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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I've fallen in love with my friends with benefits guy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) age 36-40 - hi everyone I could really use some opinions I was just wondering what you think this means I have been in a fwb for a while now he comes to mine I go to his for a coffee or a movie or something he somtimes just wants to cuddle me and kiss me I have totally fallen in love with ... (115 words)

Its hard to Trust when Temptation is always present along with opportunity.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

25 April 2012 (M)

age - I am a man that can admit that I have such a hard time trusting women. I am afraid of being lied to, cheated on, and used for my gentlemanly, respectful, and generous ways. I have a woman (fiance)that is very beautiful and she is has a large set of attention getters, if you ... (234 words)

I'm feeling hurt over a relationship that ex said he couldn't do anything about

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I was dating a man exclusively for almost 2 years. Early in our relationship he sent me an email breaking up for me and said he was going back to his ex girlfriend. Two weeks later I get another email asking me to give him a second chance. He claimed nothing ... (264 words)

Do priorities come into play when there's a large age gap?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm wondering if age in dating makes a big difference. Recently I met this guy and hes a bit older than me. I just turned 21 and hes 34. We hit it off pretty well and we have the same views on a lot of things. I'm just wondering if it'd be a problem down the road? Do priorities ... (76 words)

I have an extreme porn addiction!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have an extreme porn and mastubation addiction. My family found out about it a few years ago and I told them that i would stop and I did but later I continued behind their back. This is so painfull and I want to stop but its an addiction like being on drugs. I feel gross and ... (128 words)

I'm starting to think there is no such thing as love; rather it's all just lust with dependency

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been single for quite a while now and over the years I've spent a lot of time 'observing' other people in relationships and what not and even browsing on here and seeing how many people are in messed up situations when it comes to 'love'. I'm starting to think there i... (73 words)

Are some people not meant to find love

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Are some people not meant to find love, or do they find some way to pigeonhole themselves into a spot where it's really unlikely they'll find someone? Just venting some stuff out, skip if you're not a fan of walls of text. To get down to the brass tacks, my litt... (959 words)

Him and His new "girlfriend" like to taunt me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - A guy that I dated for years all of a sudden didn't want to see me anymore. It had always been kind of casual but we had always been really close friends, for over 10 years. When he said he no longer wanted to see me, he said that he just didn't feel it anymore and "I need to ... (719 words)

I don't want my gay friend to like me, what shall I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

25 April 2012 (M) age 30-35 - I have a friend who is gay. Im straight but i still want to be his friend because hes cool. but im affraid he might think im gay and start hitting on me or something. important note: i am not attracted to sexually i only want to be his friend because hes funny and is on the ... (70 words)

He's depressed and never responds to my emails or texts, and never answers the phone. How do I deal with my irritated feelings over this situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend recently 'went' back to the east coast where he's from, and there's no certainty if he will come back, or when. All of his stuff is still over here with me... but I can easily see him decide to stay over there and have all his stuff and car shipped. He was in the ... (379 words)

Do you think he regrets not moving forward when the opportunity arose?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - During a works party a co-worker expressed his feelings for me (I'm 45 and he's 49) - (I've had a crush on him for ages but I didn't realize he felt the same as I didn't think I was his type so put the signs from him down to my own imagination). He came to sit down next to me ... (686 words)

will you always love your first love more than other boyfriends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going to try and make this as short as i can. When i was 16 i lost my virginity to my then boyfriend and got pregnant but suffered a misscariage. This has affected me badly and still 4years on it hurts as much. Me and the dad split up not long after but i have always loved ... (262 words)

Why did he cum so fast?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I hooked up with this guy. I was a virgin and he wasn't. I felt him in me but not all the way in but it felt good. Within less than a minute though, (really it was after about 4 thrusts) he said 'oh wait- sometimes the first time is a bit fast' and then we stopped but i do... (188 words)

My family still thinks I'm a jerk, but I've changed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

25 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - When I was a young teenager (14-16) i was a major jerk and caused alot of grief and problems for my family. Since then I have gotten several major reality checks and I've gotten better. But the problem is that my family still doesnt trust me, this was years ago and ive made up ... (126 words)

Would you prefer that someone lie or tell you the truth when breaking up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

25 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I have heard of a few breakups from my friends. (They dated other people, and got dumped.). About 50% of those friends of mine said they trusted the dumper more, due to the dumper having been truthful about the breakup reasons, while the other 50% said they're NOT happy ... (134 words)

Our outlooks are different. I already have a Bf. So why an I crushing on this very different guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am very confused. Something very strange is happening to me, and I really need an explanation. I met someone that I have been talking to..l will call him X X and me used to work together and were always good friends, he moved to another town , but we kept talking becaus... (807 words)

Why is it that he is super playful with every other girl but me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - He a trainer at the gym I go to and the girl also works there.. I also go to the class he teaches and when I'm around he I feel I put the wall up and end up pushing him away? How could I change that... Have I lost my chance? He seems mad when he sees me? Why is it that he is... (190 words)

How important is sexual compatibility in relationships?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - How can someone gauge sexual compatibility with someone else? Is communication and experimentation in the bedroom the best way to introduce particular likes and dislikes of each partner? A particular question for female answerers: if a guy told you that sex was important to... (61 words)

I think she likes me and I want to have sex with her, how do I ask her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I have a problem. There is this girl I know and I have wanted to have sex with her for years but i have always been too afraid to ask. I have heard rumors that she likes me and that she has spoken to friends about having sex with me. I am a virgin and im sure she is also so ... (77 words)

He cheated and had a baby with another girl, we broke up because of this but he still thinks he can get me back! How do I tell him he has no chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy and I were together for almost a year from 2010-2011. While we were together I thought everything was fine until 2011 came and he told me he had a baby. After finding that out, I ended it with him because the baby was a newborn meaning that he was messing around with ... (191 words)

I want to get custody of my drug addict aunt's children but I don't want to hurt the children in the process, any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey aunts and uncles I have been using this site for a while and always have great advice but I have a tough one here but I hope you can help. Long story short my aunts having another baby. She is a heroin addict and has two kids one is 6 and disabled and the other 8, she also ... (330 words)

How do I approach my man's hygiene issues tactfully?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - This is so embarrassing, but I need to find a really tactful way and the right words as to not embarrass my man. His toilet hygeine is horrible!!! There are constantly "skid marks" and not faint mind you, as if he didn't wipe like a kid skid marks, in his underwear, almos... (438 words)

She dumped me over email despite telling me I was the one and she wanted to marry me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey! So my girlfriend of 3 years decided to call it quits with me over email after she earlier told me i was the one and that she in time wanted to marry me. I felt like i was wanting to do the same. I don't know what to do. how to respond what i should do with all the stuff ... (227 words)

He wants to go on a holiday to meet other people, I don't think I will enjoy this as we are travelling as a couple!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a long-distance relationship. I'm in the singapore, he's in the united kingdom. We've been together for over 8 months and we talked on skype everyday on the phone. recently he just got went here to have holiday with me over a month we enjoy being together as a couples we ... (220 words)

Am I getting into the wrong relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 10 months into a relationship after a painful divorce. My previous marriage consisted of 1 son and a step daughter. My girlfriend has 1 son and we get on. my main concern is my (ex) step daughter. My girlfriend is constantly telling me stop allowing her visits and to stop ... (142 words)

I'm so horny but I plan on keeping my virginity until marriage with my LDR!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I m a virgin and i decided to stay virgin ntil marriage and my bf respects that. im 20 btw and he s 25. we live really far from each other, we only talk on the phone and we videochat everyday. the thing is sometimes i feel so hornyyy and whenever its the case i try to talk to ... (146 words)

Why are French men attracted to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is it that french guys always seem to be attracted to me, i'm not meaning to sound shallow. But every french guy I meet always ends up flirting with me, telling me how beautiful I am, asking for my number, to go out and such. Of course I don't mind it, I love french guys ... (176 words)

What difference does it make if two people are married or just live together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey! I'm getting married in few months... I'm uber excited of course, but I wonder what difference does it make if two people are married or just live together? We're not religious or anything, but when my bf proposed I of course said yes... it was an irrational yes c... (149 words)

Does this marriage make sense?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello to all the lovely Cupids out there! So, here is my situation: I'm getting married in October to a guy I love deeply. He lives abroad (2hr plane ride) and neither of us can move for different reasons (don't want to bother you with details, but he will be back to where I ... (239 words)

My ex husband kept coming around my house but now claims he hates my guts! What is going on?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age - My exhusband has been coming around the house, I do let him with hopes things were maybe going to work out.. but I noticed he never asked me out for coffee or anywhere....I am not ugly..I dont want to sound conceited but I dont have trouble getting a man , I chose not to....so ... (297 words)

He's a decent guy but not as good looking as I remember, should I give him a chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I met this guy on a night out, he's tall, perfect age, really good kisser and we get along smoothly it's nice. What I like was the fact he wasn't full on and didn't ask me back to his, or initiate something of the sort (very rare over here for guys to do). Well thing is, he ... (196 words)

I saw a future with this guy but after our argument I feel abused and demoralised!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I guess I already know the answer to my question, but need a little kick in the arse to make a move. I am mid 40's...so is my boyfriend. We've been together for more than a year. The relationship has been really great. Or HAD been until a huge blow up a month or two ago ... (529 words)

Can't move on and it's painful...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, Thank you so much for reading my email Ill try to be short. My ex and I dated for about 1.5 years, the last half year was mostly on/off and we were both immature and I myself made a lot of mistakes (as I am learning now). To make things short, he was my first IN... (612 words)

Crush on a female colleague who has a boyfriend, but this comment has made me think twice about her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

25 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a major crush on a female work colleague. Thing is, she is taken. However, she recently vented to my male mangager whose last day it was about her boyfriend. She is 20 now and has been with him 3 years and worries that she will eventually dislike him because she has been... (309 words)

Why is my ex hanging around my family? She is only friend's with my brothers ex! Am I in the wrong for being annoyed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (?) age 41-50 - Okay, I've been split up with my long term girlfriend now for just over a year now. She was friends with my brother's girlfriend and my brother has been civil to her as he didn't want any fighting. He's kind of a passive guy. My brother has a daughter and a son. My niece and ... (325 words)

I want to please him but I find anal really painful!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf that I've been with for years wants to try something new .. Hmm .. Hes been asking me to let him put it in my butt .. But I don't like it ! It's painfully and I want to please him , but at the same time I feel like he should be more considerate with me.., I don't know ... (68 words)

Together a year and worried our relationship is not going anywhere, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what to do with my relationship with my boyfriend. I asked him if he sees us living together and having a family,and he says he wants kids one day. Lately I just feel he just wants things to stay the way they are. We have not done anything together in a while and I ... (203 words)

I feel like my guy friend is trying to make me his FWB!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a really close guy friend for about 2 years now, we have a lot in common and we talk just about everything. I treat him just as a close friend and I have always been open to him about any topic, when he needs someone to talk to, I'd be the first one to listen because I ... (401 words)

She talks about meeting other girls, yet spends hours talking to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm so confused by this girl. I met her about a month and a half ago and I really like her. We live hours apart so we don't see each other often. But we literally have gotten to where we text constantly throughout the day and talk on the phone for hours every day and night. She ... (166 words)

My husband and I are not in love anymore but trying to work it out for our child, should I stay or follow my heart and be with the other man I love?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for about 6 years and am not in love with my husband anymore but am trying to work things out for our 2 year old daughter. I am in love with another man and have tried to stop communication with him but can not. The feelings take over me. Sometimes I feel ... (160 words)

Are we moving too fast?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month now and we fist started kissing three weeks ago and making out one week ago. We were in his room one night and making out. Im really new at the making out thing but he was making these noises and then he started to grind against ... (239 words)

Should I be roomates with my ex boyfriend who is still interested in me, and I kinda like him too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship for four months and then my boyfriend decided to break up in March. There were many reasons, but one was that he felt I was comparing him with my ex. I probably was, but I really wanted to get over my ex (that was another traumatic story) for my ... (416 words)

We broke up, but now he's not moving away are we back together again? I cant figure this out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

25 April 2012 (?) age 30-35 - So I'm confused and here's why: My boyfriend of three months told me that he was going to leave New Jersy and move to North Carolina in with his mom. This was just this past friday. He asked me what he should do so I told him" he should do what makes him happy, but if he reall... (473 words)

Am I ruining my reputation by dating foreign exchange students? Or am I overthinking things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a college student who dated a foreign exchange student a couple years ago, and now I'm dating another one. Although my bf and ex have different mutual friends, I'm concerned about my reputation. I don't want people to think I only have non-commital short term relationshi... (184 words)

Good jobs in business that don't involve sitting at a desk all day?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 3rd year business major but I hate sitting at a desk/cubicle. What is a good career path for a business management major with a creative mind? I absolutely love writing, traveling, entertainment, event planning, designing, learning languages, and even teaching. I hate ... (99 words)

Am I having an affair?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Am I having an affair? I am a married women, I have been with my husband for the past 15 years. We are best friends, we do everything together and enjoy each other's company very much. I met a men 3 years ago, we don't work together but do a lot of business with each other.... (229 words)

Is my fiance having a relationship with her cousin who is in prison?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (M)

age - I was cleaning my fiancé’s car and notice while in the trunk there were a number of letters in a large bag. The letters were from someone in prison to my fiancé. Curiosity made me read a letter and in the letter it stated that he was going to take care of my fiancé and her ... (210 words)

I feel like I literally have to choose between my boyfriend and my parents even though I'm an adult

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My parents are very strict when it comes to relationships. They have a set list requirements a boyfriend/girlfriend must have have in order for me or my brother to date them. Then they try to control how we interact. It is a nightmare. Because of this, my brother and I ha... (305 words)

How do I get my parents to let me stay at my boyfriend's apartment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I live with my parents and I'm 18 about to be 19 and I was hoping to sleep over at my boyfriend's apartment tomorrow the problem is my parents won't let me even out of the house some days. I don't know what to do?... (45 words)

My boyfriend of 3 years and I have nothing to talk about anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My problem is that me and my boyfriend of 3 years we have nothing to talk about any more. I know everything about him cause he is an open book he'll tell me everything even if i never asked him to tell me. He knows me pretty well except for a few things here and there just ... (159 words)

Threesome gone wrong

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I would really love some advice with my problem. You all have done greatly and I can not help but keep coming back here for more... So in advance thank you. Last week my husband and I came about to having a threesome. We both had talked about it and I w... (650 words)

I love my boyfriend but I think I love his brother, my ex, as well. And they both love me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a boyfriend that i love very much, and would die for. We've been together for 9 months and been through alot together. U would think we were normal but were not, because he's my ex boyfriends older brother. i left my ex because he messed around on me wit my bestfriend ... (207 words)

I'm helping my girlfriend with her assignments and she's promised me bedroom-related action as motivation in return, but she keeps putting it off

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I'd like some advice. Me and my GF are having some relationship issues but we talked and are trying to fix it. My question is about something else though. We're both in the same class and I'm making her assignments for her, I know this is wrong, but please acc... (219 words)

I'm confused by his body language toward me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this guy for several months now and originally was just some casual fun however I have now started falling for him. I am sure he is seeing other girls aswell as me though I see him really often, at least once a week since we have met for few days at a time ... (157 words)

Does my guy friend have feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (F)

I can get past her cheating, but the cause for it is killing me...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

25 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I understand this is a lot to read, but please do not answer if you do not read it. It took me quite a while to write down exactly how I feel and I would really like thoughtful answers. I do not believe that "once a cheater, always a cheater" because I believe everyone deserves ... (952 words)