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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I can't stop being jealous of his exes

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

17 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do i feel so jealous of his exes? I have been with my bf for 2 years. I know i shouldnt but i cant help myself. One ex is mother of his children and the other is one that stayed good friends with him (he did seem to be infatuated with this girl) he has lots of photos and ... (162 words)

My girlfriend's mom is way too dominating

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating the most amazing girl for the past 2 years. I know she is the one I want to spend my life with but there are several issues I cannot seem to overcome. Her mom seems very possessive of her and controlling. example she lies to her mother on the phone about ... (214 words)

Despite a new love she can't get her 'first' out of her mind

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

17 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - emergency!! Basically friend A is in love with friend B but friend A lost her virginity a few months ago to another guy (she was not with friend B at this time). She is deeply in love with B but can't help but think of this guy now and again. She read somewhere that this may be ... (99 words)

Is he acting normal for a sex buddy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

17 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have had this sex buddy for several months and he seems to be more affectionate these days. The other day we had sex and he had to rush off and apologized a couple of times and said he would try to come back by to spend time with me. He asks me if i missed him and then tells ... (117 words)

I feel like I'm not attracted to my gf anymore, but I still love her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

17 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Man... How to explain this without sounding like a jerk... My girlfriend was never really the hot and sexy type of girl, but whenever she dressed up well she would look really beautiful. She also has a great personality, which is probably why I love her. BUT, her great flaw ... (210 words)

Should I kiss this guy I've been flirting with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! So there's this boy I've been flirting with for about 6 months now and he asked me to go on a date on Friday. Well, it's not actually a date, it's just that he wants to make it up for me because I've invited him to places many times and he always had something el... (152 words)

Husband of three months is pressuring me to live somewhere I don't care to be

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

17 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been with my husband for 10 months and married for 3. just recently we have both lost our jobs and we are in a right mess. before i met him i was very independent, had a good job, good car and savings. now i have nothing and he has dragged me down to his cousins place ... (238 words)

I think my wife is getting too friendly with her college friend. Am I over reacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I don't consider it cheating, but I certainly think it's inappropriate behavior and my wife thinks otherwise. My wife and I are married for quite a few years. I (we) paid for her to go to college and when our kids started being in school all day she got a job as a teacher. Sh... (509 words)

Am I being too controlling here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

17 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend likes to get attention for other women. I do also believe he fantasizes. However, It was a situation where I invited him to my friends’ party on a bar during St. Patrick’s Day. We lined up for an hour and we interchange some words with a girl in front of us. I... (277 words)

How do I discuss with my fiance that he's looking at porn too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

17 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel like my fiance looks at porn too much. he of course doesnt feel as if he does. it is starting to cause problems between us. i am not happy with the amount of sex we have, i'd like more. he says hes not in the mood as much as me but i just cant understand how he can not b ... (167 words)

How to move on when you've been played by a player?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

17 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ironically I've always tried to avoid these type of losers but I ended up falling for one who made his work rather well in making me fall in love with him. He has now discarded me for another one and he has even told in my face he never liked me but wanted the fun and that now ... (174 words)

After b/f has been so wishy washy, I am moving back home. what would others do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hello everyone, i hope you're all well! first off, i moved in with my partner of 2 years last December and a month or so ago he said he wasnt sure about having a relationship and although it broke my heart i understand. so im now moving back home to my family. unfortu... (229 words)

How can you sustain a romantic relationship when the guy isn't into your looks, or is only attracted to you based on your personality?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

17 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've never been much of a romantic; I don't really believe in love at first sight, or soul mates, and far prefer my relationship to be based on practical criteria over emotions (we have common interests, we have good conversations, we have a similar value and moral system, ... (518 words)

What is the obsession with MILF?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - What is the obsession with milfs? Apparently it's something to do with experience but you can get a woman with no children who has lots of experience. I can imagine in porn liking watching a person who is supposedly a mother behaving badly, but in the real world, why?... (49 words)

My boyfriend slept with his ex on the night of our first kiss, do I forgive him and how do I forget about it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

17 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, so im in need of some advice. I started seeing this guy (we'll call him guy) in december around the 15th. He bought a car off of me and after that we continued to text a lot, like at least 6 times a day, really long texts talking about our lives etc. They became v... (695 words)

Why would a guy who admits to being taken still ask me for naughty pictures and videos?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

17 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why, oh why would anyone who admits to being taken still ask for naughty pictures and videos? I have a male friend who I've known for a year. We met through a mutual friend; and so every time we see each other, we're in a group. Over time this guy has become more and more pe... (225 words)

I still compare myself to my boyfriend's ex and dream about her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I started dating this boy 3.5 years ago. Things were a bit rubbish for the first year. He saved pictures of his ex semi-naked on a hidden folder on his pc, he text and rang her lots and he even met up with her secretly. He did not sleep with her or physically cheat, but in my ... (240 words)

Dumper ignores dumpee? Why?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

17 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. This is a strange situation. I got dumped. And, my reaction is obviously normal. I'm hurt. However, she asks to be my friend. I say "No!", and I tell her in the form of a comparison of "You're at a restaurant. You have 2 choices on the menu. A pizza with wonderful t... (209 words)

How do I know when I'm reaching orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there. So i've been dating this guy for 3 months now, and i really enjoy being with him. We have sex regularlay, and it is always amazing. The thing is, before him i never really orgasmed with anyone else, so for a while i was still in wonderment as to what it feels l... (213 words)

How do I cope with my sexless marriage?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

17 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Alright, since my last question turned into a "what are you doing?" response page...I'll add more to my question. My wife and I have two sets of twins (11 yo girls, 7 yo boys) and we nearly have a sexless mariagge. She and I met when I was stationed in Maine (that's where... (724 words)

Right girl at the wrong time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

17 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - What does is mean when a guy tells you that you were the right girl at the wrong time? When's the right time? ... (27 words)

Should I go to Vegas and have fun with this guy who is a bit of a player?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I was hoping for some advice on a trip I may or may not go on. So here it goes. Like 3 years ago me and my then bestie was on holiday in las Vegas, I am from the uk and this was like the trip of all trips. I was crazy. I meet 3 guys and one do them I kept in touch with. He was ... (288 words)

Was my reason for ending the relationship a valid one?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

17 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is really bothering me because after many years of searching for true love it finally comes, but only to have a slit hold back. Now d story goes this way; i met this guy whom i fall in love with and i know he also love me as i do. One day he was going through the pictures... (219 words)

My jealousy of other women is going to ruin our relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok the first thing Im going to point out and admit is that Im very insecure. I dont need to be told this because I know, and need to work on it. My problem is my insecurities. I dont like my boyfriend looking at ANY other females. I found some pictures and a whole folder o... (241 words)

I told my creepy co-worker to back off, now he has should I give him his stuff back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 April 2012 (?) age 30-35 - I posted a question on here about a creepy security guard who is six years older than me (he's 26-I'm freshly 20) and constantly following me around, staring at me while standing over the front desk (I work in a museum) and always wanting to walk me to the parking garage. I ... (255 words)

4 women that want me, but if I'm honest I only want my ex! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - A few months ago my girlfriend broke up with me. We talked about it and she told me that we had grown apart. She said that there is no chance of us getting back together. It sucks, but I've come to except it and I've put it in my mind that I've gotta move on. I told her that ... (212 words)

Pregnant and feeling very alone, to make things worse after I went to my first check-up alone I found flirty texts to another woman! Am I being extra clingy because I'm pregnant?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

17 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has a lot of responsibilities. Parents etc. He works hard too. We found out I am pregnant but he doesn't seem to pay any attention to me anyway. When I asked him to spend more time with me after work, he recently questioned me if I wanted him to give up everything ... (215 words)

Should I say happy birthday to my ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex boyfriend and I broke up about a month and a half ago. We had a long distance relationship and dated for about 2 months, but we've been friends for almost 2 years. The break up was weird and about a week ago we had a huge fight (I broke the no contact rule... Oops). The ... (144 words)

Should I be an asshole to get girls? Or be the nice guy? Or just give up and save myself the hassle?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 19 and have aspbergers disorder (autism). tragicly for me, im a super nice guy. I dont think im ugly or that it had to do with my looks sense ive seen way gnarly looking asshole guys get handful's of women. I want to know if its better to be a nice guy, an asshole, or give... (304 words)

Met a guy online, I really like him but I don't know how he feels about me! I'm trying not to jump the gun and ask him what's going on but its driving me crazy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

17 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok I need some advice because I'm going crazy I met a guy online and after chatting for a few weeks we met up for a few drinks! We had a lovely evening, a kiss on the cheek and a hug and went separate ways. Following morning he was passing through my area and stopped by f... (308 words)

Am I "bi-curious" or is this just "normal" behavior?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 years old, and I have never been in a relationship, romantic or sexual, with any man or woman. I've had serious crushes on men before (one lasted for over two years), but have never had any feelings towards any women at all. I am most definitely attracted to men, but ... (324 words)

She called of our wedding but claims to still love me, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My fiancé called off our wedding a couple of weeks ago (at the time it was about 1.5 months till the wedding). She said that she just had a gnawing feeling that would not go away, she was nervous to get married and not sure if she was ready. However, she loves me deeply and ... (284 words)

2 weeks into dating him I thought I was in love, but the feelings have faded! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I first started dating this guy a month ago. Before we went out, I really liked him and was so happy when he asked me out. 2 weeks on and I suddenly believed we were in love. However last week the feelings started to fade a little and weren't so strong, I decided to sleep with ... (103 words)

She's so hot and cold with me! What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - ok i really need help with this... there's this girl i've known since 2010 and she's so up and down w/ me :( recently, we were texting a lot and expressed to one another how much we love each other. she would be soo affectionate towards me that words aren't enough... ... (221 words)

My wife has changed, she's become so cold hearted and to make it worse I find out she's lied about her sexual past! Am I crazy or should I feel hurt?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

17 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Please anyone give me advise ...I'm hurting more than I ever have in my life, so here's my story I'm 30 years old married 5 years and together 6 years. we have 3 kids two she had from a former marriage but the dad was a deadbeat, thug, gangster in and out the penn so when we ... (758 words)

My husband is getting more and more controlling of my appearance

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 3182 days ago

17 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - First, it was the clothing: dresses, skirts, tights, blouses. I'm not allowed jeans, trainers, flipflops, T-shirts, track suits. I'm barely allowed tasteful trousers. Then, it was telling me how much jewellery I can wear. Then, it was the hair; I must have long hair ... (264 words)

One minute he likes me, the next he doesnt! I'm so confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I relly like this guy but he said he liked me than he said he didn't!!!???? So I was at this party he was invited to so he asked me who I liked and I said it was personal nd he said fine I like you (which is cool cause I like actually love him to) so them I left and he ... (93 words)

Why are married women bitter towards single beautiful women around their men?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't like going to my friend's parties anymore. Seems like everyone is married and here comes me the single girl who is being hated on. I am pretty and I do look my best anytime I go out. I don't like the grin and the mean mugging I get from these girls. Also If I am to co... (334 words)

I pick the wrong men!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a smart, successful, attractive young woman. I always seem to pick the 'wrong men'. I have deep issues with men and trust, like most women, but it seems things go great then I freak out. As soon as I put my guard up temporarily they run. Every time. It just validates all my ... (86 words)

Completely infatuated with a girl at work but I'm her superior at work, I'm married and she has a boyfriend!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

17 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Need help interpreting things. Completely infatuated with a girl at work. I think mainly because I feel that I would occasionally get some vibes... Don't want to misinterpret anything. She's really cute, slightly shy. Plays with her hair when she talks to me. Ca... (95 words)

I'm tired of feeling guilty for wanting sex all the time!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2733 days ago

17 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Wife and I are in a nearly sexless relationship. We have two sets of twins that drive her near insanity, both work full time, and, obviously I want sex way more than she does. I masturbate a lot, but it's not the same as the real thing. She has given me permission to get a ... (118 words)

Do feelings get stronger the more you sleep with someone?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So i've heard many times how women have to have emotion usually before they sleep with someone an men there emotions come after the sex. Is that true? The more you sleep with someone, feelings do end up getting stronger... (41 words)

Am I being reasonable about this or just making a fuss about nothing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey there, this is my first time using the site. It seems there are some genuinely kind and helpful people on here so maybe you can help me out. I have something that it playing on my mind. I am in a relationship of 3 years. Recently I haven't seen my girlfriend a lot... (259 words)