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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I throw my hopes away and say goodbye?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4645 days ago

3 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I dated for 1.5 years, and we broke up one year ago. We were in a long distance relationship that became difficult due to business and therefore poor communication. I am bi-cultural, so my family and I visit his country once a year. Although we were distant while ... (574 words)

Is this guy in denial or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

3 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Right I like this guy and I told this guys mate that I like his mate. He goes give him time and he will relise. I told his mate is he in denial and his mate goes yeah he is in denial on liking you. I dont know what to think no more becuase I really like him. His mate then had a ... (230 words)

We have a baby on the way and he's speaking to another woman on twitter, please help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

3 April 2012 (F)

- help! I am 8 months pregnant and I just found out two weeks ago my boyfriend of a year was talking to other female on twitter when i asked him about it he told me he just be playing with so I put him out in an attempt to get him to see that he was wrong for doing that to me an ... (260 words)

I slept with another girl when we broke up and she cant forgive me, any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

3 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year now and at about the half way point we hit a snag a "took a break" We are young but really in love and I think she may be the one for me. But back to the "break" see when we took this 2 week break I made a horrible mistake and ... (175 words)

Should I break up with my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

3 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I am leaving to the Marines soon, is it wise to break up with my girlfriend? We been dating for a year and I just want to make the best move for the both of us since I don't know what the future may hold in the service.... (48 words)

The night we started dating she slept with another guy and I cant forget it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

3 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help with settling inner turmoil. I have been with my current girlfriend for over a month and a half now, and I love her, and she says she loves me, but there is a problem. The night we started dating she slept with another guy. When I found out, I asked her about it. ... (205 words)

What kinds of hugs mean attraction?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

3 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello. I have a 10-year-old son, and he thinks that as soon as a girl his age hugs him, it automatically means she's attracted to him. However, my wife and I are trying to explain the different types of hugging, as sometimes, he calls any woman that hugs me at a party "Dad'... (137 words)

Do I follow my heart and chose one guy or stay with the other guy and always wonder "what if"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

3 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with Daryl for 2 years now. He has a child with another woman and we have definely had our ups and downs. I do not get along with his family at all. But I'm pregnant. I love daryl he's a good guy and he's been talking marriage lately. The kicker is ... (284 words)

Crush on a doctor I work with!

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3 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So i'm 20 years old and i'm on a gap year(from school) and during this year i've been working in a hospital(i'm going to med school in september, hence my working in a hospital). Long story short, I stopped working today, not because of what i'm about to say, but because i'm ... (328 words)

I'm not sure where to start with the moving. I am confused

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

3 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have decided to move somewhere 7 hours away from where i live now. Im moving to be with my boyfriend. I just dont know where to start. Ive never moved on my own like this before. I have a job here where I live now and could probably get this same job in the new area. I ... (150 words)

She has destroyed my life with her sexual past that I never knew about.. Just to marry her!!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

3 April 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Ive been married 13 years, have 2 children. my wife has been very good to me all 13 years. but never thought in a 1,000,000 years this would happen to me.. I feel like my marriage was nothing but a fairytale. So this is what happened, when I first met her she told ... (479 words)

I am not ready for a relationship. Is it unfair to ask him to wait for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

3 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. I could sure use some advice about my situation. I have recently separated from my husband. I have a very good friend who cares about me. He's single. He would be interested in starting a relationship with me. But he tells me he cannot do it right now because I... (331 words)

Women: What are the real secrets to winning and keeping your hearts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

3 April 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - This is a question for all of you women who are, or who have been, married or in a long term relationship. What are the things a man can or should do to keep his wife happy and fully committed to him? What would be yourbest advice as to what a woman wants or needs, so that she ... (269 words)

How do I let this guy down if he is gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

3 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm curious if this boy is gay. 1. He asked me if I thought he was 'cute'?!(Three times) 2. He texts me only at night. 3. He gets mad when I do not text him back quick enough (I do it on purpose now) 4. He was really desperate for me to send him a picture of me. 5. He j... (140 words)

I don't think I want to keep a tennis buddy who doesn't trust me with her phone number

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

3 April 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I met this woman in a tennis class about 6 months ago. We've been playing tennis on and off since then. We exchanged e-mail addresses, and I e-mailed her my cell phone # but she didn't give me hers. Recently she stood me up for a tennis game, and then later e-mailed to apol... (148 words)

Should I set a proposal timeline? Or just wait and see what happens?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

3 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have posted to this forum a few times before and here I am again. I am back with my boyfriend and we are in couples therapy together (his idea ) to work on our communication issues and work towards our common goal of marriage ( he tells me that is what he wants). But he has ... (433 words)

I love my friends and family but they are bringing me down, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

3 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all, I love my family and friends but if I spend time with them I can quite often become down and a bit depressed. I'm surrounded by loved ones and close friends who have very strong personalities. They can be very overbearing, brash, rude, unthoughtful, negative. A lot ... (229 words)

I know I'm overweight but my boyfriend still loves me, so why cant I get this into my head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

3 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I cant get over my weight issue!!! I am plain and simply over-weight! I dread to think how much I weigh but Im a UK size 22/24. (I have a medical condition which currently prevents me from losing weight and my bf knows about it) My boyfriend has slept with many ma... (276 words)

I have a great boyfriend and a great future with him, so why cant I stop thinking about my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4645 days ago

3 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Id greatly appreciate it if you could read this and maybe help set my mind at ease or tell me whats wrong or going on in my mind. I met a guy online years ago, got to know him, met him in real, fell in love and things were amazing with him. We went out for 3 years and ofcour... (912 words)

Stuck in a quandary between my wife and my married mistress

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

3 April 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I know that I am going to be judged for posting this, but that's okay. I need guidance. I am almost 39. My wife is going to be 42 this year and is already in menopause. We have no children, mostly because my wife is just not a sexual being. I think I would have like... (463 words)

We have been having this affair for so long, but I'm not sure how he feels about me....

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

3 April 2012 (F)

age - Hi, I need to have an opinion from you aunts about this married man i am seeing. Please i don't want any You shouldn't be doing this comments.i have been in this relationship with him for longer than i care to remember we are both mature age and i'm single, well he sees me ... (210 words)

Just a friend of the family? Or is she genuinely interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

3 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I've known this girl for about 6 years. She's 25, I'm 23. In the past we've exchanged movies, chat about our lives, etc. but only once in a while. Just the other day, I asked her if she was going to a nearby college town to watch a game. At first she said that she was bus... (396 words)

He leaves me to sleep alone, our sex life has died...all because he is up all night chatting to other women!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

3 April 2012 (F) age 51-59 - Please help! I have been living with my boyfriend for 1.8 years. The time has gone really quickly because as they say, time flies when you are having fun! Sometime into our relationship, I realised one night he was missing from bed. He has a spare room which is a complete... (1262 words)

In love with a military guy who is probably straight....how do I tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

3 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm Bi and I'm in love with this guy from high school and now he's in the military and I'm still afraid to tell him that I love him. Ever since high school I've had this crush on him, but that crush turned into some strong, intense feeling of love. I don't know what true ... (404 words)

She has a boyfriend, so what does she want from me? Am I the back up guy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

3 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hi guys,after 4 years i meet a highschool friend(female) in my college. she got admitted newly. i know she has a bf,when i asked her, she admits it too. she started texting me,we become close now. during our school days, we never talk to each other. now we text each other ... (381 words)

My wife has finally had enough of me, but I have finally come to my senses! Is it possible to win her trust and love back?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

3 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My wonderful wife is ready for a divorce after many year of neglect. I have cheated multiple time and it has nearly killed her emotionally, I cant imagine why she has stuck with me this long but, its coming to an end. She is ready for a divorce. Finally I have come to my senses ... (111 words)

Boyfriend doesn't respect girlfriends wishes

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

3 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 years. We've had alot of ups and downs. Here recently I told him I wanted to try to connect better on an emotional level rather than physical. (no sex). He still tries to get me to give in, but when I don't, he says he feels ... (96 words)

Have you ever been deeply in love with someone and then they decide they don't want to be with you anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

3 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Has any of you ever been very deeply in love with a person, and then after (in my case 2 years) awhile they decide they don't want to be with you anymore? What did you do? How did you handle it/carry on? (He had a ring, we planned to get married...and then he just walke... (174 words)

Why has the consistency of his cum changed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

3 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hello i have a question i need help with please. im 18 and me and my boyfriend are sexual active for about 4 months now. well a couple weeks ago his cum started to change. it used to be sticky but now its very liquidity. is that normal or can something be wrong? ... (53 words)

Four years of talking online but I still don't know his real name, or phone number

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

3 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Users, Where do I begin?. I'll just write what comes I suppose. For four years I have been talking to a man online. We talk every day at least 3 to 4 times and sometimes more. We log onto MSN in the mornings, during breaks at work, after work in the evening and every ni... (402 words)

Is it possible to love someone you have never seen?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

3 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi every one, i want to really ask how possible it is to love a person you have not seen... I recently met this girl online and i have fallen deeply in love with her though i have not seen personaly, we are thousands of miles apart, i have tried every thing to make her ... (74 words)

My best friend knows that I don't like this girl but she always talks to her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4646 days ago

3 April 2012 (?) age 30-35 - I have a question about friendships and a certain situation. So I met my best friend about maybe 5 or 6 months ago. We talked all the time and we basically hung out all the time and became best friends but we acted like sisters because we trusted eachother with everythi... (216 words)

Do you think mental illness is genetic and skip generations?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

3 April 2012 (F)

age - Is it possible to inherit bi polar from a distant family member like a grandmother, or uncle? I think my life is ruined by undiagnosed mental illness of my husband and our two sons.I was just wondering if you think mental illness is genetic and skip generations? I think there ... (229 words)

I haven't heard from him and I'm sleepless in San Francisco

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

3 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - A little help please :) I'm in love with the man I'm "dating" We were friends first for a while and started things up romantically a few weeks ago. Then I slept with him last week bi thought timing was ok because of how long ive known him The night was really beautiful and... (177 words)

How likely is it to get pregnant if you use condoms correctly?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

3 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and we've both been wanting to have sex for awhile now but I am deathly afraid of getting preagnant and yes, we have condoms but I'm scared they'll fail and I can't get birth control because we have no planned parenthood clinics ... (69 words)

What does emotionally raped mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

3 April 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - A girl told me she felt she was emotionally raped by another guy. What could this possibly mean? ... (18 words)

Just found out my wife lied to me about everything sexually .....her sexual past is extremely disturbing

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

3 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Alright let me first start out by giving you the basics ok my wife and I have been togather 6 years 5years married ,we have 3 kids she had two when we met but the dad was a loser in and out of prison and gangster deadbeat so I became there dad and loved every minute of it ,they ... (698 words)

Not making a "quota" system. How much sex per week?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

3 April 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm tired of asking the wife and keep getting turned down for sex. We have sex 1-2 per month, I get a BJ approx. 2 times per month. Again, i am not keeping score. I know EVERYONE is different. But, is that something to complain about?... (49 words)

How can I get my family to let me go out with friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4645 days ago

3 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So my question is I'm 18. Been 18 since last year, will be 19 this year and I'm still living at home and have yet to go out. My parents freak out when I go out later than 11:30 and my mother has the tendency to call me "names" when I stay out that late so, I don't know how to ... (88 words)