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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What are the meanings behind a guy's hug?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - What are the different types of guy hugs and their meanings? ... (11 words)

I was the other woman and got dumped. How do I move on?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2705 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - hi, just joined this site, as i read alot of stories about being the OW. i too was the OW, for 2 years, and stupidly believed he would leave his partner, well, i was the one he dumped after she found out about us, and obviously he denied everything, now i have to pick up ... (73 words)

I'm worried that by not having a girlfriend I'd be "missing out" on certain life experiences (I'm still a virgin) that I should be having around my age

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

2 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 21 and I've never had a girlfriend before. I don't usually have a problem with this because a lot of my close friends are either single or in mediocre relationships. I've dated a few girls last year but I didn't have any real feelings for them so I didn't go into ... (294 words)

Are we technically friends with benefits?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - We have had the exclusive talk, but I'm not sure if we are having a FWB relationship or if we are just both really busy and don't have much time to hang out before nighttime. Should I be worried? THanks for any input.... (43 words)

Am I being immature by being affectionate in public, or is he being a poor boyfriend by being ashamed of me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. My name is Leony, and my boyfriend's name is Roman. Roman and I ride the school bus together. When we're on our way to school, I like giving him little kisses almost all the while. Just yesterday, Roman told me that he thinks its immature if I'm always kissing him in front ... (155 words)

He's 21 years older than me, I'm 7 years older than his son. Can it work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Im straight out of college and 22. I have started working a law firm as a secretary, there are two partners. I am a secretary for only one. A few months ago a partner asked me to dinner I turned him down and he asked a few more times but I kept saying no. Finally a few weeks ... (321 words)

What is the meaning of love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - So heres my dilema and I need some serious advice and opinions. I am a 33 year old female who is engaged to a wonderful wonderful man. the problem is the fact that I can't seem to enjoy my relationship with him because I am so obsessed with overanalyzing what true love is and w... (720 words)

How do I go about finding a girlfriend?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3438 days ago

2 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - How do you get a girlfriend? At 36 I feel I really missed out and I dont see anyone coming in the foreseeable future as I still live with my parents and rarely go out. I cannot afford my own place and everyone I know has a girlfriend before sharing a house together it's a l... (113 words)

My boyfriend has not added me on facebook, should I be worried?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. Please help. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months and have agreed to be in a relationship. However, one thing is bothering me. He has not added me to his friends on Facebook. Should I be worried?... (42 words)

Touchy-Feely Fiance

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had an affection struggle since the beginning of my relationship. Or, I suppose it's a struggle. Sometimes I don't think it is. My fiance and I have been together for three years. Since the beginning, it feels like he never wants to stop hugging me. I always tell him ... (332 words)

Do men like when their girlfriend calls and texts them first?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My questions is, do men like when their girlfriend calls and texts frequently? I usually wait for my boyfriend to send me the first text of the day, and I usually don't call- I let him call me because I don't want to seem overly clingy or like I'm bugging him because he doesn't ... (195 words)

Should I send them my number?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay. Let me start by saying i got this two friends ive made on the internet social network. We have been sharing texts for a year and 3 months now. One of them is male and the other one is a female. We are both from different countries. Today they asked me to share my phone ... (84 words)

How do I uninvite a former friend to my wedding?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I feel really down from time to time because of this. Right now I'm in a loving relationship, and I could not ask for anything more. He's the one for me, and I'm the one for him. There's no question about it. However, before him I was in another s... (489 words)

Men: what do you prefer? Boobs? or butts?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

2 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys as a matter of opinion what do you prefer in women: boobs or a nice firm ass? I have to admit I am an ass man but what do you prefer?... (33 words)

Going out as friend when he's in a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, the last 4/5 weekends I've been hanging out with the guys and become quite friendly with one of them, he has a girlfriend. He has asked if I would like to go out for a meal with him and a couple of drinks. Its not a date but what I want to know is.. Is it wrong to go... (90 words)

I think my best friend's boyfriend is cheating on her. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I think my best friend's boyfriend is cheating on her. To give you some background: My best friend (A) has been with her boyfriend (R) for about 4 years. R and my boyfriend (P) are also best friends since they were kids. This weekend I was snooping my boyfriend's phone (y... (295 words)

Is it wrong to spank your kids?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My mother thinks im cruel because i spank my two year old. I am not ashamed that i do. I only spank him on the rump when hes doing something he knows he shouldnt do. For instance getting into the trash, taking silverware out of the dishwasher, pulling on the dogs and cats. One ... (163 words)

Boyfriend suddenly working late. Is he cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, im slightly worried dont know if im paranoid but, but my gut feeling is telling me my boyfriend is cheating on me, and your gut instinct is always right, right? My boyfriend works at a m.o.t place not far from where i live. He normally only works there on a saturday... (470 words)

Is he more than a sex buddy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My sex buddy and I consider ourselves a but more than that we hold hamds , and after sec once I tried to leave and he pulled me onto his bed. He likes to wake up to me , we open up when we hangout with friends it's no surprise when we kiss. He saw me kiss his friend and he ... (180 words)

Questions after taking emergency contraception

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, a week ago today, i was hanging out with this guy that i used to "talk" to. we got a little carried away and ended up having intercourse. he didn't have any protection, and we don't think he came inside of me...buuut just to be sure, we agreed that i was going... (240 words)

Why culture differences can be soo tough when there is love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 33y old single woman. I decided to start to date recently..and I found it a bit complicated. When I go out I meet a lot of guys..I go out with them..can be drinks..or dinner..but nothing really happen after that...I find out that the only thing that they want is ... (487 words)

I think he's just using me and I need to get over him

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2 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys well my question is how to get over someone........a bit of background info I ve recently got closer to this lad at college, we talk daily. I really really like him, When I am with him its amazing, i feel so happy but sometimes if we don't talk or we ve had a little ... (152 words)

Do all girls squirt? Do they ejaculate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

2 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hey i know that this is a weird question but have to make it clear...in boys case cumming means ejaculating but what does it mean in a girls case?do they ejaculate too?what makes them tell that they are cumming?? actually me and my gf are sexually active from a very long time... (159 words)

I think he's the one but he's too afraid to get involved

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 21 years old and I recently got out of a relationship that lasted almost 3 years.. anyways, on my birthday I kinda met someone on facebook.. sent an invitation we started chatting and all for a few days we were chatting for hours.. a couple of days later he asked for my ... (347 words)

I don't know how to respond to this girl anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. Im this kind of girl who s shy, dont like hurting people and i believe i got a great personality. I have a friend(nt close friend) who s moody. Me and her are used to say stupid things to one another then we laugh all together. Yesterday i told her something funny about ... (190 words)

Sent my FWB some pictures of me, should I ask him to delete them? Or should I trust that he wont show anyone?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - okay i don't really know where to begin, but i met this guy 3 months ago, and after talking for a few months, we decided to be Fwb( this was mid Feb) we have seen each other once since we agreed to be fwb although we have not actually had any sexual contact yet coz he was Sik ... (146 words)

My boyfriend thinks I'm not independent enough!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend recently told me that he thinks I am not independent enough. I believe he feels this way because I always make it clear how much I enjoy spending time with him. He also feels guilty when he goes out without me - although I enjoy staying home a few nights a wee... (253 words)

Is it wrong to say to a child "I will break your legs"?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you think its right that a mother would say to her own child "I will break your legs"?. My mom said this to my little brother who is nearly twenty but still lives at home. Apparently someone approached her and said he was with her daughter buying some pot. Mom said if I find ... (84 words)

Pregnant with my present boyfriend, problem is I still love my ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know how to say this. i have a problem now, i am now pregnant with my boyfriend for 8 months. and now, i dont love him anymore. i have an ex boyfriend which we lasted for 9 years, i dont know what to do because i still have the feelings for him. and i dont want my ... (150 words)

She has started wearing revealing clothing when she goes out without me, am I being controlling by asking her not to do this?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2908 days ago

2 April 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Women, is it OK for your man to try to control what you wear? My wife sometimes wears very revealing clothing when we go out. I like it. I can see people stare. i dont mind that so much because in those instances she is clearly taken. Lately she has gone out wearing some... (230 words)

A harmless crush? Or am I right to be upset by my wife's behaviour?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

2 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - OK. My spouse basically admitted that she has/or had a crush on one of our male friends. She says that I should be fine with it because she would never cheat on me. I told her that I find her affection for the guy, the way she looks at him, hangs on his every word, laughs at ... (183 words)

I want him to tell me if something is bothering him but he wont! What should I do?

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2 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a past relationship where I was doing something that bothered my boyfriend at the time. He didn't mention it to me at all until he finally wanted to break up with me. Up until then I had no idea and I felt that if I had known, the relationship would have turned out ... (213 words)

My FWB saw me kiss another man and now he wont talk to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone just wondering your opinions in this situation I have been sleeping with a man for over a year now who is trying to get over his ex as he was with her for a long time I went out at the weekend and I kissed another man and the man I have been sleeping with for a ... (105 words)

He is dreaming about sex but our sex life is dwindling! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4645 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - recently my fiance has been having sex dreams and our sex life is becoming less and less when i ask him about these sex dreams he says oh was i i wish i could remember it and laughs it off and when i confront him about our lack of sex his reply is not everythings about me and ... (136 words)

Should I leave my long distance relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my partner were set up by my sister and his best friend. We hit it off straight away. He lives 2 and a half hours away from me and we just chatted for hours everyday online then met a week later. We got along really well and wanted the same things in life and ended up in ... (311 words)

Problems with my flirty friend.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all, thanks for taking time to read my problem. So, there is this guy that I have been friends with for about 4 years. He flirts a lot, talks about girls as though he is some thirteen yr old whose pheromones are just beginning to shoot. I flirted along, clearly knowing ... (278 words)

I really do love her but I don't want to waste more time on a relationship with a girl with no goals or plans in life

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi ive beem dateing my girlfriend for a little over a year now. I love her with all my heart but i dont know if i see us going anywhere in the future. The problem is that shes not trying to get a job or anything and it seems like she has no intention too either. It seems like ... (218 words)

Worried about my friend and the girls he is mixed up with....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My male best friend has started seeing one of my friends recently and already it's complicated. Before all of this really started they were flirting and he would call her some not nice names when talking to me because she has a habit of flirting with everyone then dropping th... (267 words)

Ended up having sex with another man while at my bachelorette party at Vegas!

This question has 49 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - ***Before I begin, please don't judge me for what I did, I already know it was wrong, and I feel horrible*** I am enganged at an amazing man who I love very much, our wedding is about a week away. This past weekend my girlfriends and I went to Vegas for a bachelorette par... (287 words)

Would stretching the hymen lessen the pain?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm still a virgin... I recently bought myself a dildo. I plan on breaking it on my own.. also bought myself some lubricant as well and I just had a first session, but I did not break... At least I don't think I did. Now my question is... Would it make a huge diffe... (142 words)

How can we get to see each other despite the distance without our parents knowing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - In January I had to move schools to the town over. When I was there I became friends with this guy and we started dating March 8th then on March 12th I had to move back to the school I was at before. He was my first love and I was his we broke up cause we never get to see ... (257 words)

Boyfriend "liked" the picture of a half nude girl on Facebook. Do I have the right to be upset? Or is this nothing and I'm making too big of a deal out of it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So before you read this you have to realize that I'm not one of those controlling girlfriends that get jealous over everything. 'Cause the thing is, I'm not like that at all! I could care less if my boyfriend hangs out with other girls because I have guy friends too and I ... (148 words)

Empty nest, infidelity, mistrust, insecurity, low self esteem, no sex...is my marriage doomed?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - i am 46 yrs old, married for 25 yrs, all of our children are grown. we got married because i got pregnant. It was my husbands idea to get married. He wanted to do the right thing. After our daughter was born we had two more children, a son and another daughter. Eventually ... (490 words)

Why can I not move on? What is the matter with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I had a 5 year on and off relationship with my exboyfriend as he was seeing other women. I confronted him with evidence 4 months ago. I walked out for good. He send me email saying that his flat feels big, cold and empty without me. I sent him an email 2 months after get... (189 words)

Why are people so mean to those who are disabled and to those with special needs?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't a relationship question but me and my 16 years old sister donated A LOT of money to this special needs/disable day care that stay over night etc. Today we was taking the kids to Dairy Queen and people was talking ish about them saying mean things about them. This one ... (97 words)

My mom hasn't bothered acknowledging my birthday

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Tomorrow is my 23rd birthday. I'm moving away soon, and this will probably be my last birthday in my mother's house. She only comes home on weekends, and leaves every Monday for work, so today we were supposed to celebrate. She claimed she didn't have time to get me a gift, and ... (176 words)

Did I have sex with him too soon?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Sex too soon? I am a 30 year old woman who has been single for 2.5 years. I've never really been the type of girl who always had boyfriends (I've spend 6 yrs out of the last 9.5yrs single), though it's not through lack of trying. I'm attractive, chatty, confident and ... (733 words)

He hit me so I broke up with him, problem is I love him so much I cant move on! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello.. I been dating with my bf for 6 years. He is 8 years older than me.Make long story short I broke up with him 2 days ago. The reason is we had agurment and he end it up hit me. I was so scared when he hit me. I was angry. I decited to leave him. We always argue, fight and ... (278 words)

How do I go about being more confident to be the dominant one in bondage?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm the same person who asked about a guy wanting YOU to tie HIM up, or whatever the question was titled... And now I want to know how I can get more confident to tie him up and do stuff with him, since I'm not a confident or outgoing person. I don't like to take control at ... (136 words)

How do I tell him I need time to myself without hurting him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so before I get into my dilemma, Let me just start off by saying I know what I did was dumb, and wrong, but now I need help... So only those with actual advice answer. Please no judgments... I am currently separated (3mos) from my husband. When this whole thing started I ... (164 words)

Why cant I get over my ex? There is nothing spectacular about him that makes him better than my other exes and other guys I know

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4647 days ago

2 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I dated for a year, but we broke up due to distance. It's been a year since we broke up, and I have dated someone else. Now we are both beginning new relationships. However, I can't get over him and knowing about his new relationship depresses me. I don't know why. ... (347 words)