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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Never physically attracted to my husband ... don't want sex!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married for a little over 6 months, dated my husband for about a year and half. We lived together for a year before marrying. We married during a serious family crisis (one of my parents became sick and died). Up until the crisis, I had been procrastinating planning ... (315 words)

What are the tell tale signs a girl is or has cheated on you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

5 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - What are tell tale signs that a girl is or has cheating on you? And is there a crafty way of making her confess?... (24 words)

I am tired of all my friends, whats wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Lately I have been feeling like I just want to end all my friendships, I feel annoyed by all of them, and I know that sounds crazy but I feel I'm almost so consumed by my family that I would rather just go without having friends. One friend acts like she is is perfect! And the ... (79 words)

He does not want to get married!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend 3 years and we have a 19 month old son together. I never really was bothered about getting engaged and married till a few months after I had my son. I take him to appointments and we don't even have the same last name, I'd like us all to have the... (439 words)

Is it normal for a woman to sleep with another man for money but still love her boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

5 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok I started dating this sweet girl a year ago, we had known each other in campus but just as very casual friends. Just two months into our newfound love, I got this nice scholarship and had to leave the country for two years, it was a difficult decision but we agreed that in ... (351 words)

Should I wait for a text back? Am I being paranoid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been talking to this guy for a while now and we went on one date and three weeks later we hung out. I know he works a lot. He works 12 hour shifts at his one job at night and 12 hours at his volunteer job a night or two during the week. Well he said that we are goin... (105 words)

I'm jealous because my husband's sister in law is pregnant, please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm not usually a jealous person, but this situation has made me see green. I've been married to by wonderful husband for three years, and we started trying for a baby on our honeymoon. No such luck. I've had one miscarriage that I've known about, and it happened last year jus... (168 words)

How can I get a guy to like me more than just a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm sort of in that situation where I'm always in the "friend zone". Don't get me wrong, I love having guy friends, the ones I have are amazing, they accept me as one of the guys but still look after and look out for me like I'm a girl. The only issue is I always seem to end up ... (195 words)

I am falling in love with a french man, advice please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4640 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok hello everyone. Basically about 3 years ago , i became pen pals with a man from France . We talked for a year about who we were and our cultures etc . We then began to send postcards and i felt like a puppy waiting to get my postcard i was so excited to think wow my pen... (424 words)

How do I cope with him not wanting me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone :) So there is this boy He is one year older than me And he is handsome To the most of the girls at my school incuding me And I used to really like this kid And I told him because I just needed to let it off my chest (it was eating away at me) He let... (312 words)

I am at wits end about our friendship! advice please? I don't want to ruin our friendship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

5 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm unsure if this would be the place for help on this matter as it's more about friends and living situations, but I thought I would give it a go. For about six months now, I've been living with a really close female friend of mine. I'll point out now that we've never had ... (696 words)

A question for men: How do you feel about pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some honest opinions for men out there...what goes through your mind when your woman tells you she's pregnant? And how do you feel about her as pregnancy progresses? Do you still find her physically attractive? Do you start to become turned off her sexually?? Thanks ... (51 words)

Does he love me or is he playing games?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4643 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18yrs old.help me please. i met him on facebook and i just met him once physically. he tells me he loves me and i think i'm starting falling? but the problem is we lack cummunicating. he says his mobile has some problem and this real hurts me, i miss him, does he real lov... (88 words)

My friends tell me it's too soon to take this step

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello aunts and uncles! I'm back again for some advice. Probably here more than I should be but have BPD so its always nice to have a rational insight on what other people think. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 months but have known each other for over 6 years... (300 words)

Was planning to move to be with my LDR, then found him on a dating site?!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Help !!!! in a serious long distance relationship, we communicate daily,have plans of moving together, with me making the relocation,and found that my man is on a site, lied abt his age and seeking younger women..he last logged in today...in our early phase of the relationship ... (114 words)

My mom still treats me like I'm a 5 year old!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not really sure what to do and I need some help. I have no real relationship with anybody in my family due to the fact that when I was 12, I was basically abandoned by them. Yes, I still live with them and and had basic necessities, but I was left alone. My mom chose her ... (585 words)

Boyfriend's mum came home while we were having sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey aunts and uncles! I have a quick question for the mums out there or anyone really that can help! Long story short me and my boyfriend were over heard having sex today in his house. We are both 21 so not kids! We didn't know she was home (she works most days but came ho... (135 words)

Is he lying to cover up his problems getting an erection?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Help I've been with my boyfreind now a couple of months, so everything is fresh and new and we're getting to know things about each other.. Its all bliss apart from one thing... Sex! My boyfriend finds it hard to get and maintain an erection. He's only 30, doesn't smoke, d... (265 words)

Ladies: shaved or natural 'downstairs' on a guy?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

5 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Ladies thoughts opinions needed: When you are about to have sex/or oral with a guy for the first time and see his thing, is hair down there a turn off? is shaved more a turn on? or trimmed? also what about hairy thighs? shaved? leave alone? I am asking because girls do... (118 words)

How can I prove I don't do this on purpose? Looking at others. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my hubby have been together for a year and 6 months. Weve been having serious issues over a staring problem Ive picked up out of nowhere. I seem to train myself to look at people without actually looking at them and I dont even realiZE it. He gets extremely upset... (124 words)

My friend loves me as only as a friend. But my feelings may run deeper eventually. Can I continue our friendship and not get hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with a friend.. who views me as a friend. I know that my friend loves me a lot.. But its just a friend/family type of love on their end. How am I supposed to deal with that? I've thought about ending the friendship.. That would really hurt us both. We have an... (126 words)

Why does my boyfriend act and react in this way? I cry and moan about him looking at porn and masterbating. Am I reacting in a way that helps or harms?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - ModNote: Dysthymia: neurotic depression, less severe but longer lasting bouts of / symptoms of than major depressive episodes.Experience little joy in their lives. Hi everyone, I have a very important thing I would like to discuss, does anyone know about dysthymia? My boyfri... (296 words)

Drawing boundaries with an FWB.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've got a pretty typical but still vexing problem... how do you deal with jealousy and boundaries when in a friends-with-benefits situation? I've been hanging out with the same guy, about two and a half months now. When we first started hanging out, he said he "wasn't ready... (522 words)

Should I trust her? Should I let them hang out?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

5 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half. We've had our ups and downs but I would consider it to be a great relationship. We spend most of our time together, we still do cutesy things, and we rarely argue about things. Her best friend married and move... (665 words)

He is supposed to get to know me better, instead he adds my facebook contacts

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - From the title of this question one could guess that I am 14, I am not, I am just baffled at guy's behavior - this guy asked me out a few times in the span of a few months, we went out twice but he didn't seem that interested so I let it go, then he seem to want to engage in ... (229 words)

I get pain in my thighs and hips after sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

5 April 2012 (?) age 41-50 - hi i get pain in thighs and hip after safe sex is it normal to have pain. how to eradicate this problems now a days make excuses to my girl friend to not have sex, she feels very bad , we use have this intercourse 2 times in a month, i try to make her happy with oral but she ... (70 words)

Sometimes I get the impression he doesn't care about me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year. Things are going well except that sometimes I get the impression he doesn't care about me. There have been a number of occasions where it would have been nice for him to either be more observant and helpful/asking questions to ... (143 words)

We met up, got a room & had sex! No protection.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

5 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I had unprotected sex with a woman over the weekend. We just met up, got a room and we ended up having sex. The issue is that I finished inside her and she didn't think much about it either. I did mention to her that I was about to finish and she continued and kept going long ... (259 words)

I don't know if I am straight, gay or bisexual!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a 15 year old girl but I'm not sure on my sexuality. I usually get more aroused when I think about lesbians kissing but I feel more attracted to boys. When I masturbate I often do orgasm a lot quick when I'm watching or thinking about girl on girl. However I get strong ... (97 words)

Do you think I'm just not ready for a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Sometimes I feel really confused about my stance on relationships. I feel like when I see a couple I think to myself... "Hm thats really cute, must be nice to have something like that" but other times when I get asked out and go on dates I feel like its the bigg... (167 words)

B/f has pics of his ex saved on his computer and says that he still loves her, but in a way where he cares about and worries about her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I have been with my bf for 18 months and he recently told me he still loves his ex, but in a way where he cares about and worries about her. He tells me I am his future etc. This initially caused some tension between us but I want to believe that's all it is. I knew he kept ... (199 words)

Should I just have a one night stand?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4568 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a female in my mid twenties and haven't had sex in over eight months. I am constantly horny and masturbate almost everyday. I have never had a one night stand with a guy because I always feared stds and what not as well as my reputation because I live in a small town where ... (116 words)

How long should I wait for him? I feel like time is running out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My question is whether or not I should give my boyfriend more time, or whether I should end the relationship to find someone else. Here are the facts relating to my question: He's terrified of taking any kind of "next step" with me--namely, moving in together or gett... (1275 words)

Desperate for reassurance. Too emotional with him too fast.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I need desperate help. My clingyness and neediness is overwhelming and ruining a potential relationship. I am 23 years old and have been seeing a man who is 32. We have been "talking" or "seeing eachother" for about a month now. Right off the bat, I told him that I am not lo... (949 words)

I don't want to lose my fiance just because I'm too stupid to control my actions

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

5 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help dealing with my own insecurities. I love my fiance with all my heart and I cannot wait to be married to her, but there are days, a lot of days, where I feel like I lose her. Its those stupid things I do, or those ignorant things I say. Those things that make her ... (102 words)

Ex and I are still friends but I felt betrayed when he showed me a photo of a girl sleeping on his lap

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

5 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - K and I dated for two years, but now we are just good friends. We text one another occasionally and have dinner occasionally. Although we both still like one another, we know we're not suitable for one another so we've decided to be friends. Neither one of us has crossed the ... (186 words)

How do I change the way I feel about the fact that my girlfriend has had previous sexual partners?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

5 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a girlfriend with a great personality and character- I find her very attractive and I can see something long term with her and I know she feels the same way. I am 26, and a virgin (not from a lack of oppertunity, but because I am hesistent to have sex with someone that I ... (349 words)

Why am I attracted to this "bad boy" and is it a way of me punishing myself for my failed marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4643 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Where to start. My husband and I are seperated. He has moved interstate and there is very little chance of our marriage being fixed. It wase a very very painful seperation with both of us taking huge hits. I met a great guy who was supportive and loving to a fault... (277 words)

I know I'm a lesbian but can't tell anyone, so how do I find a girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi. I'm 13. I haven't been asked out much but the relationships I did have didn't last long. I just don't feel attracted to guys. So now I know I'm lesbian. I know everyone says not to be embarrassed or don't pretend to be someone you're not but I still can't work up the nerve ... (97 words)

He is flirting on Facebook, with 3 girls, should I end the relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I know I shouldn't have done this but i went on my boyfriends facebook because I had a gut feeling he was taking to someone. He's never had a steady girlfriend and once he met me he stopped going out partying like he used to and actually fell in love. But i went on his facebook ... (231 words)

I have red hair & very fair skin, I am always the subject of jokes, do people really find this unattractive??

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I am cursed (or blessed depending on how you look at it) with naturally red hair and super pale skin(even if I get sunburnt it just becomes even paler) and I was wondering if people actually find this to be such a bad thing. I have had to deal with all the "cute" red ... (82 words)

This man is physically and verbally abusive, what should I do, I have nowhere to go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my fiance for five years. We have a amazing three and half year old. We have a nice home, a dog a cat and three kittens. Things were good up until a year ago when he started drinking again after three years of sobriety. We had our moments because he is very ... (506 words)

He sleeps, goes out with his friends, basically ignores me, is his attraction to me gone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for a year now. He works nights so he sleeps most of the day. I understand him being tired all of the time. Lately, he has been getting up for an hour then goes back to bed and sleeps until he goes to work. This has been going on for a little over ... (174 words)

I told him I love him, he told his friends, they are laughing at me, how do I stop them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I fall in love so easily and I think I know why. I believe im searching for the male figure in my life because my dad left when i was little. But recently... i really fell in love with a guy and i told him now all his friends are laughing at me and i need to know.... (68 words)

I am healthy, but have erectile dysfunction, without a reason, what should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

5 April 2012 (M)

age - I'm a healthy guy in my late 40"s. But I have some pretty disturbing problem, and I don't know what to do.So I have erectile dysfunction, and I have no idea why. I had a very high sex drive, but now, I have no wish to have sex at all, and when I try, I lose my erection, in ... (128 words)

Does anyone have any wise words of advice for online dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age - I have finally made a break from a relationship that has not been going anywhere for years and I did not want to waste anymore time. I did fall for someone I used to work with and the feeling of attraction was mutual but neither of us moved it forward as he did not know how... (178 words)

I'm disinterested in the relationship and wonder if I should end things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship for about two months, but am really struggling with commitment. It isn't that I've cheated or anything, but am disinterested in my relationship and think to an extent it's because I'm scared of actually having to be part of something with someone ... (112 words)

Should I make tomorrow out like a date? Or just being with a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

5 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Tomorrow I've got a date scheduled with a guy who is a friend. At first it was to keep him company as his girlfriend dumped him but we have been talking more and it seems like he is hitting on me and being really flirty. I mean we used to kinda date but then he left me for ... (133 words)

How am I supposed to find a girlfriend?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

5 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I would like to know how I can get a girlfriend. I am a 36 year old male who has never had any kind of a relationship with a woman.(not even a week long fling when i was at school) I have never been in a situation where it is appropriate to give a woman my phone number. My... (356 words)