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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Recently I've become fearful that I would cheat if I were in a relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

12 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello DC, So I have something that I've been thinking about a lot recently. So at the moment I'm a single 20 year old guy. Not bothered by being single as at sometimes I'm glad of it, others not. But I recently became a little fearful at the thought of cheating in a rel... (145 words)

I want to be able to be friends with my ex without wanting more, I want my current relationship to work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

12 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I dont really know why I'm here, I guess I can't really talk to anybody about this as I don't think they'll understand and I'd be judged, or it would get out and I couldn't stand that. I think I'm still in love with my ex boyfriend, we were together for just o... (460 words)

How can I become more confident around new people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

12 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Agony Aunts, So, I had a really great boyfriend for two years, but we broke up at the end of last year. I've been having a really hard time getting over him because he is an amazing person and we wanted to stay really close which admittedly has made it more difficul... (219 words)

Is his friendship inappropriate or is my cousin just being jealous?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

12 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - This is my cousin's 'Emma's' problem. She's asked me for help, but I'm almost 35 and she's only a young 22, so I feel the level of the maturity in her relationship is so different to mine, that I can't fully understand and therefore advise her, so thought I'd post her ... (1649 words)

How do I get my wife to see a dentist?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

12 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, My wife has really stained teeth. I'd like her to get them looked at but don't know how to broach the subject. She could also do with flossing more but doesn't. How do I get her to a dentist?... (52 words)

Is it natural for a 17 yr old boy to find a girl's nurturing and mothering side attractive even if it's just the way she soothed her pet when it was scared?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

12 April 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Is it natural for a 17 yr old boy to find a girl's nurturing and mothering side attractive even if it's just the way she soothed her pet when it was scared? I don't think I was thinking of her sexually in any way and I wasn't thinking about having kids either, so why did I feel ... (105 words)

How can I have a relationship when I don't trust women?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

12 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - All I have in this world is my balls and my word. And I don't trust women. I am not saying they're all bad. I just think when the times get tough, they disappear. And when the times are good, they love you. Am I wrong? With an attitude like this, how can I ever be in a ... (143 words)

He's leaving me to stay with his ex and his children!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

12 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm having a very hard time...just yesterday, the guy I've been in a relationship with for a year told me he couldn't do it anymore because he hurt too much from not seeing his children. We've been living together for a while now, he recently told his wife he was divorcing ... (162 words)

How do I get my boyfriend to let me pay for his vacation?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

12 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend who I want to go on vacation with. My brother and his girlfriend have been asked to come with us, and it's all looking good so far. We're planning on catching a last-minute flight to save on money, as last minute flights are real cheap. Everyone wants to... (300 words)

I'm talking to a guy online and using a fake photo of me! Will he be mad when he finds out?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

12 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I created a fake profile while pretending to be this really gorgeous girl. Basically I took her photos off online because she has a beauty blog and videos etc so they were very easy to get. I feel bad because there is a cute guy that I talk to all the time online almost ... (116 words)

Do I confront my wife about her cheating or just file for a divorce?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

12 April 2012 (M)

age - i have discovered that my wife of six years is having an online affair,as if thats not bad enough the third party involved mentions in his emails about my children being as his own children and says they will all be together as a new family soon,i am not sure how to approach my ... (94 words)

I don't know how to make new friends, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

12 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, sorry but this will be long. I need some help. Okay so Im 17.. Normal teenage girl who has gone through all of the love, breakups, and backstabbing friends. It has definitely made me stronger. So I had this group of friends and a guy best friend, his girlfriend hates me... (210 words)

Was I right to not let him kiss me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

12 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I think me and my grind nearly kissed. He's a guy and I don't think either of us are the other ones type at all, he's certainly not mine. We aren't romantically compatible because we both want very different things from a relationship, but recently, when we were just hanging ... (172 words)

Feelings of a crisis and tiring b/f just leave me exhausted!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

12 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel im having a mid life crisis at 22 years old, i know this sounds so dramatic but i never even noticed until my brother said it and said he had one the same age too. I have being with my boyfriend now for 5 years in november, hes 35.... hes had a problem with cannabis ... (505 words)

I'm scared of getting hurt again in a relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4636 days ago

12 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - 3 months ago i moved back home from out of state, while living away from home i was in a very bad relationship (thats why i moved back home). i wanted to take some time for myself because i was with my ex for about 1 year and i felt i still loved him, but a little over ... (156 words)

I think my g/f is cheating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

12 April 2012 (M)

age - I think my Gf is been cheating on me. I have some clues that might Lead me to beleave that she is cheating. Although I have confronted her.. Cause that's the way I am... Anyhow the latest would be rug burns.. She brought it to my attention. There for I know to keep my suspicio... (139 words)

How do I end things with my friend with benefits?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

12 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone this is a bit complicated my fwb lives 1 minute away from me its how we met by living in the same place I have met a man who knows my fwb and they cannot stand each other this man I met wants to come to mine he doesn't know that me and my fwb are still sleeping... (111 words)

Is the "instant spark" that important when first dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

12 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there:) I've been single for almost a year after coming out of a long relationship, so I thought I'd give online dating a try. I started talking to a nice guy for a few weeks,and we met up for the first time yesterday. I was extremely nervous and he was too. We had a good d... (224 words)

My husband wants a divorce almost every week!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

12 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I apoligize in advance for the length of this.. I hope to give you enough information for fair advise. I have issues with my son (17) and my husband (his stepfather).. we have been married for almost 8 years now. it's always been somewhat of a struggle. My son has ADHD and... (881 words)

Please help! My three year old is pushing me away!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

12 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a three year old daughter. soon to be four. shes such a sweetie and she helps me around the house, helps me grocery shop , she even helped me plant my garden :). im due for my second child in less than a week. And latley its like she'd rather be watching tv or spending ... (158 words)

How should I dress for this new job?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

12 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I start my new job in a few days and you think i would be nervous about the job or that and i'm meeting a new group of people who i'll be working with for the next month. But instead i'm more worried about my outfit! I want to make a great impression as 'the new person', is ... (256 words)

We stopped talking. But now I want to be her friend again. How do I do that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

12 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - There's this co-worker that I use to talk to. She was nice, beautiful and fun to hang out with. All my friends couldn't believe that I was that close to her. The funny thing is, I never felt attracted to her. I always thought of her as a friend. I was overly nice to her because ... (883 words)

Does his smile mean anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

12 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There is an older man who I have a huge crush on, we talk and flirt alot and he always gives me this strange kind of cheeky smile. While hes talking to me he will smile, not a huge smile more like a smirk and its always while we are making eye contact. Its almost like we are ... (149 words)

Am I superficial? If so, how do I become less so?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4636 days ago

12 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - See I always thought of myself a deeper guy. I think about abstract things, issues, etc. And like everyone else, I alwasy say what I want in a mate is that she is kind, trustworthy, loyal, sweet, etc. etc. etc. I don't put in that I want her to be good looking. That would be ... (192 words)

Are there any men they do not use pornography in a relationship?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

12 April 2012 (F) age 30-35 - Are there any men here who don't use pornography in a relationship? I would absolutely love knowing they weren't looking at anyone else. I don't even know why they still do it and thinks it's normal to still look when they are getting sex. Men want variety - stay single then.... (51 words)

My hair is falling out and its really getting to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

12 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 and have been losing my hair for about a year. I'm very paranoid. I used to have the barber thin my hair out because it was so thick and now its thin to the point of seeing my scalp. I had been losing hair around my temples for a few years but nothing to bad and nothing ... (295 words)

Is it weird that I'm turned on by my girlfriend's sex toys?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

12 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I’m just wanting to get a bit of perspective on something, it's not an issue per say, I just wanna make sure I’m not weird in my behaviour. Ok so basically my girlfriend and me have just started living together and she has brought with her quite a few sex toys (... (170 words)

I can't find a guy to love me the way that I love him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

12 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do I feel this way? Is there something wrong with me? I'm a good girl with a big heart. All my friends say I'm gorgeous, friendly and really sweet. But I can't seem to find a guy to love me the way I love them. I get dumped each time I meet a guy. I loved my ex so m... (253 words)

How to deal with this bully?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

12 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't know how to write this.. soo sorry if it doesn't make much sense.. There is this girl that I have been having problems with since the beginning of the school year, I am in grade 9. First year of highschool... it's been pretty tough, the girl was in my art class in ... (685 words)

Are women losing their skills in "traditional" roles?

This question has 44 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

12 April 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Are women losing skills in roles they traditionally did like cooking and housekeeping? If so, what skills are they gaining instead? Let me first say that I love my wife, but I was shocked at how little she is able to do. She is an excellent cook, but beyond that ... (597 words)

My husband doesn't want to spend money on our baby's needs,

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

12 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Little by little, my husband is not wanting to buy what our 10 week old daughter needs. It started with batteries for her swing, then wipes(he restricts how many I can use), then formula(he gets mad at her if she doesn't drink it all, and sometimes forces her to), and now ... (131 words)

Working with an ex boyfriend. how do you deal with it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4637 days ago

12 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex boyfriend broke up with me 4months back.Since then he has been avoiding me completely: doesnt answer my messages or calls. i heard from our friends that he got himself a new girlfriend only a few days after our break up. now it seems am unlucky enough to have him as m... (130 words)

I want to kiss my gay male friend but I'm unsure how to, or if I should even do it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

12 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I would really appreciate some assistance with a problem. I also would like serious help here - it might not seem like a big deal to you, but to me its been on my mind. Right, here we go ;) I have this gay best friend and we care about each other dearly.... (350 words)

My pregnant girlfriend is worried about gaining weight and isn't eating right!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

12 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend is currently pregnant. This will be her second child, this is my first baby. She suffers from bouts of depression here and there, and I talk to her and try to lift her spirits as best I can. My concern is her eating, or, at times, lack thereof. She is very con... (201 words)

I'm getting turned on by much younger painter. Am I gay? I was married!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

12 April 2012 (?) age 51-59 - Hello, i'm a 42 year old male and something has happened that has confused me and even shocked me a little. Ok, a bit of background... A couple of weeks ago, during the unseasonal fine weather we had in the UK i employed a young lad (18) to do some painting of woodwork on the ... (402 words)

Fiance owes too much money to ex and expects me to pay. How much is too much?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

12 April 2012 (F)

age - Problems..... My fiancee (50) has just been served with a bill of $30,000 that he owed his ex on their divorce some 9 years ago. Due to ill health and circumstances he has not paid her and now she is peruing it.Their son of 15, visits in holidays and it is I who pays for these ... (228 words)

I know my mom is cheating with my band director. How do I stop it so my dad doesn't find out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

12 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My mom has been married to my dad for 19 years. A year ago I began to see her texting my Band Director/teacher just about everytime I saw her on he phone. I confronted her about it and they said they were ashamed of me thinking that and thy would never happen. I apoligized ... (502 words)

My best friend is losing trust in me. How do I redeem myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3916 days ago

12 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I met a girl about 6 months ago. When I first met her we talk on facebook a lot and I helped her through her problems. About 2 months later we became friend, in fact she became my bestfriend and I became her bestfriend. We always hang out here and there. Soon she became the ... (312 words)

She has thin hair and I'm worried that she might go bald!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

12 April 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - So I've been dating this lovely girl for 2 months now. she's so wonderful and i absolutely adore her. But there's one small,superficial issue that i hate myself for caring so much about. The girl's got some thin hair and i can see some of her scalp through spots in it,it kind ... (96 words)

I want to write a love letter but don't know how

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

12 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Can anyone on here give me any samples or ideas for a love letter to my fiance? I really want to write one for her, but I'm not sure what to say. Can someone give me a few ideas?... (39 words)

Why do some girls look hot smoking and others don't?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

12 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Why is it some girls can look sexy when they smoke and others just look chavvy and it's a turn off? When i'm out I see girls smoking all the time, but I don't like smokers I find them disgusting (the smoking). And it makes even the most beautiful girl unattractive, even my ... (220 words)

Could she be shy? Or just not interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

12 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl that I have been in love with since Kindergarten but I don't think she feels the same way. We've known each other forever and I think she just wants to be friends. Or at least never thought of me that way. She is a bit shy and that may have something to do ... (76 words)

She's a virgin and I don't know if I can handle it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

12 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - This is a long one. I'm 22, she's 23, and she's amazing. We've been together for about 8 months and so far she's everything I want a woman. There are just 2 issues. 1st, she lives far away. She is currently going to school in Israel and will spend about 2 or 3 months there a... (449 words)

Uncomfortable kissing g/f in front of others

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

12 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I would like to know if it's weird that I don't like to kiss my girlfriend in front of others. I have no problem with kissing in general. Im not ashamed of her or anything I just feel weird, ya know?... (41 words)

Why did I like him but now I hate him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

12 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am really confused.. I used to like this guy but felt like he doesn't feel the same way about me. Few months ago my friend tells me that "the guy" told her that he loves me .. now he talks to me on facebook for hours at night and sends me texts he also compliments me like he ... (288 words)

Is there a way to get this guy more comitted to dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

12 April 2012 (F) - I started talking to a guy back in december from the an online dating site. He is actually a pretty nice guy and the type i would want to date. We went out once in january and it was a pretty good date..we met for a drink and grabbed a bite to eat after. we pretty muc... (544 words)

The girl I like is living with her ex who is a friend of mine!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

12 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've been seeing this girl off and on for about 5 months. We were really intense when we first met - still are in a way. Recently we met up and she told me that she was in a open relationship with her ex last time we met she told me she didn't want a relationship with ... (245 words)

How can you tell when a shy person is interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4637 days ago

12 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - What are signs that someone who is shy may be interested And what are signs that someone who is shy may not be interested. I usually always go for the shy/quiet type So I have the habit of over analyzing stuff because the guys that I go for are difficult to read. ... (245 words)