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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Was this teacher's behaviour inappropriate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

26 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sitting in class around everyone, my teacher stands beside and in back of me for about 2 minutes not saying a word. Then she starts touching my hair for a good minute. Very awkward and made me feel uncomfortable. Are they allowed to do this? Should I tell someone? ... (52 words)

Why is my ex planning to copy my travel dreams when he said he hates traveling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex is planning to travel to the same country I went to, after refusing to come with me when we were together. I broke up with my ex 4 months ago. We were together for over 3 years. I broke up because I felt he showed little interest in sharing his life with me and was not as ... (800 words)

Is this normal for a two-week old baby?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

26 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a two week old little girl, and she sleeps all the time, she sleeps most of the night and most of the day and never really wakes up for her bottle we have to wake her up normally , she will drink her bottle, have her nappy changed and then fall asleep again lol she ju... (87 words)

My LDR isn't very available, and I've met a new crush online

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

26 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Long story short: I'm in a LDR, we dont see each other often and I feel like he doesnt give me the time I need (on the phone, video chat etc) he's always tired from work or going out with friends. I tried and did my best to talk to him about that but he always finds excuses and ... (329 words)

Need help with premature ejaculation when masturbating is difficult

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

26 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I suffer from premature ejaculation and hence find sex a bit crap. My wife and I are very stressed out with work/non sleeping kids/studies and we get to make love max once a week. However, I find it an anti climax as I only last so long in the act. I have never... (232 words)

Said I'd go to the prom with him, but am having second thoughts

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

26 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - ok this Guy Im really good friends with asked me to the prom, my original plan was to go with my friends but i didnt want to hurt his feelings so i said yes, u wasn't sure about it then but now its even worse because prom is june 1st!, we dont attend the same high schiol and ... (122 words)

Why does she feel so bad after we have phone sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

26 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. My girlfriend and I have had a recurring problem now for half a year. We've been dating for about a year and we were sexually active the first few months. After some issues with her parents, we are now completely non-sexual. We occasionally have phone sex with each ... (161 words)

I don't understand her, is she in or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

26 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - There's this girl in college, I used to see her, but she never noticed me until like a year ago, when our eyes met for the first time. After that I only saw her like 7-8 times (and she noticed me everytime) around 6 months ago when I started seeing her around everyday in ... (725 words)

He told his ex he loves her then denied it with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

26 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I just saw emails that my boyfriend sent his ex 2 weeks ago, that say how he misses and loves her. There was mention that he had a girlfriend but yet he stated he love her......why? Also he lied to Me by telling me he never bought her an engagement and I found emails that he ... (150 words)

I am ashamed of who I am... help please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Please don’t Judge me or anything I did not come here for that I came for help and for someone to help me open my eyes and see that the world is negative place and not everybody is bad. After all no one has control over their feelings. I don’t know how or when by I don’t ... (596 words)

I cant get this out of my mind, please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all. I am in a bit of a situation here. I used to date a guy online few years ago and it just ended. And few months ago he added me on facebook. We talked,exchanged numbers,texted and flirted all the time. Then one day he started talking dirty and I stopped him telling ... (262 words)

Tired of listening to my father constantly complain

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm feeling so worn out by my father. He calls often, to carry on endless monologues and talk about himself, or his concerns. He barely knows what goes on in my life, because he doesn't ask, and he doesn't really care to know. On several occasions I have tried to have an open ... (642 words)

I know the cheating is wrong, but I don't know how to stop

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4571 days ago

26 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - i am married for almost 2 years with the man i really love and spend the rest of my life with. as time goes by, i felt rejected to him everytime i want to have sex with him. either he is tired from work and he has a habit of having a hard time to sleep after sex thats why he is ... (146 words)

Why havent I found love? I am 23 and still a virgin, I've never even had a real relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have reached a point in life where things should happen. as I write this massage, I am 23 years of age, still a virgin and never had any real relationship, yes I have accepted the fact that this is my situation, I might not find love, but most of the times I keep thinking ... (180 words)

Can you make somebody love you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

26 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am confused. I know this girl who I have feelings for. But she has no emotional connection to me. She is not interested in dating me. A friend of mine and I saw the movie Cinema Paradisio, where the main character sits under the window of a girl for 100 days and 100 nig... (148 words)

How can I overcome this jealousy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello can anyone offer some advice to me My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 months and he has this girl friend that he has known about a year. When we first got together he would always be out with her and she was constantly calling him at all hours and texting ... (250 words)

Why hasn't he asked me to be his girlfriend yet?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

26 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been dating a great guy for 2 months now and we agreed to only see each other, but he has never asked me to be his girlfriend. could this be because he thinks it is still too soon? or maybe he isnt over his ex, who he broke up with at christmas? im really keen to push ... (91 words)

Leaving my best friend and my gamer life behind.....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

26 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok here's the thing. I know this isn't your typical relationship question that you guys get but it's a serious one to me. I'm what most people would consider a 'Hardcore Gamer'. I use to be the guy playing video games for 20 hours a day. Video games was all I ever thought of. I ... (487 words)

Should I give it a go with him? Or let it go? I'm worried we are too different and he would hurt me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - im 20 years old, but never been kissed and never had a bf. Sometimes i feel im weird, coz i always try to make myself stay away from the guys i like. And refuse them when they ask me out! just few weeks ago i met a cute guy in club who asked me to dance. I rekon i was a bi... (299 words)

Boyfriend drunk texting/sexting a girl he slept with. Need advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend keeps texting a girl that he slept with way before we started dating, but he only texts her when he is drunk. Sometimes it's sexting and then just being friendly. It really bothers me, because of things that his mates tell me about her (slutty things like sleeping ... (80 words)

After looking on his phone and on Facebook I'm suspicious about him and this girl he used to hook up with, should I confront him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I got in our first fight after 5 months of dating and now 4 months of being boyfriend/girlfriend.. not so bad for just having our first fight. It was a HUGE fight and I won't go into details because it will take a very long time to explain, but I slept over the ... (479 words)

I thought he liked me too, why is he pulling away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

26 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 24 and currently living abroad. I'm currently seeing a guy that is also residing in the same country. We are both leaving in 3 months. However, we've began to get to know each other and gone on a few dates for the past couple of months. I met this guy through a mutual ... (704 words)

We like each other a lot but our 8 year age gap and him being a divorcee are causing problems with my parents. Should I break up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 28 years old and I have a boyfriend who is 8 years older than me. I have told my parents, and being the judgmental types that they are, they think he is too old for me. They also said he is probably taking advantage of me because I am a lot younger than him. Here's wh... (168 words)

I want to leave my partner because of his porn use, but now I've had a baby I get ill every time I try and leave him! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I found out my partner watched porn throughout our entire relationship and I want to leave him. The problem is since giving birth to my baby I have suffered acute anxiety and depression and every time I try to leave him I get severely ill. I mean really ill, where I can't ... (72 words)

Is this just a gift or does it mean more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex and I broke up when I was 14 wks pregnant. His choice not mine . Through my whole pregnancy he was less than Kind. As advised by an attorney I kept him up to date on dr appointments and allowed him to be at the birth. We were together 4 yrs. He is a decent father w... (182 words)

My wife with another man, reality is quite different from fantasy.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 April 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello I am looking for some help. I had the fantasy of watching my wife having sex with someone else. I read about it, found that is not so unusual, so I talked to my wife about it. On first hand, she was extranged, since I am a very jelous man, but since she saw that I got ve... (332 words)

She used to talk to guys in the past and knowing this is killing me! How do I forget her past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

26 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - guys pls help me out..i hav a g/f and we are in a serious relationship from 7 yrs...but recently some incident took place by which she told me everything about her past...i thought that she would not talk or meet with other guys but i was completely wrong..she talked and met ... (147 words)

He was watching porn when I was asleep next to him!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

26 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey! Last night I fell asleep next to my fiancé while he was watching a movie on his computer. He left the computer on and this morning I saw that he'd been looking at porn while I was asleep next to him. I didn't say anything, but then over breakfast he said: "You were ... (184 words)

Girl I like seems to like me but she has a boyfriend, am I reading too much into this? Is this only a friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

26 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - A little background of my situation. I have been working in China for over eight months now and during this period I've not strongly pursued any girls. Most of my friends here are girls and they are simply that believe it or not. There is one girl I like that I only get to se... (249 words)

Does he like me? If he does, how can I make him ask me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - ok there is this guy in my dorm who lives next to me and he is really cute. sometimes when I am alone (I have a roomie) he comes over to watch TV and chat, we always smile at each other, also he liked a pic of me on Facebook (although he isn't very active at Facebook but then ... (210 words)

How can she go from hot to cold overnight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

26 April 2012 (M)

age - Been with my partner for nearly a year. Recently discovered she's pregnant. This is fantastic news and initially she was really enthusiastic. Only two days ago she was bombarding me with texts when we were in our respective jobs about how happy she was...it was lovely it really ... (195 words)

Am I crazy for having a dream about my cousin's brother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - last night i dreamt that i kissed my cousin brother who is 3 years older than me and already has a girlfriend . the most troubling feeling is that i liked it and we even had sex after that . what do i do, am i crazy or abnormal ?... (51 words)

My roomate and my ex are getting too friendly, am I wrong for being upset about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My roommate and I are supposed to be best friends. Well about six months ago, I dated this girl that I really, really cared about. My roommate knew I really cared for her and knew that when we broke up, it really effected me. Well fast forward six months and this girl and I are ... (233 words)

If I stick it out with the texting and Facebook chat, will she eventually want to hang out with me more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - i met this girl in professional school (i am and INTP and she is an INFP for those who know Keirsey--we're both introverts). i am 28, she is 24. i really like her. we talk on FB chat all day most days, and she is generous to help me w/ schoolwork (she's a couple of years ... (223 words)

My ex and his mother are both strangers to my son yet they expect me to hand over my son when they come to visit! How can I find peace with this visit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My son is 3 years old. He hasn't seen his father since he was 18 months old. Suddenly, his father wants to take a visit across the country to visit for a week, (with my ex-mother-in-law), none of whom have kept a relationship going via internet, phone or in person. They're both ... (127 words)

Stressing about the friends I've made at school! How do I stop this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

26 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have just started high school and for the first time in my life have had to make new friends. I have never done this before and now I have a couple of friends, but I still can't stop stressing about them. I constantly fear that they're all going to ditch me and go off with ... (213 words)

Older boyfriend proposed to me but I'm not ready yet

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4520 days ago

26 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and have been dating my 29 year old boyfriend for a year. He has a Master's in Electrical Engineering with a GREAT job and ambitions in life. It's not like he's a dead beat guy preying on young women; he's a genuinely good, hard working guy. He's very supportive of me ... (317 words)

Have I upset him or is he just bored of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

26 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a male friend who I met while we worked together. After our job was done we would chat constantly and I know he is always online and we flirt with each other. We have been talking this way since January and he usually gets on his phone to chat with me or the other day ... (288 words)

Viagra won't work without desire...any ideas for increasing my libido?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

26 April 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - What could be a cause of that I dont care about sex anymore at all? I used to be very horny, and now, I dont even care for porn or any sexual contact with my wife? What could cause such a big change in me? I know,I'm asking, I should know better. But I don't. So I wonder, ... (128 words)

How can I read the signs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - How can i tellers if a girl is showing a particular interest in me? Does she stare at you when she thinks you're not looking? Does she stand closer to you when it seem unnecessary? Does she start conversations with you out of the blue? The reason I ask is because I've bee... (180 words)

I am separating, but my male friend is dating someone else. Why won't he wait for me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

26 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Here is my story. I am in the process of separating from my husband. The separation is in the beginning stages. We are going forward with it but are in the process of selling our home. Hubby works in another city and is rarely home which makes it easier. He is abusive and does ... (363 words)