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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do I have a chance at all with my friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear aunts, I begin by admitting am at a point in my life when I feel I need a man not just for company but for sex as well. But ave never dated really so am not experienced. So there is this guy who is my friend. We flirt a lot, well he initiates it and I play along for t... (177 words)

Someone hacked into my account and told my ex that I love him but I don't

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my facebook account got hacked recently, and the hacker told my ex on chat that i still loves him and never stopped the problem is by the time i saw the hackers message my ex had replied "i love you too, you know i do u r the one 4 me 3" i feel really sad and confused now ... (98 words)

Is she playing hard to get or having trouble with her ex cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

8 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi ive known a girl for a few months now but we've only had one "date"--she was with someone at the time we met--and i havent seen her for a couple of months since. She has recently had a hard time becuase this guy she was with has cheated on her. I didnt know this until last ... (256 words)

I like my girlfriend but love my friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

8 April 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Ok please do not judge me but 5 years ago i met an Irish woman who i loved from the day i met her . I feel that i had such a connection with this woman and it killed me when she told me her age i at least expected only 10 years of an age difference I never expressed my feelings ... (498 words)

Is it just sex or more?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been having sex with a guy for about 2yrs now.. in the begining he and i was jst hooking up... 2yrs later... i am soo much in love... i dont think he feels the same way. he probably likes me... or does he jst like having sex with me. he usually jst shows up late after ... (522 words)

How do I kiss? (without tongue)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I dont know how to winch or snog as its also called ? i really want to show my love for a person i really love ( ps : with out tongue )... (33 words)

He told me he cheated but didn't tell me the whole story

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend said he cheated on me and that it depended on what i considered cheating. He said he called a girl hot and flirted with her but didnt realize it till after. He said he was really super sorry. So then i brought it up with 1 of his friends and he said there was ... (219 words)

Why do older men go for younger girls?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Can you guys answer me my question. Why does older guys go for younger girls? I am with someone who is 7 year older than me he is 27, 28 this year. We have had so many complications with our relationship. I just sometimes think to myself no wonder this guy is not married or ... (80 words)

I puked after giving my boyfriend oral sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi..this is really embarrassing but I need some feedback I gave my boyfriend head last night.. I've done it many times before he was my first so he understands I'm still learning!! I normally choke when I go all the way down on him but this time I puked when I was gagging ... (93 words)

Ok to attend bachelorette and bridal shower but not wedding?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Not so much a love/relationship question but... Is it acceptable to attend the bride's bridal shower and bachelorette party but not her wedding? My best friend Sam and her boyfriend planned a trip a few months ago, and I, along with her good friend Jane and her boyfrie... (326 words)

My Husband Seems to Prioritise Cats Over Baby Daughter

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have a 3mo old daughter. The other day I mentioned it was time to start thinking of what methods we needed to use to childproof the house in the near future. I said I would like to move all the cats' litter boxes upstairs cos if Baby gets into them, they can... (331 words)

My mom thinks my boyfriend is sponging off of me and doesn't want me to help him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My mum shouted at me yesterday because i told her that i was going to take some food to my boyfriend's house. It was only a pizza, and it only cost £1. She said my boyfriend was scrounging off me ( or sponging off me ). She was supposed to give me a lift to his house, but when ... (266 words)

His ex gave him more enjoyment during oral sex than me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf is circumcised. He is not a huge fan of oral sex and says he finds it more relaxing than sexual. As a result, we don't often engage in it during foreplay because he loses his erection. However, after feeling it was just me being rubbish (although have not had problems ... (116 words)

I'm 13 and I fancy my woodshop teacher!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 and I do woodwork in school. It's very hard,and the teacher lets me away with EVERYTHING!I take out my phone in class,and he doesn't mind. I walk around the classroom all the time and I never do my work! And I didn't do my homework,and neither did the guy beside me and ... (183 words)

He's controlling! Should I end things, and if so, how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

age - I've married for 20 years with an adult daughter. My husband is controlling and I finally have the courage to end my unhappy marriage. Then I met this man 16 years older than me. He is helpful and supportive throughout my divorce. Two years on I feel he is controlling as ... (116 words)

I cheated now he wont he talk to me

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - hi , a couple of years ago i dated a young man for a few months , he was a good lover , was very nice to me but unfortunatley i was rebounding from my ex who was totally opposite to my new boyfriend (my ex was always on and off with his wife with me) to cut a long story sh... (460 words)

Living with his parents, watching him watch football -- sometimes it feels like I'm wasting my time

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my bf for over 2 years now and I feel like nothing has changed or moved forward in our relationship we are stuck in a bungalow with his mum and dad and ass hole of a brother and it's starting to take its toll. All my bf is interested in is watching and playing ... (124 words)

Have you ever felt like you're meant to be with someone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Have any of you ever felt like you are MEANT to be with someone? I'm not a romantic person at all, and i've never believed in soul mates or things like that, but there is this one guy in my life who keeps popping up and each time he does I just feel more and more attached. I... (768 words)

Why does he press on my bladder area during foreplay?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, My new partner likes to press down on my bladder area just above the bikini line during foreplay but this really makes me want to pee. Is there any reason why a man would like to do this? I'm so worried I will eventually pee on him but I also like the intensity feelin... (78 words)

Guys: How do you get ready in a small time frame to have sex again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hey guys..me and my g/f love sex..but once when i am done..she is lyk..i want more..lets do it again...i am nt telling that i am not satisfying her but..she njoys it a lot and wants more..but as we all know once we are done it takes some time for another round..so guys..how to ... (73 words)

He likes me touching him but doesn't want to touch me back. A user?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been texting and phoning this guy 24\7 for over a year now. He has told me loads of times that he likes me, and I have told him that I like him. We have had what I would class as a few non-dates, lunches etc but I have asked him out a few times but he can never make it. ... (107 words)

My transgender girlfriend has low self esteem. How can I help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been together for almost two years now. When we first got together she informed me that at birth she had no sex, she believes that her parents chose the wrong sex. She is attracted to woman, she is more masculine, and does have hormonal imbalences. ... (90 words)

Should I tell my #1 guy about my 'stalker'?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I'm dating a guy, it's been only two weeks and I really like him, I would love to be his girlfriend one day. But, there's this other guy who's been almost stalking me since I broke up with an exboyfriend almost two months ago. I finally accepted to go out for lunch with him ... (236 words)

I'm in desperate need of earning back my boyfriend's trust

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I have been with my boyfriend 7 months now, but there are so many guys that have been flirting with me ever since i started dating him. Now he is realizing that he has given me so many chances and doesn't know if he should now. I'm afraid of losing him. But in the past we ... (147 words)

My younger sister has tried to hook up with my boyfriends. Now the tables are turned. Should I accept her boyfriend's invitation to have sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i have this problem... my sister just recently started seeing a new guy. i later find out that he wants to be with me in a sexual way. i do have feelings for him and not sure what to do. part of me is saying its wrong but another part is saying she has done it to me many ... (121 words)

Should I be doing this? Why am I yearning for the one who has the most potential to break my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - For two years, I've been seeing a guy, X for the past two years and I had doubts and doubts, contemplated leaving him time and time again. But, I admit I have strong feelings for him and it seems that lately, it's getting more serious...But, there are two other great guys (Y a... (368 words)

How does a man lose interest so quickly

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I began dating this guy and at first I was not into him. He's not that good looking and was a little too clingy too early on. He came on really strong, and I wasn't over my previous boyfriend. So at first I didn't treat him too well... But the more time we spent toget... (664 words)

B/f has hurt and lied to me so much. what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years we met in the military and went on deployment right after we had an amazing relationship and friendship through it all and even though we were both in the most horrible place i was deeply in love with him well we got home about 2 ... (260 words)

Is thinking of cheating actually cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Is thinking cheating? I had this dream last night about sleeping with my fiancée's friend, it was so hot and heavy! And now today my mind has been wandering. My friend posted a pic of himself nothing new but all of a sudden my hormones are raging. Could I be bored of having sex ... (61 words)

I'm 21 and I think sex is boring. I astound the guys I date! Is there a problem?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 21 and I have very little sexual experience. I've been to third base a couple of times, but I usually end it quickly because I'm not comfortable or I think it's boring. I do fantasize and play with myself occasionally, but almost never with guys. I am definitely not ready ... (169 words)

My husband's temper is destroying me and our marriage!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

- I feel absolutely trapped in a relationship that is tearing my self esteem apart. I've been with my husband for 7 years. I've always known he was opinionated and a bit hotheaded. At times he borders on being verbally abusive when he's mad. Then once he blows up, he gets over ... (689 words)

My boyfriend's drinking is ruining everything!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has an obvious drinking problem, even he admits it. At times he has tried to cut down, but over the course of a month or so he just works back up to the same old excessive amount. He comes home drunk all the time. He's even started disappearing for long periods ... (367 words)

Should I try to date this gym rat who reminds me of my ex husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

age - I met a new guy and he says he is falling for me - I am uncomfy with that. I have just started dating again after taking almost three years off after a BAD relationship. The new guy tells me how he is falling for me and that he can see us together for a long time. Thing is ... (178 words)

How can I permanently be with my lover?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Ive been married for 22 years and got 3 kids (grown up now tho), ive been having an affair for the past 7 years with a man i love very very much, he is married and has 1 grown up daughter. We want to be together but we havent a clue what to do or how to go about it. My marriage ... (213 words)

Is it possible to remain strictly friends after a break up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it possible to remain friends after a break up? Are there specific situations where there is no possibility of friendship? Are there any rules? I have never wanted to remain friends with any of my ex's just ended it and moved on, however I am hearing from a younger ... (108 words)

Should you email them back when they email you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4641 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

age - Online dating..If someone you have been emailing seldom comes on the site and you have exchanged like 4 to 5 emails between each other. Should you email them back the next time they email you? They have mentioned they would like to get to know you better and you have let them... (75 words)

Is it normal that I crave sex all the time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4641 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am confused. I don`t know what is going on with me. I am craving sex all the time. I am married, but I`m not getting it from him as often as I`d like. I will see a random man while I`m out, and all I can think about is how amazing it would be if he was kissing my neck and and ... (92 words)

How can I protect my sister from her 40 year old boyfriend?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

8 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - 1.) My sister's boyfriend is 40+ years old and i think he is racist because of the way he interacts with other people including us. btw my sister is only 26. (the guy is british, my sister is filipina), my sister claims that he loves the guy. 2.) At a dinner party, my aunt a... (255 words)

My boyfriend keeps on, "giving me an out"??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf of 8 months (or maybe soon to be ex, im not sure because we just had a fight) often says to me "i'm giving you an out". He's done this several times out of nowhere, mostly because he's concerned about his personal and financial situation. I guess one could say he's had a ... (374 words)

Why is b/f so terrible about responding only to my messages?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I use a texting app that shows when the other person has read your message. Many times, he has read them right away but takes very long to respond or doesn't respond at all. On Facebook, I will message him when I notice he is online but he doesn't always ... (104 words)