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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What could be going on between my brother and this woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My much older brother and I know this girl for several years. Ever since he took control of our social club, he started to change. He use to be nice to everyone, especially her. But now, he acts uneasy around her. Ignores her and unconcerned about her. Recently, they worked ... (863 words)

Why is my boyfriend going into chat rooms?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

11 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for half a year, I love him a lot, he's my everything, but lately things have seem weird, he's on vacation, he has been gone for 1 week, since then, things have seem down, we used to dirty talk everyday, via text, and he always used to say ... (280 words)

I am jealous of my flirting boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months now. We spend a lot of time together. And before we were together we knew each other and used to joke around and flirt at work. So I have known from day 1 that he is a flirt because I have seen him interact with other women. ... (272 words)

My boyfriend's ex is buying him gifts and its making me jealous and uncomfortable

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, I have a little "situation" on my hands, as I'll call it, and I was wondering whether or not I'm overreacting by being bothered by this. Anyway, on to the story... I am currently in a relationship with a man who has a child from a past relationship. I understan... (367 words)

Can the depo shot stop my cycle the first month?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My question is in regaurds to the depo shot. I recieved the shot march 16th shortly after my cycle. I was told to wait only a week before having sex by my doctor and the nurse practictioner that gave me the shot. I was also told it can eventually stop my cycle. I was due to ... (132 words)

I like her but overheard her talking about a date she just had. Where do I go now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

11 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, a new girl started at work recently and we seem to get on well. She seems quite shy so i've been chatting to her when I can and just trying to get to know her a bit. A group of us from work are going out this weekend so I was looking forward to spending some time with her ... (179 words)

Event Etiquette Help Please! Husbands event vs. Baby shower?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a slight bind here. Looking for some wisdom regarding event etiquette. Ok, which event should i attend? My fiance and I area marrying in September. Part of the premarital requirement is going through the sacrament of confirmation which he is doing April 28th. WE... (263 words)

How will I know when its time to walk away because b/f and I may not want the same things in life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4606 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months and overall our relationship has been amazing, he's 29 and I'm 23. We're basically living together, he has his own place and works 60 hours a week. I love that he is so responsible. I am currently finishing up my nursing degree ... (709 words)

Is it normal for sexual orientation to shift over time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal for your sexual orientation to change over time? When I was around 15-17, I identified as bi, then for a couple years something changed (no reason, it just did) and I was pretty much exclusively into guys, and now (when I'm 19) I'm starting to feel attracted to ... (65 words)

Should I press charges because she uploaded a photo of us on facebook?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

11 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I'm new, here. Last week, I have had a photograph of me with a female friend. I thought she would NOT post the photograph on the internet. However, just yesterday, I check her Facebook, just to see her photo album, as she mentionned a neat sounding trip in conversation.... (90 words)

My boyfriend's daughter is trying to come between us

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm 31yrs and I'm dating a man who is 50yrs. We have a great relationship between us but he has 2 daughter one is my age and the other is 2 years younger than me. the older one has no problem with us being together. But the younger one is always trying to find was to keep ... (182 words)

My mother started a fight and hit me in front on my 2 year old son!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

- I have never had a good relatinoship with my mother. Myself and my 2 sisters have never got on with her. She is a very difficult and manipulative person and likes to pick fights. Last week we had an argument about something as usual. However, yesterday was my sons second ... (429 words)

My g/f sees a man once and week and he pays her bills. Do I believe her that there is nothing sexual?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

11 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I got a girlfriend that sees a man once week and he pays her bills. and she says all they do is go out to eat and be his friend, but she swears on her kids life they dont do anything sexual. she says she loves me and i need to stop worrying about things that arent true. what ... (62 words)

Was he interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4604 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this looks really long but please read Thanks ? Well I’m not sure about this guy whether he fancies me or not. we don’t know each other he works at a shop and I go there once or twice a week, I don’t always see him but anyway this started months ago I was just walking... (491 words)

The man I met on an online site is still talking/possibly meeting with other women

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently met a lovely man on a dating website, we met up and things went very well. He is 20 years older than myself and is divorced with a son. We have being seeing each other for about 8 weeks. I stay round his house 3- 4 times a week and we get on very well and always have ... (318 words)

Do I move on and always wonder what might have been, knowing that it will hurt me or do I wait and see what he says?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so basically at new years me and this boy were both very drunk and ended up kissing, nothing else happened. Neither of us mentioned it again. A month ago, one of my friends had a house party and me and the boy were amongst a few others staying over, nothing happened until we ... (314 words)

He Told Me He Liked Me, Now He's Ignoring Me? Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've liked my future housemate's ex-boyfriend for a while, and I was friends with him. A few days ago, we were celebrating the end of classes, so we drank with some of our friends. My alcohol tolerance isn't that great, so I felt kind of sick by the end of it and ended up ... (376 words)

Does it sound likes these 2 rommates were more than just roommates?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

11 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. Knowing these facts about someone, would you believe they had sex (between a male and a female): First off, the let's say person A, is a usually a very honest person, hates condoning bad behaviour or mindsets and is shown everyday through speech and actions as ev... (407 words)

Did he break up with his g/f to try to lure me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I won't go into the whole back story of my question as it will take forever so here is a quick sum up. Going back two years I was seeing a guy(lets call him Drew)who I fell head over heels for, but for the last year and a half he has been seeing another woman(lets call her Emil... (216 words)

How can I get my best friends to realise they love each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear readers, I have two very close male friends. Both are gay. One of them is my very best friend (let's call him E). The other is also a good friend (we can call him D). We have quite a close group. My best friend E has been single for quite some time now. D, on the other ... (617 words)

What would you do if a partner pushed you into something and then backed out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - After dating my current boyfriend for a month, he started the marriage/ live together talk. I said it was too soon, obviously. We both have a child, his lives with the mother. He pressed the idea a lot, even going as far as talking to my religious parents. After I gave in,... (256 words)

Girlfriend goes to 19 year old male friends apartment and believes he wants to be "friends"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

11 April 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Dear expert, My name is James and I'm a 16 year old Irish lad from belfast. I've been going out with a girl called shauna for the last 6 and a half months. I met her in a girls school/boys school exchange that we had every week, someo girls would come up to my school and we w... (898 words)

Any thoughts about what's up with her, with us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4605 days ago

11 April 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - In dating this lady for last 8 months that turned romantic after starting two years ago. Lived with her, her invitation with her and her young daughter. Things were going well, but seemed odd to be asked to keep any pda's away from her daughter being able to see and always act ... (242 words)

I love wearing briefs, am I the only one who does this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

11 April 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey all. Am nearly 15 and am gay. I love wearing briefs. But if anyone found out i wear them they would take the mick. So i wear boxers over them. What i want to know is am i the only one who does this or used to do this. Cheers. Xx =)... (55 words)

Fooled around with my male friend, I don't know if he is straight, bi or gay! What should I say to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

11 April 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey all. Il give a bit of background to the situation. I have this friend whos a lad, we relly close am gay and he doesn't know. I think he is gay but maybe bi. We're close hes the only male friend am really close to cus most of my mates are girls. But we go shopping together ... (298 words)

I think we have lost our physical connection, should I break up with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

11 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfriend for almost two years now and I don't like the way things are going. We haven't had sex in the last 30 days, and before that it was once every two weeks. Also every time I hug her I feel like she doesn't really mean it, and every time I try to french ... (148 words)

Should I tell people I'm gay? Or should I wait until I'm older?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

11 April 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey all, I am 14 nearly 15 in may. I am gay but sometimes wish i wasn't. I hang around with girls at school and go twon with them. Some of my friends know am gay. But they are all girls what know. I could never tell my mate whos my best male mate I am gay. He plays football ... (217 words)

Do girls shave their pubes when they have sex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a virgin still at the age of 19, I've had plenty of flings but I'm waiting for that right guy to lose it to, and I reckon it will be soon. One thing - do girls shave their pubes when they have sex? I know this sounds ridiculous but it's something you don't really wan... (72 words)

I want to get to know this guy, but technically we've never met....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend knows this guy and I find him so attractive. I've never actually spoken to him just seen him once in the distance which I think has made me attracted to him. I really want to get to know him, but without being stalkerish and creepy. Ideally I would like to bump into ... (110 words)

Boyfriend and I don't have much time together because he is always doing things for his mom

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a relationship with a guy who lives with his elderly mum ,sometimes it feels like we don't have much time alone together ,she gets him doing jobs around the house .I see him every 3 weeks ,he did say we could go away together soon ,but now he has said later in the year ... (100 words)

I don't want a relationship with him, I just want to be friends....how do I tell him without hurting him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4606 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - heya, im not sure what i want in my life yet as i am fed up of being used and do want a relationship, iv been meeting up with this boy and he wants to move to the next level and start to see eachother, and as i said i do want a relationship but dont know if i want 1 with him,... (140 words)

Sex is boring with boyfriend! Is it because he was a virgin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4606 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been with my boyfriend for a couple of months and we started to have sex. But we have a problem. Or well I do. He is boring in bed. He doesn’t touch me, all he does is kiss me, touch my boobs and that’s it. One problem that he has is that He gets disgusted by ... (227 words)

My boyfriend is horribly selfish in bed!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for a while now and I dread having sex! Previously sex consisted of him pushing my head between his legs. He would lie there groaning while I gave him oral. He would rub his hand up and down my back, eventually when my jaw was hurting I would get ... (190 words)

Boyfriend uses cocaine and is physically abusive. Can I help him in any way? Or just forget about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I Have been dating my boyfriend for a year now. I know we love each other very much he never cheated. The only problem is he smokes cocaine now and then and he has a lot of friends which makes him very aggresive when he has done it. He even hit me a few times before. I dont l... (112 words)

I can't believe he's flirting with other girls again!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm pretty upet at the moment because my boyfriend used to flirt with girls on facebook telling them that they looked sexy, and that they were gorgeous e.t.c, I was was not happy with this behaviour as it made me feel awful, and like he didn't respect me especially as I have ... (102 words)

Will having only one testicle affect my sex life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

11 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - t have one testicle . would it affect my sexual life. I am 23 years old and virgin guy.... (20 words)

Married lover has developed fantasies of us getting caught in the act

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

11 April 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My married lover lately has mentioned these fantasies where we are caught in the act by her (female) roommate, that roommate's boyfriend, or even her husband. Sometimes we act them out and she gets very, very turned on. She will cum for me (hard for her to do sometimes) an... (204 words)

He broke up with me because he saw me talk to another guy! How do I show him it was just a conversation and that I only love him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hi dear uncle and aunts, im now in a lot of trouble and my rlationship is now on a verge of breakup. yesterday my bf sees me talking to another guy and broke up in anger .he is neither receiving my call nor coming online .he abused me and said you are a girl of loose ... (117 words)

I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 19, is it inappropriate for us to be together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a month and a half, and it's going wonderfully, I think I am falling for him. The problem is, we get a lot of judgement due to our ages, he is 19 and I am 16. So he has got a job, and I am at sixth form college. I am so ha... (82 words)

Friend pushed me away after we had sex for the first time.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

11 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - You know how it is, you invite one of my best friends over. You study. A cup of freshly made brew turns into cuddles, cuddles turn into kisses, kisses turn into...well, a night of wild sex with no sleep. I had a crush on this girl for the past 2 years, but always managed t... (358 words)

Found out he was married, he eventually left his wife and claims to want me.....but could this ever work out after everything that happened?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I was in a relationship with my boyfriend for four months when he arrived at my house in the middle of the day to tell me that he was married and that his wife had just found out about out relationship. I'm not squeeky clean in this situation, for the two months prior to ... (391 words)

Why does my ex refuse to accept he is abusive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Why does my ex still deny his abuse towards me? My.ex and I have been split up for 5 months we had been together 8 yrs but to me was a bad relationship, he hadn't know really what he wanted, although 43, he never made a commitment to me or our kids, still lived on/off with his ... (188 words)

Boyfriend makes comments when I speak to my family just because he has no contact with his!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend doesn't have any contact with any of his family. I'm not sure why, I have tried to talk about it but he avoids the subject. The trouble is he makes comments and remarks when I speak to mine and I'm getting sick of it. I have asked him why he does this ... (79 words)

He helped me through my divorce but I don't think this relationship is working, should I tell him straight and leave the relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age - I've divorced my controlling husband after 20 years. I've met this man and he helped me while I went through my divorce. I know from start he is not right but he persuade me to give it a go as he is 16 years older than me. Two years on Im 51 and he is almost 70. We live in ... (101 words)

How do I tell my parents I am pregnant? They don't even know about my boyfriend of 6 years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. Thank you for reading my post. I am in a huge dilemma right now. I am 15 weeks pregnant and don't know how to tell my family. During the last year, I have had 2 abortions due to the fact that my boyfriend forced me to have those. The last one was really mentally ... (335 words)

She completely erased me from her life like she didn't want anyone to know we were together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

11 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help with my fiance. She's been really distant lately, and I hardly talked to her the last few days, and then today, she was completely short with me. When I asked her what was wrong she just stopped texting me. Tonight I got on facebook to see if anything was amiss on ... (103 words)

What the hell happened? We went from being everything to nothing and I don't even know why

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

11 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Need a bit of advice / help to guide me through this one. This is a long post. So, I met one girl online around December. Started dating her regularly week to week for couple of months. I had sex with this girl and lost my virginity to her, and when we met up things wo... (664 words)

I love my boyfriend but it really bothers me that he is so mean to my kids! Am I wrong to feel like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of 4 years has 3 kids. One is 25 and lives at home, the other is 23 and has 4 kids and him and all the kids stay there on weekends. His daughter lives with her mom. We do not spend the night at each others homes (due to my kids being younger). If his 23 year old ... (191 words)

10 months into our relationship, he's decided he wants a complete makeover!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been with my boyfriend for a little over 10 months now, and I really love him, but recently he's been talking about how he wants to change his look. Grow out some facial hair, cut his hair short, change his wardrobe, and other stuff. Honestly, he wants to change ... (252 words)

I don't think I want anything to do with him, what do I do next?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age - I met a guy last week and went out a few times. We met online and had spent some time on the phone before we met in person. He seemed nice but he is too overwhelming! Goes on about working out at the gym and when can I meet him next and how sweet and pretty I am. Blah Blah Bl... (203 words)

I keep comparing myself to my BF's attractive female friend and its making me insecure about myself! Help please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 y/o and my bf is 23. We have been together for about 2 years now, and everything is generally good. I just can't seem to get past this one thing that happened a few months ago.... He has this friend. She is beautiful, they have known each other forever, and he ... (224 words)

He walked out after a fight. Don't know what to do? Wait? or not Wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm feeling a bit lost right now. My boyfriend and I have been going out for over a year. We've had our share of ups and downs and it has been on and off over the last 12 months. The reason why I am feeling lost right now is because of a recent fight we had that caused... (303 words)

Can anyone suggest some cute names for my triplets?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - 5 months pregnant, with triplets, all whom are believed to he precious baby boys :) any cute name ideas? My name is Heidi. Their father (who is out of the picture) name is Jon. We live in Texas. Trying to stick with a cute Southern theme :) I have a list of first names such as ... (108 words)

This girl I work with is cheating on her fiance! Should I tell him or stay out of it?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

11 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Should I say something? Or say out of it? There is a girl Ive worked with at work that I got to know very well. Ive even met her fiance about four or five times when he stops over at are work to pick her up which they will be getting married in about a year or so. He seems l... (313 words)

Is it weird not to like kissing in public?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

11 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I would like to know if it's weird that I don't like to kiss my girlfriend in front of others. I have no problem with kissing in general. Im not ashamed of her or anything I just feel weird, ya know?... (41 words)

My girlfriend is obsessed with my ex and is now asking me to compare her to my ex in every way, physically, mentally, sexually. Is this weird?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

11 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - girlfriend obsessed with exes, attacks me verbally. ive been with this girl for almost 11 monthes. some days she begins to think about my ex, she goes on her twitter page, facebook etc. . .then she brings her up at least 4 times a week telling me different things about her... (186 words)

How can I talk to my family about my ex abusing me and also deal with my new relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So a little back story first. I'm 17, I was sexually abused by my ex for almost a year, and I am working with the police on charges for the assault. Because I am a minor, I have to tell my parents that I am making allegations against him, and they have to talk to the police. ... (312 words)

Went against my friends advice and now she won't talk to me. Any advice pls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4606 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had a falling out with one of my close friends. Well I'm not sure, the other night me and her went out and I guy who I know was there too. Me and this guy always text and stuff and that night we kissed. Anyway at the end of the evening I told my friend I'm going back to ... (142 words)

I really want a tattoo of my deceased ex boyfriend's name but my friends think its a bad idea

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, basically my ex boyfriend died in december, we had been broken up a couple months before he died but he was my first true love and never got over it and when he died it just tore me up even more. I feel like I've lost apart of me. I really want his name tattooed on me ... (89 words)

Unexperienced boyfriend, need help please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

11 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, this is strictly a sex related question I'm having a slight problem. My boyfriend and I both are 21 and have been going out for 4 months, and we have already made love. The thing is is that I took his virginity, so he is new at everything.everything. I... (155 words)

Should I wait around and help my G/f with her life or do what is best for me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

11 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am a sophomore in college and things were going great the first year but I've slipped into a huge rut this second year. Anyways, I have been in a great relationship for just over 3 years now. She is my high school sweet heart. When I left for college I made t... (691 words)

How can I trust that she has moved on from ex's habits or she is just pretending for my sake?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

11 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a wonderful girlfriend, and things are going really well between us. A few years ago, she came out of a bad relationship where the guy she was with would insult her, call her 'stupid', a 'whore'- that sort of vile language, and slapping was part of her sexual routine ... (411 words)