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Is it normal to be scared of having sex with a new guy?

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Question - (30 April 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 May 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have a question.

Is it normal for me to be scared to have sex with a new guy? I've been having sex with 1 guy for 3 years and I had sex with him the most. He was the 2nd guy I ever had sex with. So I was wondering is it normal? I've met new guys I don't like nor want to be in a relationship with none of them but when I'm ready and want to be in a relationship I don't think I could?!!?

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A female reader, Foot-In-My-Mouth India +, writes (1 May 2012):

Foot-In-My-Mouth agony auntOf course it is!! Every new relationship brings the same set of fears and anxiety that the first relationship must have brought. So don't worry about it, it's perfectly normal.

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (30 April 2012):

The Realist agony auntYeah that is normal and I would say that a good percentage of guys are in the same boat when it is a new girl. I know I get nervous because you don't have the past experience of what the person likes so there is alot to be figured out. Especially if you want a relationship most people are nervous about how compatable they will be with the new person.

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A female reader, daniellexxxx United Kingdom +, writes (30 April 2012):

daniellexxxx agony auntYeah course its normal to be scared to have sex with someone new.. As you don't know what to expect. Plus when you find the right man you will know when your ready for a relationship when the rite person comes along.. Take your time and don't rush things I say :)

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