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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My FWB chose another girl so why does he act jealous?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm confused.My best friend is a guy,and we've had a..well..more than friends thing for over a year now.Nothing official,and I guess people would call it friends with benefits.We do act like a couple,and everyone thinks we're together.A couple of months ago,we had a very rocky ... (116 words)

I can't stop crying, I want my ex back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am crazy about my ex. We broke up last May because we were so far apart. Now we live 20minutes away. I've seen him a bit since I moved closer but he only comes around for like a week then disappears again. He has done this too me three times. The worst thing is it would be ... (243 words)

I've been offered a university place hundreds of miles away, how do I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for just 3 months but have said 'i love you' already, I do love and fancy him and he thinks the world of me and treats me well. What I am hiding from him is that ive been accepted into my top 3 choices for university, the nearest of which ... (237 words)

I have been imagining us together. What if he marries someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4610 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 25 year born again female I hav developed feelings for my brother in christ at my church,and now it makes me feel uncomfortable at church I don't express my self freely in his presence and the thing is there is no way that I can tell him how I feel according to the word ... (142 words)

What size penis do women prefer?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

7 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a man aged 34, iam just wondering on what penis size do women prefers. Is big, small or just average and if big how big. What do women enjoy most while having sex. Do they like when a man comes from the back or when he is on top.... (55 words)

I really love him and want to be with him but I haven't been able to ignore that online situation that he has going on, which I've tried so far.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have to make a final decision and was wondering if I can get some opinions/advice here. My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year 5 months. Well, I recently (December) found out that he's been having an online relationship with some girl from the phillipines that... (569 words)

Anyone with UK experience on child visitation and the courts?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice from anyone in the uk that has ever had to go to court so their ex can see their child. I have never stopped my ex seeing my son yet he is taking me to court for access. He wants to have my son from Fri to Sunday every alternative weekend. I am unhappy a... (247 words)

In 6 months b/f is going into the Marines. Do I just let him go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 years old and a freshman in highschool. My boyfriend of almost two months is 18 and he's is a senior. I've had the biggest school girl crush on him since the beginning of the year. One day, I was eating lunch alone and he walked up to me and say next to me. That's where ... (231 words)

How do I play hard to get and get his attention again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4609 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy and we were doing great. We went on a date and then only talked for a few weeks because of his work schedule, but then last week I went by him and we cuddled and after that he seemed to become really busy. I don’t know if it is just happened by chance or ... (122 words)

After 8 turmulous years I can't put up a front. I'm very upset with my boyfriend's actions!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in an on and off relationship with the same man for 8 years. For the first few years everything was great, we got along well, had the same hopes and desires for the relationship, lived together etc. The past 3 years have been hell, breaking up, moving out, getting ... (617 words)

I want to be there for my b/f but he keeps pushing me away

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4610 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is my boyfriend behaving this way? Am I wasting my time? My boyfriend is going through some family problems at the moment and I've given him time and space to sort out his issues but he knows I'm always here if he needs to talk or wants my help or advice. I lov... (237 words)

Even though he reassures me I don't feel like I"m good enough for my b/f

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7 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been with my first ever boyfriend for about 2 months now. I lost my virginity to him and well i do beleive this is love. I know he loves me and well i love him, i'm so happy in this relationship. However, i just feel like i'm not good... (412 words)

What do I do about an ex friend who doesn't take the hint that I don't want to be friends anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I don't even know how to ask this, so i'll just start here. I had a friend (female) who was incredibly mean and rude to me. She hated my boyfriend and got mad at everything I've done. I've actually posted about her twice on here before. I figured the best way to ... (126 words)

Why would a guy who wasn't into me act so happy to see me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - 3 months ago.. I had a massive crush on this guy. i initiated contact [emailed him].. and he eventually asked for my number and suggested we meet. we did.. and it went really well [or so i thought]... but he never called me after that and didn't even reply my email that i sent ... (451 words)

Is my LDR committed or am I falling for him too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a long-distance relationship. I'm in the US, he's in the UK. We've been together for over 10 months and in the course of that time we've only shown each other a photo, and as of recently started texting each other. We met online, and have talked via YIM almost everyday. ... (359 words)

I need to get past the pain of my first marriage

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age - How can I get over the pain that my first husband caused me? It has been over 20 years and I have tried everything I know to let it go but the pain is still there. My second husband died after 7 1/2 years of complications from a brain tumor. I have no one to talk to. I can't ... (139 words)

How do I start talking about this with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, So I have a bit of a situation and it'll probably help me explain it more if I share a little bit of a timeline. There is this guy "Jay" and we've been friends since we were 12 years old (I'm 23 now). We went to middle school and high school together and still see each o... (441 words)

How do I deal with this guy whose 9years older than me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I was with a lad one night and I met up with him a while after. Im 18 and he is like 9 years older than me, we havent met up since, but we still text and he does ask me to meet up with him again, but I keep saying no. I do like him but am I mad for meeting up with him and ... (74 words)

I'm nervous about my lack of experience

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

7 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been dating a girl for a month now, we are't officially a couple, but she has said we should take things slowly. We've made out twice now, i am very inexperienced and she knows it, she isn't. So we kiss, no open mouth yet. I have fondled and sucked on her breasts, she... (218 words)

Shy for a guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4610 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I really like this guy! But I can't go up and talk to him because 4 other guys like him! How can I get him to date me without me asking him out or talking to him???... (38 words)

Have I ruined this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So, been seeing this guy for around three-four weeks now. We're intimate and from what I can gather pretty fond of each other. So, we were just lying in his bed, snuggled up ect and out of nowhere I say "sometimes I think I'm a little bit in love with you." and I don't know ... (214 words)

Where in Europe is best for filming the beauty of everyday life?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is a relationship website, but please I really need advice on where in Europe has the best action? (Not in that sense). Basically, I have a film project coming up and I have always wanted to film things that are amazing, so the culture, sports, activities, people ... (155 words)

My parents argue all the time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. Okay parents are fighting whenever they are next to each other and it doesnt matter where? They just fight everywhere even next to my friends. My mom when my dad s out, she s always tellng me an my siblings the bad things about my dad. That affects me emotionally coz i ... (163 words)

Should I be worried about his meaning? He said "you better be worth seeing" randomly

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. My boyfriend said some thing last night and its bugging me, i dont know what he ment by it. He said "you better be worth seeing" randomly. Then i said what? And then he just completly changed the topic. We been togather for almost a year and we have been in a long d... (134 words)

I feel guilty dumping my Facebook/Long Distance friend. So should I go back and say sorry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a girl in facebook and she became my girlfriend for one(1) year. It was a long distance relationship and she lives 8-12 hours away from me. We only met around 4 or 5 times throughout our relationship and per meeting, I stayed at their house for like two weeks or so. I ... (353 words)

Can't deal with your lover's sexual past? Why not leave her / him if they have different morals to you?

This question has 64 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

7 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys AND girls, I've read a lot on DC about retroactive jealousy, or "his / her sexual past", and people having problems with it. Some very smart people here have made some very good suggestions on how to deal with it. The thing is, that it seems to be impossible t... (413 words)

We expected ground rules. So why has my father changed the rules to be more lenient?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My best friend is coming over to my house for the 1st time and my parents are letting him stay over. I was surprised because he is a guy they don't know (they have seen him once or twice and I've talked to them about him, but I know that's not enough). The other thing is that ... (231 words)

Am I only good enough for him when he is in the mood?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - this is going to be one long message with spell errors sorry.. haha and please read and answer oky so there's this boy his name begins with an F so lets call him F. so i've liked F ever since the first day i met him in 2009. (its 2012 now lol) and i know for sure im in love ... (986 words)

Is the age difference a big deal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

7 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So I'm 17 going on 18 and this girl and I really like each other. But the problem is her parents won't let her date till she's 16 which will be in September. So we have been like talking and hanging out and everything but her parents still don't like the idea of me being older ... (139 words)

Should I tell him all my 'issues'? I don't want to freak him out

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a recovering alcoholic and bullimic ( doing well now by the way) but it's hard work all the time. I've been seeing a man that I've known many years that isn't privy to my issues. We've been dating a little over a month and just started sleeping together. He holds all t... (158 words)

Am I being conned online?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - -This was in a cam chat- So I met a guy online and he seems to be into me and I'm into him. Usually when I meet guys on cam all they want to see is my body which is pretty normal I think. But this guy first asked to see my eyes (since I usually hide my face at first.) I was... (190 words)

Ho do I know if this online guy is interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I'm pretty sure there's been alot of questions like these but I'm just really stumped. So it's been about two months since I met this guy online who lives an hour away (and trust me, this isnt the first time this happens) and I found him on this dating site then I added hi... (312 words)

My wife never initiates sex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

7 April 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have a decent marriage, and a one year old daughter. The trouble is, even before she conceived, we rarely had sex (about once a month). Now, it'e even less. When we do, it's good, but every time I initiate she's too tired. Even when I initiate during the day, ... (161 words)

He wants me to meet his mother.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Well Ive been seeing this israeli guy for 3 months now. Im not a religious person and he is secular too. Hes an engineer whos working for an american company and hes pretty much like just westners. Though he cares about his family very much and sometimes thinks like a sexist ... (642 words)

Our personalities are so different, does this mean we wont work out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been dating a while, and we're head over heels for each other. With any other guy I've had doubts, but with him I'm just so happy. I can honestly see him as the one for me, and I can't imagine myself without him. But..we get into fights a lot. Like small ... (82 words)

A few days after we started our relationship he broke up with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I have found myself in a world of hurt. Long sorry ahort, i met a wonderful guy who was funny, charming and attractive, and I began becoming very intereasted, we started talking and texting more and more, and things slowly progressed and convos got more and more... (210 words)

Where is the 'clit' on a girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - i saw it before, like, being talked about, but i dont know ware it is. im just really curious, u know? i am confused about that an i never learned that stuff either. we dont have that at my school. all we got taut was not 2 get stds and stuff.... (51 words)

Moved towns for a guy I'm not even attracted, have I made a mistake?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I lived in OHIO, im 21, young. I went on this website and started talking to a 30 year old guy, I was hesitant on his looks but still talked to him, After talking to him knowing he wants marriage, kids and to settle down I thought perfect, me to! So after a month of ... (250 words)

Does "I'm not looking for a girlfriend right now" mean "I'm not into you"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Over the last few months I've become pretty good friends with this guy. We spend a lot of time together, talk on Facebook all the time, have a ton in common, and really "click." Both of us are quite shy and awkward, and I feel a lot more comfortable with him than I do with a ... (774 words)

Is commitment for everyone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Does there come a point in someone's life where they want commitment rather then sleeping with different people, or can some people go their whole lives living like that?... (29 words)

His depression is depressing me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4610 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age - My boyfriend got a DUI last weekend. Since then he has been very depressed. I realize its only been a week, but his depression is starting to depress me. He only communicates with me via text message and its only been every other day that I hear from him. He doesnt want t... (339 words)

Should I stick to my 'type' of guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Throughout my life, I've always been told that I'm pretty, beautiful, and attractive. I'm confident in myself, but not overly confident. I'm not exactly "sexy" or dress like it, but I'm tall and thin with a pretty face. Naturally, I've always received affection from g... (408 words)

Why is he still coming around when he said we didn't have a future?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing this guy for the last 2 and a half years on strictly a friends with benefits situation. Well he lived with me for around 3 months and the more I got to know him and we got along so good and he made me laugh and we just really had fun together and I fell in ... (273 words)

I can't even discuss how I am feeling with him right now!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

Rebound relationships - do they work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Does rebound relationships ever really work out/last? why don't they work or last? and what is a rebound relationship?... (21 words)

Should I try again with this girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

7 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok a while ago i met a girl and we got on well, so i arranged to meet her again for a date. Unfortunately our date was interrupted by one of her friends (a guy) who very annoyingly decided to stay for the whole night. After a couple of hours with this guy i decided to leave as ... (181 words)

He called me unstable!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

7 April 2012 (F)

age - Dating a man for 6 months, he decided to go back and try again with his ex wife. They are common law 2 teen boys. This is the 4th time they will try again. I was the "rebound" He said he would never go back. So I didn't feel like a home wrecker. I was head over heals for him ... (748 words)