help my friend any more. Her mood swings are making me sad. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

19 April 2012 (F) age 26-29 - I have this good friend of mine, who has these incredible mood swings and she is bitchy and makes me feel real bad sometimes...no idea why I am friends with her anyway She is moving at the end of the month, but she is really testing my patience. I don't know what to do with... (99 words)

He texts his ex every day. Should I be trusting him, despite all this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

19 April 2012 (F)

age - My partner and I have been together for 5 years - he's never cheated on me but he texts his ex who is the mother of his daughter everyday. Sometimes up to 36 texts per day. I've asked what do they talk about and he responds with "things about our daughter" He's promised... (102 words)

Is he genuinely interested in me? What's your view on his actions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

19 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry in advance if this turns quite long ... I don't like skipping details. The other night at the bar I met this guy, lets call him S. I had no idea who he was at first, but one of my friends who was with me did; so I had no problem with it when he asked if he could sit ... (489 words)

Can you please help me understand this insecure man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

19 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with this guy 4 years and have had a child together, who's almost 3. At first he always accused me of cheating then it went away for years. Last Saturday I went to work at a fundraiser for my daughter's school to build a new playground with the profits. Since ... (176 words)

What needs to change? I can't get over my negative feelings towards attractive people.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

19 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in my late-twenties and have always been considered unattractive... "cute" is the very best I can get. I never get hit on, or flirted with, and guys I date tell me they liked me DESPITE my looks, that my personality makes up for the fact that I'm not as hot as my or his ... (434 words)

We split up 2 years ago. How do I get over him? It's getting harder not easier.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

19 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - my ex boyfriend and I split up for 2 years now, I know what you're probably thinking 'you're only a teenager', but I still find myself crying myself to sleep most nights thinking about him. I really try my hardest not to think about him but its hard. I'll explain more about th... (273 words)

Are we going too fast?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

19 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - This is going to sound really awkward so bare with me. Basically my best friend has been continually harassed throughout her relationship, having people tell her boyfriend she is cheating etc. One of the guys she was accused of cheating with is called John. Eight days ago s... (273 words)

I want him to ask me to be his girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

19 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a very long two part question... Please read it and help me.. Your help is greatly appreciated.. I've been dating this guy for about three months now.. I know he really likes me. I've dated my fair share of guys so I've gotten to the point where I can tell. I real... (868 words)

Should I appologise for these drunken antics?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

19 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my friend 'A' shopping in town after a catch-up over lunch. I had to go to the fancy dress shop as I needed to get a whistle for my costume for a night out at the weekend. When we came out, I saw this gorgeous guy and A admitted she knew him and that he went to her ... (454 words)

Does my sister need mental help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

19 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, just wanna thankyou for spending your time reading this. Not really sure where to start but im very worried about my little sister. My dad has brought me and her up by himself for the majority of our lives. My mum smoked and was on drugs when she was pregnant... (410 words)

My boyfriend talks too much, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1914 days ago

19 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is a really nice, genuine guy and everything is really good between us except one thing. He has this really annoying habit of interrupting me when I'm speaking. He has a very long-winded way of speaking and I always let him have his say fully and completely before ... (197 words)

She wont commit to leaving her husband for me, should I keep trying or leave her once and for all?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2982 days ago

19 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello. For past six months I have been in affair with colleague from work. We are both married, none of us has kids but her husband is often away for couple of months. Things between us developed pretty fast and we soon realised that this is more than affair. For this reason we ... (758 words)

My husband doesn't like my breasts and prefers smaller ones!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

19 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband does not like my breasts. Whilst I am a dd cup he prefers smaller breasts. I am not prepared to undergo surgery however this is really undermining my self confidence with him as I feel self conscious. Knowing that he loves me and married me despite his preferen... (71 words)

Cant perform during sex because I have been so used to masturbating for 20 years!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

19 April 2012 (M)

age - Hi this is more of a sex question but Im hoping someone can help. I have been single for many years, and my only sexual outlet has been through masturbation. I have of course become quite used to getting myself off and can get hard quite quickly and get off reasonably easil... (254 words)

Caught my boyfriend flirting with another woman over Facebook, will he do it again? Has he already done it since and lied to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

19 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hi my i caught my partner flirting with another woman over facebook. he lets me check my ex's profile via his. i always ask though. and he got really defensive when i asked and then i logged into his and he came out and said it. and he said it was just a giggle and he was ... (102 words)

I really hate being the first born!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

19 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've always hated my birth order. As the first born your parents always rule you with an iron fist. But with the younger siblings they ALWAYS treat them differently no matter what. As the first you always have to be responsible and cautious. Yet younger siblings are NEVER told ... (80 words)

I've grown apart from my friends because of their backstabbing, how do I move on and make new friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

19 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - First of all, thanks for reading. I'm so depressed and become not confident of myself. I feel so lonely. Luckily, I have boyfriend of 3years who I love so much and help me get through all of my problem as he can. Problem is, I feel so lonely and isolated because I don't... (387 words)

His parents don't let him have friends over, and my parents are making him feel really unwelcome! What can we do to resolve this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

19 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a rather big problem. My boyfriend who I love dearly lives about an hour away by tube and his parents (even though he's 19) don't let him have friends to stay. He works much closer to my place so after work he comes to mine, but this week, because I cant see him for 5 ... (207 words)

My boyfriend told his friend that he was worried I'm "too nice". What did he mean by this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

19 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my bf for 2 years, when we first started dating he was talking about me to his best friend and said that he was worried i was too nice! His friend said whats wrong with nice. His previous girlfriends do seem to have been a bit high maintenance. When my bf told ... (107 words)

How do I talk to my best friend about her drinking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

19 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice on how to talk to my best friend about her drinking. Over the last few years it has got progressively worse, she has been in a relationship for 9 years that is not helping her. She has started to make inappropriate comments to my bf and me when she is drunk, ... (84 words)

Is this love, lust, or do I just like him a lot?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

19 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - How can you tell if what you feel is actual love, lust or just strong like? I met this guy in December and we have become friends, i met him when he had a gig in my town. we talk by email every couple days; and i go too his gigs once a month when they are in town. he lives 2 ... (173 words)

Does this mean he likes me, or is it my imagination?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

19 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - There is a guy I like, but I don/t know if he likes me. He keeps walking towards me then going back to where he came from. Tries to show off lot. Got him staring at me. Then when he tries to talk to me, I answer, but then he walks away. Does this mean he likes me, or is it my ... (63 words)

Did he blow me off? Was I too needy? How do I get to know him better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

19 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, here's the story: A week ago or so, I had a small get together at my house. I asked two friends of mine that are sisters to invite a few people that we know to come. Long story short, it started off as just us three girls because several of our friends had a hard tim... (269 words)

I've developed feelings for the guy I'm hooking up with

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

19 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so this is kind of a long explanation so bare with me guys. Alright so about a month and a half ago I got out of a two year long relationship, basically the guy was really controlling and I was just getting fed up with it. Anyways, about two weeks after that I hooked u... (245 words)

What do guys think of virgins?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

19 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Guys-if you're not a virgin and ur dating a girl tht is a virgin what do u think about if ur going 2 have sex w her? Fyi im a girl thats dating a guy thats done it before he says he doesnt want to force me into anything because he doesnt want me to regret something he forced m... (156 words)

Guys, what do you look for in a girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

19 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Guys, what do you look for in a girl? This includes personality and looks. I know everyone is different. Also do u guys believe that when a guy is a player he can change once he meets that right girl??... (43 words)

Is he trying to push me away so I'll fight for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4630 days ago

19 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help aunts and uncles So ive been talking to a 21 yr old guy i went to school with. We never talked until about a week ago he msg'd me on facebook bc he saw me at a friends tattoo shop and thought i was nice, and pretty. So here's my dilemma..I run into a mutual friend ... (228 words)

Is my friend's older brother flirting with me or just being friendly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

19 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I met my friends brother for the first time the other day; he's 6 or 7 years older than I am and just getting out of a 5 year relationship. I knew all about his crazy gf, the party lifestyle he lives, etc etc because my friend (his sister) talks about it quite frequent... (420 words)