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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I can't tell if he likes me, he told me another girl was hot.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

16 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and this boy are quite close I consider him more trustworthy than some of my girl-friends, I thi k I like him and people think he gives off the impression he likes me more than a friend too. However, the other day he told me ' I think (girlsname) is hot I don't know whether ... (100 words)

I hope I made the right decision by breaking up with my boyfriend for being controlling and abusive

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

16 April 2012 (?) age 30-35 - Hello everyone! Thank you so much for taking the time out for reading this and helping me through this difficult time in my life, I am 22 and am feeling pretty hopeless at the moment. i just broke up with my boyfriend of 5 months because of a few reasons one of them was wh... (471 words)

Is it safe to masturbate without an orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

16 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have recently got into masturbating on and off throughout the day without ejaculating, then only ejaculating once in a while. Sometimes when on webcam or IM with my girlfriend I masturbate for hours straight and I don't always decide to continue to ejaculation. ... (64 words)

Condom question, is this normal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

16 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a condom question.... I was having sex with my boyfriend, and I noticed that when he had pulled out, there was semen both in the end of the condom, but also some had appear to move down the shaft towards the base of the condom. None appeared to have dripped out of ... (90 words)

Me and my ex, why do I keep thinking about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

16 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I keep thinking about this boy he's one of my ex and I have 2 kids by him I see him every friday and I can't get him out of my head I'm even dreaming about him he got a girlfriend named beth and we don't talk and we ant been together for about 5 years what dose this mean ... (61 words)

I feel like a loner, I'm sad and I always lie to people to get attention. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4601 days ago

16 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been feeling really ugly lately. I am kinda embarrassed cause I'm not really like all the other girls in my school and I feel like no boys in my school like me for that reason. I guess I'm one of those "scene/emo" girls. I don't really like things in my school that the ... (237 words)

Is this just a rough patch? Will things get better?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

16 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a 20 year old mom of a 4 year old daughter. And in the past 4 years I have learned that I dont enjoy being a mom. I know that sound brutally honest but I cant help the way i feel. I love my daughter with all my heart dont get me wrong but Im not sure I can handle this mom ... (275 words)

I'm feeling stuck and trapped. I'm pregnant and somewhat happy about it but worried about all the stress it will bring!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

16 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I'm feeling totally torn and don't know what to do. Found out 2 weeks ago that I'm pregnant to my bf of 2 years. We live together and have talked about having a child one day soon, but this is kinda unexpected and unplanned and I'm not sure how I feel about it because I ... (484 words)

How do I ask a girl out without being shy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4601 days ago

16 April 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I have trouble asking girls out I am a very shy and timid person when I try to ask them out. BUt when I regularly to them I can easily talk to them like I am talk to a parent or someone but still ... I can't do it ...What do I do how do I ask a girl out with being shy ?... (64 words)

Why would she say my ignoring her isn't going to work to get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

16 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in grad school, at the beginning of the year, I asked out a classmate. Great first date, second date was not that good, mostly my fault, I had an off day, nerves and the like. She lost interest apparently, but then two weeks later she invites me to a party. I then invite ... (577 words)

Where are all the good guys? Am I the only one feeling this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

16 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Where are all the good guys? Sick of getting hurt:(? Omg I dont understand why nice guys keep going after moody and bitchy girls when good girls are just here dying for a guy to treat them right cause they keep getting hurt by @ssholes. Is like the universe has a weird sens... (157 words)

He and I want to make things work, but I'm struggling with his past!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

16 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So here is my story. I have been dating a co-worker for the past 14 months. He is 10 years older to me and single. 6 months into our relationship, I found out that he cheated on me with two other women physically. After I confronted him, and after a lot of accusations, dra... (748 words)

Is the attraction not there? Do things change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

16 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a relationship for over 2 years (living together) and I started to notice that my boyfriend's drive sex had decresed a lot in the past 2 months. Before it used to be almost everyday. After a year and half... every 2 weeks.. and now ONCE a month. I try to initiate... (191 words)

Does having the urges but not acting on them still make me addicted to sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

16 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So this question is mostly for the ladies but men please comment too. Im a 20 year old young woman and Im wondering if i have a problem. I have this insane attraction to hispanic men. If I wouldnt be considered a whore then I would just "have" them all. Granted yes, there are ... (233 words)

My boyfriend finished things, but he's still contacting me? Why is he doing this if he doesn't care?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

16 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Right guys I really need your help on this one, this boy is so confusing! It all started last year, I went with this guy and then he decided he needed to try again with his ex girlfriend because he still had feelings for her. It broke my heart but I just stepped back and... (802 words)

Seem to be getting mixed messages from her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

16 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm currently dating a lovely girl, we are getting along great, and have now kissed three times, quite long make out sessions, twice indoors, then this weekend in the forest where we went for a walk. Last week we discussed that she wasn't comfortable with us going so far i.e... (188 words)

Guys, you know porn is fake, right?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

16 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so this is another porn question. I know I know, this seems to be a rather popular topic But I am straight up just curious. Obviously a lot of men like porn and a lot of women as well. This is a question for men, both single and in a relationship. When you watch porn you ... (214 words)

Contacting an ex after a year apart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

16 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - A guy I dated for 5 years dumped me via text a week before we were supposed to move in together. I loved him so much and truthfully still do. My question is why every few months he will send me a casual facebook message just saying that he hopes I'm well etc. I just don't ... (157 words)

Why does a man go off of sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

16 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - why does a man suddenly go off sex, the first year was the best, now nothing for 4 months, is it possible to have a relationship without, i am getting through a lot of batteries lol... (36 words)

How do I help my friend? He has lots of problems and is homeless....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

16 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - hi people. i have a friend who graduated from uni in 2011 and recenetly i've got to know him better (i graduate this year 2012). it turns out he has problems, financially especially. he's homeless (lives at uni during the day and sleeps in the 24hr computer labs at night), ... (278 words)

25 year old friend of mine having sex with a 16 year old, is this wrong?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

16 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Short question for you all. A male friend of mine is 25.He is dating a 16-year old girl,and they are having sex. I can't help but think it's wrong.Am I totally out of line??... (38 words)

I tried to help my friend out but it has totally backfired on me! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

16 April 2012 (?) age 30-35 - A past friend of mine recently got in contact with me. She moved to a U.S territory down south (Puerto Rico) and her family is not very well off now (single mom). Her mom needed a cell phone ASAP but the company doesnt deliver to her country, so she asked me if she can use my ... (381 words)

My friend stares at my wife, and she tends to touch him and dress sexily when he is around, yet I know she dislikes him as a person! What should I make of all this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

16 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello people ! My problem is a bit complex. me and my wife are happily married for 10yrs and love each other a lot.I also have a good friend whom we both have known since childhood. Often he comes to our home with his wife and kid for dinner. But lately i've started noticing ... (228 words)

27 and never been in a relationship, how do I put my looks and shyness aside to meet a girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

16 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm just looking for dating advice for a very shy, confident-less person really, but I'll give you some back story. I'm 27 year old male living in a small UK town and i've never had a proper relationship, this is not from me being a 'playa', I am in fact still a virgin a... (274 words)

In a relationship with an older woman....she's so beautiful but so insecure! How do I fix this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

16 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I was a the club and I saw probobly the most attractive girl I seen in my life(I thought I was drunk until i saw her again and she looked just as good!). As a matter a fact all my friends tried to get her number individually but failed. I was the only one that managed to ... (332 words)

I'm overweight and meeting my LDR boyfriend for the first time, how do I prepare myself for rejection?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

16 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in an LDR for about 6 months and next month, he's coming to my country to meet me. I'm very fat and from the very beginning, I made sure he knew that. I mentioned it and even sent him full-length photographs so that he knew exactly how I look. It didn't seem to matter ... (161 words)

Really unhappy in this relationship, is it just me? Or is he actually treating me badly?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

16 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So ive been with my current bf a year and this is my first serious relationship and we live together. He however is a divorcee who has been in several committed realtionships. (He is a decade older than me.) Ive been seriously debating whether to continue with the relatio... (496 words)

What is the average time for a couple to move in together?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

16 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for 9 months now, i asked him if he wants kids with me and he said yes, but I'm wondering what is the average time it takes a couple to move into together? He is making efforts for me he met my mom and sister and for him that was a big step. I ... (78 words)

He makes promises that he doesn't keep....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

16 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, I've been dating my current boyfriend for 9 months now. I love him he knows that and I know that he loves me too! My only problem is he makes promises but does not keep them, I'm having 2 kids from my past relationship and he said he wants to help raising them he'll ... (119 words)

An old friend is dating my ex who I still have feelings for, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

16 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My old friend, who now I don't really talk to or anything has started dating my ex-boyfriend, who dumped me. still have feelings for him even though he's over me. She knows how I feel about him, but she's dating him anyway. I feel really angry, and being honest extremly ... (116 words)

My 31 year old fiance has lost his sex drive, how is this possible?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

16 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - ok my fiance is 31 and his sex drive has gone. how can this happen???... (15 words)

I've been depressed recently but my boyfriend said he cant deal with me when I'm like this! Shouldnt he be supporting me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

16 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it OK for my boyfriend to seem unable to deal with my new depressed attitude? For the last couple days I've been very depressed due to the loss of a friendship and just life going wrong in general. Because of this, I've became very insecure and have questioned my ... (244 words)

When I think about my crush my breathing gets weird, is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

16 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Is it normal that when I think about my crush I begin to breathe like weird x3 Like you know how you feel when you have to catch your breath? Yeah I do that and I sound really weird :P... (41 words)

Family problems make me feel like running away from home, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4601 days ago

16 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey. So there's lots of stuff going on with family. Lots of financial problems. I'm fighting with parents. I have a good relationship with them but now it's all gone,me keep fighting. I'm just hurt all the time because they don't talk to me properly now a days. My mom talks be... (105 words)

Why is he ignoring me again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

16 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I just want honest views on this situation please. I realize it doesn't look like he wants me or is a player, I don;t know. Either way he is obviously treating me bad. Anyway, here is the story. The guy I started seeing is ignoring me-for the second time. For two weeks,he ... (1267 words)

She wants me to change the date of our trip just to fit in plans with her friend! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

16 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I've got a serious misunderstanding with my girlfriend. We've been together for 8 months, I love her and I hope she loves me too. This february we started planning our summer trip abroad, let's call this country Telaxia. We have decided to go to our second capi... (248 words)

What is the best way to get divorce without a lawyer?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

16 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I can’t take my husband anymore he uses my parents as a tool. Anytime he wants to hurt me he disrespects them, not in front of them. I talked to him tonight and said that I will leave he said that is fine and do whatever you want. He doesn’t think that I am serious but it’s ... (157 words)

I don't think my husband is cheating but we don't have sex very often - he says he is too tired from work What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

16 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I don’t think that my husband is cheating (though he has before - and so have I) but we don’t have sex very often. My husband and I are both in our middle 40's and sex began to slow down somewhat a few years ago. We usually have sex two or three times a month. My hus... (776 words)

What can I do to make him see my hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

16 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Being in a relationship or a companionship with a man for three years, this last year he has pulled away from me, no dates, no making time for me, if there is a argument, he talks about ending it, that it to much work, he doesnt treat me like his woman any more but does says he ... (89 words)

How can I ask my best friend to prom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

16 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - How can I ask my best friend (We are both guys and know that each other is gay)(I also have had a crush on him for years) to prom? He asked me to a homecoming last year but had to cancel because of family issues. He use to go to my school but now he is going to another school. ... (122 words)

Is it wrong to date a guy older than you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

16 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it "wrong" for you to be with a guy that's older than you?? Like five years? I just wanted to know your guys input. So if youre wondering yea im dating an older guy. We both love each other alot and its not just about sex. We havent even had it yet. And he doesnt want to ... (87 words)

Can someone please translate what this message from my ex means?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

16 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So my boyfriend of 1 1/2 years dumped me 2 months ago when I was out of town. He didn't give me a reason other than "our relationship ran its course". It hurt so much because (1) it was completely out of the blue (2) he didn't give me a strong reason (3) I was out of town ... (213 words)

My husband hasn't touched me in 1.5 years and I have no idea why!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

16 April 2012 (F)

age - Basically my husband hasn't touched me in over 1 1/2 years. . I feel like his best friend - his roommate - sometimes I have been so depressed because I constantly feel rejected. I'm scared to reach out to him because I know I'll be rejected again. No hugs, no holding hands. I... (181 words)

Husband accusing me of cheating when he had said we were seperated and could do what we wanted!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

16 April 2012 (F)

age - My husband has cheated numerous times during our marriage. Most recently I became suspicious and recorded a female voice in the house while I was at work. He will not admit to having a woman in the house but he admits to previous activities. I went on vacation without him ... (239 words)